posted February 01, 2012 04:09 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Always kinky

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posted February 01, 2012 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Yes, it is written everywhere that Virgo Marses are full of surprises in bed, but what exactly is kinky to them??

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lol I think we are. But none of that chicken costume wearing stuff.

posted February 01, 2012 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Wow you would think with that fire and air he would be more forward aye? Guess mars IS important in courtship lol.

I'm a virgo mars and when I genuinely like sb I get really shy =/ holy. Like *look down at ground* bashful.

I have a libra stellium so I always expected myself to be more flirty lol. I have an aries rising and I don't move *too* slow. Don't have the patience. Haha!

Yeah just have fun with him, take it day by day. Bet the kiss is gonna be super special. Better than making out with him drunk one hour into the first date imo.

Have fun with him =) he seems to have a good combo of placements! I love sag venus <3

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YES! I mean, I can see his other placements, but with me his behaviour is Virgo! It is definitely very important in courtship lol, don't we look to a man's Mars to see how he approaches women? It's not all that bad, because I have a Taurus Venus tho unfortunately they don't aspect each other.

Yeah, I guess I would expect him to be more... erm... outgoing. He has given me some hints about some red wine hehe, guess he needs a little push. Well, on week-end, there's going to be some drinking and if that doesn't do it, I'm afraid my patience will run very low.

posted February 01, 2012 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
lol I think we are. But none of that chicken costume wearing stuff.

You're gonna have fun!

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posted February 01, 2012 04:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Define KINKY please! If my Mars doesn't get any action, at least let my Moon-Neptune do some night-dreaming.

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The kinkiness that can only be felt,not explained Why do you think our LL is so flaring in colour? LL has seen its share of TMI

posted February 01, 2012 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
The kinkiness that can only be felt,not explained Why do you think our LL is so flaring in colour? LL has seen itd share of TMI

I will just say it doesn't involve a whip.

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posted February 01, 2012 04:30 PM            

So I've heard,I mean

posted February 01, 2012 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Bit of role playing. And bit of forbidden fruit tasting.

So I've heard,I mean

Oh,'come over here,take if off' Aries Merc

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posted February 01, 2012 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
YES! I mean, I can see his other placements, but with me his behaviour is Virgo! It is definitely very important in courtship lol, don't we look to a man's Mars to see how he approaches women? It's not all that bad, because I have a Taurus Venus tho unfortunately they don't aspect each other.

Yeah, I guess I would expect him to be more... erm... outgoing. He has given me some hints about some red wine hehe, guess he needs a little push. Well, on week-end, there's going to be some drinking and if that doesn't do it, I'm afraid my patience will run very low.

I love Sag Venuses too, especially if they trine my Sun! And conjunct my Jupiter (as in this case).

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Ooh Taurus Venus are so warm, sensual and comfy. I like that. I think all you need to do at this point is smile smile smileee big. And listen to him talk intently and just be relaxed. Since he has libra and leo and virgo, he'll want sb who has eyes for him and actually pays attention. And virgo placements makes sb want 'a honest' type of connection.

Don't make the move, just smile and laugh and talk and give him little slaps and touch his arm. But don't like kiss him. Wait for him to come to you.

I can see this guy being really romantic thoughtful and loving.

*sigh*

posted February 01, 2012 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Ohhhhh... do tell more! Mercury rules my 8th which is in Virgo hahahahaha!

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posted February 01, 2012 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Ooh Taurus Venus are so warm, sensual and comfy. I like that. I think all you need to do at this point is smile smile smileee big. And listen to him talk intently and just be relaxed. Since he has libra and leo and virgo, he'll want sb who has eyes on only him. And virgo placements makes sb want 'a honest' type of connection.

Don't make the move, just smile and laugh and talk and give him little slaps and touch his arm. But don't like kiss him. Wait for him to come to you.

I can see this guy being really romantic thoughtful and loving.

*sigh*

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posted February 01, 2012 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
In that case,you should tell me

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posted February 01, 2012 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Double sigh... Okay, I've done all that. I can't help smiling when I'm with him, he cracks me up anyway. I've been sweet and warm and listened to him very carefully and maintained the eye contact. Why doesn't he get it? LOL!
Last night he took me to this very romantic tea-house, vintage and intimate. We were sitting very close together, with our heads inches from each other, eyes locked on the other and I was going crazy!!! Man, that is just too cruel to tease me like that and leave me hanging!

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Omg... Talk about perfect date haha. Yeah I know! He's really pushing it. I bet inside he's kinda thinking 'I'm going to kiss you and I want to! But I'm going to drag it out alittle longer just to see you sweat alittle =P' --- (Duh leo moon and sag venus)
Why don't you play alittle too? Be really flirty but don't make any major moves. He's GOTTA give in after that! I mean it's not like he swings the other way lol. Show your charms. Make him feel the urge to like grab you and do fun things to ya hahaha.

posted February 01, 2012 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
It's not the same thing lol. Plus, my views on the matter have significantly shifted because Saturn just got out of my 8H, making me see intimacy with a completely different set of eyes. I was very prudish and even frigid before, but I have come to the conclusion I want to try everything at least once lol! And if I like it, over and over! LOL! I never thought I would break up with a guy because the sex was bad, but I just did that recently.
Besides, my Aries Mercury ruler of 8th is conjunct Mars and opp Pluto. It makes for a totally different type of kinkiness.

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Omg nothing wrong with dumping sb cos they fail at sex. LOL
I mean sexual chemistry an integral part of what makes a relationship great.
Some people do suck at it and it makes everything awkward and uncomfortable and frustrating.

posted February 01, 2012 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Omg... Talk about perfect date haha. Yeah I know! He's really pushing it. I bet inside he's kinda thinking 'I'm going to kiss you and I want to! But I'm going to drag it out alittle longer just to see you sweat alittle =P' --- (Duh leo moon and sag venus)
Why don't you play alittle too? Be really flirty but don't make any major moves. He's GOTTA give in after that! I mean it's not like he swings the other way lol. Show your charms. Make him feel the urge to like grab you and do fun things to ya hahaha.

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posted February 01, 2012 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Omg nothing wrong with dumping sb cos they fail at sex. LOL
I mean sexual chemistry an integral part of what makes a relationship great.
Some people do suck at it and it makes everything awkward and uncomfortable and frustrating.

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posted February 01, 2012 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
LOL! I was thinking of doing that on week-end! I mean, we're set to go out dancing, probably with some cocktails on board and I intend to be super-flirty and a bit naughty, but just a little.
If that doesn't work.... I don't know if I can carry on like this. It is torture, pure torture!

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It's the 5th date this weekend? I think he's gonna kiss you.

You know

dance + dipping you backwards + deep kiss

posted February 01, 2012 05:02 PM            

But, as far as how slow the Virgo lover moves, it's all about how self-confident they are. When Virgo focuses too much on their insecurities, we get really shy and can close up. A confident Virgo is more upfront but still rather modest. It's a receptive sign, so the Mars in Virgo male is always waiting to see what your move is. We're also very aware of the fact that you might not like us as much as we like you, which can make us cautious and nervous.

It can hard to tell if we like you. I'm a Leo so I can be very demonstrative. But that's when I know I have you. Initially, I try to play it pretty cool and modest.

There is kinkiness with this position but also a kind of purity as well. That's the paradox of Virgo: both the virgin and the ***** , so to speak. Because I'm very sexual but I like to think of it as something natural and healthy. I've read that people with strong Virgo placements can be very naughty and very innocent, simultaneously. I think that describes me quite well. :]

posted February 01, 2012 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Oh hope so!!! Yes, it's going to be the 5th date. And if nothing happens, again, on the 6th date I'm going to put my foot down and ask some questions. Not going to jump on him, but at least clear the matter. I mean, I understand, I'm like that too, I apreciate him being such a gentleman and all but enough is enough. I want to know!

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I just realised he's an aries rising lol. Darn! He is so patient. Maybe he's waiting for that perfect moment, perfect surroundings, perfect atmosphere, perfect look in your eyes?

posted February 01, 2012 05:06 PM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Hmmm. Interesting topic, especially since I am a Mars in Virgo male.My Venus is in Virgo as well so I think my approach to courting/love/romance can be very Virgoan.

But, as far as how slow the Virgo lover moves, it's all about how self-confident they are. When Virgo focuses too much on their insecurities, we get really shy and can close up. A confident Virgo is more upfront but still rather modest. It's a receptive sign, so the Mars in Virgo male is always waiting to see what your move is. We're also very aware of the fact that you might not like us as much as we like you, which can make us cautious and nervous.

It can hard to tell if we like you. I'm a Leo so I can be very demonstrative. But that's when I know I have you. Initially, I try to play it pretty cool and modest.

There is kinkiness with this position but also a kind of purity as well. That's the paradox of Virgo: both the virgin and the ***** , so to speak. Because I'm very sexual but I like to think of it as something natural and healthy. I've read that people with strong Virgo placements can be very naughty and very innocent, simultaneously. I think that describes me quite well. :]

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Yeah I think we do appear pretty innocent on the surface. Oh! And I've noticed that virgo males (like females) act really aloof when they like you. Like they act like you're invisible. But they stare alot right? They might be kinda critical of you at times. But yeah, much more relaxed with girls they aren't interested in, but pretty stoic with the person they like.

posted February 01, 2012 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Hmmm. Interesting topic, especially since I am a Mars in Virgo male.My Venus is in Virgo as well so I think my approach to courting/love/romance can be very Virgoan.

But, as far as how slow the Virgo lover moves, it's all about how self-confident they are. When Virgo focuses too much on their insecurities, we get really shy and can close up. A confident Virgo is more upfront but still rather modest. It's a receptive sign, so the Mars in Virgo male is always waiting to see what your move is. We're also very aware of the fact that you might not like us as much as we like you, which can make us cautious and nervous.

It can hard to tell if we like you. I'm a Leo so I can be very demonstrative. But that's when I know I have you. Initially, I try to play it pretty cool and modest.

There is kinkiness with this position but also a kind of purity as well. That's the paradox of Virgo: both the virgin and the ***** , so to speak. Because I'm very sexual but I like to think of it as something natural and healthy. I've read that people with strong Virgo placements can be very naughty and very innocent, simultaneously. I think that describes me quite well. :]

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posted February 01, 2012 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Whip is tooooo cliche.
I think we can be quite inventive. We just gotta trust you first.

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Em, yeah. Ball gags, a little bondage, role playing, acting out scenes from films or books, sexting when attention should be elsewhere, teasing to the point of breaking, paddles, watching (don't think this needs to be explained, but a big mirror over the bed makes it even hotter!), creative uses of showers and tubs, etc. This all has a point and it's to make sure that the other is thoroughly pleased. Our pleasure is partly dependant on the other's. Mars here can be insatiable.