posted July 20, 2013 06:03 AM            

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And if he just wanted sex he could probably find it in much closer proximity without jeopardizing a relationship with someone he works with imo

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So she'd drive 1.5 h to see him at this bar for say a couple of hours and then drive back 1.5 h to her place and never even step into his house/apt? Do you think he wouldn't have asked her to come over?

I didn't mean to say he wanted sex in general (although maybe he did try with other girls - who knows?).. I thought he wanted sex with her personally and maybe he was also curious whether she would go for it & drive all the way there just to be with him. It depends on how much of an ego maniac he is & the relationship dynamics.

I wish more men answered this thread.

posted July 20, 2013 06:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Do you know if his parents were home that night?
Because actually the guy I mentioned who is going to study in Berlin also lives with his parents but he was on his own since they were away that week ( when he wanted me to come over & move in).

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posted July 20, 2013 07:11 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Hanna this guy is tough to figure out but if you like him, all I can tell you is keep trying to go out. The worst he can do is say no in whatever way but if he eventually agrees, it could be the beginning of a beautiful relationship.

If he takes too long to finally decide, don't limit yourself to other possibilities.

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She asked him once though and he already said no, why would a women push a man into to having a real date? If he had said yes then this thread wouldn't have even happened. As you and Odette have said be isn't playing games he has made it clear what he wants.

And anybody can say they are interested but we all know actions are the real determining factor of ones level of interest. This situation isn't any different just because we're on a astro website.

posted July 20, 2013 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Men with Capricorn, Aquarius, and Sagittarius influences.........stay away.

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Especially if its their moon or Venus....yikes!!

I think sag moon with Taurus moon are on opp ends of the earth.

posted July 20, 2013 07:47 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
She asked him once though and he already said no, why would a women push a man into to having a real date? If he had said yes then this thread wouldn't have even happened. As you and Odette have said be isn't playing games he has made it clear what he wants.

And anybody can say they are interested but we all know actions are the real determining factor of ones level of interest. This situation isn't any different just because we're on a astro website.

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posted July 20, 2013 08:21 PM            

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She asked him once though and he already said no, why would a women push a man into to having a real date?

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posted July 20, 2013 08:27 PM            

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What gives? If you like someone, don't you jump at the chance to spend time with them?

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posted July 20, 2013 09:59 PM            

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He also began ignoring my messages after I said I wanted to stay friends instead. He's being a typical selfish 22 year old and just because I am recognizing it does not mean I'm condoning it.

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posted July 22, 2013 01:57 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I don't think it's necessary to talk about it anymore. I genuinely wanted to know about Cap sun Venus Aqua placements because I've seen this "aloof" behavior several times despite there being interest. I know when a guy just wants sex, and he did not just want sex, in my opinion, but good luck trying to convince the rest of you that - which I don't need to. He is obviously imperfect, no denying that. He also began ignoring my messages after I said I wanted to stay friends instead. He's being a typical selfish 22 year old and just because I am recognizing it does not mean I'm condoning it. However, I am done with this topic and appreciate the responses despite me not agreeing with all of them.

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But your thread was not about astro placements it was about an individual and you changed your tune once you saw the responses you were getting. It cool and all but dont front!

posted July 22, 2013 02:38 PM            

It's fair game for her to do whatever she wants with him now.

posted July 22, 2013 02:46 PM            

A few years ago I would of played the field but honestly I'm so over it..

posted July 22, 2013 02:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
oh man I just went through being played...
please don't do that
I personally still believe he actually did really like you
idk about other venus in cap people but we tend to be very insecure and
as soon as we heard 'friends' we just got scared thats all

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posted July 22, 2013 03:02 PM            

but I just went through similar situation where I actually liked the girl but I withdrew because she cancelled the date and counter offered like 30 minutes before the date
the girl got the impression that I didn't really care for her because I didn't jump on the counter offer

and after that the girl just played with my head for like a yearrr
it really hurtsss!!

posted July 22, 2013 03:10 PM            

Life is too short and most people have no patience to make a thread about it lol.

posted July 22, 2013 03:21 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
We have all been played at least once...But why are we harping on the the fact that this dude "liked" her? If he liked her then why are we all over here trying to decipher his actions? And if he did like her then it wasnt enough to take her on a date and not ignore her calls. Him liking her isnt the issue at all. and being 22 hasnt zilch to do with anything..Maturity isnt about age...why make excuses for this dude?

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hmm you are right! ignoring calls was a big no no even though I still get why he did that but.. still a big no no