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Topic: Venus in Gemini - want what they can't have?
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a_may_gemini
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posted October 25, 2012 10:41 PM
  
I'm a triple Gemini (Sun, Mercury, Venus) and I NEVER want anything that I can't have. It's not like Gemini Venus will settle for anything, but it's definitely one of the most selective, least jealous, and least desirous Venus placement. We will wait and not be in any hurry to seal any deals. Time is essential, and lots of it. Patience is necessary as Gemini Venus doesn't want to get conned into relationships/contracts of any kind because we do feel like we've been tricked, we will bolt. Things have to develop organically or else it's a no go. Do not chase after that guy. Do not play any games with him. And most importantly, do not emotionally manipulate him because his combo will run away from you. Yes, Virgo moon is very cold and methodical and they have no problems viewing emotions in an objective manner. You cannot hope that this placement will go after you if you pull some sort of Cancer moon hissy fit by game of "you'll be sorry when I'm gone" because Gemini Venus will NEVER run after anything, esp. anything that just goes away on its own. Virgo moon will only condemn you for trying to manipulate. What you can do is be friendly, cheerful, witty, smart, intellectually engaging, be interesting, and not be obvious. Most don't realize this, but Gemini Venus hates any air of desperation and we can smell a plot miles away and although we will entertain it, we aren't going to fall for it, but we like to make people think we can fall into their "trap." I went out with another triple Gemini (Sun, Moon, Venus) and we were both talkative and modest/shy at the same time. He had a sense of nervousness and so did I. That's the thing about Gemini Venus, there's a lot of nervous air fluttering about. But on the surface, we act calm and collected. That's typical of having a lot Gemini personal placements. We don't show anyone our cards but get a good laugh when people think we're showing. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted October 25, 2012 11:05 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Yes, I can understand that. For some reason when someone is very interested in me, it makes me want to pull back. His actions have been very confusing though. Like he's conflicted - pulled both ways. But, I may be a bit too intense for him, when it comes to love.
I feel that way at times too, when someone is overly interested I become very uninterested partly because I am analyzing the intentions of the person. With my gemini moon I do it even more than I realize, sometimes I forget to just reaction to my feelings rather than think about them, its not that I want something I cant have. I just that because the situation was taken out of my hands due to outside forces I am then forced to react in which ever way comes out first which means expressing interest in someone I wasn't fully ready to express myself to. But the delayed reaction is also due to my Cancer sun/Taurus asc & mars. IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini
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posted October 25, 2012 11:11 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I love Gemini Sun, Mercury and Venus. I think Moon in Gemini is hard, though. I don;t have it. You have to look at the whole chart when you have Gemini( or anything) You can't look at one placement such as Venus in Gem and make a dogma. 
I don't agree that Gemini Moon is difficult. If anything, Gemini moon intellectualize the emotions and wants to talk it over and get things over with. They're not brooding types and they don't let things dwell or drag on. They're not cold but not all warm and fuzzy either. They're pretty independent and although they're least likely to emotionally coddle others, they won't abandon nor will they sabotage. If anything, it's one of the more easy moons to rationalize with and it is a good moon who'll talk you to death to cheer you up when you're in a bad place. It's not like Aqua, Virgo, and Cap moons. Those three are totally cold which is YUCK. Aries moon is a real bully and totally into self-gratification and Leo moon is too selfish and into their own glory to care what happens to others.
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kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 11:36 PM
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Originally posted by a_may_gemini:
I'm a triple Gemini (Sun, Mercury, Venus) and I NEVER want anything that I can't have. It's not like Gemini Venus will settle for anything, but it's definitely one of the most selective, least jealous, and least desirous Venus placement. We will wait and not be in any hurry to seal any deals. Time is essential, and lots of it. Patience is necessary as Gemini Venus doesn't want to get conned into relationships/contracts of any kind because we do feel like we've been tricked, we will bolt. Things have to develop organically or else it's a no go. Do not chase after that guy. Do not play any games with him. And most importantly, do not emotionally manipulate him because his combo will run away from you. Yes, Virgo moon is very cold and methodical and they have no problems viewing emotions in an objective manner. You cannot hope that this placement will go after you if you pull some sort of Cancer moon hissy fit by game of "you'll be sorry when I'm gone" because Gemini Venus will NEVER run after anything, esp. anything that just goes away on its own. Virgo moon will only condemn you for trying to manipulate. What you can do is be friendly, cheerful, witty, smart, intellectually engaging, be interesting, and not be obvious. Most don't realize this, but Gemini Venus hates any air of desperation and we can smell a plot miles away and although we will entertain it, we aren't going to fall for it, but we like to make people think we can fall into their "trap." I went out with another triple Gemini (Sun, Moon, Venus) and we were both talkative and modest/shy at the same time. He had a sense of nervousness and so did I. That's the thing about Gemini Venus, there's a lot of nervous air fluttering about. But on the surface, we act calm and collected. That's typical of having a lot Gemini personal placements. We don't show anyone our cards but get a good laugh when people think we're showing.
Well, honestly - it's probably screwed then. We were friends in the beginning. Neighbors actually. He pursued me like crazy - months until I finally gave in. After about a year of us being an item - he ran. Moved and ran. Never gave me any closure, would just make up excuses. I kept with it because I'm a Scorpio - don't give up easily. What we shared was too special. He said he just wanted to be friends etc. So eventually we started hanging out, being cool. All this time acting like a jealous boyfriend when i see him out, admitting he drives past my place, trying figure out who's that new car belong to? Lots of misleading signs. I knew something was still there. He's been through a lot of bad relationships, so i stuck around to show him what a good woman was like. 6 months later (today), I finally put on the moves. He responded well. But last I saw him out, he was acting jealous again - seeing me with my guy friends. Then had me over and made the moves with me. Now, he's gone on a date. Upset I went off. Now he's going back to stating he just wanted to be friends. So confusing! Starting to feel like its been such time wasted! Not sure how to feel.
Point being, there's been a lot games on both sides. Though he hides behind, we're just friends. Friends? You were thinking this while he was being all touchy feely? Ha. IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini
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posted October 26, 2012 12:28 AM
Dang, I'm sorry girl. That's really bad. Yeah, the problem with Gemini Sun and Venus combo is that it flares up the fickleness. I like Scorpio people and I understand their intentions of wanting to be the solid foundation in other people's lives. I get you were trying to be that way with him but you he ran away and left you once. Him wanting to be friends probably had no ulterior motives behind it. He was probably really guilty that he left you the way that he did and asking to be friends was his way of apologizing and wanting to clear the air. Gemini Venus is flirtatious and playful by nature, however, you fell for it thinking there's some sort of meaning behind it. You gotta stop thinking there's something behind everything that he say and do. In reality, he's just being a silly, immature twat that needs to grow up. It's unfair that you're waiting on him. STOP waiting on his silly ass. What you need to do is be cool, be a friend, and not be so invested in him anymore. Use your Scorpio groundedness and find someone who's not such a headcase. I'm a Gemini female and I can't really say I like my male counterpart for anything more than just platonic friends, since it's really all they can handle. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 26, 2012 01:52 AM
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Originally posted by a_may_gemini:
Dang, I'm sorry girl. That's really bad. Yeah, the problem with Gemini Sun and Venus combo is that it flares up the fickleness. I like Scorpio people and I understand their intentions of wanting to be the solid foundation in other people's lives. I get you were trying to be that way with him but you he ran away and left you once. Him wanting to be friends probably had no ulterior motives behind it. He was probably really guilty that he left you the way that he did and asking to be friends was his way of apologizing and wanting to clear the air. Gemini Venus is flirtatious and playful by nature, however, you fell for it thinking there's some sort of meaning behind it. You gotta stop thinking there's something behind everything that he say and do. In reality, he's just being a silly, immature twat that needs to grow up. It's unfair that you're waiting on him. STOP waiting on his silly ass. What you need to do is be cool, be a friend, and not be so invested in him anymore. Use your Scorpio groundedness and find someone who's not such a headcase. I'm a Gemini female and I can't really say I like my male counterpart for anything more than just platonic friends, since it's really all they can handle.
Thank you! Well, he's just been playing games, I feel that in my heart. Its unfair that he's trying to make me feel like all these mixed signals are all in my head. Flirting with me, slapping my ass, ha - any excuse to get close to me. Yet, now that I've blown up at him about going out with my arch nemesis, I don't think there's any going back. His response was infuriating, with this passive aggressive bs. His mars in Leo won't allow him to say he's messed up - just has to play the defense. I do believe one day he'll get past his huge ego and at least admit to himself he's messed up. He can't even go a few weeks without seeing me and just bubbling over with excitement. Has to let me in on all that is new. So, in the end I do think he cares, but it all came too easy to him. My caring, kindness and ability to always be there. He thought, I'll keep her in the back burner just incase someone else comes along. If she gets upset I can always play the "we're just friends" card. Venus in Gemini and sun in Gemini I believe they think the grass is greener, but he'll soon find out he had the best and let it go. He just doesn't know what he wants - but one day chaos and tragedy will strike, happens to everyone - then and only then will it change his perspective on what's important and what's not. He's just emotionally behind - he'll figure it out one day. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 26, 2012 01:43 PM
I guess I have to ask - does his chart suggest that he has feeling and heart somewhere inside of him? I know I am special to him and that he has to feel bad for the way he treated me. Especially since we've been great friends. I know Gemini's are flighty but I think his pisces, Taurus and Leo constantly pull him in a different direction. I do believe him to have a conscience. He's just confused about what or who he wants.IP: Logged |
sweettouch
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posted October 26, 2012 01:47 PM
How about if this Venus in Gemini had a Cancer Sun and Mars, and a Taurus Moon? Would this Gemini in Venus be a little more loyal and stable? I know some Gemini Suns who got a Cancer Moon, and they die for one person only. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 26, 2012 01:53 PM
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Originally posted by sweettouch:
How about if this Venus in Gemini had a Cancer Sun and Mars, and a Taurus Moon? Would this Gemini in Venus be a little more loyal and stable? I know some Gemini Suns who got a Cancer Moon, and they die for one person only.
Yes, I think it would make a huge difference! Having cancer in a persons chart will make them more grounded and caring. I have cancer moon, so that's why i say this! He has pisces rising which you'd think would make him more emotional or warmer. But, not so sure anymore! IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted October 26, 2012 02:04 PM
Gem in Venus, and with a Gem moon here. Aries sun, and Taurus rising.Definitely get the whole friendship thing. In fact, I hate dating. Can't stand it. I bolt for the door. If someone says we're hanging out as friends, then I can totally handle it. I do hate to feel pinned down, or forced to be pinned down. Letting things just grow and slowly become more serious has worked out so well for me. Problem is, most guys seem to always want to rush things. Maybe it's the Taurus ASC, but it sure felt good when I met a guy as a friend first, and then it turned into more. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 26, 2012 02:22 PM
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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Gem in Venus, and with a Gem moon here. Aries sun, and Taurus rising.Definitely get the whole friendship thing. In fact, I hate dating. Can't stand it. I bolt for the door. If someone says we're hanging out as friends, then I can totally handle it. I do hate to feel pinned down, or forced to be pinned down. Letting things just grow and slowly become more serious has worked out so well for me. Problem is, most guys seem to always want to rush things. Maybe it's the Taurus ASC, but it sure felt good when I met a guy as a friend first, and then it turned into more.
That's how it worked out in the beginning. It went slowly, starting off as friendship. He was my neighbor in a duplex. When he said he was moving after a year of dating, I had the conversation of what is this and where is it going? He said he couldn't give a relationship because of a "problem" he had in the bedroom. But if he didn't have that problem he'd see us in a relationship already. Said nothing would change, he loves dating me and we'll just have to drive to see one another. But, he ran like i predicted. So, i stuck it out and eventually we started hanging out. I knew he still had feelings by him constantly acting jealous when he'd see me out with guys friends, etc. So, i kept on going with it. Its been 6 months of us trying to be friends. We even had a little kiss a couple of weeks ago. Something we haven't done since being together. But he's acting jealous again and now i feel he's trying to stick it to me by asking a girl out he knows i don't like. So, I've been trying to work back up to where we were - slowly. It's just too intense, whatever we share. It's complicated. There's a definite power/ego struggle that goes on between us. I believe it's because my sun is in his 8th house. Very deep connection. But, my Sagittarius Mars has about had it. Not good with the whole patience thing! IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 26, 2012 02:27 PM
And, I agree that maybe Gemini's or Gemini Venus's don't play games, but I do believe mercury in taurus is capable of that. They can get pretty jealous. Wanting to make the other person feel the sting as well.IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted October 26, 2012 02:37 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
And, I agree that maybe Gemini's or Gemini Venus's don't play games, but I do believe mercury in taurus is capable of that. They can get pretty jealous. Wanting to make the other person feel the sting as well.
Yeah, that's possible. Taurus is a *very* possessive sign. Funny thing is, at least in my case, I'm not a jealous type at all! Even with n.Venus square n.Pluto. Oh, and I do have Mercury in Taurus. Still, I can see what you mean. I definitely had periods in some relationships where I would get very jealous. They were all when I was very young, though. I grew out of it pretty quickly. Not sure, but I think maybe the Gem moon has something to do with that. It knocked the jealousy/possessiveness out of my Taurus side. Good luck! Sounds like you're traveling in circles. Probably your Sag side will finally make you do something. Hang in there! IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 26, 2012 02:48 PM
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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Yeah, that's possible. Taurus is a *very* possessive sign. Funny thing is, at least in my case, I'm not a jealous type at all! Even with n.Venus square n.Pluto. Oh, and I do have Mercury in Taurus. Still, I can see what you mean. I definitely had periods in some relationships where I would get very jealous. They were all when I was very young, though. I grew out of it pretty quickly. Not sure, but I think maybe the Gem moon has something to do with that. It knocked the jealousy/possessiveness out of my Taurus side.Good luck! Sounds like you're traveling in circles. Probably your Sag side will finally make you do something. Hang in there!
Yes, I would think your Gemini moon would make your Taurus less intense. But with his moon in Virgo, I think it makes him a lot more insecure, which in turn brings out the jealousy! We'll see what happens! No expecting much - but at least I can go out saying, I know I made an impact on him. I may have been a bit intense, but I was his closest friend, we shared everything. Even with the intensity, he had to have found that endearing and interesting from a Gemini's stand point. I helped him better himself and I think I meant more to him than any girl he's ever been with. I was just too much for him.  Thanks for your response!
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posted October 26, 2012 09:43 PM
The problem for Scorpios who want to be with Geminis is that they don't understand that the only way to keep a Gemini is to do everything that you wouldn't normally do. Forcing the idea of commitment will make Gemini run away, no matter how much they might have chased you. You have to be completely laid back. Let the Gemini make the commitment before they even realize it themselves, slowly and surely if you give a Gemini enough space and enough room to be themselves and hang onto the private mental space that gives them their oxygen, they will start wanting to come to you. Geminis are like butterflies, try and capture us and we will always be a step ahead. Be still and appreciate us and be in the vicinity, smell nice (ha!), and we will flutter around you. Scorpios have this urge to make thing black and white - I understand this because I have tons of Pluto. You want to say "We are committed 100% or nothing at all". But Gemini itself is always a half measure of something. Which is why it's so utterly difficult for Scorpio and Gemini to last, even though there is much attraction due to difference. They just operate on completely different planes. Gemini Sun, Merc, Venus, Jupiter here. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 26, 2012 09:54 PM
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Originally posted by blugrey:
The problem for Scorpios who want to be with Geminis is that they don't understand that the only way to keep a Gemini is to do everything that you wouldn't normally do. Forcing the idea of commitment will make Gemini run away, no matter how much they might have chased you. You have to be completely laid back. Let the Gemini make the commitment before they even realize it themselves, slowly and surely if you give a Gemini enough space and enough room to be themselves and hang onto the private mental space that gives them their oxygen, they will start wanting to come to you. Geminis are like butterflies, try and capture us and we will always be a step ahead. Be still and appreciate us and be in the vicinity, smell nice (ha!), and we will flutter around you. Scorpios have this urge to make thing black and white - I understand this because I have tons of Pluto. You want to say "We are committed 100% or nothing at all". But Gemini itself is always a half measure of something. Which is why it's so utterly difficult for Scorpio and Gemini to last, even though there is much attraction due to difference. They just operate on completely different planes. Gemini Sun, Merc, Venus, Jupiter here.
Any hope of him missing me? Or will he just move on.. Never had this experience before - new to me! Keep in mind - he has pisces rising, moon Virgo, mercury Taurus, mars in Leo. IP: Logged |
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posted October 27, 2012 12:22 AM
I'm a Venus in Gem & if I (supposedly) "cant have" something, I will find something better. Not into chasing anything (that's probably the lazy Taurus Sun influence).We are too flighty to fight for something that is too hard to get. We will just wave good-bye and flutter off and find something better.  Venus in Gem likes things light and fun. Things should come easy and naturally or we will lose interest. I've not had to deal with this because I quickly lose interest in things and lose interest in people who arent interested in me (a rarity! LOL j/k  ) ...k that's the Leo Mars talking now. hahaha IP: Logged |
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posted October 27, 2012 12:29 AM
Venus in Gem says: engage me! Let's have fun together! barb! joke! say funny things! Be goofy and silly and laugh our ***** off.Especially when it's in the 5th house like mine is. We want a quick-witted, humorous partner to laugh until we cry with. We are kids at heart. Nothing sexier than a good sense of humor. IP: Logged |
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posted October 27, 2012 12:34 AM
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Originally posted by blugrey:
They want something that wants them. But Gemini doesn't want to be forced into a commitment. They need lots of time. LOTS of it. And commitment shouldn't be some huge deal, it should evolve naturally. They want something that will never change in the sense that that person will always remain interesting.
 When you become boring or too serious, it's over. IP: Logged |
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posted October 27, 2012 02:07 AM
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When you become boring or too serious, it's over.
What if it was dramatic & interesting? IP: Logged |
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posted October 27, 2012 02:34 AM
All the better then! We can be serious sometimes too, you know (briefly). lol Drama and "interesting" scenarios are almost just as good. IP: Logged |
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posted October 27, 2012 04:12 AM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Venus in Gemini - do they want what they can't have but don't want it if they have it?
My ex has Venus conjunct Jupiter in Gemini and if he's in any way typical of that placement, then yes. Pretty much every time I was close to him he seemed to do something in some way or another to alienate me or push me away; when I was with him or around him I seemed to be low on his list of priorities as well - whenever I'd give up hope and leave, then suddenly there would be this sudden deluge of emotional intensity and expression of affection from him. Just a constant push/pull thing.
If you're Pluto/Scorpio/water-sign heavy you should know also that your emotional temperament and need for depth and merging in relationships is going to be an issue for a Venus in Gemini too (unless they have other mitigating chart factors). The one I was with, always wanted things to only be fun, light and casual, and couldn't handle ANY kind of emotional depth or intensity during the relationship, or any kind of negative emotions. If you're the kind of person who believes that when you're with someone it should be a meaningful commitment where you are each other's best friend and can talk to each other about anything...if you need that strong emotional component and ability to say whatever you want and always express how you feel whatever that may be...you should probably find someone else because they aren't going to be able to give you what you need, and you'll just wind up feeling like something is wrong with you. Then again it's probably just a synastry issue with me and the V in G I was with because most of his chart was mutable and my chart is heavily fixed, with a fair bit of Pluto activity and Neptune activity, so we probably approach relationships from a totally different mindset and just weren't on the same wavelength. I probably would've fared better with a Scorpio. IP: Logged |
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posted October 27, 2012 04:28 AM
blugrey & StacyLewis: spot on.I have this problem with my SO.
He has Gemini Venus opposite Uranus (obviously the need for freedom is amplified) AND his Moon is in Gemini as well. It's an awful thing to say but my needs aren't being met. I have a Scorpio stellium and heavy Pluto so I need to feel a close emotional bond with someone and I'm pretty much dependent on my partner (if I feel comfortable). In our situation though, we are in a long distance relationship and it feels like a casual affair, not a committed relationship. Contrary to what is said, as a double Gemini, he's not talkative, at least not with me. When we are together he is very distant, kinda takes me for granted. Whenever I want to bring up some serious issues, he doesn't want to know more, he really can't stand any kind of emotional display, no serious conversations, and he's not very affectionate (prob his Aqua rising). I don't know if it's worth continuing because obviously something is missing.
So to anyone interested in Gemini Venus people... unless you're airy yourself, forget it. Plutonians should run for the hills and find themselves someone who's at the same level of intensity.
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posted October 27, 2012 04:52 AM
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Originally posted by StacyLewis:
My ex has Venus conjunct Jupiter in Gemini and if he's in any way typical of that placement, then yes. Pretty much every time I was close to him he seemed to do something in some way or another to alienate me or push me away; when I was with him or around him I seemed to be low on his list of priorities as well - whenever I'd give up hope and leave, then suddenly there would be this sudden deluge of emotional intensity and expression of affection from him. Just a constant push/pull thing. If you're Pluto/Scorpio/water-sign heavy you should know also that your emotional temperament and need for depth and merging in relationships is going to be an issue for a Venus in Gemini too (unless they have other mitigating chart factors). The one I was with, always wanted things to only be fun, light and casual, and couldn't handle ANY kind of emotional depth or intensity during the relationship, or any kind of negative emotions. If you're the kind of person who believes that when you're with someone it should be a meaningful commitment where you are each other's best friend and can talk to each other about anything...if you need that strong emotional component and ability to say whatever you want and always express how you feel whatever that may be...you should probably find someone else because they aren't going to be able to give you what you need, and you'll just wind up feeling like something is wrong with you. Then again it's probably just a synastry issue with me and the V in G I was with because most of his chart was mutable and my chart is heavily fixed, with a fair bit of Pluto activity and Neptune activity, so we probably approach relationships from a totally different mindset and just weren't on the same wavelength. I probably would've fared better with a Scorpio.
Thanks for the responses! I honestly assumed that's how he'd be - he's never had to do without me, and now he's going to figure out real fast he eff'd up! Not to say that his Virgo moon will allow him to actually admit he misses me. Heh. I do have a very strong Gemini rising, so I've always been able to relate with his fun, airy side. Honestly, most of the time i feel like the Gemini and him the Scorpio!. He rarely likes to devulge any information. So secretive and quiet and extremely jealous - vengeful almost. But, I can say things have been interesting between us. Mostly fun till recently, now he's seeing the sting of a Scorpio! I did have our synastry chart done before - from what i remember, they were saying it was surprisingly compatible. Someone even commented, "Wow, awesome synastty! Fingers crossed for you!" So, i ask you this - why has is been such an uphill battle, at least for me? IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 27, 2012 04:56 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
blugrey & StacyLewis: spot on.I have this problem with my SO.
He has Gemini Venus opposite Uranus (obviously the need for freedom is amplified) AND his Moon is in Gemini as well. It's an awful thing to say but my needs aren't being met. I have a Scorpio stellium and heavy Pluto so I need to feel a close emotional bond with someone and I'm pretty much dependent on my partner (if I feel comfortable). In our situation though, we are in a long distance relationship and it feels like a casual affair, not a committed relationship. Contrary to what is said, as a double Gemini, he's not talkative, at least not with me. When we are together he is very distant, kinda takes me for granted. Whenever I want to bring up some serious issues, he doesn't want to know more, he really can't stand any kind of emotional display, no serious conversations, and he's not very affectionate (prob his Aqua rising). I don't know if it's worth continuing because obviously something is missing.
So to anyone interested in Gemini Venus people... unless you're airy yourself, forget it. Plutonians should run for the hills and find themselves someone who's at the same level of intensity.
I'm sorry about your situation :( Does he happen to have any Virgo in him? I'm not so sure about his Aquarius not wanting to talk. I tend to befriend aquarians often because of their ability to want to talk, like Gemini's. But, my guy has Virgo moon, and I feel the same you do! Doesn't know how to handle his own emotions, much less yours! IP: Logged | |
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