posted December 22, 2012 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by JLyn ~:
Sorry to burst your little bubble but condoms don't keep you from catching HIV. Also if you tongue kiss and the infected person has a cut or sore in their mouth, you will get it.

I'm obviously more concered about people spreading the virus but thats my personal view!! cant handle what i write and truly don't understand what i'm saying then go continue playing in a sand box cause i dont waste time on inbalances.

p.s
i'm extremely open minded and loving life everyday!

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You wanna explain to me then how people who are in long-term relationships with HIV positive individuals, don't contract the virus when they practice safe sex?

*raises eyebrow*

The sad part is, you're ignorant as h.ell and you literally have no clue about it and genuinely think you're open-minded.

As long as the people involved practice safe sex, they won't be 'spreading' anything, whether they sleep with just one person, or a thousand. And clearly, if these people are all adults, and educated ones at that, they don't need some random person on the internet like you who can barely construct a coherent, thoughtful post, lecturing them on sexually transmitted diseases.

Part of me wonders if you're just BSing here and you know this already and that this is really about you trying to bully and shame this woman into living according to YOUR personal morality code, than anything else.

And if you were so happy and loving life everyday, you wouldn't be so preoccupied with this woman's v*gina and what she chooses to do with it.

You care about preventing the spread of disease? Then go out and volunteer at places that help people with AIDS, and donate your time and money. Do something REAL to actually combat the problem. But like I said, I suspect this is less about genuine concern for other human beings on your part, and more about you thinking anyone who doesn't make the sexual choices you would, is an ignorant wh*re that needs you to tell them to keep their legs closed.

posted December 23, 2012 02:59 AM            

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Originally posted by StacyLewis:
You wanna explain to me then how people who are in long-term relationships with HIV positive individuals, don't contract the virus when they practice safe sex?

*raises eyebrow*

The sad part is, you're ignorant as h.ell and you literally have no clue about it and genuinely think you're open-minded.

As long as the people involved practice safe sex, they won't be 'spreading' anything, whether they sleep with just one person, or a thousand. And clearly, if these people are all adults, and educated ones at that, they don't need some random person on the internet like you who can barely construct a coherent, thoughtful post, lecturing them on sexually transmitted diseases.

Part of me wonders if you're just BSing here and you know this already and that this is really about you trying to bully and shame this woman into living according to YOUR personal morality code, than anything else.

And if you were so happy and loving life everyday, you wouldn't be so preoccupied with this woman's v*gina and what she chooses to do with it.

You care about preventing the spread of disease? Then go out and volunteer at places that help people with AIDS, and donate your time and money. Do something REAL to actually combat the problem. But like I said, I suspect this is less about genuine concern for other human beings on your part, and more about you thinking anyone who doesn't make the sexual choices you would, is an ignorant wh*re that needs you to tell them to keep their legs closed.

Just quit while you're behind and stop trying to tell people what to do with theirs. YOU DON'T HAVE THAT RIGHT.

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*THIS IS MY THREAD*

First off:
1. I'm a loving caring person that doesnt appricate the sick constant name calling? whats thats saying when you throw stones......

2. You and a few others became oddly defensive when i clearly said over and over "i'm not judging you", i never said you gotta keep your legs closed blah blah blah, I SAID ppl have a greater risk of spreading____ more so in open relationships condoms or not (its just a statement)

3. I didnt make this thread to bully, judge, or fight. Just was curious to see how many are in open relationships these days.

4. And i'm pretty educated on viruses cause, um, well i'm HIV positive and we used a condom start to finish, so all i wish is for ppl to be alittle more cautious because if you read between the lines you wouldve seen, "do you, but watch for the flying monkeys". cause alotta ppl know they have it but dont care to say anything just to get nut.

5. I live in Baton R, Louisiana for that someone that was interested.

6. (read my first post)
To all my 5 friends that have open relationships i'm more worried about their marriage because they've admitted to me agreeing to the open relationship distroyed the trust and respect for each other.

7. My friends consist of straights, gays, bi-sexuals, blacks, whites, asians, mexicans, crazies, gypsies, highly educated, not even a GED, poor, semi rich, druggies, drunks, straight legs, musicans and artist!!!!! so i dont care what you say baby i'm totally snow caps you just dont know me

posted December 23, 2012 03:03 AM            

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*THIS IS MY THREAD*

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posted December 23, 2012 08:43 PM            

But the males are not faithful to the females! as a matter of fact the males even gang bang females on a regular lol

posted December 23, 2012 08:47 PM            

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Originally posted by JLyn ~:
Okay check this out:
Dolphins are the second smartest mammals behind us humans, well....
MRI scans shows their brains possess self-awarness and complex emotions, also able to think abstractly and communicate through different languages like us!

But the males are not faithful to the females! as a matter of fact the males even gang bang females on a regular lol

So just a theory,
i'm thinking the humans that like open relationships male and females might have more testosterone (like the male dophines) letting their sex drive over ride the companionship?

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I had the companionship though, it wasn't *just* sex. If it was all about the sex for me, I would agree you might be on to something...

I just think some people are too jealous/possessive by nature and cannot imagine this arrangement. Those people should not try it.

posted December 23, 2012 09:24 PM            

Women of the Celts also has some chapters on the difference between love, sex, and marriage, and why Celtic women were better off that these were separated and how we'd all would be as well if we reintegrated their values into our modern society (that said, the author is a guy, though a very feminist guy). But all I'll say on it is it wasn't just about sex.

posted December 23, 2012 10:04 PM            

Now when i was younger and expereinced a 3some and had a les moment it was from intense hormones i couldnt resist. So maybe now that i'm older i look at relationships and sex as a combination like "our togetherness" our bonding thing, flirt and swag but come back home for your yum, its just outta respect