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Topic: Venus in Gemini - want what they can't have?
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kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 06:35 PM
  
Venus in Gemini - do they want what they can't have but don't want it if they have it?IP: Logged |
blugrey
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posted October 25, 2012 07:59 PM
They want something that wants them. But Gemini doesn't want to be forced into a commitment. They need lots of time. LOTS of it. And commitment shouldn't be some huge deal, it should evolve naturally. They want something that will never change in the sense that that person will always remain interesting. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 08:18 PM
Thanks! Yes, I figured a little hot and cold would be better than boring and predictable. Whew, they're exhausting.
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Curious Bull
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posted October 25, 2012 08:19 PM
I have mars and venus in gemini and think both of your statements hold true for me.IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 08:30 PM
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Originally posted by Curious Bull:
I have mars and venus in gemini and think both of your statements hold true for me.
So, you say you'd be more apt to want something once it's gone? I believe it's just been too easy for him. But he'll appreciate it once it's gone. IP: Logged |
Curious Bull
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posted October 25, 2012 08:35 PM
Definitely may want things more once they're gone... because I am very optimistic and I tend to forget the things that annoy me very quickly, so I end up only remembering what felt good. IP: Logged |
Curious Bull
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posted October 25, 2012 08:37 PM
I will especially hanker back if the person was exciting and interesting and I'm bored. :-) Ahhh so fickle!IP: Logged |
Curious Bull
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posted October 25, 2012 08:38 PM
Kennedy80 - what is their Sun, moon, mars and rising sign?IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 08:49 PM
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kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 08:52 PM
Will they always be fickle? Or ever appreciate someone - want just them and only them. His Taurus and Leo seems to crave loyalty and monogamy. But, his fickle Gemini clash. He's like two different people, ha. Of course!IP: Logged |
CAY_512
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posted October 25, 2012 09:15 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Sun - Gemini
Moon - Virgo
Mercury - Taurus
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Leo
Rising - Pisces
I would think that Gemini & Pisces energy would pull them in different directions.
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Ami Anne
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posted October 25, 2012 09:17 PM
I am Venus in Gemini but a cancer Moon( cardinal and in it's Domicile) and a Libra ASC( cardinal)
I think my Cancer moon makes me deep and soulful, not a flimsy kind of person.Always check the moons! ------------------
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Curious Bull
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posted October 25, 2012 09:21 PM
Well, I will always chase bright shiny ideas, including ideas about love, because of my mars/venus in gemini. But my taurus sun and leo moon wants much deeper connection than the surface ideas and fun too. So I cannot answer that about your person. I was married over a decade and I believe in love for ever after. But it has to be fun and exciting love. Hah. I'm sure my Sun in taurus, pisces rising, and Leo moon balance the gemini mars/venus for me. I am close friends with 2 gemini men who are in stable lasting relationships. One (he's so devoted and loyal) with a capricorn. One (he's the biggest romantic) with a cancer. The thing I think with venus in gemini is there is always a love dance of the mind going on... and often the dance changes. ;-) What's your sun, moon, rising, mars, venus? quote:
Originally posted by kennedy80:
Will they always be fickle? Or ever appreciate someone - want just them and only them. His Taurus and Leo seems to crave loyalty and monogamy. But, his fickle Gemini clash. He's like two different people, ha. Of course!
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Curious Bull
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posted October 25, 2012 09:23 PM
Ami Anne, kennedy80 says this person has:Sun - Gemini
Moon - Virgo
Mercury - Taurus
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Leo
Rising - Pisces How does the virgo moon play out in this mix? quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am Venus in Gemini but a cancer Moon( cardinal and in it's Domicile) and a Libra ASC( cardinal)
I think my Cancer moon makes me deep and soulful, not a flimsy kind of person.Always check the moons!
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kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 09:29 PM
Yes, I have cancer moon, so I can relate. But I also Gemini rising. So I can be fickle too. But, with his moon in Virgo, I think it makes him very emotionally cold. It's incredibly hard to read him.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 25, 2012 09:31 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Yes, I have cancer moon, so I can relate. But I also Gemini rising. So I can be fickle too. But, with his moon in Virgo, I think it makes him very emotionally cold. It's incredibly hard to read him.
Yes, this moon would be a deal breaker for me, in an intimate relationship ------------------
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kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 09:31 PM
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Originally posted by Curious Bull:
Well, I will always chase bright shiny ideas, including ideas about love, because of my mars/venus in gemini. But my taurus sun and leo moon wants much deeper connection than the surface ideas and fun too. So I cannot answer that about your person. I was married over a decade and I believe in love for ever after. But it has to be fun and exciting love. Hah. I'm sure my Sun in taurus, pisces rising, and Leo moon balance the gemini mars/venus for me. I am close friends with 2 gemini men who are in stable lasting relationships. One (he's so devoted and loyal) with a capricorn. One (he's the biggest romantic) with a cancer. The thing I think with venus in gemini is there is always a love dance of the mind going on... and often the dance changes. ;-) What's your sun, moon, rising, mars, venus? Hi! I'm a Scorpio -
Moon - cancer
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Virgo
Mars - Sagittarius
Rising - Gemini
By the way - I'd love to hear more about the Pisces rising! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 25, 2012 09:33 PM
i, personally, need a warm Moon. I am a Cancer Moon so need a Moon that is warm and approachable. ------------------
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Curious Bull
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posted October 25, 2012 09:35 PM
I've never talked with someone with a chart like yours...! I'd like to find out more... What is venus in virgo like for someone so watery with Scorp sun and cancer moon?
<3 <3 <3 Hi! I'm a Scorpio -
Moon - cancer
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Virgo
Mars - Sagittarius
Rising - Gemini quote:
Originally posted by kennedy80:
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kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 09:37 PM
Yes I can see this now - the dance of love changes. But, I've been a constant in his life. We have been best friends for about 2 years now. Love came later. We've put the relationship on hold because of his fickle nature. But, he's still keeping me around. Says he just wants to be friends, but acts extremely jealous about other guys in my life. We just recently got in a pretty bad fight about all this jealousy going on. I think we need our space for now - but I'd like to believe he'll miss me now that I'm gone. He's never had to do without me. Curious if he'll just move on and forget or if I'll eventually become the one that got away. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 09:48 PM
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Originally posted by Curious Bull:
I've never talked with someone with a chart like yours...! I'd like to find out more... What is venus in virgo like for someone so watery with Scorp sun and cancer moon?
<3 <3 <3 Hi! I'm a Scorpio -
Moon - cancer
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Virgo
Mars - Sagittarius
Rising - Gemini
I've never been asked that question before! I think it's a good quality to have - seeing how I'm mostly a ball of intense emotion - so it levels me out. I really do need a safe kind of love. Takes a while to trust someone before I let them in completely. When I do, I take of them and things like you wouldn't believe. It truly is how I show I care. Also, on the downside, it does make me extremely analytical and a bit on the perfectionist side. But over all, I think it does anchor me down a bit! IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 09:55 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
I've never been asked that question before! I think it's a good quality to have - seeing how I'm mostly a ball of intense emotion - so it levels me out. I really do need a safe kind of love. Takes a while to trust someone before I let them in completely. When I do, I take of them and things like you wouldn't believe. It truly is how I show I care. Also, on the downside, it does make me extremely analytical and a bit on the perfectionist side. But over all, I think it does anchor me down a bit!
On a side note - I'm just noticing, Gemini influenced people are so very curious! As, I am too, with my Rising. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted October 25, 2012 10:05 PM
I have a Venus in Gemini and I wouldn't necessarily say I am fickle I just don't like jumping into relationships erratically I rather stay single than entering a relationship with someone who may care more for me than I do with them. Why bother hurting someone inadvertently rather than waiting.IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted October 25, 2012 10:31 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
I have a Venus in Gemini and I wouldn't necessarily say I am fickle I just don't like jumping into relationships erratically I rather stay single than entering a relationship with someone who may care more for me than I do with them. Why bother hurting someone inadvertently rather than waiting.
Yes, I can understand that. For some reason when someone is very interested in me, it makes me want to pull back. His actions have been very confusing though. Like he's conflicted - pulled both ways. But, I may be a bit too intense for him, when it comes to love. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 25, 2012 10:38 PM
I love Gemini Sun, Mercury and Venus. I think Moon in Gemini is hard, though. I don;t have it. You have to look at the whole chart when you have Gemini( or anything) You can't look at one placement such as Venus in Gem and make a dogma.  ------------------
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