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Topic: How to handle Sagittarius guys?
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6547 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 11:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: If one wishes a "magic spell" for a Saggie, just say:"If you love me, you'd be here with me" Uhm, yeah, it works. There is no possible defense
I'll try it. Just to watch him get awkward (he has a Cap moon)
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Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3181 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted February 28, 2013 12:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I'll try it. Just to watch him get awkward (he has a Cap moon)
It'll work for a bit.  Fair warning tho, don't do it to often, but if you need an appearance..just kryptonite for a Saggie. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 206 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 28, 2013 01:36 AM
Yes, space-and lots of it.Discussions about worldly issues? Lots of those. Trips to go camping/fishing/hiking or some outdoors trip? Lots of those. Meeting of Mom and Dad? None of that! Unless really necessary. Jokes, riddles, pranks? Absolutely. Lots of those. Not taking much of what he says in jest seriously? Absolutely. Saggittarians like a sense of humour , we find that skill very sexy. But the humour has to be to our taste(therein lies the rub). This is why Cancer falls in the "Natural" eighth house of Sagittarius. Can you say hilarious? When at their absolute best, Cancer can have the Sagittarian eating out of the palm of their hands. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 5974 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 28, 2013 10:34 AM
Both Sadgies I liked love their families, and like to spend time with friends. One, my childhood friend, actually had a facebook group dedicated to drinking with him for several days straight - but they're hard workers, too. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2886 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 28, 2013 10:52 AM
Be a Sagittarius, a Libra, or a Leo. That's the best advice I can give you.IP: Logged |
Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 402 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 28, 2013 04:50 PM
Sag with merc + mars in Scorpio? Haha, sounds like the one I'm with. Definitely quite "sneaky" but its like playful sneaky. Not sneaky in the sense that they'll murder you and screw you over.Sag girls - I have always had a great friends (girls) who are sag. We tend to talk for hours straight about almost EVERYTHING. We get along great and click very well together. Sag guys - Besides my guy, I have another close male friend who is also Sag. Him and I get along great! The common thing about all of these people is that they love a good laugh. I'm a goof ball myself at times, so theres no issues with the humor . Just be yourself, open up and have a good time! So..atleast for me, this Libra has great relationships with Saggies! IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 28, 2013 05:13 PM
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So..atleast for me, this Libra has great relationships with Saggies! [/B]
I know so many Sag-Libra couples. My Sag sis is engaged to a Libra. My mom is a sag, and my dad is a Scorp but has a stellium in Libra. My Sag best friend has been with a Libra for 9 years. My other Sag friend is single, but she's looking for a Libra! They all tell me they like Libras because they're not clingy, give space, but are still very cooperative and know how to compromise. My dad and my sister's fiance are perfect gentlemen and let my sister and mom do whatever they want, whenever they want. IP: Logged |
aquagirl92 Knowflake Posts: 54 From: toronto, canada Registered: Jul 2012
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posted February 28, 2013 09:52 PM
what about sag and aqua?IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 28, 2013 10:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquagirl92: what about sag and aqua?
Personally, aquas are my favorite! I love them so much. I'm so attracted to aqua men (my mars is in aqua). They know how to keep my interest. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6547 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 01, 2013 06:50 PM
I love Aqua guys! I don't care if my DSC is in Sagittarius and Jupiter is in the 12th. Sag guys always evoke strong emotions out of me and leave me to pick up the pieces afterwards. >.<IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 1285 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 01, 2013 07:10 PM
It's pretty easy with Sag guys. 1.Be their friend 2.Be assertive 3.Be independent 4.Be honest 5.Be playful and laid back 6.Be knowledgeable and a good conversationalist 7.Be relaxed and not demanding. Sag guys don't really like high maintenance girls. 8.Be up for a good time! Be spontaneous, but not reckless. So that's why Libra placement people with one or more fire placements (either rising or planet) go well with Sags. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6547 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 01, 2013 07:54 PM
I'm their friend inside to an extent, but the two Sag guys I've liked (I've liked three but the third one hasn't done this..yet) mentioned other girls to me. And for some reason when it's Aquas or Sags I fly off the handle (inside) at the thought of them liking other girls that way, and not me. I wonder why it's those two signs, or why my reaction is SO strong. Seriously. Other signs I'm able to brush the sting off a LOT easier. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3552 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 01, 2013 08:40 PM
I think I know what it is hannarama ^ You feel that way because on some level you sense that it is intentional.If someone mentions someone they like simply because they truly *do* like that girl... then - whatever.. But if they mention that intentionally because they want to get a reaction out of you... it can be pretty aggravating for an Aries person. We do not like sh*t stirrers... and Sags tend to sh*t stir when bored. Aries people react aggressively to sh*t stirring. They don't see it as light-hearted or humorous. Maybe subconsciously you're picking on on his vibe - and his vibe is kind of 'nasty' -- intentionally trying to instigate you by talking about other girls. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3552 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 01, 2013 08:47 PM
Sometimes they really can be intentionally nasty. This isn't something your read much about Sag. It's not very frequent ^ but it does happen... They can shoot barbed arrows at people with intent (not just by accident). IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 8837 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 01, 2013 08:49 PM
Uggh sags... you don't handle them, they handle YOU!IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6547 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 01, 2013 11:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: I think I know what it is hannarama ^ You feel that way because on some level you sense that it is intentional.
YES! YES exactly! YES. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1531 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 02, 2013 01:42 AM
The best way to handle them is to run as far as you can and dont look back. Venus in sags are an even bigger nightmare :/ IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3181 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 02, 2013 01:50 AM
This is funny stuff, Saggies ("us") certainly are polarizing.odd thing is, Saggies seem to be somewhat rare, as in I've run into maybe 2 in the last 10 yrs or so.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6547 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 02, 2013 02:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: The best way to handle them is to run as far as you can and dont look back. Venus in sags are an even bigger nightmare :/
What's nightmarish about them? I like Sag/Scorpios combination people but it has to be the right combination. Plus, I don't think the feeling is mutual.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6547 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 02, 2013 01:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: This is funny stuff, Saggies ("us") certainly are polarizing.odd thing is, Saggies seem to be somewhat rare, as in I've run into maybe 2 in the last 10 yrs or so.
I've run into 3 in the last 3 months! IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3181 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 02, 2013 01:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I've run into 3 in the last 3 months!
hmm, you were probably at a library, a circus or a coffee shop..  IP: Logged |
Lunae Knowflake Posts: 2111 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 02, 2013 01:54 PM
I have this guy friend who has a stellium in Sagittarius (sun, moon, mercury and venus). He is LOADS of fun, very child-like and smart. He's good natured too and is very capable of being a great leader. He's like the little brother I never had XDanyways, what I have learned from this Saggie guy that they really need freedom-- in thoughts, actions and words. They also are big on sincerity. They don't really fuss about whay you do or say as long as you're sincere about it. They, in turn, will also be truthful to you as much as they can. They are very loyal friends (and lovers). I also noticed that when saggies fall in love, they usually don't rush in like Ariens or shower lots of affection like Leos. I don't know if it's true for most sags, but I noticed that they can actually be really flirty like Geminis but the difference is that they prefer to start out as friends and joke around rather than aggresively moving in for the kill. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6547 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 02, 2013 02:16 PM
I agree with you Lunae! The Sag guy I like is not that fun to talk to - he's a little boring because to get him to talk a lot I have to ask him about himself... However, he's child-like and no, doesn't rush in at all. I mean I didn't know he was interested in me 'til he started asking me some specific questions. Even then I didn't really take it seriously because of our circumstances! They're a little bit more bizarre in their flirting techniques than Geminis, I think. Only because Geminis bubbly nature can be seen as being flirty, but Sags will say something outlandish that one wouldn't think you say unless you actually want it and then they seem to recoil when you take them up on their offer, lol. If they're not interested of course.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6547 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 02, 2013 02:18 PM
I guess I just REALLY wish I was easy going, and didn't have expectations because those seem to be my downfalls in getting along with Sag guys (long-term). I have such high hopes for our future and then they make me think one thing, do another, say a completely different other thing... I don't like it. It's a roller coaster of emotions!IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted March 02, 2013 02:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I agree with you Lunae! The Sag guy I like is not that fun to talk to - he's a little boring because to get him to talk a lot I have to ask him about himself... However, he's child-like and no, doesn't rush in at all. I mean I didn't know he was interested in me 'til he started asking me some specific questions. Even then I didn't really take it seriously because of our circumstances! They're a little bit more bizarre in their flirting techniques than Geminis, I think. Only because Geminis bubbly nature can be seen as being flirty, but Sags will say something outlandish that one wouldn't think you say unless you actually want it and then they seem to recoil when you take them up on their offer, lol. If they're not interested of course.
Well, one of the sags has Merc in Cap, and the other has Merc in Scorp, right? So that could be the source of the communication issue. And if the guy you're referring to is the one with Venus in Cap, don't expect him to rush in! lol I have Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Venus in Cap, too, and I NEVER rush in! never ever ever! Venus in Cap's approach to love can be quite slow and cautious. IP: Logged |