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its_aqua
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posted July 24, 2013 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for its_aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay there are people who are totally different than the vibe you get from them.
My friend is very cute and sweet and people think shes so sweet and all, like a little kid unable to harm anyone, but in fact shes a lot smarter and complex and all than she appears to be. I guess everybody has a friend who is like that, very different than what everyone thinks bout them!

So aspects/placements?
Or is it just a synastry thing? Probably Neptune in the way?

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 24, 2013 08:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Squares to the MC from the AC, maybe? Oppositions from the DC to the AC? Just two examples.

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12muddy
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posted July 24, 2013 08:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess... many aspects to moon, sun or ascendant ?? Those aspects influence the "images" and our feelings, hence giving the person a "more" complex, multi-faceted personality?

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KarkaQueen
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posted July 24, 2013 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neptune is the ultimate two faced deceiver

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starmoon
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posted July 24, 2013 10:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i was just discussing this with someone i'm close to. as a person i come across very feminine to men in the way i dress and act, but the minute they get to know me better it turns to dislike because i am very strong-willed and determined, more like a man with my intellect and sharp tongue. it's a bit 'deceptive' in the sense that the quiet, feminine woman they see won't be what they get. i do have neptune in the 1st house, but also a 'quiet' ASC that hides very strong conjunctions (sun-pluto-mars almost exact conjunct). my opinion would be neptune close to the ASC, or an ASC that 'masks' a much stronger personality. I do think it's Neptune influenced though - we have a tendency to deceive others (and ourselves) for some purpose

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posted July 24, 2013 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Libra or Taurus Asc squaring with Sun
Or ASC squares sun

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KarkaQueen
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posted July 24, 2013 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starmoon:
i was just discussing this with someone i'm close to. as a person i come across very feminine to men in the way i dress and act, but the minute they get to know me better it turns to dislike because i am very strong-willed and determined, more like a man with my intellect and sharp tongue. it's a bit 'deceptive' in the sense that the quiet, feminine woman they see won't be what they get. i do have neptune in the 1st house, but also a 'quiet' ASC that hides very strong conjunctions (sun-pluto-mars almost exact conjunct). my opinion would be neptune close to the ASC, or an ASC that 'masks' a much stronger personality. I do think it's Neptune influenced though - we have a tendency to deceive others (and ourselves) for some purpose

I have Neptune conjunct my Ascendant and opposite my Sun and I agree with you. Some people use their Neptune energy very negatively. Also it can be a generational effect where u have Neptune opposite ur Venus effect

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Ami Anne
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posted July 24, 2013 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Neptune is the ultimate two faced deceiver


How so? I don't feel Neptune that way.

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KarkaQueen
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posted July 24, 2013 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

How so? I don't feel Neptune that way.



When Neptune is at its most negative that is what it is. a con artist. ect

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lalalinda
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posted July 24, 2013 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hard aspects to the Ascendant from the Sun and/or Moon.

The reason for this is because your Ascendant or veneer (the personality you show to the world) is not in sync with your Sun (self) or Moon (emotional attitude).

This doesn't make for a bad personality but it shows that you are not comfortable leaving yourself open or exposed so you put up walls to avoid this.

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Jessica2407
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posted July 24, 2013 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think cap riser generally aren't truly what they appear to be. Am one. I have Sun,Saturn,Lilith,Chiron sq ASC. I'm very private. Am sure the people on here who has had the opportunity to talk to me on one to one setting will also say that I'm completely different from what I sound on here.

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posted July 24, 2013 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun square AC. I have this tight and a tight opposition to my moon

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Leocassandra
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posted July 24, 2013 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leocassandra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neptune conjunct/square/opposition to Sun/Moon/ASC.
Sun/Moon square ASC
Personal Planets in 12th house

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posted July 24, 2013 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm kind of this way!

In high school, I looked like I didn't do anything...It was pretty much true at first. When certain people got to know me better, they where like "YOU DO THAT!? You look like you don't do anything."

A friend that I've known since I was 5, told me yeah if I didn't know you, I wouldn't think you are the way you are by looking at you. haha!

One of my co-workers and I like to joke around swear and do inappropriate gestures when the kids aren't listening or looking at us.
Her girlfriend said "I can't believe you said that to Stawr!" I guess I look like a proper prude or something.
But I told her girlfriend "Off the clock, I FLIP THE SCRIPT!"

I definitely don't swear as much as I use to, I had a sailor mouth from 17-20.

I also don't look like I would listen to metal, rap and sometimes popular music. haha

Plus I've worked in Catholic/Christian environments...and I've thought religion is BS since age 17.

Gem asc, Aries Sun house 11, Scorpio Moon house 6.

I also look like I would excel at everything in school. Not true. Teacher's, principals, counselors never believed me when I or my mom said needed a slow math class. They didn't take my nor my mother's word for it and would put me in the college level math class, because I didn't fit the stereo type of a kid that struggles in math and sometimes science looks and acts like.
It wasn't until they saw my math report card that they would would go "oh, yeah you do need an easier class." Ughhh told ya @$$holes!

Also I'm kind of a mind fuq, like I said I look like I'm smart at everything. Sometimes people will flock to me for help at first...but then I have blonde moments at times, and can act like a ditz. So then when people start making comments about me not having much going on in my head...sometimes I will tear them apart, and will pretty much let them know 'if I have nothing going on my head how come I'm more successful in this department. I must be doing something right.' But with the people that are not rude, I will share my deep thoughts or have a deep conversation with them.

Sometimes I am so sarcastic that people really think I am dumb. Like my own sister. One time made a comment to me, where you THINK it would be obvious that I was playing dumb and messing w/ second grade cousin. No I guess my sister and other people there really thought I was that stupid. And I told my sister that she was the stupid one for not being able to tell. Only fair.

Over the weekend a guy made a sarcastic comment to my story. But I didn't choose to act like I knew he was being sarcastic and continue with my story. He felt the need to subtlety say "sarcasm!" as if I didn't pick up on it. So was so close saying something to him like "I knew you were being sarcastic moron, but thanks anyways!" But I let it slide.

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freebrainstorms
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posted August 12, 2013 02:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for freebrainstorms     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by its_aqua:
Okay there are people who are totally different than the vibe you get from them.
My friend is very cute and sweet and people think shes so sweet and all, like a little kid unable to harm anyone, but in fact shes a lot smarter and complex and all than she appears to be. I guess everybody has a friend who is like that, very different than what everyone thinks bout them!

So aspects/placements?
Or is it just a synastry thing? Probably Neptune in the way?


your description of your friend sounds exactly exactly like me.

i have my moon square both my venus and my ascendant, with my neptune trine my moon.

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Doux RÍve
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posted August 12, 2013 04:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux RÍve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess I'm quite different from what I appear to be, but then again, my personality literally shifts on a regular basis, depending on where I am, who I'm with, and what I'm doing.

I have (Gemini) ASC square Moon, sesquiquadrate Uranus & Neptune.

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arcturiann
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posted August 17, 2013 03:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for arcturiann     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have sun opposite my ascendant :0.

My asc in capricorn tends to lead people to see me as much more serious, disciplined and cold hearted than I actually am. My sun in cancer makes me really a huge sweetheart who just wants to be cuddled and to care for others but nobody would ever guess that from my appearance which is very much contradictory.

I can also say from experience that neptune conj the ascendant tends to make people see me as totally different than I am... You could ask many different people about who I am and you would get completely different answers, which confuses the heck out of me as well and I think may also have to do with my south node being in the 7th house.

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posted August 17, 2013 03:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This kind of applies to my life atm. I did some research for a company, and I got the distinct feeling that they were going to take advantage of me, thinking I'm happy to do anything for them pro bono - because I was always very nice and polite with them.
Well they are about to have a crude awakening come Monday - because I don't waste my time when it clearly won't benefit me, and when I have much better options.
And they have the audacity to get uppity with me - as though I owe them something.. when I was doing it all for free.

My AC is either Gemini or Cancer. I could appear sweeter than I am with either of those risings (since my Sun is Aries & Moon Capricorn)

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sharpei
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posted August 17, 2013 06:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
definitely applies to me- i almost feel being a blonde would suit me more- im quite light in many ways.

funny at work everyone was joking about how i would lose any catfight as im so delicate, hmm im not so sure...

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Ami Anne
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posted August 17, 2013 07:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
This kind of applies to my life atm. I did some research for a company, and I got the distinct feeling that they were going to take advantage of me, thinking I'm happy to do anything for them pro bono - because I was always very nice and polite with them.
Well they are about to have a crude awakening come Monday - because I don't waste my time when it clearly won't benefit me, and when I have much better options.
And they have the audacity to get uppity with me - as though I owe them something.. when I was doing it all for free.

My AC is either Gemini or Cancer. I could appear sweeter than I am with either of those risings (since my Sun is Aries & Moon Capricorn)


I know I said this in SW peas and I am not sure you saw because I did not go back to the thread but you seem VERY Gemini Rising to me.
Cancer Rising does not have the same kind of verbal vibe you have, the kind of playful one.
Cancer Rising does not have the energy in it's vibe that you do.

I could explain more if you wanted but as I got better in Astrology, I would ponder your ASC and it seems very Gemini like to me, even though it is close to Cancer.

I do not feel the Cancer in it.

Those are just some of my insights.

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posted August 17, 2013 09:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CatMote     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ugh i am a libra asc with aries sun. some people think im afraid to stand up for myself and are surprised when i show the infamous arian anger. and then when im showing how i really am, they ask me whats wrong! and im like...nothing is wrong, im just not being 'libran' lol

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AriesLilith
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posted August 17, 2013 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesLilith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Virgo AC square Gemini MC, with Saturn at the end of 3rd house square AC, and then my whole stellium of Sun/Moon/Venus/Mercury in Aries 8th house. This stellium is where I consider my inner core to be when it comes to my essence and personality. And then I also have Taurus Mars oppose Scorpio Pluto and these are aspected by Capricorn Neptune that together aspects AC. And then not to forget about Sun being squared by Neptune. :P

When being with people that I'm not yet completely comfortable with, I tend to be Virgo like - shy, feminine, diplomatic, mannered and afraid to look stupid by saying anything wrong. :P Then the safer I feel, the more Arien I get to show.

Some people do seem to not know how to react to my Aries side or lose interest. As for those with whom I could display my Aries side early (like when I met them online first - easier to talk online -, or when they themselves are extroverted easy going people so that I can already get along with easier), sometimes if I become Virgo like, they might also get confused and wonder if something is wrong.

And that AC square MC rather screws my career image rather than how I'm being with others during social events. :P When socializing I'm like Virgo-Aries, but when it comes to career, somehow I tend to present myself like Gemini which then conflicts with Virgo image. I don't feel authentic at times, when it comes to the career image I'd give.

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