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Topic: Aquarius Men?
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12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1278 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 11:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by Junethird: Don't take it personally this is my experience growing up with aquas. My brother is Gemini Asc/aqua sun, moon in cap, lol he isn't unpredictable at all, all he wants to do is travel and be a beach bum. My Second bro is an aqua/sag and is all about being his obnoxious self and once you say yes, for the heck of it he will choose the opposite for giggles. They both argue everything to death and they enjoy being controversial. Iam a Gemini sun/merc and geminis are predictable in the fact that they are unpredictable.
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matt Knowflake Posts: 192 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 13, 2012 12:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Junethird: My brother is Gemini Asc/aqua sun, moon in cap, lol he isn't unpredictable at all, all he wants to do is travel and be a beach bum. My Second bro is an aqua/sag and is all about being his obnoxious self and once you say yes, for the heck of it he will choose the opposite for giggles. They both argue everything to death and they enjoy being controversial. Iam a Gemini sun/merc and geminis are predictable in the fact that they are unpredictable.
Hahaha, I had to laughter at the run down on your Aqua/Sag brother. That's my combo and I could imagine my family saying that about me! IP: Logged |
Pietra di Luna Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 01:00 PM
What do Aqua men like? If we want to get into specifics I'm thinking of a Virgo moon/aqua asc but in general I would like to better understand this sun sign? First of all you should look his ASC, in any case. We can try to analyze or characterize Aquarian nature, but it doesnt tell us a lot of about the specific person. So, in this case, if he is Aquarius with ASC in Aqua, look at this Uranus - is it aspected? In which house is it sittuated...etc...
My subjective view of all Aquarian people that I know - they all try to be nice with people, though they are kind of detached and aloof. They are tolerant and sometimes inflexible. They have their specific sense of humour (which I really love, btw) IP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2012 01:08 PM
A LOT depends on their Moon and AC sign. My Aqua bf has Cancer Moon and AC and he's the most caring and sweet guy I've ever known. And he does have a lot of friends like normally Aquas do, but he still spends a lot of time with me. IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 562 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 13, 2012 01:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreamy_AriesGirl: A LOT depends on their Moon and AC sign. My Aqua bf has Cancer Moon and AC and he's the most caring and sweet guy I've ever known. And he does have a lot of friends like normally Aquas do, but he still spends a lot of time with me.
agree. moon is super important and can really change the aqua personality. my bf has a leo moon and it makes him very affectionate/romantic. and his Virgo Asc. makes him quite shy and not good with large groups or many friends, unlike how aquas are supposed to be. so.. look at other aspects for a full picture IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2012 02:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: I agree with what everyone has said about aqua guys. I just wanted to add that since the sun is weak in aquarius, the moon sign will be a lot more visible than in other people with different sun sign signs. A virgo moon aqua will probably be shyer than most aquas and really try not to draw attention to himself.
Lol cool. Seems like we all generally agree in our descriptions =) I know an aqua with virgo moon and an aries nametype just like your aqua, Peach, (unknown asc though) and he is pretty shy (and hot as hell). He is very sweet and usually i see his other guy friends on facebook walk all over him and make fun of him. Unlike them, he is humble enough that he doesnt have to go around parading about how awesome he is, and they dont realize just how unattractive their arrogance and competition makes them look to girls. His unwillingness to get nasty with them also makes me admire him. It seems like he just shrugs it off and he doesn't feel bothered by it. He is really sweet to me even though he's really manly. And he seems like a very smart (the only things he posts about are intellectual things, and he's almost done with his bachelors degree to become a journalist, he's darn good at writing in the articles he's done too), honest, loyal, and family-oriented guy, honestly. He always tells his sister he misses her and gets mad at her when she posts on his wall bc he says she disappears and doesnt contact him for a long time lol. So looks like you have pretty much the perfect guy on your hands here lol. Handsome, brains, none of that monstrous male ego, classy, and family-oriented? What more could a girl want? ------------------ "Being important is nice, but being nice is more important." =0) $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings IP: Logged |
crabbypatty Knowflake Posts: 743 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2012 02:41 PM
I'll jump on that wagon - moon sign very very important, with everyone, and with Aqua men, as well.I do have to say that I don't know any space cadet type Aqua guys, of the four that I'm thinking of off-hand. They've all been super practical and grounded. Three have been a bit brusque in their manner with me and other people, in a way that would perhaps offend a Libra, who might pay more heed to diplomacy. But I don't want to generalize, because I think it's always a mistake. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 2827 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 03:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: agree. moon is super important and can really change the aqua personality. my bf has a leo moon and it makes him very affectionate/romantic. and his Virgo Asc. makes him quite shy and not good with large groups or many friends, unlike how aquas are supposed to be. so.. look at other aspects for a full picture
Thank you - we have moon trine moon and sun opposite sun and Venus trine Venus among other things I can tell he likes me I'm just unclear how to read him totally. But I guess that's just something to figure out by taking things slow and feeling it out Thank you to everyone for their input! IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1278 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 03:01 PM
If only the descriptions said to be in consensus were accurate.  Aquas don't have ego. We tend to experience the projections of others' bruised egos, with those others trying to convince themselves it's the Aqua, when it's really them. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2482 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 08:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser:
If only the descriptions said to be in consensus were accurate.  Aquas don't have ego. We tend to experience the projections of others' bruised egos, with those others trying to convince themselves it's the Aqua, when it's really them.
Do you think then that Libra and Aquarius would make the most natural mate for Aquas since both have egos (sun) in debilitation?
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2012 08:05 PM
i didnt know that libra sun was in debilitationIP: Logged |
Lava Flower Knowflake Posts: 422 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 09:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: i didnt know that libra sun was in debilitation
Libra is in fall because Aries is exalted. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2012 09:26 PM
oooh ok i thought it was something like that haha thanks for explainingIP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1278 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 11:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: i didnt know that libra sun was in debilitation
The Sun is in fall in Libra. The most debilitated. IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1278 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 13, 2012 11:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: Do you think then that Libra and Aquarius would make the most natural mate for Aquas since both have egos (sun) in debilitation?
Not sure I'd go for a Libra sun (or Libra rising), since they tend to make it all about them. But, I can remain open. Not sure the reason you gave is reason enough to try one out. lol IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 14, 2012 04:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: The Sun is in fall in Libra. The most debilitated.
yeah i have yet to get those memorized. all i can remember is the opposite sign is in detriment. shrugs
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RegardesPlatero Knowflake Posts: 4367 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 14, 2012 04:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: Not sure I'd go for a Libra sun (or Libra rising), since they tend to make it all about them. But, I can remain open. Not sure the reason you gave is reason enough to try one out. lol
I personally think that Libra and Aquarius work better as friends than romantic partners. I think that Aquarius would work better with Sag or Gemini. IP: Logged |
sexyaqua30 Knowflake Posts: 281 From: USA Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 05:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: you are correct. poor ladies, they will never understand us. 
Agreed both male/female aquas are undefinable. Just when you think you have us pegged we go and do something that goes against everything you thought we were. Sometimes because it's justified and other times just for the pure shock value of it all. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 6845 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 14, 2012 05:10 AM
well, i have a lot of uranus influence. it annoys me a lot in myself, tho. how come aqua s seem proud of it, though. is it because as a cancer sun i seek security and stability?------------------ $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1278 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 08:48 AM
Having a Uranus heavy chart may give Aquarian-type traits, but will never substitute for Aquarian placements. Having lots of aspects to Uranus won't tell or show you what it's like to be an Aquarius. We're in a league all our own.  IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Knowflake Posts: 4367 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 14, 2012 09:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: well, i have a lot of uranus influence. it annoys me a lot in myself, tho. how come aqua s seem proud of it, though. is it because as a cancer sun i seek security and stability?
They seem to think that being unconventional, unpredictable, and "unique" (even a bit of a freak) are good things sometimes. They're like badges of honor to them. Same thing with being considered a good friend/friendly. Just their values system. That's my best guess, anyway. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2482 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 09:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: Having a Uranus heavy chart may give Aquarian-type traits, but will never substitute for Aquarian placements. Having lots of aspects to Uranus won't tell or show you what it's like to be an Aquarius. We're in a league all our own. 
I agree. I seek out and can always recognize my own kind. From physical traits for the women, but also from certain obvious personality traits. I can usually tell an Aqua by their friends. They don't necessarily look like they have anything in common with them. But that's a fallacy. Aquas can fit in with anyone.
To give an example, I recently met an Aqua at a pool party during gay pride weekend. He was the only straight guy there.
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PhoenixFire Knowflake Posts: 1351 From: The Crossing Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 14, 2012 01:19 PM
Lol, ok the million dollar question....How to tell if an Aqua is romantically interested? IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 2827 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 01:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by PhoenixFire: Lol, ok the million dollar question....How to tell if an Aqua is romantically interested?
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12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1278 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 10:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by PhoenixFire: Lol, ok the million dollar question....How to tell if an Aqua is romantically interested?
Speaking for myself, two things (at least): I'll open up more, and don't mind acting goofy and self-deprecating around someone they're interested in. IP: Logged |