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Topic: Aquarius Men?
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2012 02:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: Good luck trying to peg us! lol Aqua sun, moon, and mercury here
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: I understand that this is your take on Aquarius men. Nevertheless... easy to read an Aqua? That part made me laugh. I've been told repeatedly I'm "a complete mystery" by one person, "completely impenetrable" by another, that I can't be figured out by another still, and the list goes on. Yes, it is actual detachment, not necessarily shyness or insecurity. Don't know who the Aqua men you've known are, but that description doesn't fit me at all. Rules by Saturn and Uranus, we're like a fortress, and constantly changing behind it all, so, can't be pegged. I'm wondering if the behaviors you're describing are simply patterns you're observed, and not how these men rally are on a regular basis.
So you're saying that aquas are just so unpredictable that they can't be described by one common personality profile at all? You said you were detached, but you didn't describe why. Not once have either of you tried to describe yourselves to us so we can understand you better. All you seem to keep doing is refute anyone who tries to describe you, but not with a description of what you're really like, rather just saying you're the contrary of whatever that person describes you as. Sounds like the rebellion of uranus to me. I think you enjoy being seen as a complete mystery. Whatever we say about aquas, you and aquaguy are gonna say "Good luck trying to peg us! but no you're wrong." Must be the rebellion of uranus that tries to defy anyone who tries to label you as "predictable" in any way. "Easy to read an aqua? that part made me laugh." You really pride yourself on being a supposed mystery, huh. Well, this cancer sun can read you better thank you think. And yes, I do think it's easy to read an aqua. Thank you. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6646 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 02:45 AM
your so feisty RAS lolIP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2012 02:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: your so feisty RAS lol
As usual, you try to change the subject, aquaguy. EDIT: And I am Very low tolerance for BS. I have a lot of uranus so I hate when anyone tries to peg me lol. But I'm not this bad :P !
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6646 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 02:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: As usual, you try to change the subject, aquaguy.
you will never understand the ways of the aquaman. OK perhaps its possible with lots and lots of meditation,but you must be patient child.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2012 02:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: [QUOTE]Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: [b] As usual, you try to change the subject, aquaguy.
you will never understand the ways of the aquaman. OK perhaps its possible with lots and lots of meditation,but you must be patient child.[/B][/QUOTE]LOL
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Junethird Moderator Posts: 3194 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 13, 2012 03:02 AM
RAS has some good points... After living with my brothers lol... Aquas are not unpredictable... Eccentric, yes. Unpredictable, no. Thats a gemini, since you dont know which personality will show up lol. If anything, Aquas, are just freedom lovers, rebellious. They want to make their own rules and march at the beat of their own drum... And like geminis, you you say yes, they say no lol they like to argue everything to death... IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6646 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 03:04 AM
I see you are learning to control those cancer emotions RAS.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2012 03:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I see you are learning to control those cancer emotions RAS.
I see you feel threatened because someone else agrees with me =) ------------------ "Being important is nice, but being nice is more important." =0) $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6646 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 03:20 AM
don't be naive RAS, i'm confident in knowing I'm right. I'm right so much I should be a machine. I don't want to be a machine, I want to be a human being!IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2012 03:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: don't be naive RAS, i'm confident in knowing I'm right. I'm right so much I should be a machine. I don't want to be a machine, I want to be a human being!
huh? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6646 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 03:29 AM
see! you just proved that you do not understand our ways .IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2012 03:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: see! you just proved that you do not understand our ways .
lol. thats not clever. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6646 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 03:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: lol. thats not clever.
it was brilliant actually, thanks for noticing. IP: Logged |
Lava Flower Knowflake Posts: 422 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 03:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: I agree with what everyone has said about aqua guys. I just wanted to add that since the sun is weak in aquarius, the moon sign will be a lot more visible than in other people with different sun sign signs. A virgo moon aqua will probably be shyer than most aquas and really try not to draw attention to himself.From my experience, aquariuses are emotional people. (Guys, guys, this is MY experience. Do not attack me if it doesn't match yours). They are pretty shy to show it though, but they are also very sentimental. They are proud, they are stubborn (and very opinionated too!). But beneath all of that and their apparent nonchalance they are emotional and sensitive. Never as emotional as a water sign, ever. But, yes emotional. Air signs hate feelings. They want to appear rational and logical at all times, so they try to cover it up. But aquariuses tend to lack self confidence. This will be obvious especially when you get to know them. I get very close to aquas....have had two aquarius best friends, and all my aquarius friendships both guy and girls have been intense and bonded. I feel that i understand them pretty well. Lots of inner conflict there. But they are pretty straightforward people. They dont try to hide their motives or be sneaky like libra and gemini might tend to do. It's easy to read an aqua. The apparent detachment, is similar to capricorn's awkwardness in giving affection. It's shyness and insecurity, not actual detachment. That's it. I've even had aquas tell me that they felt shy to make eye contact. They seem like rebels and everything but i find them to be different than the strong detached image they seem on the outside. Oh and i agree very intellectual . Always be prepared to discuss possibilities about what may and might not be.
That has been my experience too. All I have to say is wait and see what happens when they actually fall in love. They are putty in the girls hands. They are devoted, supportive, respectful, open, sentimental and sooo mushy and soft and romantic. Its like they save that part of themselves for that one special person who they desperately want to connect to, who they want to be completely known by, and loved by. Someone who they can grow with. There isn't anything they won't do for the one that is special to them. Its a privilege to get to see that intimate side. If you are serious about the Aqua man, be patient and get to know him as a friend first. If you are their friend first, you are virtually irreplaceable. Do not underestimate Aquarian love and loyalty. They are an ever evolving mystery I them. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2012 03:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: it was brilliant actually, thanks for noticing.
yawn. still not clever. Yay. More people who agree with me. That's right aquaguy. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6646 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 03:56 AM
Ok RAS you can believe we are extremely emotional and sensitive if you want to. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2012 04:36 AM
It's not about that. It's about the fact that you refuse to talk about yourself or describe yourself at all. Fine. I guess peachbeigeblue will never really understand aqua men, except from other non-aquarians' perspectives.IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1278 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 04:41 AM
It's usually those who claim to be able to "read an Aqua" who can't. :PIP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Knowflake Posts: 4367 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 13, 2012 05:35 AM
I had one Aquarius have a crush on me several years ago when I was in my late teens. It did not work out well. He wasn't a bad person or anything. We just had zero in common: different religious beliefs, different political beliefs, he was MUCH less social that I am, didn't like some of his opinions on things, etc. We didn't "click". There was no connection at all. I just never reciprocated those feelings. So, we never dated or anything. In general, I think that Aquarius and Libra are better for friends than romance. We do have some key differences. Aquarians are much more stubborn than we are. They aren't as concerned about manners, style, propriety, and being socially correct as we are, though Libra influences will help tone that down. They are more concerned with being "unique" and unconventional. We Libras like to be loved and to stand out for our elegance, beauty, grace, etc., but to fit in enough to be accepted. Our tastes are often very different. The only way that I can see Aquarius and Libra having anything in common is intellectual interests or humanitarian ones, but other than that, not much. I do have one dear friend who's Aquarius sun, Pisces Venus, Libra moon. She's delightful . Another delightful person that is my friend is Libra sun, Virgo Venus, Aquarius moon.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6646 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 10:28 AM
I'm just playing , OK I am going to give you the run down. The most important thing to remember is never pressure us to do something, we hate feeling fenced in or obligated, if we say no to you don't freak out and get emotional, this will only be counter productive,if you are calm and accept it, you may be suprised to find that we change our mind once we have time to think about it. Don't categorize things as cool/ uncool (this annoys me, I can't speak for other aquas though). Don't get mad at us for being ourselves, or be judgemental in general. And the emotions part, yes we do have them, we just suck at expressing them, it just feels awkward, so if we are expressing our feelings to you then you must be pretty f*cking special! contrary to popular belief, we aren't near as commitment phobic as we are made out to be, we enjoy spending time with our women and all that entails, but for God's sake please don't be ridiculously clingy and freak out if we don't text you within 10 minutes,we just need room to breatheIP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1278 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 10:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by Junethird: RAS has some good points... After living with my brothers lol... Aquas are not unpredictable... Eccentric, yes. Unpredictable, no. Thats a gemini, since you dont know which personality will show up lol. If anything, Aquas, are just freedom lovers, rebellious. They want to make their own rules and march at the beat of their own drum... And like geminis, you you say yes, they say no lol they like to argue everything to death...
My brother is a Gemini and none of what you've said applies to him. I've also worked with Geminis, and none of them were unpredictable or anything else of what you've described. I also have several Aquarius friends. My dad is also an Aquarius. You can never tell what they're going to do or say next. So, yes, Aquarians are the unpredictable ones, not Gemini. Unreadable, unpredictable... unbeatable! lol
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Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 1474 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted August 13, 2012 11:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: First, aloof =/= underconfident. Second, Aquarians....uncomplicated? LOL!
A+ for being rude and egotistical. Lovely IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6646 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 11:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaming111: A+ for being rude and egotistical. Lovely
how is he being rude and egotistical? he's just giving you his opinion. not sure how you came to that conclusion. IP: Logged |
Junethird Moderator Posts: 3194 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 13, 2012 11:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: My brother is a Gemini and none of what you've said applies to him. I've also worked with Geminis, and none of them were unpredictable or anything else of what you've described. I also have several Aquarius friends. My dad is also an Aquarius. You can never tell what they're going to do or say next. So, yes, Aquarians are the unpredictable ones, not Gemini. Unreadable, unpredictable... unbeatable! lol
Don't take it personally this is my experience growing up with aquas. My brother is Gemini Asc/aqua sun, moon in cap, lol he isn't unpredictable at all, all he wants to do is travel and be a beach bum. My Second bro is an aqua/sag and is all about being his obnoxious self and once you say yes, for the heck of it he will choose the opposite for giggles. They both argue everything to death and they enjoy being controversial. Iam a Gemini sun/merc and geminis are predictable in the fact that they are unpredictable.
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12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1278 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 11:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaming111: A+ for being rude and egotistical. Lovely
Interesting, since Leo is the sign of ego, and Aquarius is opposite Leo. My comment on top was an equal sign with a slash through it (aka, aloof does not equal under-confident. It can actually indicate the opposite.) IP: Logged |