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Rosalind
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posted April 26, 2012 04:34 AM
  
Hi, I was wondering, what aspects in astrology can make a person wish to keep his relationship a secret? Planets in 12th house maybe? Thanks.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 26, 2012 04:41 AM
relationship: 7th libra venus / affairs are more H5......
secrets: 12th pisces neptune / 8th scorp plutoOn a *personal note* (ahem) - I have kept all of my romantic relationships secret from my family since day 1.
I have Venus/Pluto & my H12 ruler is conj Venus. NN in the 12th. Neptune in the 5th. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted April 26, 2012 04:56 AM
May I ask: Why would you do that? Arent you in love with your bf enough to show up with him?IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 26, 2012 04:57 AM
I'm not about to justify my personal decision to a stranger.IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted April 26, 2012 05:01 AM
No offence but your reason is silly. Also you say here: quote:
I have kept all of my romantic relationships secret from my family since day 1
Your family members are strangers? Again, no offence but seems fishy to me. Also, if you are not willing to help me, why are you posting in this topic? I simply don't understand. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted April 26, 2012 06:44 AM
Mars/Neptune in the 7th.
I'm a vault. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted April 26, 2012 06:46 AM
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I simply don't understand.
There are online courses in psychology you could look into.
Do you have a Virgo Mercury? IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted April 26, 2012 06:58 AM
Nope. Leo Mercury in the 9th house.What does psychology has to do with what I asked? IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 26, 2012 07:05 AM
@Rosalind. You're the stranger in that response. quote:
Originally posted by Rosalind:
Also, if you are not willing to help me, why are you posting in this topic? I simply don't understand.
Why are you responding to me when you can't read your original question and my 1st response?
After that, come back and try to have the nerve to tell me that I'm not willing to help.IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted April 26, 2012 07:06 AM
Keep a secret from whom, though?Family or friends? Family, I could understand to an extent not wanting to involve them until the native is *sure* about you. Friends? Well...
"If you been dating a man for four months and you haven't met any of his friends, YOU ARE NOT HIS GIRLFRIEND!" - Chris Rock
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Rosalind
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posted April 26, 2012 07:07 AM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Keep a secret from whom, though?Family or friends? Family, I could understand to an extent not wanting to involve them until the native is *sure* about you. Friends? Well...
"If you been dating a man for four months and you haven't met any of his friends, YOU ARE NOT HIS GIRLFRIEND!" - Chris Rock
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Betty Boop
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posted April 26, 2012 07:13 AM
For the record... I meant everyone - above!
I only rarely have told my closest friends personal things about my relationships - and the very rare times when I did... they killed me.^ I'm sorry to express it so dramatically... but they literally *killed* me. Not intentionally.... IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted April 26, 2012 07:21 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
@Rosalind. [b]You're the stranger in that response. [QUOTE]Originally posted by Rosalind:
Also, if you are not willing to help me, why are you posting in this topic? I simply don't understand.
Why are you responding to me when you can't read your original question and my 1st response?
After that, come back and try to have the nerve to tell me that I'm not willing to help.[/B][/QUOTE]OK, I can understand the part with me as a stranger, but your family? They are strangers too? Its your words not mine. Even in the eye of a stranger what you wrote has NO excuse. Sorry, thats my opinion.
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Lonake
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posted April 26, 2012 07:25 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Its your words not mine.
Technically: It is you putting words in my mouth. Not appreciated.
And thankfully I'm not concerned with what you think of my phrasing or its contents.
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Betty Boop
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posted April 26, 2012 07:25 AM
1. She did not call her family strangers.2. There may be cultural differences between you and Lonake.. and even if there are no significant cultural differences... some people are simply closer to their families than others. Some people move out and never see their family again. It happens. Not everyone's story IS your own. 3. You asked what aspects can lead to secrecy. She told you which aspects in HER chart she believes have led her to keep secrets.
That is -how- she contributed to your thread & how she helped you. There is no obligation for her to tell you her life story now. IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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posted April 26, 2012 07:30 AM
I have never shown any of my bf to my family. My mom thought I've never dated in my life before.  Jupiter, Saturn, Juno, wisdom, Eros etc in 12th house. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted April 26, 2012 07:32 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
1. She did not call her family strangers.2. There may be cultural differences between you and Lonake.. and even if there are no significant cultural differences... some people are simply closer to their families than others. Some people move out and never see their family again. It happens. Not everyone's story IS your own. 3. You asked what aspects can lead to secrecy. She told you which aspects in HER chart she believes have led her to keep secrets.
That is -how- she contributed to your thread & how she helped you. There is no obligation for her to tell you her life story now.
I was asking in a pure astrologically way. When I asked why would she do that I was wondering if astrologically are some bad aspects that clearly shows that. I have 0 interest in her private life. I don't even know her. Jupiter in 12th would be one. Thanks Lilith. Very much appreciated.
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Choc
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posted April 26, 2012 07:37 AM
Gee, lay off Lonake. My parents/relatives no nothing about my relationships/crushes either. It's none of their business. I only have 3 besties and I do talk to them though. PS. My last relationship was a secret one. From my side, noone knew about it, I had my reasons. chart: http://i50.tinypic.com/n5fo08.gif IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted April 26, 2012 07:40 AM
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Originally posted by Choc:
Gee, lay off Lonake. My parents/relatives no nothing about my relationships/crushes either. It's none of their business. I only have 3 besties and I do talk to them though. PS. My last relationship was a secret one. From my side, noone knew about it, I had my reasons. chart: http://i50.tinypic.com/n5fo08.gif
Venus and NN in 8th house?IP: Logged |
Starry~*
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posted April 26, 2012 07:45 AM
I guess everyone has their reasons for keeping the relationship a secret. I also understand that just because they keep it a secret doesn't mean it's in ill intent or anything. Everyone's situation and circumstances are different.For example, my very first bf in high school was a secret for the whole 1 and a half years I've been with him. Why? Because if my family had known, they would've probably kicked me out. I was raised in a very strict family setting and my mother specifically told me that I cannot have a bf. At the same time, you cannot control your emotions either..and neither can your family. I went ahead and disobeyed my family in that matter because I really really liked the guy. After I told him my family situation, he understood where I'm coming from in that sense and didn't bother me about the secrecy. I have my Sun in the 12th House and Venus conjunct pluto and mercury in the 1st. Hope this helps  IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 26, 2012 07:47 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Rosalind:
May I ask: Why would you do that? Arent you in love with your bf enough to show up with him?
quote:
Originally posted by Rosalind:
When I asked why would she do that I was wondering if astrologically are some bad aspects that clearly shows that. I have 0 interest in her private life.
Clearly you have no interest in my private life. Why would anyone even think such a thing?  IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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posted April 26, 2012 07:48 AM
<edited>Hmmm... your not very nice to Lonake... She was really trying to be helpful... I edited my posts twice cos I felt it was not gonna be appreciated like you did not appreciate Lonake's help... 
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Lonake
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posted April 26, 2012 07:54 AM
My most secretive relationship (we kept it secret from everyone we knew):
Composite Sun/Moon/Mercury conjunct in Pisces sq Neptune, trine Mars/Jupiter in Scorpio. Nothing in the 12th.^ I leave this here for anyone interested in the topic. IP: Logged |
Sashar
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posted April 26, 2012 07:54 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Hi, I was wondering, what aspects in astrology can make a person wish to keep his relationship a secret? Planets in 12th house maybe? Thanks.
Don't ask me what they are but there are synastry aspects that might make you want to keep a relationship with a specific person secret, even when there isn't really a justifiable reason for it. ------------------
Astrology Activism: The constant strive to not just learn the intricate details of Astrology but the desire to constantly find new ways to prove that it exists in a scientific manner.
Failure to incorporate the later into your work is akin to learning how to cure cancer but not sharing it with anyone. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted April 26, 2012 07:55 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Clearly you have no interest in my private life. Why would anyone even think such a thing?
You may think what you want. I already made my point. I wont waste my energy trying to show you otherwise. IP: Logged |
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