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Topic: How to handle Sagittarius guys?
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Yin
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posted February 27, 2013 04:37 PM
  
hanna,Be honest.
Be independent.
Have a sense of adventure.
Set good boundaries.
Don't be afraid to take a chance. That's pretty much it. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 27, 2013 04:42 PM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
About the Aries portion that can be true, Saggies, at least myself, tend to operate with bursts of passion and then withdrawals.I don't think that would go over to well with the Ram..  Libras and Virgos though, we seem to just mesh well. As for Airy women..not so much, just to dispassionate for me at least, then again do have all of the Scorpio and Pluto so could be more the exception than the rule.
IT DOESN'T. LOL. I have a Taurus moon trine Saturn too. I like consistency, and at a high volume for my Aries placements. What a handful, eh?! But yes that's how one of them operates. The other one seems more emotional (he has an Aries moon though) ...he actually admitted to crying at Twilight and A Walk To Remember! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 27, 2013 04:43 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
hanna,Be honest.
Be independent.
Have a sense of adventure.
Set good boundaries.
Don't be afraid to take a chance. That's pretty much it.
That's easy.  What's all this space giving though? I never text either Sag and one of them lives out of state! My point being is that doing good in giving them space? I always let them text me first. IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted February 27, 2013 04:46 PM
Umm, I'm the worst person to ask about space. Giving me space would extend to letting me putz around in the other room, while you do chores or whatever. I'm not big on space. (But my Moon is in Libra)IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 27, 2013 05:45 PM
What about pride? You know how Leos like people that hold themselves very high and are confident? What about Sags? I told one of them who said my guy friend was treating me a certain way that I was "not a f.ing second choice." Now I didn't say that in relation to the SAG treating me that way but does that sound high maintenance to a Sag or no?IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted February 27, 2013 06:00 PM
Pride - yes. Vanity - not so so much.
The biggest problem I personally have had with Aries is their stubbornness. Sometimes,when 2 fire signs get together, neither one knows how to quit. Some Aries are too crass for me too.IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted February 27, 2013 06:56 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What about pride? You know how Leos like people that hold themselves very high and are confident? What about Sags? I told one of them who said my guy friend was treating me a certain way that I was "not a f.ing second choice." Now I didn't say that in relation to the SAG treating me that way but does that sound high maintenance to a Sag or no?
Oh no, us Saggies would justify the withdrawal with "she seemed to want to be alone so I'll just call in a couple of days she knows I have to do this nonsensical thing I know she doesn't like" We'll show back up with a smurf tatoo and wonder why you mad...
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hannaramaa
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posted February 27, 2013 06:57 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
Pride - yes. Vanity - not so so much.
The biggest problem I personally have had with Aries is their stubbornness. Sometimes,when 2 fire signs get together, neither one knows how to quit. Some Aries are too crass for me too.
YEAH! I get that feeling too. I talk about redneck subjects with a valley girl voice, lol. It kind of surprises me Sags are more sensitive to crassness. I always had this picture of them being super liberal about what they think is funny, etc. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted February 27, 2013 07:21 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
Pride - yes. Vanity - not so so much.
The biggest problem I personally have had with Aries is their stubbornness. Sometimes,when 2 fire signs get together, neither one knows how to quit. Some Aries are too crass for me too.
That's the way I feel about my mother.  Then we back down and get along for a while, before there's another round of bad feeling. This is all new for us - in the past year. She can get *very* angry, and now I'm rivalling her in that, but I still get over (most) things faster than she does. IP: Logged |
starfairy
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posted February 27, 2013 07:43 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
Pride - yes. Vanity - not so so much.
The biggest problem I personally have had with Aries is their stubbornness. Sometimes,when 2 fire signs get together, neither one knows how to quit. Some Aries are too crass for me too.
Me too! I've definitely noticed a lot of competition between my Aries friends and I. I dislike the crassness, too (Venus in Capricorn).
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starfairy
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posted February 27, 2013 07:52 PM
Hanna- yes, Sags have plenty of pride. I've noticed some Sags are big know-it-alls- I know I am. For me, insulting my beliefs or ideas is extremely offensive.My sister and mom are both Sags (both also have Cancer Asc and Venus in Scorp), and they have a lot of pride in themselves. Some of the Sag guys I've known have been a little *too* confident for my liking. They all had at least 2 inner planets in fire, though. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 27, 2013 07:58 PM
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Hanna- yes, Sags have plenty of pride. I've noticed some Sags are big know-it-alls- I know I am. For me, insulting my beliefs or ideas is extremely offensive.My sister and mom are both Sags (both also have Cancer Asc and Venus in Scorp), and they have a lot of pride in themselves. Some of the Sag guys I've known have been a little *too* confident for my liking. They all had at least 2 inner planets in fire, though.
YES no I noticed that. I just didn't know how they responded to pride from other people. Pride that doesn't conflict with their own but that shows nonetheless (like in the example I gave about stating I'm not a second choice.) Leos admire that, but does that kind of haughtiness bother or attract Sags? IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted February 27, 2013 08:06 PM
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Originally posted by starfairy:
Me too! I've definitely noticed a lot of competition between my Aries friends and I. I dislike the crassness, too (Venus in Capricorn).
I don't think I'm that crass, and I'm an Aries. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 27, 2013 08:22 PM
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I don't think I'm that crass, and I'm an Aries.
Then it didn't apply to you...
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teasel
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posted February 27, 2013 08:27 PM
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Then it didn't apply to you...
Does it apply to you? The Aries I know are mostly tame, but witty. Not disgusting. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted February 27, 2013 08:32 PM
Oh, and hanna: I had a crush on a Sadge last year, but I wasn't his type (at least, the little he knew of me). When I was young, I had one who hung around me all the time - so much, I was teased about it. We were good friends, although a part of me thinks that I was a challenge to him (I was one of the few to not throw myself at him). IP: Logged |
starfairy
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posted February 27, 2013 08:35 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Then it didn't apply to you...
Exactly! I like you. When people make general statements about a sign, these kinds of responses always come up. It obviously depends on the rest of a person's chart, how their Sun is aspected, etc. That should go without saying. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 27, 2013 08:36 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
Does it apply to you?The Aries I know are mostly tame, but witty. Not disgusting.
Not 100% of the time. I can definitely be crass though. IP: Logged |
starfairy
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posted February 27, 2013 08:38 PM
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Does it apply to you?The Aries I know are mostly tame, but witty. Not disgusting.
I know about 4 really crass Aries people, but they are all men. The Aries girls I know are funny and cool, but not crass. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted February 27, 2013 08:44 PM
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Exactly! I like you.
And I have no problem with you. I'm just surprised by the comments here, but I should be used to them by now. IP: Logged |
starfairy
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posted February 27, 2013 09:08 PM
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And I have no problem with you. I'm just surprised by the comments here, but I should be used to them by now.
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hannaramaa
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posted February 27, 2013 09:41 PM
UGH.Me: "Tell me something random! I'm bored."
Him: "I miss us. =/"
Me: "What does that mean?"
Him: "Lol yeah idk"
Him: "Uhhhh. I wish I was smarter."
Me (and this is me skipping some texts 'cause they don't matter): "You can't just throw out 'i miss us.' and not explain... js"
Him: "I meant the united states. Duh"
Me: "Hahahaha okay." (even though I seriously want to throw my phone for thinking he was being honest)
Me: "Told ya I wish I was smarter"
Him: "I ain't even mad at ya lol"
Me: "What do you miss?"
Him: "Freedom."
.... I told him to go away, haha! I mean he's clearly lying for who knows why. Oh, I know why. Because he just likes playing with my feelings... and he knows it. #MAD. IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted February 27, 2013 09:56 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
UGH.Me: "Tell me something random! I'm bored."
Him: "I miss us. =/"
Me: "What does that mean?"
Him: "Lol yeah idk"
Him: "Uhhhh. I wish I was smarter."
Me (and this is me skipping some texts 'cause they don't matter): "You can't just throw out 'i miss us.' and not explain... js"
Him: "I meant the united states. Duh"
Me: "Hahahaha okay." (even though I seriously want to throw my phone for thinking he was being honest)
Me: "Told ya I wish I was smarter"
Him: "I ain't even mad at ya lol"
Me: "What do you miss?"
Him: "Freedom."
.... I told him to go away, haha! I mean he's clearly lying for who knows why. Oh, I know why. Because he just likes playing with my feelings... and he knows it. #MAD.
Uhm, yep..more or less..that is one of us Saggies... BUT don't think he is intentionally playing with your emotions..hopefully. On St Valentine's Day a mutual couple, well the Saggie guy and lady whose chart I do not know mutually posted a picture she drew for him that said: "Stop Stalin" Of course he liked it, then on facebook a different lady pledged her eternal love for Mr Saggie. Gosh, we are sort of the villains of romance I'd guess
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hannaramaa
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posted February 27, 2013 10:04 PM
Oh, pffftt. He's playing them. Mercury in Scorpio, Mars in Scorpio? C'mon. He's intentionally just getting a rise out of me. IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted February 27, 2013 11:46 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Oh, pffftt. He's playing them. Mercury in Scorpio, Mars in Scorpio? C'mon. He's intentionally just getting a rise out of me.
If one wishes a "magic spell" for a Saggie, just say: "If you love me, you'd be here with me" Uhm, yeah, it works. There is no possible defense IP: Logged |
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