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Topic: Ladies man, player
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 05:24 PM
  
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I see what you mean. But I really can't get past looks though (which sucks!! I wish I could).
You could try making him over then he wouldn't be yours anymore, lol. You would be stuck with a "player" type ladies men the ladies drool over. He would face more temptation.I mean, that's one good way of looking at it. Instead of thinking the guy is hopeless and you are stuck with someone who is unattractive, think of things you can do to make him more attractive. You also get a happy feeling of helping someone out that way, too. One time I did try to take a guy shopping and he wouldn't stand for it. He refused to be thought of as a project but my intentions were pure and I thought he would be happier. My motivations were entirely altruistic.
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 21, 2013 05:27 PM
Gladly I'm far from being interested in anyone at the moment, and probably won't be for some time.So I don't really give a rat's a$$ about players and what they look like. ETA: or just men in general. IP: Logged |
Leocassandra
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From: Poland
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 05:27 PM
I should be more specific. I know that ladies man is not yet, not the same as "player". Ladies men could have maybe a lot of feminine energy in charts? Players (i've read on Ami site) often have Sun conjunct Ceres...Recently i've met this kind of guy and he really has Sun conjunct Ceres.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 21, 2013 05:30 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
He refused to be thought of as a project but my intentions were pure and I thought he would be happier. My motivations were entirely altruistic.
You're such a Virgo! IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 05:31 PM
This is a cliche but it's psychology. :P
If you're into a good looking charmer, and he has his eyes on you. ignore his charms and do NOT fawn over him like every other female in the room.
They are use to the attention.Being tsundere may also help but if he's a libra probably not..
but librans personality wise are not attractive me so whatever. IP: Logged |
Leocassandra
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From: Poland
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 05:35 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
This is a cliche but it's psychology. :P
If you're into a good looking charmer, and he has his eyes on you. ignore his charms and do NOT fawn over him like every other female in the room.
They are use to the attention.
Lol! This is my flirting technique, no matter what kind of guy im dealing with  Virgo Venus/Mars, Capricorn Moon  IP: Logged |
Piscesgal2013
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posted November 21, 2013 05:37 PM
Venus in Gemini, 7th house Gemini and Pisces.I can attest to the 1st two! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 05:50 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
This is a cliche but it's psychology. :P
If you're into a good looking charmer, and he has his eyes on you. ignore his charms and do NOT fawn over him like every other female in the room.
They are use to the attention.Being tsundere may also help but if he's a libra probably not..
but librans personality wise are not attractive me so whatever.
It sounds like that would work, but it depends on who it is. If a really hot woman sees a really hot guy, she can get away with doing something sexy, giving out her number, then disappearing, throwing the ball in his court. This type of woman has so many options, the guy is more of an afterthought. She can afford to think if he bothers to call great, if he doesn't nbd, there's more fish in the sea. It would have been nice to get to know him better but if he doesn't want to, his loss.
If a so-so looking chick does the same thing, doesn't really fawn over him, does something suggestive, gives her number out, chances are way lower she will have any interaction with him later on than the knock-out who does the same thing even though neither one of them fawned, exactly.
Now lets say the attractive woman does the same thing as before, barely shows any interest, just a little, hands over her number, the so-so one fawns over him, flirts heavily, does something nice, goes over board to let him know she really is into him even though a lot of females fawn over him. You would think she would just become a face in the collage of ones who fawn over him but if she does something beyond fawning and he believes dating her, being with her will really be an enjoyable experience, she could get a call back later, especially if she tries to get his number. Still, he could ignore her calls but if she really works her personality, he might be drawn in.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 05:57 PM
That's my flirting technique too.
It usually works for me.
What makes you different than all the other thirsty or attractive people in the room?Eyes lock for a good minute
Blink eyes one time while staring so you don't come across as threatening
then Look away bored.
let the games begin. This works for popular types, someone average will probably think you're uninterested lol!
The goal is to make them interested in why you don't seem interested. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 06:00 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I have Moon Trine Venus.My Moon is in the 3rd House, and it is Gemini as well. My Venus is Aquarius. I have all manner of women friends and naturally all women around me without even seeking out. That hardly makes me a "player."
I think that with your placements, it's about CHOICE. You may not actually be a player, but you are equipped to do so if YOU wanted. Get what I mean? You know I think you're fabulous. 
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
So if you elect to be with someone like that, you just gotta put up with it. Otherwise find uglier with a yucky personality. Then you don't have to worry
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5741
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 06:05 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
That's my flirting technique too.
It usually works for me.
What makes you different than all the other thirsty or attractive people in the room?Eyes lock
Blink eyes one time while staring so you don't come across as threatening
then Look away bored.
let the games begin. This works for popular types, someone average will probably think you're uninterested lol!
The goal is to make them interested in why you don't seem interested.
You have to put yourself in their shoes. If someone is doing everything in their power to seem interested and trying to make it appear worth your time being with them, unless you were completely repulsed or in a committed relationship, wouldn't you give them a chance? But, if they are acting like they can take or leave you, you would think I'm going to go look for the one who really wants to be with me. I don't need to waste my time on someone who doesn't even like me. IP: Logged |
Padre35
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From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 06:07 PM
Hmm, have Venus squaring the Moon. I'm far from a player, quite the opposite I'm usually absent minded when it comes to being a player (ie, having sex) It's not that there is a lack of interest, it's more I'm oblivious. Have conversations and do not realize "wow, she is really into me" more I'm to busy listening then trying to sleep with them. I'd guess I'd say I don't have that sort of intent to have sex when I talk to a woman, even one I'm attracting to physically. There is co-worker who literally winks at me every time we even glance at each other..I don't know what to make of it tbh. A "player" would be all over it IP: Logged |
Orange
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From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 21, 2013 06:10 PM
Check the chart of that serial cheater Mario Lopez. He really knows how to seduce a woman, despite his history. The fu***er has Venus in Saggy conjunct Neptune and it aspects everything in his chart in a flowing aspect. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 06:20 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
You have to put yourself in their shoes. If someone is doing everything in their power to seem interested and trying to make it appear worth your time being with them, unless you were completely repulsed or in a committed relationship, wouldn't you give them a chance? But, if they are acting like they can take or leave you, you would think I'm going to go look for the one who really wants to be with me. I don't need to waste my time on someone who doesn't even like me.
I don't care.
I have too much dignity to started grinding on people I just meet.
Or using obvious seduction tactics.
I don't take people who do that seriously. Nor am I going to compete openly with others, that's not my nature.
I get them away from the crowd, I want them to be intrigued.
That's when I have the upper hand. That's why I'm a winner because I do things outside of the box.
If they aren't intrigued then whatever, their loss.. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 06:20 PM
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Mercurian Intellect
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From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 06:21 PM
Venus in the 3rd is infamous for this.
I'd say Venus in Libra in the 3rd House is the ideal placement for a player. (not including aspects) Sun conjunct Venus can also produce one.I have Venus in Libra in the 2nd House and I'm far from a player though. I also have Sun conjunct Venus, lol. IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted November 21, 2013 06:22 PM
Ladies men are charmers. It's usually Libras or Aquarius and maybe Pisces. The whole ignoring trick would probably attract the Aquarius who loves the odd one out. Libra man would be too indecisive. I'm not familiar with Pisces men.Players are those fickle minded ones. It's usually Venus in Gemini and Sagittarius. I suppose Mars play a part too. The other players are those who have high sex drives they can't control. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 06:22 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Asteroid Casanova (7328) as well - depending on where it's placed.
Nymphe (875) also.
Casanove in Libra in the 3rd House.
(why does it always have to Libra!?!? Lol)
It's conjunct my N. Node and trines Moon exactly. Nymphe in Capricorn in the 6th House.
It conjuncts Uranus and Neptune. It also trines Sun. What does each asteroid represent, specifically? IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 06:34 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Venus in the 3rd is infamous for this.
I'd say Venus in Libra in the 3rd House is the ideal placement for a player.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5741
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 06:36 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I don't care.
I have too much dignity to started grinding on people I just meet.
Or using obvious seduction tactics.
I don't take people who do that seriously.Nor am I going to compete openly with others, that's not my nature.
I get them away from the crowd, I want them to be intrigued.
That's when I have the upper hand. That's why I'm a winner because I do things outside of the box.
If they aren't intrigued then whatever, their loss..
I don't understand because I would want to be with somebody who likes me and I am not talking about grinding. I am talking about a nice person who enjoys being with me rather than a cold, indifferent one who doesn't care. Not grinding, lol. I would feel awkward and weird in a situation like that it's too much too soon. Disrespectful, too. When I meant sexy I didn't mean grinding. I meant an innuendo or something. You know how people are. They say something flirty, give their number, then take off. It's not exactly fawning. That kind of behavior I find cheap. It doesn't make an impression on me. Not anything I wish to pursue. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 06:37 PM
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Originally posted by acousticbob:
Oooh I'm a 3rd house Scorpio Venus. I have been told I'm charming but I'm certainly not a ladies man or player!
Charming I bet! Where's your Mars?
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LovelyAries86
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From: OH, USA
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posted November 21, 2013 06:40 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
If you're into a good looking charmer, and he has his eyes on you. ignore his charms and do NOT fawn over him like every other female in the room.
They are use to the attention.
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Mercurian Intellect
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posted November 21, 2013 07:06 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Exactly!
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Mercurian Intellect
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posted November 21, 2013 07:11 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I don't understand because I would want to be with somebody who likes me and I am not talking about grinding. I am talking about a nice person who enjoys being with me rather than a cold, indifferent one who doesn't care. Not grinding, lol. I would feel awkward and weird in a situation like that it's too much too soon. Disrespectful, too. When I meant sexy I didn't mean grinding. I meant an innuendo or something. You know how people are. They say something flirty, give their number, then take off. It's not exactly fawning. That kind of behavior I find cheap. It doesn't make an impression on me. Not anything I wish to pursue.
This is exactly how I feel too.
But sadly, it's not like that matters in the world we live in today.
The majority of people aren't like us.
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orocairion
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posted November 21, 2013 07:13 PM
I was kind of expecting sags would be getting trashed in this thread, lol.Surprised they are not. IP: Logged |
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