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Ami Anne
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posted January 05, 2012 08:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Also, for the people with the strong Scorpio/8th house influence, do you find yourself having an unusual effect on others sexually? Like you get unwarranted attention or many people of the same sex, who normally profess to be heterosexual, seem really into you? It might sound conceited but it's true for me. It's kind of like I bring out 'the forbidden' in them. I've made more than a few 'straight' guys question themselves.

Wow interesting. I have a Gemini stellium in the 8th house, Scorpio ASC with Pluto conj the MC.

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posted January 05, 2012 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tautomer4314     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha, well there might be something to that then. I have had at least a dozen straight guys (whom I got to know) at one point or another after we got to know each other, confess that they would consider going gay for me. Of course, I would never allow such a thing! :-P

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posted January 05, 2012 10:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love men but very occasionally can feel attracted to a girl so I would say I am a One in the Kinsey scale, perhaps 2 but definitely not a 3 or higher.

Aspects I have that I feel could explain this are:

Gemini in the 7th

Venus conjunct Mars

Aspects to my venus conjunct mars that could reinforce this:

trine neptune

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I DONT have venus/mars square chiron.

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posted January 05, 2012 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FireWire:
A Virgo once told me me that Scorpios get all the hype, but Virgo's are able to back it up! Strangely, I've never forgotten this, lol!


Well I am virgo and is not true for me...pretty open minded but do have stellium involving uranus, rising and jupiter.

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posted January 05, 2012 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireWire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by amelia28:
Well I am virgo and is not true for me...pretty open minded but do have stellium involving uranus, rising and jupiter.

I see. Well, the person's remarks were moreso referring to Virgo's being sensual, passionate and experimental...etc, and that Scorpio's get the 'most popular' vote for those traits. This person did happen to have a rather...expansive sexual outlook (lol). In my head, it was all connected to the thread. But perhaps only indirectly so.

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posted January 05, 2012 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ElizabethO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay, my theory: I believe that homosexuality can be indicated by a "role reversal" found between Venus and Mars. Let me explain.

In women, when it comes to sexuality, Venus is how we attract men. It's our "active" planet. Mars is what we are attracted to - our "passive" planet. When a woman is homosexual or bisexual, her "active" sexual planet is Mars, thus Venus becomes "passive". It sort of explains my Capricorn friend from college. She had no attraction (almost a distaste) for the male physique, but was extremely attracted to the female physique. She also would tell me about her dreams where she was a man. She would fantasize about having genitalia and what it would be like to make love to her girlfriend. Every year, she went through the ritual of shaving her head because she felt more natural that way. I believe that she associated herself with her Mars (masculine) energy and her sexuality was more focused on the essence on of her Venus, her feminine ideal.

Does that make sense?

For example, tautomer4314 associates himself much more with his Gemini Venus than his Cancer Mars, so much as to feel that his Cancer Mars is weak. Hence, a role reversal. His psyche is focused on embracing his "feminine" energy, therefore his Mars becomes his romantic ideal...

Venus rules over subjects such as:
http://www.myastrologybook.com/Venus-in-astrology.htm

quote:
"...love, relatedness, values, social urges, art, beauty, creation, attraction, luck, personal magnetism, money, nurturing mother love, sensuality, bonding energy, harmony and merging."

Mars rules over subjects such as:
http://www.myastrologybook.com/Mars-in-astrology.htm

quote:
"...the human libido, not merely sexualized energy but human energy pure and simple—the Chi. It represents how you go after what you want, your drive and energy to be active, your sexual and aggressive urges, ego, individuality, survival, initiative, motivation, courage, conflict, force, vigor, mechanical ability, competition, sports, combativeness and war. It is the energy behind your feelings, whatever they are, and thus represents passion. In the physical body it rules the muscles, male genitalia, red corpuscles, nose and the excretory tract. Mars in your chart is where your energy is directed and released, and where you have strife, discord, and tension if not handled properly. In a female chart it represents her image of male energy.

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In conclusion, homosexuality occurs when a man does not identify with his Mars, or a woman does not identify with her Venus. This is where placement and aspects come into play. There are several factors that can come into play, found evident in the different forms of sexuality seen today - such as bisexuality, transsexuality, asexuality. A woman can either have a "weak" Venus or strong Mars (or both). Same with a man. Then there are aspects to planets such as Uranus, Saturn, and Pluto. Aspects to the 8th House ruler is also important.

So... any thoughts? I'm pretty sure no one will comment because no one ever listens to my theories. :\

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posted January 06, 2012 12:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^Hmm...my Mars only has two squares while my Venus has a trine and a conjunct (to my Sun) and I'm somewhat bisexual. I know someone who has a really weak Venus and readily identifies as homosexual. Interesting, I'm gonna do a little research with yo' theory, ElizabethO.

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posted January 06, 2012 12:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tautomer4314     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I'll be the first then ElizabethO, because I think that was very eloquently put! It actually makes the most sound sense out of all the explinations put forth so far. Why? Because it allows each individual to be case-by-case. There are a myraid of reasons why someone could have a role reversal identification between mars and venus. My case with it is only one. You could absolutely come with another case with a totally different set of parameters for that. Further, it doesn't exactly "peg" how you would be hetero or homosexual. As stated before sexuality is a continuum. The mars-venus disparity would explains the yes-no, and then the rest of the chart would fit the details with in.

Bravo miss, I think you are really on to something

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posted January 06, 2012 12:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ElizabethO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, that's where I'm stuck. My Capricorn friend has Cap Venus and Aries Mars... So perhaps a woman with an ultrafeminine chart focused on Venus ordeals may actually indicate an overall attraction towards women rather than men. Her Venus is conjunct Saturn and Neptune. Her Mars is square Sun in a tight orb. HMMMM.

I should also add that she's suddenly in love with a man now, though we're not as close anymore so I don't really know the background of that story. I guess she considers herself bisexual. Who knows.

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posted January 06, 2012 12:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ElizabethO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Perhaps I should say ACTIVATED planet instead of ACTIVE planet....

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It does sound like a plausible hypothesis. Now we need some INTJ to gather and analyze the data.

I do think that transits and progressions to Venus can shift orientation around, although in varying degrees depending on the individual.

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posted January 06, 2012 12:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tautomer4314     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I always feel a bit funny when I say this because I am such a cat person, but: "There's more then one way to skin a cat". It's extremely true for astrology. There will always be general trends to follow but it can deviate and find alternate pathways.


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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
It does sound like a plausible hypothesis. Now we need some INTJ to gather and analyze the data.

ISTJ's are the go to people for that. I <3 them.

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posted January 06, 2012 12:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fondue Knight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I, for one, am fascinated by your theory Liz!

Okay, SO I have Mars in Cancer in the 7th and Venus in Taurus in the 5th. I'm attracted to solid, strong, manly men... but not like bodybuilder strong. I like when they have a little chub to them. Thin dudes, unless they're furry, don't really do it for me.

My Venus is exactly conjunct my NN, and since it's in its domicile it's strong in my chart. Mars is trine Pluto while Venus is quincunx Uranus and opposite Saturn. Ruler of the 8th is my Virgo Moon in the 9th, which is square Uranus, trine Venus and sextile Mars.

I wonder if because my Venus is conjunct my NN that it means I'm destined to embrace that energy more than the Mars? I'm grasping at straws. I'm not sure if I favor my Mars or my Venus more.

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Oh ok. I thought INTJ cuz that's what Lonake is/does.

Amelia: According to "The Zodiac of Death," Venus conjunct Mars shows up a whole lot in the charts of serial killers. :O

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posted January 06, 2012 12:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ElizabethO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL Fondue, I love when what I say causes a slight mental breakdown. So much fun. (Mercury square Mars) BWAHAHAHAHAHA.

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posted January 06, 2012 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fondue Knight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ElizabethO:
LOL Fondue, I love when what I say causes a slight mental breakdown. So much fun. (Mercury square Mars) BWAHAHAHAHAHA.

Hahahahaha... It doesn't help that I've got Neptune all over the place and have a hard time pinpointing things about myself that I haven't thought long and hard about. Anyone got any fog lights?

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posted January 06, 2012 04:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 06, 2012 04:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 06, 2012 04:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 06, 2012 08:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fondue Knight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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LOL Fondue, I love when what I say causes a slight mental breakdown. So much fun. (Mercury square Mars) BWAHAHAHAHAHA.

I had an epiphany! I favor my Venus energy because if I favored Mars in Cancer in the 7th I'd want things like babies and a family and stability. I want my Venus/NN in Taurus in the 5th -- ART.CREATIVITY.FUN. With lovely shoes. I like the idea of working with kids, but having my own scares the bejeezus out of me.

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posted January 06, 2012 09:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Something interesting I've noticed is how many people with a strong Taurus influence are so straight-laced sexually. Sure, they are deeply sensual and love sex but they are also very 'vanilla'. Virgo gets the reputation as the straightlaced sign sexually, but I think Taurus is more conservative actually. Which makes sense because it's Scorpio's opposite.

true about the taurus influence. i'm fine with regular fries and vanilla milkshake. but virgos while very clean and nitpicky outwardly are fine with dirty deeds IME.

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posted January 06, 2012 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ElizabethO:
Okay, my theory: I believe that homosexuality can be indicated by a "role reversal" found between Venus and Mars. Let me explain.

In women, when it comes to sexuality, Venus is how we attract men. It's our "active" planet. Mars is what we are attracted to - our "passive" planet. When a woman is homosexual or bisexual, her "active" sexual planet is Mars, thus Venus becomes "passive". It sort of explains my Capricorn friend from college. She had no attraction (almost a distaste) for the male physique, but was extremely attracted to the female physique. She also would tell me about her dreams where she was a man. She would fantasize about having genitalia and what it would be like to make love to her girlfriend. Every year, she went through the ritual of shaving her head because she felt more natural that way. I believe that she associated herself with her Mars (masculine) energy and her sexuality was more [b]focused on the essence on of her Venus, her feminine ideal.

Does that make sense?

For example, tautomer4314 associates himself much more with his Gemini Venus than his Cancer Mars, so much as to feel that his Cancer Mars is weak. Hence, a role reversal. His psyche is focused on embracing his "feminine" energy, therefore his Mars becomes his romantic ideal...

Venus rules over subjects such as:
http://www.myastrologybook.com/Venus-in-astrology.htm
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In conclusion, homosexuality occurs when a man does not identify with his Mars, or a woman does not identify with her Venus. This is where placement and aspects come into play. There are several factors that can come into play, found evident in the different forms of sexuality seen today - such as bisexuality, transsexuality, asexuality. A woman can either have a "weak" Venus or strong Mars (or both). Same with a man. Then there are aspects to planets such as Uranus, Saturn, and Pluto. Aspects to the 8th House ruler is also important.

So... any thoughts? I'm pretty sure no one will comment because no one ever listens to my theories. :\[/B]


there is a bunch of bisexual women who like been women and do not fantasize about been a man...There a bi women who are feminine and like feminine women. Your theory would explain more the muscaline lesbian more than bi chicks.

women's brains are more laterized this results in women been more prone to been bi among other things that is why there are a lot more more bi women than bi men....men tend to be either gay or straight...there level of testosterone makes them like a lot whatever they like, either way.

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My mars conjunct venus so any aspect made to venus is also made to mars since conjunction is by one orb. I am good example of someone who can be bi but I am not bc I do like guys a lot and guys are easy to get and so I haven't really bothered to explore that side of my sexuality much as I haven't had the need to, too busy with guys...never had a problem attracting them quickly were as with girls that is another story....is not like they walk around with a tshirt that says I am bi and am hot and smart, get to know me. Chicks are complicated and don't exactly like that to be honest.

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Ya I read that women are latently bi.

At a rather secluded all-female educational institution, 25% of a class is lesbian or bi at enrollment but increases to 75% by graduation. I wish I was recording people's birth dates back then. Would be interesting to see astrological differences between that 75% and the unchanged 25%...in terms of natal placements, transits...

I don't think there would be such a dramatic shift at an all-male institute...if so, it would probably be a power issue.

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posted January 06, 2012 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fondue Knight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Ya I read that women are latently bi.

At a rather secluded all-female educational institution, 25% of a class is lesbian or bi at enrollment but increases to 75% by graduation. I wish I was recording people's birth dates back then. Would be interesting to see astrological differences between that 75% and the unchanged 25%...in terms of natal placements, transits...

I don't think there would be such a dramatic shift at an all-male institute...if so, it would probably be a power issue.


I went to an all-boy Catholic high school. I'm sure the age group and the Catholic part played a huge role, but all that testosterone flying around definitely wasn't conducive to guys admitting they were gay or shifting sexual identities.

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