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Topic: How do you confess to your crush that you like/love him/her?
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sand
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posted July 11, 2012 08:36 AM
  
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
 I am just imagining you running up to your crush, crying: I HAVE NO AIR. Yeah, that will do the trick, I am sure. 
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Hey I almost have no Earth (only Venus), does that mean I don`t have to pay my bills?
Lol hey if she understands what that means I may have found the one! IP: Logged |
sand
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posted July 11, 2012 08:41 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
(using the usual tight 5 degree orb for unaspected planets)
Quick question mars 22 Scorpio opposite sun 16 Taurus. Unaspected mars or because it is the sun allowed higher orbs? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 11, 2012 08:56 AM
I would count 6 degree opposition between two personal planets in sign definitely.I am stricter with my Uranus-Sun/MErcury-sextile, because it is out of sign. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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From: En Cee
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 09:46 AM
I do not always outright say it, but my actions say everything. I am one of those silly girls who is nice to the guy and I think someone else mentioned it, but I'd probably draw a picture or bake a cupcake or something for him. I'd more likely say "I like you" than confess love, I tend to watch the other person's actions and words before I confess love. I have told someone I love them before and they turned me down. But in my defense I was an infatuated teenager. :P but it is always overly obvious whether I say it or not.I realize this can come off as overbearing to others even when it's not my intention. Leo sun, venus and mercury, Aries moon and Taurus Mars Venus Sq Pluto, Mars opp Pluto IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted July 11, 2012 09:51 AM
I don't... I hide it  sometimes that doesn't work in my favor but that's just me lolIP: Logged |
Hera
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 11, 2012 03:21 PM
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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
So...people in LL. Let's hear it. How do you confess yourlove to your crush??? If you can add the actual action you took previously,that would be best.Please, SUN/MOON/AC/VENUS/MARS details would greatly increase the interest. ;-)
The truth is I rarely tell them. The more intense I feel, the more I conceal. That's because when I'm in, I'm in. No half measures. And there's probably nothing I wouldn't do for them/with them, if it's not illegal, unethical or imposed on me. Why would I let them in on that, let them know they have such power over me? Gives a scary girl alert and I have yet to meet a man who doesn't find that overwhelming or intimidating and can play in my league. It needs to be earned, not given for free. So I guess I'll save it for when I do. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 03:27 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
The truth is I rarely tell them. The more intense I feel, the more I conceal. That's because when I'm in, I'm in. No half measures. And there's probably nothing I wouldn't do for them/with them, if it's not illegal, unethical or imposed on me. Why would I let them in on that, let them know they have such power over me? Gives a scary girl alert and I have yet to meet a man
who doesn't find that overwhelming or intimidating and can play in my league. It needs to be earned, not given for free. So I guess I'll save it for when I do.
Wow Hera you're beautiful. No I'm not flirting lol just stating a fact. IP: Logged |
AshSkye
Knowflake Posts: 84
From: Leicester
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 03:31 PM
Subtly watch their every move until you know they can be trusted, then get close to them, subtle flirting and let them work it out themselves, failing that tell them subtly Sun- Gemini
Moon and Venus- Taurus
ASC- Scorpio
Mars- Leo/Virgo cusp IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 11, 2012 03:57 PM
I don't ever "confess" either. Ever. I'll wait forever before confessing. Usually I think they're interested in someone else after awhile and distance myself. Otherwise I will try inviting them some place as a friend (like a group hang out) and if they decline in any way then I move on. With a hand to my forehead and a glance cast down...IP: Logged |
Hera
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 11, 2012 03:58 PM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Wow Hera you're beautiful. No I'm not flirting lol just stating a fact.
Hehe, it takes one to know one! And I'm not flirting either, in case auntie Fishy is reading this  Wassup, auntie? IP: Logged |
Hera
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 11, 2012 04:02 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I don't ever "confess" either. Ever. I'll wait forever before confessing. Usually I think they're interested in someone else after awhile and distance myself. Otherwise I will try inviting them some place as a friend (like a group hang out) and if they decline in any way then I move on. With a hand to my forehead and a glance cast down...
You think this might be an Aries thing, Hanna? That maybe we're too proud people? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 04:03 PM
lol all you people with your subtle hints... IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 11, 2012 04:09 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
You think this might be an Aries thing, Hanna? That maybe we're too proud people?
Definitely! I think it has to do with the "warrior" image an Aries has of themself. To admit we feel more than indifference to someone leaves us quite scared and vulnerable hence we want to cover that "weakness" as quickly as possible. Oh, I'm also Gem ASC, Aries sun, Taurus moon, Aries Venus IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 3133
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posted July 11, 2012 04:12 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
lol all you people with your subtle hints...
You mean me, don't you?  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 3389
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 04:15 PM
no,i wasnt talking about youIP: Logged |
Hera
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posted July 11, 2012 04:18 PM
Who, then?  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted July 11, 2012 04:20 PM
lol subtle hintsIP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Moderator Posts: 3689
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
lol subtle hints
Lol bro there's no hints here this is for the ladies http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ts5arg8c_Sw&feature=youtube_gdata_player IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted July 11, 2012 04:22 PM
Must be too subtle for my radar then  Ughh and you won't let me in on the gossip. No fun. Outta here!IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 11, 2012 04:23 PM
I remember though one time I DID confess.
It actually was in elementary school, and it probably was my first crush I`ve ever had. I even recall his name. Christian, a blonde blueeyed boy.
I was having a crush on him forever - well several weeks at least (which for a 9 year old girl IS like forever).
A "friend" told me he would like me and that I should tell him about my feelings.
(I should have known she was laying a trap, she was always trying to hurt me with something, either physically or like this time, emotionally).Well, I did. I told him. Maybe I shouldn`t have said: I love you. But still, what do you know at that age?
Sometimes I can still hear him laugh. The next time I had a real bad crush on someone; coincidentally a boy (blonde, green eyes) I knew from elementary school, though my crush-phase was MUCH later.
another girl, who noticed my feelings for him, would suddenly develop a strong interest in him and not much later got togehter with him just to dumb him shortly afterwards. It was never really about him, I guess, it was more to hurt me. And even though I definitely had my revenge - on a different level and I am not proud of it; I scared her out of her wits with a little bit of "esoteric touch"-, it DID hurt me.
The guy was a git though.
Then a little bit later, another crush (this time a guy with brown hair and brown eyes), I never really told him, and my best friend, who of course knew about it, didn`t have anything better to do than making out with him in front of my eyes. (the thing I can`t believe is how I STILL considered her my friend after this!).
So I guess it is quite easy to see WHY I want my crushes to be far away and in the distance.
Though recalling all this, methinks, I should rather think more deeply about the female "friends" I am gathering around me. lol
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ariesdragon
Moderator Posts: 3689
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 04:26 PM
Lol ceri you've had terrible frenemies IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 04:31 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Must be too subtle for my radar then Ughh and you won't let me in on the gossip. No fun. Outta here!
fine. IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 3133
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posted July 11, 2012 04:33 PM
Yes Ceri You should be more careful..My frenemies were actually worse, they went ahead and told the boy themselves and apparently he wasn't interested. Broke my little heart. Now I'm more like  Hands off, b****! IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Moderator Posts: 3689
From: Jupiter
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posted July 11, 2012 04:34 PM
LOL Hera! Good 1! IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted July 11, 2012 04:35 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
fine.
Fine!!! IP: Logged |
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