posted January 08, 2015 02:48 PM            

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Originally posted by blugrey:
Gemini Descendant people are worse in the relationship department for this than Gemini Venus, IMO.

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This is really true. I have a Gemini Descendant and dated a triple Gemini (Sun, Mercury, Venus in Gemini) who had a Libra Descendant.
He told me I was distant and flighty, and I ended the relationship b/c there was nothing interesting about the relationship anymore. (I also have Gemini Moon in the 7th though..)

One thing I took away from dating a Venus in Gemini for a year, they just talk A LOT and need communication to stimulate the relationship. If I was too quiet, he would actually get ****** and claimed "you talk to people you love". Honestly, I don't know how we lasted that long, with him being Mercury Gemini and me being Mercury Capricorn LOL. So much clashing.
The "little things" will also start to matter. This could be good or bad. It's good b/c any simple small gesture will be noticed and appreciated by them (ex. remembering their favorite song/movie/whatever). It can be bad b/c it takes one little thing to get into a huge fight. If they have a lot of fire in their chart or fire rising...this will happen more frequently w/ more anger and emotion. Yuck! (No offense, the 'Yuck' was directed more towards this particular person)

But to say that Venus in Geminis are always going to be players w/ no emotion surrounding relationships is definitely FALSE. They can have a lot of emotions, (unless maybe if they also have a Air Moon, that COULD change things) It's just that they require those Gemini themes in relationships/dating. If you want to know how they truly feel about the relationship and what their true emotions are like, you should probably look to the moon sign.

posted January 08, 2015 03:01 PM            

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Originally posted by blugrey:
Gemini Descendant people are worse in the relationship department for this than Gemini Venus, IMO.

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This is really true. I have a Gemini Descendant and dated a triple Gemini (Sun, Mercury, Venus in Gemini) who had a Libra Descendant.
He told me I was distant and flighty, and I ended the relationship b/c there was nothing interesting about the relationship anymore. (I also have Gemini Moon in the 7th though..)

One thing I took away from dating a Venus in Gemini for a year, they just talk A LOT and need communication to stimulate the relationship. If I was too quiet, he would actually get ****** and claimed "you talk to people you love". Honestly, I don't know how we lasted that long, with him being Mercury Gemini and me being Mercury Capricorn LOL. So much clashing.
The "little things" will also start to matter. This could be good or bad. It's good b/c any simple small gesture will be noticed and appreciated by them (ex. remembering their favorite song/movie/whatever). It can be bad b/c it takes one little thing to get into a huge fight. If they have a lot of fire in their chart or fire rising...this will happen more frequently w/ more anger and emotion. Yuck! (No offense, the 'Yuck' was directed more towards this particular person)

But to say that Venus in Geminis are always going to be players w/ no emotion surrounding relationships is definitely FALSE. They can have a lot of emotions, (unless maybe if they also have a Air Moon, that COULD change things) It's just that they require those Gemini themes in relationships/dating. If you want to know how they truly feel about the relationship and what their true emotions are like, you should probably look to the moon sign.