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Topic: How do you confess to your crush that you like/love him/her?
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Milkyshutter
Knowflake Posts: 154
From: Seoul, Korea
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 01:29 AM
  
So...people in LL. Let's hear it. How do you confess yourlove to your crush??? If you can add the actual action you took previously,that would be best.Please, SUN/MOON/AC/VENUS/MARS details would greatly increase the interest. ;-) IP: Logged |
heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 01:44 AM
no matter how strong I have the urge to tell him what I feel, I still wouldn't tell him. I just flirt with him subtly and wait for him to realize what I'm trying to say through my actions. I'm willing to wait, but not till forever.sun: virgo
moon: sagittarius
asc: libra
venus: scorpio
mars: cancer IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 4380
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posted July 11, 2012 01:47 AM
Frustrate them! oh to be so lucky to be crushed on by me lol! Rising and mars in Scorpio, Taurus sun and Venus, Leo moon. IP: Logged |
Gem-Gurl
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From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 01:52 AM
Lots of heavy flirting is my style! Iv never actually told a guy i love him. My Gemini sun doesnt want to be tied down, and my Cancer moon is hard to get close too, making it hard for me to REALLY fall in love. Im only 19 so im not worried lol. There is this guy though.... im starting to worry i might be falling in love with him. With this guy, id have to be suuuuuuuuuuper sure through actions and how he treats me that he really loves me before i say i love you. He sure as hell knows that i like/think hes hot though!!! Sun: Gemini
Moon: Cancer
ASC: Scorpio
Venus: Aries
Mars: Leo Btw, greaaaaaaat topic idea!!!  im curious to see what ppl say!! IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 510
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 01:53 AM
Rarely directly confess to them, I just create something that represents how I feel i.e. a painting, sketch, write something etc and show them maybe.
Cancer Sun, Taurus Asc & Mars, Gemini Venus and Moon.IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 11, 2012 01:57 AM
It has yet to happen but i'd probably say something like: "hey, so you know i love you right?"IP: Logged |
heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 02:07 AM
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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
It has yet to happen but i'd probably say something like: "hey, so you know i love you right?"
hehehe I was actually thinking of doing this! IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 4380
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Registered: May 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 02:11 AM
Damm ur answers all seem to be pretty sweet! IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
Moderator Posts: 3567
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 02:16 AM
Well, I don`t.
They are "secret crushes" for a reason.Sun in Sag
Moon in Aqua
Venus in Cappy square Pluto
Mars conjunct Neptune conjunct ASC in Sag IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
Knowflake Posts: 154
From: Seoul, Korea
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 02:29 AM
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Originally posted by Gem-Gurl:
Lots of heavy flirting is my style! Iv never actually told a guy i love him. My Gemini sun doesnt want to be tied down, and my Cancer moon is hard to get close too, making it hard for me to REALLY fall in love. Im only 19 so im not worried lol. There is this guy though.... im starting to worry i might be falling in love with him. With this guy, id have to be suuuuuuuuuuper sure through actions and how he treats me that he really loves me before i say i love you. He sure as hell knows that i like/think hes hot though!!! Sun: Gemini
Moon: Cancer
ASC: Scorpio
Venus: Aries
Mars: Leo Btw, greaaaaaaat topic idea!!! im curious to see what ppl say!!
You have Aries in Venus. Do you had time to think? You probably are already in love. Time to take that bold action Gem. Heaven willing, he feels the same for you. Heaven willing... IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
Knowflake Posts: 154
From: Seoul, Korea
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 02:30 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Well, I don`t.
They are "secret crushes" for a reason.Sun in Sag
Moon in Aqua
Venus in Cappy square Pluto
Mars conjunct Neptune conjunct ASC in Sag
Awww...comon...Will you never let the cat out of the bag? You never had the urge to just say it and get over with?? IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
Knowflake Posts: 154
From: Seoul, Korea
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 02:31 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
Frustrate them! oh to be so lucky to be crushed on by me lol! Rising and mars in Scorpio, Taurus sun and Venus, Leo moon.
How do you frustrate them?? IP: Logged |
doommlord
Knowflake Posts: 574
From: israel
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 02:32 AM
i never tell :P but i do flirt a bit and send signals that im interested...i guess i prefer to be pursued more than i do pursuing ^^sun libra
moon leo
venus scorpio
mars scorpio
ascendant pisces IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
Knowflake Posts: 154
From: Seoul, Korea
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 02:33 AM
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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
It has yet to happen but i'd probably say something like: "hey, so you know i love you right?"
It has yet to happen? Are you saying you never had a romantic relationship? Or are you saying that the guys/gals were always lining up for you? BTW... you are very direct. I think people will likethat.. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 3389
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 02:38 AM
just tell them! gemini mars, taurus moon in third house.IP: Logged |
Gem-Gurl
Knowflake Posts: 1425
From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 02:47 AM
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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
You have Aries in Venus. Do you had time to think? You probably are already in love. Time to take that bold action Gem. Heaven willing, he feels the same for you.Heaven willing...
Ohhhh fiddlesticks!! I do fear im in love with him... hes a sag... im a gem... such love/hate! But even when he agravates me.. im still thinking/dreaming and all about him. OOOO THAT DELICIOUSLY INFURIATING MAN!!!! Noooo bold actions yet!!! Hes a sag... gotta let him chase me a bit now dont i? But not ridiculously lol. He does have Venus in Scorpio.... you know, after analizing his chart to death, planningwhat i should say/do/act like, i finally decided to gain some maturness. Decided to be myself! Cuz after all, theres no point in acting like someone you arnt. He seems to think my naturally dorky self is adorable so it works out well!! Also, i learned that if i try and be like 'im going to say this and he will react like that' neeeever works with him! He is the exeption to every rule or thing i learned about men. Maybe thats why he facinates me. Omg,.i gotta stop blabbering  IP: Logged |
neptunicity
Knowflake Posts: 114
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 02:53 AM
Regarding the topic, i'll never make that initiative. I prefer to be sure first that they like me before i drop hints, or if they were to tell me that they like me first, then i'd probably confess that i also feel the same if i'm sure already of what i feel. But never will i make the first move, i'm too shy and careful for that, hehe. I'd just befriend my crush at the most.Sun - Pisces
Moon - Pisces
Venus - Aries
Mars - Taurus
Asc - Aquarius IP: Logged |
scorpy_oh
Knowflake Posts: 160
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Registered: May 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 02:55 AM
i'd tell them if my interest in them was intense. can't really contain it for too long. if it's not, then i don't say anything but admire from afar until it blows over and it usually does.i'd be inclined to write a note or something with my number in it and give it to them. so elementary i know but it works haha. playing games is such a bore to me, i guess. i'm usually spot on when someone does resort to playing hard to get, and i think "how typical" and move on. being genuine and straightforward is so rare nowadays. and i guess that i'm not scared of rejection which is why i'd be able to make the first move. having a healthy self-esteem helps and women pick up on that. scorpio sun/moon/mars, virgo venus and taurus asc. IP: Logged |
Gem-Gurl
Knowflake Posts: 1425
From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 02:56 AM
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Originally posted by neptunicity:
I'll never make that initiative, lol. I prefer to be sure first that they like me before i drop hints, or if they were to tell me that they like me first, then i'd probably confess that i also feel the same if i'm sure already of what i feel. But never will i make the first move, i'm too shy and careful for that, hehe. I'd just befriend my crush at the most.Sun - Pisces
Moon - Pisces
Venus - Aries
Mars - Taurus
Asc - Aquarius
But you also have Venus in Aries!!! I am more of a 'forward charge' in the flirting department! Confessing.. well i gotta know through hints that he also likes me. Lol but im fine with playing the flirting game! You should try and play up your V in A!! Its in there gurl!!!! Just get a good wink in there and your golden!  IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 4380
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Registered: May 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 02:59 AM
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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
How do you frustrate them??
By being forward without actually confessing anything. I am a taurus i can take my sweet time. It's a long drawn out obsessive game when i get a crush.. But yeah that would only work if the attraction were mutual.  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
Moderator Posts: 3567
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 03:00 AM
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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
Awww...comon...Will you never let the cat out of the bag? You never had the urge to just say it and get over with??
No, not really.
Well, not since I was a teenager at least.
I am really good in doing this "to love pure and chaste from afar" thing.
But for me crushes usually do not necessarily entail the urge to BE with them on a daily basis. Maybe that is different for me than for others.
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Ceridwen
Moderator Posts: 3567
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 03:02 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
By being forward without actually confessing anything. I am a taurus i can take my sweet time. It's a long drawn out obsessive game when i get a crush.. But yeah that would only work if the attraction were mutual.
What if they actually like you back and are hurt by this, because they take it as some form of rejection?
(well I am one to say this, given my last post  ).
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lilithpluto
Knowflake Posts: 1025
From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 03:03 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
Frustrate them! oh to be so lucky to be crushed on by me lol! Rising and mars in Scorpio, Taurus sun and Venus, Leo moon.
Hahaha how fortunate to b tortured.. me... i wld hv observed them n investigate for sometime.. i prob knw them more than i let on, more than they know i do. I'll stare a lot observing at some corner.. Then i'll subtly drop hints in a way thru flirting... but really, the more i like a person the less I am confident abt flirting.. One fine day, i'll muster the courage to ask his date n time of birth evn if i alrdy knw. I nvr ask bday of ppl i hv no interest in, ladies or gentlemen... Conversation flows there after ... Astrology. First, courage. "So, what is yr date of birth? " I observe. Always engage in conversation of the subject one is most confident abt n one will nvr go wrong... the impression of one at his most excited, most passionate will nvr fail to make an impression. That is what i learnt fr the ppl i like. Leo Sun
Aquarius Moon
Gemini Venus
Libra Mars, Pluto, Lilith, Ascendant
Cancer Mercury square Libra Mars IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 4380
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Registered: May 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 03:16 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
What if they actually like you back and are hurt by this, because they take it as some form of rejection?
(well I am one to say this, given my last post ).
Then I apologize and confess my love! IP: Logged |
neptunicity
Knowflake Posts: 114
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 03:35 AM
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Originally posted by Gem-Gurl:
But you also have Venus in Aries!!! I am more of a 'forward charge' in the flirting department! Confessing.. well i gotta know through hints that he also likes me. Lol but im fine with playing the flirting game! You should try and play up your V in A!! Its in there gurl!!!! Just get a good wink in there and your golden!
Lol, yeah i do have venus in aries too, but i think the pisces sun and moon overpowers the venus in aries, lol. The only venus in aries thing that i've done so far is trying to befriend someone that i have a crush on, if he doesn't know me yet and we happen to have a common friend. Or initiate a friendly "what's up?" message to a total cute guy stranger in a social network site. If he doesn't respond then that's the end. But to save my ego, i message them with a picture-less profile first, to see if a guy is "shallow" or "snobbish", lol. Also, if a guy already knows me and hasn't expressed any interest regardless of whether he knows that i like him or not, then i forget about it, and i'll never do anything to make us bond. He's the guy, he should initiate, lol. Anyway, you're a gemini, it's a social sign, plus you have all these "go-getter" signs with the exception of cancer, so you must be pretty direct, lol. I noticed too, that when a gemini likes someone, they make it known asap, and they're pretty obvious, lol. I'm thinking at the back of my mind, "We're not even close friends yet. Don't you want to befriend and get to know me better first before dropping hints?" lol. They are fast in admitting their feelings. :-)
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