posted July 11, 2012 03:54 AM            

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Originally posted by neptunicity:
Lol, yeah i do have venus in aries too, but i think the pisces sun and moon overpowers the venus in aries, lol. The only venus in aries thing that i've done so far is trying to befriend someone that i have a crush on, if he doesn't know me yet and we happen to have a common friend. Or initiate a friendly "what's up?" message to a total cute guy stranger in a social network site. If he doesn't respond then that's the end. But to save my ego, i message them with a picture-less profile first, to see if a guy is "shallow" or "snobbish", lol. Also, if a guy already knows me and hasn't expressed any interest regardless of whether he knows that i like him or not, then i forget about it, and i'll never do anything to make us bond. He's the guy, he should initiate, lol.

Anyway, you're a gemini, it's a social sign, plus you have all these "go-getter" signs with the exception of cancer, so you must be pretty direct, lol. I noticed too, that when a gemini likes someone, they make it known asap, and they're pretty obvious, lol. I'm thinking at the back of my mind, "We're not even close friends yet. Don't you want to befriend and get to know me better first before dropping hints?" lol. They are fast in admitting their feelings. :-)

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^holmes u have the placements of my crush! Actually more of my mom coz she has Pisces moon too. My crush is a Taurus moon.

posted July 11, 2012 04:19 AM            

But it also depends on which crush you talking about; the lustful crush or the “really nice guy” crush? Coz when it comes to the latter, I’m very forward. I really don’t waste time with that as I expect nothing in return.

When it comes to the lust crush however, the personality of the party hasn’t been inspected closely, so I am only seeing what I want to see.

In that instance, I am more defensive, indifferent and aloof; it’s a defense mechanism as I have my self-interests therein, it is purely dependent on reciprocity- which may/may not be forthcoming because I may be judged purely on the way I look.

posted July 11, 2012 04:43 AM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
Ooh, this is tricky lol.

When it comes to confessing my interest on a crush, I never do. It is almost always based on pure lust and the feelings are much like the effect of Eros (nervous stomach, trembling, incoherent speech, stammering, inability to look at person in the eye etc.)

But it also depends on which crush you talking about; the lustful crush or the “really nice guy� crush? Coz when it comes to the latter, I’m very forward. I really don’t waste time with that as I expect nothing in return.

When it comes to the lust crush however, the personality of the party hasn’t been inspected closely, so I am only seeing what I want to see.

In that instance, I am more defensive, indifferent and aloof; it’s a defense mechanism as I have my self-interests therein, it is purely dependent on reciprocity- which may/may not be forthcoming because I may be judged purely on the way I look.

When it comes to that, I NEVER tell and let the other make the first move. I’ll make eye contact though, just to see if my hopes have a chance or if the guy is indifferent.

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posted July 11, 2012 04:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

"to love pure and chaste from afar" thing.

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posted July 11, 2012 05:22 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
Then I apologize and confess my love!

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But will they believe you then or think you are still playing a game?

posted July 11, 2012 05:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Venus:
Ceri, i laughed so hard at that quote cause although it's sweet its also quite sad and it's exactly what i have been through..

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Well, I speak from experience. I must be the female Don Quixote.
And yes it is sad, isn`t it?

posted July 11, 2012 05:41 AM            

I don't really crush very often (well, OK, not counting my obsession with Cary Grant and other dead celebrities/fictional characters lol). It hasn't happened in real life several years, thank God.

I've only confessed a crush once or twice, when I was still a teenager. Never, ever, ever again lol. Being a Venus in Scorpio, my angsty-ness was amped up to 11 when I was a teen. Suffice to say that I freaked the other person out by being super-intense and was turned down. Oddly enough, I got over it very quickly. I feel bad about doing that, and I definitely cringe and regret it when I think about it, but, on the other hand, I've forgiven myself for it. I just hope that the other person forgot about it/got over it, since it was such a long time ago. I don't really know that I ever really liked that person so much as what I thought that person was or the idea of that person. That's been true of all of my crushes, really. I don't know that I've ever truly loved another person for real.

These days, if God forbid I'd crush on someone, I'd ignore it and not say anything. I'd just make myself get over it and move on.

Telling someone that you like them gives them power over you. My Venus in Scorpio doesn't like that one bit.

Whenever people have confessed crushes to me (as in, crushes on me), or have asked me out, I've tended to have two reactions. In my teens and 20s, before being assaulted and harassed, I felt a bit weirded out and it always came out of nowhere; I could never see it coming. I honestly was not really overly concerned with the other person's feelings and could be a bit of a 'vamp' and a bit unkind. That was for guys. For girls who were into me, I was touched and a bit flattered, but since I didn't return the feelings, I let them down gently and was friends with them (until I lost touch with some and stopped talking to others for reasons that were completely unrelated). I didn't see it coming with them, either.

These days, I can smell it coming a mile away. I feel angry when people ask me out and hit on me; it upsets me. If I have to see the person, I won't speak to them. I've only had a few women hit on me (though none have confessed feelings for me) since I was assaulted and harassed (the harasser was a woman) and today I feel almost as uncomfortable when women do it as when guys do.

posted July 11, 2012 05:48 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
Haha, I would not.

I don't really crush very often (well, OK, not counting my obsession with Cary Grant and other dead celebrities/fictional characters lol). It hasn't happened in real life several years, thank God.

I've only confessed a crush once or twice, when I was still a teenager. Never, ever, ever again lol. Being a Venus in Scorpio, my angsty-ness was amped up to 11 when I was a teen. Suffice to say that I freaked the other person out by being super-intense and was turned down. Oddly enough, I got over it very quickly. I feel bad about doing that, and I definitely cringe and regret it when I think about it, but, on the other hand, I've forgiven myself for it. I just hope that the other person forgot about it/got over it, since it was such a long time ago. I don't really know that I ever really liked that person so much as what I thought that person was or the idea of that person. That's been true of all of my crushes, really. I don't know that I've ever truly loved another person for real.

These days, if God forbid I'd crush on someone, I'd ignore it and not say anything. I'd just make myself get over it and move on.

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posted July 11, 2012 05:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
Well...they say third time's the charm. Don't be a negtive scorpio!!

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meh...I'm not really into relationships.

When I was a teen, I always thought that it was what I wanted, but, as I got older, I realized it was the idea of romance that I liked, not the actual thing. Actually being asked out and flirted with and hit on was--and still is, though it's more intense today--extremely awkward and uncomfortable for me for the most part.

I appreciate your reply, though.

posted July 11, 2012 05:54 AM            

My way of letting a guy know I'm into him is just to flirt, smile, laugh at his jokes, touch him... it seems so basic I guess. Isn't this what everyone does?

I wouldn't tell him that I'm into him - verbally. I'm more physical in my display of affection. I lack air in my chart.
I like having a good Mercury aspect with the guy - because then they understand my manner of communicating.
Scorpio Mercury works best with my Pisces Merc.

I've also noticed that I'm very physically in tune with a guy when I care about him.
This might be my Mars/Neptune conjunction - but it almost feels like a dance between us - and I can feel the way he moves... deep down. I can just FEEL him - so I know what to do instinctively.. on a body language level.

Sun - Aries
Moon - Cap
AC - Cancer
Mercury - Pisces
Venus - Taurus
Mars - Capricorn

posted July 11, 2012 07:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

But will they believe you then or think you are still playing a game?

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posted July 11, 2012 07:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

But will they believe you then or think you are still playing a game?

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posted July 11, 2012 07:35 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
Haha, I would not.

I don't really crush very often (well, OK, not counting my obsession with Cary Grant and other dead celebrities/fictional characters lol). It hasn't happened in real life several years, thank God.

I've only confessed a crush once or twice, when I was still a teenager. Never, ever, ever again lol. Being a Venus in Scorpio, my angsty-ness was amped up to 11 when I was a teen. Suffice to say that I freaked the other person out by being super-intense and was turned down. Oddly enough, I got over it very quickly. I feel bad about doing that, and I definitely cringe and regret it when I think about it, but, on the other hand, I've forgiven myself for it. I just hope that the other person forgot about it/got over it, since it was such a long time ago. I don't really know that I ever really liked that person so much as what I thought that person was or the idea of that person. That's been true of all of my crushes, really. I don't know that I've ever truly loved another person for real.

These days, if God forbid I'd crush on someone, I'd ignore it and not say anything. I'd just make myself get over it and move on.

Telling someone that you like them gives them power over you. My Venus in Scorpio doesn't like that one bit.

Whenever people have confessed crushes to me (as in, crushes on me), or have asked me out, I've tended to have two reactions. In my teens and 20s, before being assaulted and harassed, I felt a bit weirded out and it always came out of nowhere; I could never see it coming. I honestly was not really overly concerned with the other person's feelings and could be a bit of a 'vamp' and a bit unkind. That was for guys. For girls who were into me, I was touched and a bit flattered, but since I didn't return the feelings, I let them down gently and was friends with them (until I lost touch with some and stopped talking to others for reasons that were completely unrelated). I didn't see it coming with them, either.

These days, I can smell it coming a mile away. I feel angry when people ask me out and hit on me; it upsets me. If I have to see the person, I won't speak to them. I've only had a few women hit on me (though none have confessed feelings for me) since I was assaulted and harassed (the harasser was a woman) and today I feel almost as uncomfortable when women do it as when guys do.

I felt uncomfortable before being assaulted and harassed, but afterwards, it amplified it quite a bit. It added the feelings of being threatened and violated to the feelings of discomfort that already existed.

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posted July 11, 2012 07:44 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
Maybe! can I cry that I have no air too and it's difficult for me to express feelings and Schitt?

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I am just imagining you running up to your crush, crying: I HAVE NO AIR.

Yeah, that will do the trick, I am sure.

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Hey I almost have no Earth (only Venus), does that mean I don`t have to pay my bills?

posted July 11, 2012 07:46 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ceridwen:
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But will they believe you then or think you are still playing a game?

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Oh yes, you are so right.
Moon-square-Venus you say? Holy S**t!
That explains it all. He is DOOMED.

posted July 11, 2012 07:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

I am just imagining you running up to your crush, crying: I HAVE NO AIR.

Yeah, that will do the trick, I am sure.

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Hey I almost have no Earth (only Venus), does that mean I don`t have to pay my bills?

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U're a Venus singleton, Ceri?? How did I not know that???

posted July 11, 2012 08:05 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
meh...I'm not really into relationships.

When I was a teen, I always thought that it was what I wanted, but, as I got older, I realized it was the idea of romance that I liked, not the actual thing. Actually being asked out and flirted with and hit on was--and still is, though it's more intense today--extremely awkward and uncomfortable for me for the most part.

I appreciate your reply, though.

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RegardesPlatero....
Could you do me a favor and read the link I provide you?
http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Loved-Someone-That-Didnt-Love-Me/47

posted July 11, 2012 08:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
U're a Venus singleton, Ceri?? How did I not know that???

And yes I'm still around. lol

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posted July 11, 2012 08:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
U're a Venus singleton, Ceri?? How did I not know that???

And yes I'm still around. lol

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I was thinking of you and how you enjoy your holiday. Oh you cheated, hu?
Can`t stay away?

And yes I am a Venus-singleton. Only planet in Earth.
My chart is full of singletons actually. lol

Sun-Mercury-conjunction unaspected to others
Moon unaspected
Uranus unaspected (using the usual tight 5 degree orb for unaspected planets)
Saturn only planet in Western half of the chart (though a singleton as well)
Venus Earth singleton

posted July 11, 2012 08:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
You were never not around Hera...Never...
You didn't answer the thread. Your turn!

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posted July 11, 2012 08:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

I was thinking of you and how you enjoy your holiday. Oh you cheated, hu?
Can`t stay away?

And yes I am a Venus-singleton. Only planet in Earth.
My chart is full of singletons actually. lol

Sun-Mercury-conjunction unaspected to others
Moon unaspected
Uranus unaspected (using the usual tight 5 degree orb for unaspected planets)
Saturn only planet in Western half of the chart (though a singleton as well)
Venus Earth singleton

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I still have your chart, I'm gonna take a looksie!
Though I think for unaspected planets you can go with wider orbs.