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Topic: Water Moon People
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extant_pisces
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From: Chicago, IL
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 12:14 PM
  
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted May 16, 2012 12:16 PM
aquaguy91,You're better than that. Its better to be single and honorable than be with those girls. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 12:31 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Stop going to bars and clubs. Go to brainy places like the library or museum or even the bank [psst... the successful ones don't have time for clubs, and the rich ones in clubs are spoilt brats]. Go to church. It always does you well. Go to classical music recietals and jazz concerts. Dress well and girls will notice you.I was called boring too. Till I drove by the same girls who called me boring but wanted to get into my
Porsche.
Good advice YTA  he does have bad luck doesn't he?
He's young though so he should believe in himself. If he thinks it's hard now, wait until he gets a taste of his 1st Saturn return...
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aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 02:23 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Stop going to bars and clubs. Go to brainy places like the library or museum or even the bank [psst... the successful ones don't have time for clubs, and the rich ones in clubs are spoilt brats]. Go to church. It always does you well. Go to classical music recietals and jazz concerts. Dress well and girls will notice you.
I was called boring too. Till I drove by the same girls who called me boring but wanted to get into my Porsche.
Haha i dont go to clubs, i have never stepped foot in one of those cess pools XD. And i have tried talking to people at college,with the same amount of success,its hard to find people to have intellectual conversations,and dont even think about trying to talk astrology. I enjoy going to the library but when i go there i want to have a nice quiet place to read, but the library is no longer a quiet place,people talk on their cell phones and have loud conversations,it is kind of irritating.IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 2955
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 02:31 PM
Aquaguy, have you considered that it might be where you live?I used to have the same bad luck and couldn't find anyone on the same wavelength. Then I moved out of my hometown (well, not really. I have officially lived in the city longer than I lived in the suburban hellhole my parents moved me to at the age of ten). Voila! Instant love life change IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 2955
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 02:32 PM
I didn't experience my first real relationship until I got the hell out of suburbialand. I don't know where you live now, but I would suggest that if it's anything like where I grew up, get the hell out of there and GO WHERE THE PEOPLE ARE.IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 02:34 PM
That's good advice too aquacheeka IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted May 16, 2012 03:03 PM
It's hard to find an intellectual discussion in Knoxville, a town with 29,000 students, plus faculty, among a general population of 180,000. There are no intellectual events happenning? Even pre-football events and BBQs are events to meet people to talk about matters, besides of course toasting with a couple Jack Daniels. Isn't there a Starbucks in town?
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted May 16, 2012 03:09 PM
Ya.. may be you are the normal one and I'm the messed up one with an over-szied ego.My attitude back then was... you don't wanna go out? well {etc etc} you... {insert insult}.. wouldn't wanna {etc etc} you anyway, {insert insult} {greetings to parents}  IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup
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posted May 16, 2012 03:32 PM
You live in/near Knoxville, Aquaguy? Knoxville is a great city!!! I have a ton of friends who went to UT and none of the girls were as you described, Aquaguy. Then again, these are people I met on a study abroad trip and they were very "intellectual" people. The platonic love of my life is from there. We have similar passions, and if we lived closer I would've definitely dated him.I visited once back in 2007 and am dying to go back to Tennessee again. You're lucky to live in such an exciting college city, with such nice people. You are probably just not looking in the right places or hanging with the right crowd. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 03:33 PM
Lol just saw that hallmark card thread IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 05:20 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Aquaguy, have you considered that it might be where you live?
I used to have the same bad luck and couldn't find anyone on the same wavelength. Then I moved out of my hometown (well, not really. I have officially lived in the city longer than I lived in the suburban hellhole my parents moved me to at the age of ten). Voila! Instant love life change
Haha i know thats the problem, i meet women from out of state and i get along just fine with them,i just dont seem to have any common ground with any here,atleast the ones i encounter.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted May 16, 2012 06:04 PM
Haha. And Mrs YTA grew up around Knoxville. . She didn't go to UT though. She went to UVa, then Georgetown. IP: Logged |
Melodie
Knowflake Posts: 92
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 06:15 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Haha i know thats the problem, i meet women from out of state and i get along just fine with them,i just dont seem to have any common ground with any here,atleast the ones i encounter.[/B]
Join clubs/organizations or take classes that suit your interests!I'm in a honor fraternity for accounting and finance majors. Met a lot of cool and intellectual people with different background, interests, and viewpoints. I also took sociology, psychology, and music classes throughout my college years to keep me sane. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted May 16, 2012 06:41 PM
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Originally posted by Melodie:
I'm in a honor fraternity for accounting and finance majors. Met a lot of cool and intellectual people with different background, interests, and viewpoints.
Geez. How can stand hanging with those boring, dull accounting and finance types!! Just kidding.  . My MBA is in Finance and Accounting, and I'm a banker. Classic bean counter here. IP: Logged |
Lioness719
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted May 16, 2012 07:03 PM
So then do you think Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon is the perfect balance of ego and emotion? I have:
Cancer Sun - 10th
Cancer Mercury - 10th cusp
Cancer Midheaven
Cancer Kaali conjunct MC
Cancer North Node-9th
Cancer Moon-9th I am sometimes all over the place because of these placements...I think the most difficult part is trying to find balance between demonstrating an outer strength to the world and battling inner emotions!
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aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 07:57 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Haha. And Mrs YTA grew up around Knoxville. . She didn't go to UT though. She went to UVa, then Georgetown.
Cool what town?IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 16, 2012 08:15 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
The man who can project his feminine and sensitive side is confident in his masculinity that he doesn't need to flaunt it.Machoism and bravado can be displayed in due course where it counts. When the stuff hits the fan, the men stay and deal with the issue and the boys go running. The image of what is socially desirable in the popular media is often at odds with practical life. For example, the man who typically wears tight fitting jeans to highlight a bulge in front usually doesn't have an anatomy that functions well. I buy most of my wife's cosmetics, her fragrances, her feminine medicine, her sanitary napkins, etc. I know her garment and shoe sizes, and I also know what attire she likes. I know which flowers she likes. I have no problem buying her undergarments if instructed. The issue at hand is most women see such a man as just being a pervert. The feminine aisle at the pharmacy clears out whenever I arrive, which is just very convenient for me Men who cannot understand crying as a healthy form of emotional release are either incredibly repressed or just insensitive. Granted, nobody's demanding a guy to be John Boehner, who seems to cry whenever the sun hides behind a cloud, and totally loses it emotionally when his pizza is cold. The typical "macho" man in popular media doesn't have the wherewithal to withstand the sight of child birth, but has no issue with the act of procreation. The typical "macho" man is a wuss.
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RegardesPlatero
Knowflake Posts: 4367
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 16, 2012 08:19 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I do not like all of this idealization of Pisces moons. Don't forget that it's a passive sign, which means that they can be very sneaky and indirect, rather than confront you face-to-face, they will just avoid you and swim away. Rather than reprimand you, they'll get someone else to do it and fight their battles FOR them. There is no such thing as a "perfect" placement.Then again maybe that is just my 8th house moon/moon trine Pluto talking.
I also have an 8th house moon that's trine Pluto, and I get really annoyed when people just stop talking to me. However, I've just usually gotten along with Pisces moons. Mine is Cancer, so that probably has something to do with it. I like Scorpio moons too, even when I feel a bit intimidated by the intensity. They have a neat mix of being sensitive, but also tough. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted May 16, 2012 08:26 PM
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Originally posted by MessyLilLeo:
Course!
I'm all for everyone manifesting their masculine and feminine in their own way. I know I enjoy spending time doing yardwork, sometimes being the "breadwinner", making repairs or whatever. And sometimes I just want to spritz on some perfume and eat bonbons and paint my nails all day.
I don't like doing yard work, and I suck at doing anything mechanical, but I do appreciate my masculine side. Mine is just more internal/intellectual than it is practical--that is, my masculine side is more of a feeling and an energy than anything that I do outwardly. But it's definitely there.
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RegardesPlatero
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posted May 16, 2012 08:29 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Just to be clear, I'm a qualified airborne ranger and a double black belt in martial arts.Masculinity doesn't come from watching football, beer drinking, belching or passing wind. Those men are wussies. Real men can run households by themselves and still protect the homefront.
AMEN. The world would be a better place if men who "got it" would set up an international etiquette school or something that had chapters all over the place. There needs to be like a program or something that teaches this to boys early on in life.
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 10771
From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 09:59 PM
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Originally posted by extant_pisces:
^^^^ Eww, those are some rank-and-skeezy sounding moves. I know a lot of women who were not at all that way at 21, and I'm not inclined to believe times have changed much. You just won't necessarily find them at bars and clubs, more like (what's left of) bookstores, museums, and public libraries ...campus quad/student centres are good spots too.
you would be suprised.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 10771
From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 10:03 PM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
[b]Stop going to bars and clubs. Go to brainy places like the library or museum or even the bank [psst... the successful ones don't have time for clubs, and the rich ones in clubs are spoilt brats]. Go to church. It always does you well. Go to classical music recietals and jazz concerts. Dress well and girls will notice you.I was called boring too. Till I drove by the same girls who called me boring but wanted to get into my
Porsche.
Good advice YTA he does have bad luck doesn't he?
He's young though so he should believe in himself. If he thinks it's hard now, wait until he gets a taste of his 1st Saturn return...[/B][/QUOTE] you forget that I have sun conjunct Saturn, so Saturn hasnt given me a break since birth.IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Knowflake Posts: 4409
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 10:04 PM
^^That sucks sorry to hear that....IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 7045
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posted May 16, 2012 10:05 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Cool what town?
Seymour, Tennessee, a couple miles south of Knoxville. Seemed pretty rural to me for it to be so close to town IP: Logged |
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