posted November 23, 2013 09:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Ooh, tryin' to be all intriguing, eh?

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No need to be intrigued. I shouldn't have said that.

There's nothing exciting or unusual here and I'm being genuine. No "pity me", no "dig further" hint. It's just true and I'm okay with that.

Let's just move along, if we may.

posted November 23, 2013 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by MorpHnStorM:
Just being flirty/obnoxious, or even just friendly does not = being a player...

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Everyone has their own perspective.

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
No need to be intrigued. I shouldn't have said that.

There's nothing exciting or unusual here and I'm being genuine. No "pity me", no "dig further" hint. It's just true and I'm okay with that.

Let's just move along, if we may.

I am intrigued about the details of why you lost your lunch though. LOL

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So humble.
Any planets in Virgo? Hah.

What do you mean "details of why I lost my lunch"? If you're alluding to my comment about shaking my head at humans, well, I am just grossed out by women & men who always seek validation and attention from others, especially from people who are actually taken. I find it pathetic. For that reason Leo & Libra placements usually rub me the wrong way, but hey, don't be offended if that describes you, mkay.
I suppose I can come across that way sometimes, but definitely not IRL.

posted November 23, 2013 09:23 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Hmmm... true. It did primarily occur when we were physically together.

Personally, I think it's just sort of an ego boost. A competition of sorts.
To see if they "have what it takes" to even get the guy to flinch with "his girl" by his side. Kind of like confirmation that girl B is more attractive than girl A on a physical level? Something like that.
I think it's a lot of ego and maybe thrill too. Just depends on the person and how far they are willing to go.

As the guy, I usually just don't react, as if I hadn't even noticed. Somehow, that backfires on me like I'm supposed to confront the woman. I don't confront because I don't want to cause useless friction when I know that 1) I'm not flirting back anyway and 2) I know damn well that nothing is going to happen.
I figure ignoring the flirt is enough of a hint but the woman I'm with usually gets all upset.

I talk like this is an everyday occurrence. LOL It's not.

It's weird because as I'm single, in the best physical shape that I've been in, in years, and made the most money this year that I've ever made. I get NO flirts! NOTHING! WTF? hahahaha

Anyway, like I said. In many cases it may not be about the guy, it's about measuring up. Seeing where you stand compared to the other woman. If they can get him to actually cheat, all the better ego boost, particularly if he's not a manwhore.

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posted November 23, 2013 09:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
So humble.
Any planets in Virgo? Hah.

What do you mean "details of why I lost my lunch"? If you're alluding to my comment about shaking my head at humans, well, I am just grossed out by women & men who always seek validation and attention from others, especially from people who are actually taken. I find it pathetic. For that reason Leo & Libra placements usually rub me the wrong way, but hey, don't be offended if that describes you, mkay.
I suppose I can come across that way sometimes, but definitely not IRL.

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You're very good. I'm reluctant to say but there is some Virgo.

It disgusts me too. Some of my years gone by are just a blur because I was such an emotional wreck - a nutcase. I couldn't sort my emotions out then, and I can't still (about back then, not now).
But I'm not like that.
Heck I'm single and barely show interest to anyone.

"B***hes be crazy!"

If I find someone I want to settle with, she'll treat me like a king, and I'll treat her like a queen.
That doesn't happen overnight. I'll progress slowly, and she'll have to. If she's in a hurry... she'll move along and if she does. Well, not the one then.

posted November 23, 2013 09:42 PM            

Good to know you're in a better place, DF.
A lot of people have a hard time emotionally in their younger years, I think it's pretty normal.
The thing is to learn from our experiences and grow, which you seem to have done (to some extent).
So that's cool!

posted November 23, 2013 09:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:

Good to know you're in a better place, DF.
A lot of people have a hard time emotionally in their younger years, I think it's pretty normal.
The thing is to learn from our experiences and grow, which you seem to have done (to some extent).
So that's cool!

I'm really tired, so I'm off to bed.
See ya'll.

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Never quit! I'm in a constant quest of personal progress!

posted November 24, 2013 05:03 AM            

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Originally posted by MorpHnStorM:
If he wasn't actually intentionally deceiving and leading these women into believing they're (he and each woman) having a full on relationship (sex or no sex), then he was not a player...Just being flirty/obnoxious, or even just friendly does not = being a player...

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I doubble checked his horoscope and saw that he has a moon square venus and sun square pluto…lol…that's just perfect for a player also…
And his venus in 11th house made him super friendly yes, especially towards women..
But at the same time he was extremely jealous (which is why I ended it) and two-faced, and he secretly checked my Facebook and phone to read all my messages…and If I talked with a guy randomly he would blame me of being unfaithful:S
One day I was so mad so I checked his Facebook and could almost not believe my own eyes, he was like having flirty conversations with 10+ girls, and it seemed like he was actively seeking girls he could help with smaller tasks (for no reason as I see it)
I don't think that was just being friendly, I really think he had some unconscious need for getting affection from girls (because of his venus square moon), and at the same time have the upper hand and being in control (sun square his pluto in 8th)