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Topic: Mars in Virgo - taking time to make the move?
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Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 12:19 PM
  
So I'm seeing a Virgo Mars for the first time. Everything is great, lots of fun and all, but it's been 4 dates and not even a kiss on the cheek. I'm thinking he likes me coz we keep making plans for fun dates and he clears his schedule to go out with me. Butttttttttttt... nothing! I'm okay with it for now, after my last 2 disaster relationships I am enjoying taking it slow, but I'm confused and my insecurity kicked in thinking maybe he doesn't like me enough... or what?!Help a sister out please and spill! If you dated a Virgo Mars, got any tips? How long will I have to wait? It took him almost 2 years to ask me out for coffee lol. Oh, doesn't he know we Aries are impatient people??? Thank youuuuuuuuuuuu!  ------------------
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VenusDiSirius
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posted February 01, 2012 12:25 PM
Virgo Mars men are of craftin' kind. There are is deliberance,and well-thought moves.
I can't imagine any Virgo placement bother to do 4 dates,out of decency  Sure,there is lovely shyness,as well.
You if you behave well,and well-manicured,Santa may bring you bag full of kinky goodness IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 12:26 PM
So he likes me no? I mean, yeah... why bother if not, no? Oh me surgeon, manicure short and clean.  IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted February 01, 2012 12:30 PM
Yep,I'd say he likes you.(I know these peeps,and these days all I do is run into them,so plenty material)I like Virgo Mars,but just to tease them One day,I am ready to try one,if fire/air endowed Aires Mars here. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 12:40 PM
Aries Mars here tooo!!!! They're actually trined, my Mars and his tho out of sign. We got some pretty nice aspects and all, so I really don't get it! What's up with this waiting thing?? IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted February 01, 2012 12:43 PM
I understand why it's bugging you.. they like to watch and later ponder on what they have seen IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 12:44 PM
This one has plenty of Fire and Air (I need those too), he's a Libra with Leo Moon and Aries Asc (conj my Mars). Aaaand Sag Venus (his Venus and Moon make a GT with my Aries Sun... can you imagine how lovely that is???)I admit I was reluctant too in the beginning coz he was a patient in our hospital and I am a doctor there, so I cancelled the first time, but then I got to thinking he wasn't actually my patient and it's been enough time to pass ethical reasons, so I went for it. Now I'm liking him more and more and it's frustratingggg because I don't know what's going on in that pretty head of his! IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 12:46 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
I understand why it's bugging you.. they like to watch and later ponder on what they have seen
Pure cruelty keeping a girl on her toes like that lol! He also has Sun conj Pluto, so I suppose it adds to the "I'll wait until I have you eating out of my hand" policy he's taking. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted February 01, 2012 12:49 PM
Oh,the plot thickens doctor/patient thing (just bare with me ).. I bet Virgo in him likes thaaaat!As for the power games,yes,that is possibility,a strong one,but no as hardcore,since it is in Libra. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 12:53 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Oh,the plot thickens doctor/patient thing (just bare with me ).. I bet Virgo in him likes thaaaat!As for the power games,yes,that is possibility,a strong one,but no as hardcore,since it is in Libra.
Aaaaand he has a 6H stellium!!! I suppose he does like it . He knows I'll take care of him well. But why the waitin'??? I don't know if it's a power thing with him, though he has some Pluto influence here and there. I suppose the power thing is bigger in me than him, so definitely not liking not KNOWING that he likes me! IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 12:57 PM
Last night he told me he was bothered by this girl who went right upfront for him, even though he was with someone else. Though she did get him, he said it's a deal breaker. How come, with a Leo Moon and Sag Venus?? I would think he likes women with initiative?! So after this, I definitely decided to step back and let him take his time... but could he hurry it up a little? lolIP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl
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posted February 01, 2012 01:14 PM
Hahaha
I recently had a short lived something with a Virgo Mars guy... nope, he did not wait much, but it did not lasted esither (at least it seems like that), so dunno.  IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 01:19 PM
Oooooh, Dreamy! I'm sorry it didn't work out... You guys had hard Uranus aspects? I'm worried about where this is going to and whether it has any future for that matter (Venus-Uranus sq in composite... been through that lots and know it's no good). Expect something in your inbox soon. I've been thinking about writing you to give you feedback on that thing you did for me (it was awesome btw and many thanks... didn't think I will get out of that one and maintain sanity in the process). IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted February 01, 2012 01:26 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Last night he told me he was bothered by this girl who went right upfront for him, even though he was with someone else. Though she did get him, he said it's a deal breaker. How come, with a Leo Moon and Sag Venus?? I would think he likes women with initiative?! So after this, I definitely decided to step back and let him take his time... but could he hurry it up a little? lol
 Astro potential works in mysterious way Hardcore Virgo
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Dreamy_AriesGirl
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posted February 01, 2012 01:27 PM
Nope, we had no hard uranus aspects, as i remember. I have no idea what went wrong, but i suspect he has some issues to deal with.Maybe your guy is just a gentle man. My best friend is dating a guy who did not make any move for about a month, although they had lots of dating. Then it's just changed
So dont give up yet! Great, Im waiting for your mail
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Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 01:43 PM
Well today, being inspired by "them moves like Jagger" (love that song), asked him if he wants to go dancing. He said not tonight (arrived home late and had a tough day). I know he's a workacholic like I am and I can understand, because I cancel dates too because of burnout... but I hope it's not a bad sign! He did say we're gonna meet up on week-end and go crazy with it lol. But... I suppose we might have a different view of what "crazy" means... if you understand what I'm saying.
I'm laughing at his jokes, I'm keeping eye contact, I give him subtle hints, I tell him he's funny and I enjoy spending time with him...... What is he waiting for???? Maybe I would have made the move myself, but now that he told me he doesn't like it... my hands are tied. And I mean... we went to the ballet! The friggin' ballet! I'd figure it's Virgo/Libra enough for him... Went all black-dress-y and even wore pearls! And it's friggin' freezing over here... who did he think I was all dressed up for?! My head hurts. This is one tough one to crack. IP: Logged |
Delilah
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 01, 2012 02:09 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Well today, being inspired by "them moves like Jagger" (love that song), asked him if he wants to go dancing. He said not tonight (arrived home late and had a tough day). I know he's a workacholic like I am and I can understand, because I cancel dates too because of burnout... but I hope it's not a bad sign! He did say we're gonna meet up on week-end and go crazy with it lol. But... I suppose we might have a different view of what "crazy" means... if you understand what I'm saying.
I'm laughing at his jokes, I'm keeping eye contact, I give him subtle hints, I tell him he's funny and I enjoy spending time with him...... What is he waiting for???? Maybe I would have made the move myself, but now that he told me he doesn't like it... my hands are tied. And I mean... we went to the ballet! The friggin' ballet! I'd figure it's Virgo/Libra enough for him... Went all black-dress-y and even wore pearls! And it's friggin' freezing over here... who did he think I was all dressed up for?! My head hurts. This is one tough one to crack.
Lol. I have Mars in Virgo and am a slow mover when it comes to relationships. Honestly, I never know when a guy is interested in me, so dating is a bit hellish. One thing that has happened with me is that I've pretty much fallen for a guy (no use in denying it), but he's needed reassurance that I was into him more than once. I don't know how to be more clear because I've practically thrown myself at him, the best way that a Mars in Virgo can. I thought that I was being clear because the things we talked about aren't things that I would talk about with just anyone. Yet, somehow, I haven't been clear enough. I've been afraid of coming on too strongly because of how much I like him and don't want to scare him off. As unsure as he is about my feelings, I'm just as equally confused about him. This is something that happens ALL THE TIME with me. It's frustrating as hell to find that the one you liked so much at one point actually liked you at the same time, but didn't know if they should have approached you. I think Mars is in detriment here, so it's possible that he could have come on to someone in the past and was rejected. Now, he's confused about how far and fast he should go with someone he likes. At least that's the case with me. IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart
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posted February 01, 2012 02:10 PM
Man, they are SLOOOOOOooooow...it drives my Gemini Mars crazy sometimes.IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 02:54 PM
Delilah, It rings true to some extent. As I said previously, we've known each other for almost 2 years and he has liked me since the beginning (told this to a third party) but said he needed some encouragement on my part. I, on the other hand, also liked him, but being bound by ethical reasons and my natural shyness, I didn't send any signals. It was because of this third party that lobbied me to him and viceversa that things started to get moving. She gave me his number but I didn't dare call him, then gave him my number and voila! So I guess I'm also a bit like that, but 4 dates with no accidental touching or anything is too much for my otherwise also slow to move Taurus Venus. I mean, at least throw me a tiny bone to chew on while I wait, you know? IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 02:57 PM
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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
Man, they are SLOOOOOOooooow...it drives my Gemini Mars crazy sometimes.
Oh noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! LOL. I love you Gem Marses! Oh God, I guess I need to tap more into Cap Asc to hang in here, because the 7 Fire planets in me are boiling impatiently! IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted February 01, 2012 04:04 PM
Mars in Virgo, plain and traditional. Sometimes kinky too. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 04:05 PM
Hope so! IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted February 01, 2012 04:06 PM
Wow you would think with that fire and air he would be more forward aye? Guess mars IS important in courtship lol.
I'm a virgo mars and when I genuinely like sb I get really shy =/ holy. Like *look down at ground* bashful.
I have a libra stellium so I always expected myself to be more flirty lol. I have an aries rising and I don't move *too* slow. Don't have the patience. Haha! Yeah just have fun with him, take it day by day. Bet the kiss is gonna be super special. Better than making out with him drunk one hour into the first date imo. Have fun with him =) he seems to have a good combo of placements! I love sag venus <3 IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted February 01, 2012 04:07 PM
Yes, it is written everywhere that Virgo Marses are full of surprises in bed, but what exactly is kinky to them??IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted February 01, 2012 04:07 PM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Mars in Virgo, plain and traditional. Sometimes kinky too.
Always kinky IP: Logged |
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