posted August 12, 2012 06:06 PM            

What do Aqua men like?

If we want to get into specifics I'm thinking of a Virgo moon/aqua asc but in general I would like to better understand this sun sign?

posted August 12, 2012 06:24 PM            

From what I can tell..they like mental stimulation. Discussions, watching documentaries or those 'reality' type of things on Discovery/History channel, video games, movies..

I think they tend to see things from a more detached perspective, they don't let their emotions rule them. They also have an awesome sense of humor and anyone else who shares that humor is a fast friend.

posted August 12, 2012 08:31 PM            

From my experience, aquariuses are emotional people. (Guys, guys, this is MY experience. Do not attack me if it doesn't match yours). They are pretty shy to show it though, but they are also very sentimental. They are proud, they are stubborn (and very opinionated too!). But beneath all of that and their apparent nonchalance they are emotional and sensitive. Never as emotional as a water sign, ever. But, yes emotional. Air signs hate feelings. They want to appear rational and logical at all times, so they try to cover it up. But aquariuses tend to lack self confidence. This will be obvious especially when you get to know them. I get very close to aquas....have had two aquarius best friends, and all my aquarius friendships both guy and girls have been intense and bonded. I feel that i understand them pretty well. Lots of inner conflict there. But they are pretty straightforward people. They dont try to hide their motives or be sneaky like libra and gemini might tend to do. It's easy to read an aqua. The apparent detachment, is similar to capricorn's awkwardness in giving affection. It's shyness and insecurity, not actual detachment. That's it. I've even had aquas tell me that they felt shy to make eye contact. They seem like rebels and everything but i find them to be different than the strong detached image they seem on the outside.

posted August 12, 2012 08:33 PM            

They LOVE humor, and motorcycles, guns, lifting weights but they are some of the most sensitive guys you'll meet. Their egos easily bruised. They react quietly though, unlike their Leo counterparts who will make a big scene to remind you who's the king of the castle. Aquarius will instead acquiesce and become distant. In a way it's also similar to Aries because you notice the charm missing from your life once an Aqua is gone.

posted August 12, 2012 08:37 PM            

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As a gemini, aquas and i are meant to get along but in my experience, i generally dont get along with Aqua men... Never even been attracted to one or one who has any strong placements in aqua either. Its strange really. I find them quite eccentric but very smart in general.

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Same here. Of the air signs Aquarius & Aquarian-energy has been the most troublesome.

posted August 12, 2012 08:40 PM            

Your life motto seems to be this one: "To live and to let live". You've only one passion: to lead your life as you like, undergoing as few constraints as possible and profiting as much as possible by your existence on earth.

You're by no means easy to describe for you're a world of paradoxes and contradictions. Among the "constant" features of your character there are your extreme independence, your refusal of constraints and beaten tracks, your originality of thought, your curiosity of mind, and your love of adventure.

You don't care a bit about what people say or think, you don't give a fig for conventions, you readily show a tendency to anarchism. Your non-conformist comportment can sometimes border on provocation. In any case, you feel happy in non-conformism, you like not to act in the way other people do, and to be original up to eccentricity. If someone intends to direct you or to submit you to a rigid discipline, he's most likely to get disappointed for you're too independent to let yourself be managed.

Above all, you're definitely not one of those who take themselves too seriously or who get themselves killed in defending certain principles. Your sense of humor is extreme: you know how to make fun of all people and of everything, and especially of yourself. To the eyes of many you appear as a rather immoral individual but in actuality you're only amoral and happy to be so.

Your need to preserve your independence is equal to your desire to stand out. This will to single yourself out of the crowd can manifest itself very early and in a thousand and one ways. This explains your extravagance of talk, your manners that one could deem provocative, and your comportment that's often disconcerting for your entourage.

In the field of human relations, you look of course for the sympathy and comprehension of others. You're sincere, you're magnanimous and have the sense of solidarity. You enjoy certain easiness in your contacts by avoiding any direct confrontation as far as possible. But what's the most outstanding in your character is your great tolerance: you never try to impose your attitudes, your ideas, your convictions. You always make use of great flexibility and great understanding of the weaknesses of others. Some people may accuse you of laxity, especially when you're invested with certain responsibilities, but you defend yourself by saying that you respect everyone's freedom.

The Aquarius Man in love
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In the sentimental field, you are more cerebral than instinctive. Indeed, you value friendship more than you do love, and it's why an amorous friendship suits you much better than a love relation which is real and in conformity with tradition.

Nothing is worse for you than a humdrum life without surprises. You get bored very quickly, and it's why you readily adopt certain eccentric attitudes in order to prove to yourself and others that you don't let yourself stagnate in routine. Therefore, your faithfulness in love is rather shaky. By advocating love without constraints and the suppression of taboos, you are certainly likely to scare off some suitors!

Very charming, you are much sought after as a single man. Of course, you profit fully by this situation, for it allows you to preserve your precious freedom and at the same time not to suffer from loneliness. Indeed, you are most often afraid of engaging yourself, that is, of forgoing your dear independence and freedom of action. Thus you try to preserve your freedom as long as possible.

You do have one reasonable solution, though. It's a friendship and complicity marriage with an intelligent, funny and independent woman, with whom you'll share your couch, but without any obligations for either party and with perfect respect for mutual freedom. In any case, you'll always prefer free love to traditional marriage.

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posted August 12, 2012 08:51 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
By the way, if I'm not mistaken, aquaguy91 and I both have Aqua suns in the 12th.

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posted August 12, 2012 09:02 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
It's easy to read an aqua. The apparent detachment, is similar to capricorn's awkwardness in giving affection. It's shyness and insecurity, not actual detachment. That's it.

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I understand that this is your take on Aquarius men. Nevertheless... easy to read an Aqua? That part made me laugh. I've been told repeatedly I'm "a complete mystery" by one person, "completely impenetrable" by another, that I can't be figured out by another still, and the list goes on.

Yes, it is actual detachment, not necessarily shyness or insecurity. Don't know who the Aqua men you've known are, but that description doesn't fit me at all.

Rules by Saturn and Uranus, we're like a fortress, and constantly changing behind it all, so, can't be pegged.

posted August 12, 2012 09:02 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
you are correct. poor ladies, they will never understand us.

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posted August 12, 2012 09:06 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
you are correct. poor ladies, they will never understand us.

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posted August 12, 2012 09:32 PM            

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I'm wondering if the behaviors you're describing are simply patterns you're observed, and not how these men rally are on a regular basis.

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That doesn't really make sense, though. If I've observed these patterns in the aquas I've gotten close to, then why wouldn't it be how they are on a regular basis?

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posted August 12, 2012 09:36 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
That doesn't really make sense, though. If I've observed these patterns in the aquas I've gotten close to, then why wouldn't it be how they are on a regular basis?

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posted August 12, 2012 10:19 PM            

Not sure if they're all intellectual but i find merc in aqua intelligent. Not tempered with practicality their ideas can be plain unusable and just weird. They can also lack understanding of how the world works from my earthy pov. At odds with it even.

posted August 12, 2012 11:08 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
I find their egos to weak. Too team player-y. They can take orders tho. I bet they even like that. The boot camp style training and regimentation i mean.

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