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Topic: Mars in Virgo - taking time to make the move?
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RedScorp
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From: Ontario, Canada!
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posted February 03, 2012 02:44 PM
  
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Why do you think our LL is so flaring in colour? LL has seen its share of TMI 
LMAO... And omg, Hera, that's a shame. Maybe next time, yeah? IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 03, 2012 02:53 PM
Thank you guys. Anon, I like it out in the open. I guess I was getting impatient. Things were dragging out for too long. So I needed to know, he was making me feel very insecure. And turns out he really didn't have any intentions, but could have had the decency to not lead me on by making more plans. IP: Logged |
MC2012
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From: Calgary
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posted February 03, 2012 02:54 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Thank you guys. Anon, I like it out in the open. I guess I was getting impatient. Things were dragging out for too long. So I needed to know, he was making me feel very insecure. And turns out he really didn't have any intentions, but could have had the decency to not lead me on by making more plans.
Virgo doesn't lead ppl on it's libra... I hope u feel better. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 03, 2012 02:57 PM
I honestly don't have anything with any signs. But the wishy-washy-ness it's a total turn-off for my 7 Fire planets, that's all. IP: Logged |
MC2012
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posted February 03, 2012 03:00 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
I honestly don't have anything with any signs. But the wishy-washy-ness it's a total turn-off for my 7 Fire planets, that's all.
I actually was going to say he doesn't feel "that way" for you because I have Virgo mars and If I'm interested I go for it and I don't waste time. Mine or someone else's but I didn't want to hurt your feelings. He is just a flirt and kept playing because of his libra. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 03, 2012 03:02 PM
Yeah. He asked me if I still want to hang out. lol I said prolly not a good idea. Need to lick my wounds first and see if I can manage afterwards. IP: Logged |
MC2012
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posted February 03, 2012 03:05 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Yeah. He asked me if I still want to hang out. lol I said prolly not a good idea. Need to lick my wounds first and see if I can manage afterwards.
Lol he has nooo idea how much you like him hahaha what a loser IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 03, 2012 03:09 PM
Yeah... I think I was falling for the guy. But now that's that. Moving on. IP: Logged |
MC2012
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posted February 03, 2012 03:11 PM
Ya waste of time  IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 03, 2012 03:16 PM
Oh well... it happens sometimes. Mostly to me, but heh. IP: Logged |
MC2012
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posted February 03, 2012 03:41 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Oh well... it happens sometimes. Mostly to me, but heh.
Next one will be the right one xoxo IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted February 03, 2012 03:47 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Anon, I like it out in the open. I guess I was getting impatient. Things were dragging out for too long. So I needed to know, he was making me feel very insecure. And turns out he really didn't have any intentions, but could have had the decency to not lead me on by making more plans.
But Why on the phone??????
He probably got all defensive and didn't know what to tell you. Wouldn't it have been much better to be able to look him at the eye when he says this?? IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted February 03, 2012 03:47 PM
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Hera
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posted February 03, 2012 04:21 PM
Probably. But now it's done. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 03, 2012 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by MC2012:
Next one will be the right one xoxo
Thanks. We'll see. D@mn Jupiter is taking too long to come over my Taurus Venus lol. IP: Logged |
MC2012
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 03, 2012 04:31 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Thanks. We'll see. D@mn Jupiter is taking too long to come over my Taurus Venus lol.
Patience woman lol it will be a sweeter wine hehe IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted February 03, 2012 07:13 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Yeah, me too. Especially for wasting my time with a double-standard, wishy-washy, mixed signals sender guy. Clearly the Virgo/Libra combination is not one of the most fortunate ones for me.
Sorry for Virgo Marses for saying this, but honestly, for once, start thinking about how the other person might be feeling, not just your own friggin' insecurities and your jobs. It creates a vicious circle, raising insecurity in the other. To be honest, it's been since my teenage years that a man managed to make me feel so low about myself, so worthless.
Seriously, think about the other person's feelings. And if you don't like them, for God's sake, don't drag it on. Be honest with them. Not let them raise their hopes and cry their eyes out afterwards.
Don't generalise >.<. I would never lead someone on. I think it's just his problem. He's a jackass.
It seemed he liked you. Waste of bloody time aye. Don't worry, good riddance! P.S. Virgo and libra combos are fine, I don't behave this way. It's an individual thing really. Some people deserve to get a slap in the face lol. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 03, 2012 11:19 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Don't generalise >.<. I would never lead someone on. I think it's just his problem. He's a jackass.
It seemed he liked you. Waste of bloody time aye. Don't worry, good riddance!P.S. Virgo and libra combos are fine, I don't behave this way. It's an individual thing really. Some people deserve to get a slap in the face lol.
I know, Mintgirl. Sorry about what I said, it came out of hurt. I later came to better feelings and did say I don't have anything against any signs.  Even texted the dude and told him yeah, I was falling for you, but I'll be fine. You're a nice company though so I guess we can still hang out. Wouldn't it be funny if he ends up falling for me *as friends* lol? That has happened to me with every guy that has ever rejected me, came back with their tail between their legs. But enough is enough. Moving on. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted February 03, 2012 11:25 PM
Seriously he's a douche, it's like he was happy to continue hanging out with you under pretence of trying to take it down a more romantic route.
Why would you want to be friends with sb like that? Hold ya head up high and cut contact! That way he might regret it lol. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 04, 2012 12:11 AM
Because to be honest, I had a lovely time with him. I haven't laughed like that in a really long time. And he's a positive influence, on a growth level. He was starting to make me his project of improvement, and I'm all for improving myself so don't mind it. I quit smoking because of him. So why not use him instead? To improve myself, I mean. Not use in that horrible, manipulating way, no. But I liked the effect he had on me and he was probably the little push I needed to get rid of some things in my life that I planned to rid myself of but lacked motivation. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 04, 2012 05:37 PM
So now he's telling me he's so happy *from the bottom of his heart* that I still want to talk to him. Then he got a wee more courageous and said something about tempting me. Under the circumstances, it has a double meaning. When I asked with what, he backed down again and said long conversations like we used to have.
Honestly, it sounded like flirting. WTF? Is he playing with me? Or did he chicken out when I brought the matter into the light and now that he knows he's on safe ground he's advancing??
Sheesh... God, don't ever let me fall for another Libra again. Nothing against them, just keep them away. They're confusing the cr@p out of me. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted February 04, 2012 05:48 PM
Sounds like a player really.
He probably didn't want to talk about it on the phone. You should ask him in person look at his eyes, body language, etc.
Let him flirt. And enjoy it. Make him want it more while you pretend to be in friends-only zone.  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 04, 2012 09:48 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Because to be honest, I had a lovely time with him. I haven't laughed like that in a really long time. And he's a positive influence, on a growth level. He was starting to make me his project of improvement, and I'm all for improving myself so don't mind it. I quit smoking because of him. So why not use him instead? To improve myself, I mean. Not use in that horrible, manipulating way, no. But I liked the effect he had on me and he was probably the little push I needed to get rid of some things in my life that I planned to rid myself of but lacked motivation.
He made you his project of improvement? That's weird.. Virgos generally won't do that or nag someone (not saying he nagged but they won't criticize) someone they don't care about. But yeah Virgos are SO WEIRD about relationships. They effing LOVE games and they do a very good job turning tables and whatnot. No, it's not just from my bad Virgo guy experience. My oldest friend is a Virgo with Scorpio rising and Libra Venus, Sag moon. What. A. Disaster. Mars in Cancer to top it all off. She knows exactly how to hook guys, bait them, and in the end she just sounds so shallow in her feelings. Like she's not upset for very long after she creates a tornado or anything. You sit back and think "WHAT was the point of alllll that stress?!!" IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted February 04, 2012 09:58 PM
^ no offense but I think that's her scorpio rising and cancer mars and her venus square mars.Virgos find games a waste of time. We just won't bother with sb we're not interested in 'normally.' IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted February 04, 2012 10:04 PM
dude I just realised that this guy has venus square mars too lol! IP: Logged |
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