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Topic: What Moon sign of a male makes him DISLIKE strong women?
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charlie
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posted July 23, 2015 06:51 AM
  
Hmmm my SO is an Aries Sun/Taurus Moon and his sun demands a woman to be independent and strong, sadly, his moon can't handle that type of woman all the time so he is all kinds of confused! My own Cap Moon has tendencies to be too strong for him and it's very easy for me to hurt him in various ways on an emotional level. He tries to tame me in very subtle ways and would prefer me to be "softer" (he is also a Pisces Venus, ASC)
but I have too much fire for him. He will execute fire in typical Arian style (his sun and mercury in 1H) but my fire is core deep and pretty much burn forests if I lift the lid :-/ IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted July 23, 2015 08:32 AM
Where is your fire coming from Charlie, planets/angles?IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted July 23, 2015 09:47 AM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Where is your fire coming from Charlie, planets/angles?
I don't really know to be honest! I have Mars on Asc and Moon in 5H. Sun, Moon are semi square Mars. I am also a triple Fire Dragon (don't know how much weight to put on that) with Asc, day and year. My Life Path is 5 as well so this whole need to be "free" and all what it means can make my anger intolerable. I would probably pin it down to genetics as well with my mom being a Scorpio Sun, Moon, Merc and Aries Asc...My Dad has a Leo Moon, Merc. If all other systems were to come into play I have a Sag stellium in one and a Sag Moon in another. There's fire here and here  I also have a Cardinal grand cross and I believe having a lot of Cardinal activity makes one "forward", in my case, my impatience and anger. I think the ONLY thing saving me most of the times is my Cap Moon wanting to be cool and detached but it's hard work keeping lid on! IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted July 23, 2015 10:34 AM
I don't know about strong women but afflictions between the moon and Venus produces a man who has a problem with women in general, they tend to be misogynists.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 23, 2015 11:45 AM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I don't know about strong women but afflictions between the moon and Venus produces a man who has a problem with women in general, they tend to be misogynists.
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Chief1
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posted July 23, 2015 12:20 PM
How do you define a "strong woman"? I feel like a woman's strength is her sensitivity and intuition. The idea of the independent career driven woman being strong is just a feminist definition to me. That whole movement was started by a Cia agent. I understand women who gravitate towards that tho cus the feminine principle has been supressed for so long, in men too.IP: Logged |
Koniucha
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posted July 23, 2015 12:35 PM
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Originally posted by athenaia:
Hmmm my boyfriend has a Moon in Pisces and he definitely prefers me to be the more dominant one in the relationship. In fact, I used to be a bit of a pushover until I met him but since being with him, he's given me an arena to hone some of my more stronger opinions, I've become more of an assertive person (outside of our relationship as well) as a result I'd say the closest man I've dated to this description was a Moon in Cancer guy. I legitimately think he got joy out of stamping out an independent woman's self-esteem any way he could. He has a lot of issues though (goes without saying lol)
I will agree with this. I am seeing a Libra Sun, Pisces moon man and for sure he prefers me to take the lead.
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astra7
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posted July 23, 2015 12:49 PM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
Funny, my experience with Aries men is that they're such big babies that they need a strong woman to keep them on track. Total generalisation though lol
Really? I thought the term was reserved for Cancerian type guys. lolIP: Logged |
fenia
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posted July 23, 2015 03:11 PM
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Originally posted by Chief1:
How do you define a "strong woman"? I feel like a woman's strength is her sensitivity and intuition. The idea of the independent career driven woman being strong is just a feminist definition to me. That whole movement was started by a Cia agent. I understand women who gravitate towards that tho cus the feminine principle has been supressed for so long, in men too.
Do you have afflictions between the moon and Venus too?
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Kannon McAfee
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posted July 23, 2015 03:24 PM
Nothing in a chart 'makes' someone dislike strong women. However, men have different ways of coupling compatibly. Those with Moon in Pisces or Virgo often are probably looking more for a low key relationship. What some people see as strong others will experience as dominant or just too much. I personally was born with Moon in Capricorn and while I consider my mother to be a strong woman, she may not seem that way in comparison to other women. I was prepared or trained for strong women because of my relationship with my mom who was the driving, energizing force in our household. I consider my wife a strong women with an even bigger personality than my mom. But more likely, men who actually dislike strong women are revealing their own insecurity, and possibly a desire for at least a slight upper hand. You can't lay that on someone's birth chart. People have to mature and learn their response-ability -- boys and girls alike. ------------------
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fireopal09
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posted July 23, 2015 03:58 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I don't know about strong women but afflictions between the moon and Venus produces a man who has a problem with women in general, they tend to be misogynists.
BINGO!!! ex husband was 2H Taurus Moon opposite Sun. Scorpio Venus opposite Saturn.
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Taineberry
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posted July 23, 2015 04:20 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
And prefer a woman who is obedient, sensitive, and more soft spoken??
hmmm... I assume you are implying that the definition of a "strong" woman is the antithesis of this .... perhaps "disobedient, insensitive and loud"? I would imagine that there are quite a few people in all moon signs who may not warm to someone like this, irrespective of gender. I don't really think you can equate real inner strength with the way that a person expresses themselves outwardly. Not all quiet introverts are weak and not all noisy extroverts are strong. IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted July 23, 2015 04:52 PM
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Taineberry
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posted July 23, 2015 05:13 PM
@athenaia ... Sure. Glad to help if I can. Perhaps start a thread on Personal Readings?IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted July 23, 2015 07:34 PM
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Originally posted by Taineberry:
hmmm... I assume you are implying that the definition of a "strong" woman is the antithesis of this .... perhaps "disobedient, insensitive and loud"? I would imagine that there are quite a few people in all moon signs who may not warm to someone like this, irrespective of gender.I don't really think you can equate real inner strength with the way that a person expresses themselves outwardly. Not all quiet introverts are weak and not all noisy extroverts are strong.
Nicely said! I agree! IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted July 23, 2015 07:36 PM
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Originally posted by Taineberry:
I don't really think you can equate real inner strength with the way that a person expresses themselves outwardly. Not all quiet introverts are weak and not all noisy extroverts are strong.
QFT! 
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Odette
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posted July 23, 2015 08:30 PM
For everyone who is a little bit confused about the definition of "strong".. I think we are referring to dominant/alpha vs submissive/beta - in behaviour and general lifestyle.Strength can also include: physical/psychological resilience, significant life achievements, ability to withstand adversity in life *plus* influential socio-political and/or financial power. :edit: For example: Cathy Freeman is strong.
Taylor Swift is weak. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted July 23, 2015 08:32 PM
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Originally posted by Chief1:
How do you define a "strong woman"? I feel like a woman's strength is her sensitivity and intuition. The idea of the independent career driven woman being strong is just a feminist definition to me. That whole movement was started by a Cia agent. I understand women who gravitate towards that tho cus the feminine principle has been supressed for so long, in men too.
Hi Welcome to LL!
Are you male or female? Please also include your placements - whatever you believe is relevant to the traditional views you hold. IP: Logged |
Choc
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posted July 23, 2015 09:13 PM
I have yet to meet a man with Cancer Moon to dislike strong women. They actually seem to crave a strong challenging bossy one cuz she acts as a mom substitute to themIP: Logged |
Choc
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posted July 23, 2015 09:15 PM
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Originally posted by Chief1:
How do you define a "strong woman"? I feel like a woman's strength is her sensitivity and intuition. The idea of the independent career driven woman being strong is just a feminist definition to me. That whole movement was started by a Cia agent. I understand women who gravitate towards that tho cus the feminine principle has been supressed for so long, in men too.
LOL prime example of mansplaining tomfoolery
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whaaat
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posted July 23, 2015 10:02 PM
Someone I know despises strong willed women: he's got Moon in Virgo, conjunct Uranus, opposite Saturn in Pisces. IP: Logged |
whaaat
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posted July 23, 2015 10:06 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
This is kind of.. off topic but since RAS' Chinese Astrology thread was bumped.. I've been looking into it more - and I think Dragon men are the most dominant and seem to only do well with submissive women.
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Seconded.
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whaaat
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posted July 23, 2015 10:11 PM
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Chief1
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posted July 24, 2015 12:11 AM
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Originally posted by fenia:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Chief1:
[b]How do you define a "strong woman"? I feel like a woman's strength is her sensitivity and intuition. The idea of the independent career driven woman being strong is just a feminist definition to me. That whole movement was started by a Cia agent. I understand women who gravitate towards that tho cus the feminine principle has been supressed for so long, in men too.
Do you have afflictions between the moon and Venus too?[/B][/QUOTE]There in opposite signs but not actually in opposition. Venus is low Virgo and Moon is high Pisces
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Chief1
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posted July 24, 2015 12:23 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Hi Welcome to LL!
Are you male or female? Please also include your placements - whatever you believe is relevant to the traditional views you hold.
Thanks Odette. I don't have anything in traditional signs besides Cancer rising conj South Node. I think it's my Jupiter it's at the apex of a yod from my moon and north node. My moon is conjunct my MC and my North nodes conjunct my descendant, neptune and uranus. I'm always searching for truth and along the way I found out a lot about the destruction of the feminine principle in past. It's not like there views that were handed down to me. I'm a male btw IP: Logged |
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