posted August 17, 2012 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
AH! Another one! That makes at least 3 I know of so far. You, aquaguy91, and myself. I also have Mercury (in Rx) in Aqua in the 12th.

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posted August 17, 2012 02:58 PM            

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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Thank you My Aquarian friend def has a sharp/sarcastic sense of humour. At times his biting remarks leave people feeling cold. Im a Sag and used to my bluntness putting some people off, so his sarcastic comments dont faze me.

he is really really random though. Sometimes he is on endless funny mode, then blurts out something sentimental. Or he disappears for a few weeks, and pops out unannounced at the oddest moments. Very quirky but fascinating.

The Aquarius I dated, had told me the big "I love you" and called me nearly every night. We spent a lot of time together, and he knew I loved him back.

One night after a run to Taco Bell, he pulled over by the roadside and said "will you agree to be my girlfriend?" I was floored, the whole five months Id thought we were already girlfriend/boyfriend, and told him just that. He said "I said I love you, which is sincere but now its official if you say yes". Lol how random but cute is that? I think its the element of surprise that makes Aquarians so fascinating, not one other sign holds a candle to the uniqueness of Aqualand.

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posted August 17, 2012 03:43 PM            

I think it just boils down to the whole opposite-sign thing. I have two good guy friends who are Aquarians (one Virgo Moon, one Gemini Moon) and they're generally nice guys but their odd little behaviors puzzle me. Basically, it's not uncommon for me to feel like they're blowing me off or something because whatever else they're doing (or whatever other friends they're with) is more important at the moment. And there's rarely any sort of direct apology for it or even a confrontation about it unless I bring it up. They just always act like I'm supposed to be cool with it.

I feel like their whole detached outlook makes them feel like it's acceptable to do whatever they feel like doing. Plus, I don't really get the whole "everyone is my friend and everyone's equal" attitude. I definitely play favorites and have my own "inner circle". I can't help it. I like making certain people in my life feel special to me, because they are. But I rarely feel like an Aquarius guy would do the same. Everyone's special to them, which is commendable, I guess, in its own right.

My aforementioned friends are both very smart and original and interesting and usually kind people. But, I get the overwhelming desire to just smack them sometimes.

posted August 18, 2012 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
This is an interesting topic. As a Leo Sun guy, I tend to have a hard time with Aquarius Sun men. I don't have any negative bias against them, but I often just don't GET them and I usually find them frustrating.

I think it just boils down to the whole opposite-sign thing. I have two good guy friends who are Aquarians (one Virgo Moon, one Gemini Moon) and they're generally nice guys but their odd little behaviors puzzle me. Basically, it's not uncommon for me to feel like they're blowing me off or something because whatever else they're doing (or whatever other friends they're with) is more important at the moment. And there's rarely any sort of direct apology for it or even a confrontation about it unless I bring it up. They just always act like I'm supposed to be cool with it.

I feel like their whole detached outlook makes them feel like it's acceptable to do whatever they feel like doing. Plus, I don't really get the whole "everyone is my friend and everyone's equal" attitude. I definitely play favorites and have my own "inner circle". I can't help it. I like making certain people in my life feel special to me, because they are. But I rarely feel like an Aquarius guy would do the same. Everyone's special to them, which is commendable, I guess, in its own right.

My aforementioned friends are both very smart and original and interesting and usually kind people. But, I get the overwhelming desire to just smack them sometimes.

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posted May 28, 2013 04:22 AM            

first off im a cap sun moon libra and aries asc....so most of the time their aqua placements will trine my moon and will fall in my 11th/12th house...youd be surprised how 12th house can really cause strong attractions but its usually the guy feeling more for me....wen they fall in my 11th i feel very very similiar to them, as if they are my ultimate friends so the attraction usually doesnt go past friendship but since aquariuses love their lovers as friends most the time they start to like me for more...when theyre in my 12th from every one of them theyve told me im beautiful or that i have a beautiful soul.....i like those aquas ))

theres always an attraction there with them but theres just something always in the way that prevents us from actually commiting to a relationship and most of the time its on my part....from what i can sense from aquas is that they are troubled... ive got this feeling from each one that ive met. and everyone has issues but its almost like aqua men are "girly". this is why they like a dominant woman. an eccentric one just like themselves so they feel accepted for feeling "different". because they are i havnt met an aquarius that is ur typical "mans man". theyre all very into girls/hopeless romantics. some have no standards at all and some have high ones but nonthless they still pay a lot of attention to women. for me they dont have the charm that i look for. theyre kinda horrible at flirting which my libra moon loves, and they just dont have the charm aspect for me. they "act" like they dont care too much and they do this out of fear of rejection, making them seem even more sensitive. i dont want a guy whos more sensitive than me good lawd so this is another turn off.

idk there always seems to be this frustration with them, they seem like theyre what i need but then theres just something off about it, like i feel like i become their caretaker every time or that i need to teach them something, i just feel way ahead of them lol in terms of the mind and emotional stability.

i have scorpio venus so im not afraid to feel my emotions. this could be why. they run from their emotions so i view them as immature and not up to par for me. i need a more dominant man not a girly one.

they make good friends though but itll probably only be as friends unless they have scorpio asc or moon or friggin something making them fearless

posted May 28, 2013 05:57 AM            

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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
i attract a lot of aquarius guys so maybe i can give some input to help....

first off im a cap sun moon libra and aries asc....so most of the time their aqua placements will trine my moon and will fall in my 11th/12th house...youd be surprised how 12th house can really cause strong attractions but its usually the guy feeling more for me....wen they fall in my 11th i feel very very similiar to them, as if they are my ultimate friends so the attraction usually doesnt go past friendship but since aquariuses love their lovers as friends most the time they start to like me for more...when theyre in my 12th from every one of them theyve told me im beautiful or that i have a beautiful soul.....i like those aquas ))

theres always an attraction there with them but theres just something always in the way that prevents us from actually commiting to a relationship and most of the time its on my part....from what i can sense from aquas is that they are troubled... ive got this feeling from each one that ive met. and everyone has issues but its almost like aqua men are "girly". this is why they like a dominant woman. an eccentric one just like themselves so they feel accepted for feeling "different". because they are i havnt met an aquarius that is ur typical "mans man". theyre all very into girls/hopeless romantics. some have no standards at all and some have high ones but nonthless they still pay a lot of attention to women. for me they dont have the charm that i look for. theyre kinda horrible at flirting which my libra moon loves, and they just dont have the charm aspect for me. they "act" like they dont care too much and they do this out of fear of rejection, making them seem even more sensitive. i dont want a guy whos more sensitive than me good lawd so this is another turn off.

idk there always seems to be this frustration with them, they seem like theyre what i need but then theres just something off about it, like i feel like i become their caretaker every time or that i need to teach them something, i just feel way ahead of them lol in terms of the mind and emotional stability.

i have scorpio venus so im not afraid to feel my emotions. this could be why. they run from their emotions so i view them as immature and not up to par for me. i need a more dominant man not a girly one.

they make good friends though but itll probably only be as friends unless they have scorpio asc or moon or friggin something making them fearless

im involved right now with an aquarius who has 4 of his personal planets in my 12th and his NN scorpio conjuncts my venus.....i think his planets hitting my neptune house tricks him into expressing his feelings hehehehe lucky neptune i couldve sworn he was a pisces but how his refreshingly emotional and so nice but nope his aqua

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posted May 28, 2013 06:32 AM            

It didn't work out - he was way too detached for my taste. I want a lover, not (just) a friend! Passion is what I'm looking for, and he was very comfortable with a peaceful, friendship-like relationship. Uh oh.

Note: He had a prominent Uranus, too - Venus opposite Uranus and Uranus conjunct MC. Plus he had lots of Gemini. So he was like super airy. I'm aware of the fact that Aqua Suns can be different, but the *energy* itself was very Aquarian / Uranian.

The Ascendant (and Moon) sign matters a LOT! So don't forget to take them into consideration when describing someone.

posted May 28, 2013 02:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Ps. As for the Aqua Sun guys, I've found them to be very sentimental in a weird / detached way.. I can't quite explain it, but it's like they have these ideals in their mind and when life / someone doesn't measure up to their ideals, they become sad / melancholic, not in a deep, raw way - like a Scorpio would, for example - but in a more calm, serene way. Like "sigh. Too bad" and then they just wander off in their own world full of whatever it is that they like.
They *look* unemotional / carefree, but once you get to know them on a deeper level.. they're usually quite "troubled" (someone else pointed that out and I think it's true in a lot of cases).

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