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Topic: How to handle Sagittarius guys?
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Odette Knowflake Posts: 3552 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 09:18 PM
^^^ .... Well it is an intellectual sign...... I'm surprised you guys would say this. Gemini is not physical and they have a very strange relationship with their own animality.. There are many things like smells, bodily fluids, bodily reactions etc... that Gemini people cannot deal with and that scare them. They analyse these things on a detached mental level but they find it difficult to let go and really enjoy the experience. IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted March 03, 2013 09:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: I feel sags is more drawn to geminis. Thou it should be the other way around since gemini is the student and sag is the teacher. I feel sags are more drawn to me than I am to them. I like their company but not really as a romantic interest. I dunno why thou, I've never even tried it.An easier of putting is like a dog chasing a cat. or maybe cause teachers always fantasize about their students.... LOL JK
I have the exact opposite experience; I have Sag Ascendant and Sun, and Geminis are VERY drawn to me, but I'm not drawn to them at all. I've tried to date Geminis in the past (tried 2 last year), but there was nothing there on my end. I think the attraction has a LOT to do with the Ascendant, too. Like you, I have my Sun and Ascendant in the same sign, so I think that has a lot to do with the fact that we draw in our opposite sign so strongly. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3552 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 10:02 PM
quote: I've tried to date Geminis in the past (tried 2 last year), but there was nothing there on my end.
Sag woman - Gemini man is not as good. IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3181 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 10:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: ^^^ .... Well it is an intellectual sign...... I'm surprised you guys would say this. Gemini is not physical and they have a very strange relationship with their own animality.. There are many things like smells, bodily fluids, bodily reactions etc... that Gemini people cannot deal with and that scare them. They analyse these things on a detached mental level but they find it difficult to let go and really enjoy the experience.
How odd, for me the Geminis I've known were rather down and dirty and did not mind virtually anything at all. INOW, they tended to really really value their pleasures.
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 8837 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 10:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: ^^^ .... Well it is an intellectual sign...... I'm surprised you guys would say this. Gemini is not physical and they have a very strange relationship with their own animality.. There are many things like smells, bodily fluids, bodily reactions etc... that Gemini people cannot deal with and that scare them. They analyse these things on a detached mental level but they find it difficult to let go and really enjoy the experience.
Uhm no girl, my whole chart is primarily Gemini. I'm very drawn to mental stimulation more then sex (well I am a virgin) but I'm not retarded. Sex and farting is natural lol, its apart of being a human... I can belch the alphabet. Its my greatest accomplishment. I know a lot of geminis can detach sex and mental stimulation. Gemini is one of the most promiscuous signs in the zodiac so I don't know where found that theory from lol.. Also your I bet your gemini friends act scared of sex because they're actually extremely sexuality active. I bet they're scare that people would judge them lmaao.
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Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3181 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 10:15 PM
From a Saggie pov, that sort of straight forwardness can draw a variable reaction. Meaning, if we "know" they are kinky then it's fine, when it comes out of the blue..my experience is I'm put off by it. For example, a lesbian friend mentioned she is semi Bi, and we'd chat and sex would come up, when it became clear that "sex with you' was what she was driving at became clear it was not off putting. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3552 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 01:16 AM
quote: its apart of being a human... I can belch the alphabet.
hahahaha LOL I'd love to hear you doing that  I mean Geminis are hilarious as well!! But hmmmmm - I'm not sure if I'm really explaining this properly.. Basically - I would associate aries-like sexuality with this picture: And gemini-like sexuality with this picture (I know she is an aquarius sun sign though.. I am just talking about the photo and her pose/expression): Basically Gemini seems more feminine, less threatening or sweeter... Aries is a lot more overt and sexually aggressive.. It's probably one of the most masculine signs being both a fire sign and ruled by Mars (planet of sex). This kind of very assertive or aggressive sexuality (almost animalistic) can be scary to *some* (not all) Sagittarian men.
They feel safer with a girl who is "sweet".. Do you know what I mean? Although, usually they are still sexually attracted to the Aries-type. It depends on how confident the Sagittarian is in his own masculinity. IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3181 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 02:31 AM
"Basically Gemini seems more feminine, less threatening or sweeter... Aries is a lot more overt and sexually aggressive.. It's probably one of the most masculine signs being both a fire sign and ruled by Mars (planet of sex). This kind of very assertive or aggressive sexuality (almost animalistic) can be scary to *some* (not all) Sagittarian men.They feel safer with a girl who is "sweet".. Do you know what I mean? Although, usually they are still sexually attracted to the Aries-type. It depends on how confident the Sagittarian is in his own masculinity" Oh no, at least for me, not at all. One of the things with a Saggie is we have a duality, have man have horse, we can handle either way. BUT, tbh, looks alone just does nothing for me at least, find it boring unless they have a passion or some interest that intrigues. Personally Portman is more interesting to me than Servani as she has a huge passion for some causes. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3552 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 05:19 PM
quote: Oh no, at least for me, not at all.
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Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1531 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 04, 2013 08:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: ^^^ .... Well it is an intellectual sign...... I'm surprised you guys would say this. Gemini is not physical and they have a very strange relationship with their own animality.. There are many things like smells, bodily fluids, bodily reactions etc... that Gemini people cannot deal with and that scare them. They analyse these things on a detached mental level but they find it difficult to let go and really enjoy the experience.
Doesnt sound like me at all lol
Guess it depends on the chart. ------------------
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Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1531 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 04, 2013 08:12 PM
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Basically Gemini seems more feminine, less threatening or sweeter... Aries is a lot more overt and sexually aggressive.. It's probably one of the most masculine signs being both a fire sign and ruled by Mars (planet of sex). This kind of very assertive or aggressive sexuality (almost animalistic) can be scary to *some* (not all) Sagittarian men. They feel safer with a girl who is "sweet".. Do you know what I mean? Although, usually they are still sexually attracted to the Aries-type. It depends on how confident the Sagittarian is in his own masculinity.
Lol careful you might be viewing the sweet side sometimes. Remember 10 mins later they will be someone else 
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Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1531 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 04, 2013 08:14 PM
I notice sags like to travel and usually are atteacted to a partner who is a different ethnicity then they are.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6547 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 04, 2013 08:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: I notice sags like to travel and usually are atteacted to a partner who is a different ethnicity then they are.
I totally agree with this! Although... and this is not meant to be hateful at all, I notice Sags and (Aquas, sometimes) tend to be friends with a lot of black people! I have Sag DSC and I make friends really easily with black people compared to other ethnicities. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3552 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 08:47 PM
I'm sure it doesn't sound anything like anyone on here. You are all a very sexually confident bunch of people. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1531 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 04, 2013 08:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I totally agree with this! Although... and this is not meant to be hateful at all, I notice Sags and (Aquas, sometimes) tend to be friends with a lot of black people! I have Sag DSC and I make friends really easily with black people compared to other ethnicities.
My cousin is a sag and shes hispanic. She loves white guys. Her ex boyfriend if 4 years was also a sag. He was white and loved latina and black women. My ex capricorn boyfriend had venus in sag. He only dated latina or black women.
His mother was racist and he ended many relationships because of her. I am a latina but fair skinned. Guess i passed her white test because she loved me and was dying for us to get married :/
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Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3181 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 09:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I totally agree with this! Although... and this is not meant to be hateful at all, I notice Sags and (Aquas, sometimes) tend to be friends with a lot of black people! I have Sag DSC and I make friends really easily with black people compared to other ethnicities.
This is also a truism, when I worked at a place with largely Mexican/ESL co workers, learned to savvy Spanish and made many good friends there. Some dear dear close people to me, one a lesbian, the other a musician/crackhead, and we became really tight. As in "we thought about naming the baby after you..but it was she not a he" tight We don't have time to divide so to speak, Saggie's roll with it.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6547 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 04, 2013 09:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: My cousin is a sag and shes hispanic. She loves white guys. Her ex boyfriend if 4 years was also a sag. He was white and loved latina and black women. My ex capricorn boyfriend had venus in sag. He only dated latina or black women.
His mother was racist and he ended many relationships because of her. I am a latina but fair skinned. Guess i passed her white test because she loved me and was dying for us to get married :/
Oh wow that's terrible. I knew an Aqua who loved hispanics though! I have Sag DSC and realized I have all different types of friends ethnicity wise. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1531 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 04, 2013 09:16 PM
Ethnicity is nothing to me. I live in new york city. Capital of the world. Grew up with all types if people. Growing up.....in school we use to learn a bit of everyones language. Curses first of course 
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Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1531 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 04, 2013 09:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: This is also a truism, when I worked at a place with largely Mexican/ESL co workers, learned to savvy Spanish and made many good friends there.Some dear dear close people to me, one a lesbian, the other a musician/crackhead, and we became really tight. As in "we thought about naming the baby after you..but it was she not a he" tight We don't have time to divide so to speak, Saggie's roll with it.
Hahaha today i was at the store a muslim man owns. A mexican man who is a regular walked in and yelled out salam aleykum. God bless this store lol!
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Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3181 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 09:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: Hahaha today i was at the store a muslim man owns. A mexican man who is a regular walked in and yelled out salam aleykum. God bless this store lol!
Nice, would have probably refrained from salam alkyujm b/c it may have seemed patronizing. Hate that Somewhere on the Earth, Lord willing, I have a Brother whom my mom (a Pisces) gave up, in the early 60's b/c he was mixed and at that time it simply was not done. So uhm, yeah, not to thrilled with the racist crap. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1531 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 04, 2013 09:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: Nice, would have probably refrained from salam alkyujm b/c it may have seemed patronizing.Hate that Somewhere on the Earth, Lord willing, I have a Brother whom my mom (a Pisces) gave up, in the early 60's b/c he was mixed and at that time it simply was not done. So uhm, yeah, not to thrilled with the racist crap.
They didnt mind. He was met with aleykum salams and hi fives lol
Thats so sad about your brother. ;(
Have u tried looking for him?
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Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3181 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 04, 2013 09:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: They didnt mind. He was met with aleykum salams and hi fives lol Thats so sad about your brother. ;(
Have u tried looking for him?
No, she only brought it up once, and only b/c..tbh..was doing some less then kind digging into the dirt at the time. 8th house Scorpio means..if you are near me, I shall dig, and dig, and dig, until I know all there is to know.
Then we can have a nice meal. Have asked and now she flatly denies ever saying it at all. Very Piscean.
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Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1531 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 04, 2013 11:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: No, she only brought it up once, and only b/c..tbh..was doing some less then kind digging into the dirt at the time. 8th house Scorpio means..if you are near me, I shall dig, and dig, and dig, until I know all there is to know.
Then we can have a nice meal. Have asked and now she flatly denies ever saying it at all. Very Piscean.
What sign are you? Ughhh pisces i dont trust them.
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Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3181 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 03:37 AM
pillows..they turn into pillows..IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3181 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 10:43 PM
As for the diverse friends..omg..my lesbian friend, a black young lady (Virgo) and I were taking the bus home from collegeHad the bike on the front Anywho, this shorter red headed girl and I were uhm, chatting. She was a like "I'm down, I'm down" ie she wanted to uhm make the beast with two backs For my part, Saggie oblviousness, did not realize she wanted to get under my cape so to speak. Which confused the heck out of her. Basically "I'm down" meant something that uhm, had no idea of at the time. She got slightly offended and played it off. (Which for me is not unusual, when I'm oblvious or just not into it, they tend to get really upset suspect it is that they were more forward then usual and felt rejected) Route runs, and I look at my friend and asked her about it and shall never forget her response: "***** knew what she was doing" OMG..kills me to this day thinking about it, my goodness..that was funny...  This is where I diverge from YTA, memories such as that are priceless IP: Logged |