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Topic: Ladies man, player
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Sven555
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From: UK
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 23, 2013 04:47 AM
  
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Originally posted by Odette:
I'm curious.. Why would you mention Venus trine Mars of all things?O_O I don't see the connection. Venus trine Mars.. just means easy sexuality. It means you're happy.
I have it in my chart. Sexually I'm just happy with who I am and with my body. When you're happy you have no reason to play anyone.
I only mention it because I have this aspect.
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Odette
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posted November 23, 2013 05:00 AM
Oh ok.
Wel your Venus is detriment so .. I don't know..
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Sven555
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posted November 23, 2013 08:29 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Oh ok.
Wel your Venus is detriment so .. I don't know..
Do you feel like you're a player?
Well, sometimes I think i am, because I like having lots of acquaintances and often talk to alot of them, but i guess this is just being friendly rather than a player. So no.  IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 23, 2013 09:36 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
There's a big difference between doing all that looking and actually touching. With his wife or woman on his arm, it's much more difficult to take it to the next level. That's why the women with good looking, sociable husbands are always so clingy. Ever notice? It's like they are conjoined twins or something.
Ok I got to comment on this one, cause I've been with a real player type. He was aquarius sun in 12th house with pisces rising and libra moon in 7th house. He also had a taurus mars in 1st house trine neptune. He was a true womanizer, and he even charmed me, and I tell you this. My whole outlook on women changed after this relationship. Women don't give a damn if the man is committed, actually it makes it even worse in this case. My ex-boyfriend used this to charm even more women, cause he made it seem "friendly" because he was already taken so of course he could run around all day long with several thirsty girls who just waited for their chance. Woman constantly called him or send me killer-eyes, it was seriously crazy!
And he tried to make me believe it was not his fault! So no really, woman doesn't care at all about if the man is taken, it just seems to turn them on, which you might not believe but it is true. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 23, 2013 09:50 AM
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 23, 2013 01:01 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Ok I got to comment on this one, cause I've been with a real player type. He was aquarius sun in 12th house with pisces rising and libra moon in 7th house. He also had a taurus mars in 1st house trine neptune. He was a true womanizer, and he even charmed me, and I tell you this. My whole outlook on women changed after this relationship. Women don't give a damn if the man is committed, actually it makes it even worse in this case. My ex-boyfriend used this to charm even more women, cause he made it seem "friendly" because he was already taken so of course he could run around all day long with several thirsty girls who just waited for their chance. Woman constantly called him or send me killer-eyes, it was seriously crazy!
And he tried to make me believe it was not his fault! So no really, woman doesn't care at all about if the man is taken, it just seems to turn them on, which you might not believe but it is true.
You miss what I am saying. If you are going to be with that type you have to cling to them every time they are out where there's a lot of women and find them work someplace where there's only men.
When he's at home alone with you, you get some space and no longer have to cling. Ironic, eh?
And don't forget to glare at the flirty women in public.
It's not really the guy's fault. These women will flirt with good looking guys. It happens to all of them. It really does. If you see a hot guy and think he's going to be all yours, think again. You will have to share him somewhat with all those drooling girls.
If you want someone who is all yours, find short, bald, fat, somewhat like Danny Devito. Then you don't have to worry so much.
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DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 23, 2013 01:24 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
And don't forget to glare at the flirty women in public.
It's not really the guy's fault. These women will flirt with good looking guys. It happens to all of them. It really does. If you see a hot guy and think he's going to be all yours, think again. You will have to share him somewhat with all those drooling girls.
If you want someone who is all yours, find short, bald, fat, somewhat like Danny Devito. Then you don't have to worry so much.
LMAO @ Danny Devito. It reminds me of that episode on FRIENDS when he shows up as the stripper. It's true though. Now that I think about it men will often say that all the women come out of the woodwork when we find a girlfriend. I've always just thought it was the way the universe worked. Some evil power. 
I remember being in this one relationship for 6 years. It didn't happen all the time but sometimes women would get all flirty. She would get mad at ME about it! I was like, "I didn't do ****!! I'm right here next to you! What are you mad at me for?!?!" LOL IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted November 23, 2013 01:32 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
LMAO @ Danny Devito. It reminds me of that episode on FRIENDS when he shows up as the stripper. It's true though. Now that I think about it men will often say that all the women come out of the woodwork when we find a girlfriend. I've always just thought it was the way the universe worked. Some evil power.
I remember being in this one relationship for 6 years. It didn't happen all the time but sometimes women would get all flirty. She would get mad at ME about it! I was like, "I didn't do ****!! I'm right here next to you! What are you mad at me for?!?!" LOL
My one friend is engaged now and I enjoy talking to him on the phone every now and then because he knows about my personal life. It's kinda like talking to a family member. It's nothing serious, like relationship-wise. Now that he is engaged, every time we talk he mentions his fiancee, kinda brags about her and keeps saying my fiancee, my fiancee. I can tell he does it to try and get a reaction and he's talked about doing the same thing to other women he stays in contact with and he bragged about how he had one of his ex girlfriend's crying on the phone and there's already been a fight between one of his female friends and his fiancee. Of course I don't react because I am not interested in him like that, I just call to share stuff about life since we have been friends for quite a while, he knows what's going on and everything but since he got his fiancee, he has been in obnoxious overdrive with everyone he knows and last I talked with him he was really obnoxious. I know the woman he's engaged to doesn't like him talking to his friends because he told me about the fits she's thrown so there's that component, she's not thrilled about it. He just seems to be manipulating everyone in the situation including her imo. It's not that women come out of the woodwork. If a guy is really hot women come out of the woodwork no matter what. It's just that some guys will try to manipulate everyone they know with their relationship. The guy I know who's doing this right now is definitely not a hot guy, but he is nice, which is why I talk to him, because he's not a total jerk but he is turning into one fast. TBH my opinion of him has gone way down. Also, when a guy is with a woman other women feel safer talking to him because they think he's with someone so they can flirt and everything but they guy won't take her seriously. These would be women he's never met before. Are you talking about women like these who are complete strangers, his ex girlfriends, friends in general, or what?
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DeepFreeze
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posted November 23, 2013 02:07 PM
I wouldn't consider myself hot at all but there's something for sure. Maybe an aura of some kind. Anyway, with me it was strangers or maybe like, friend of a friend of a friend. So basically strangers. Now you have me thinking, "Did I do anything to manipulate or provoke?"
Only once that I clearly remember. Hmmmm... yeah I don't think I did. I barely keep in touch with ex's as it is. LOL The Safe and Unsafe makes COMPLETE sense! I've seen it!
I know a woman who is married and cheats but she only cheats with other married men because she's said flat out, she doesn't want anything serious - just something on the side. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted November 23, 2013 02:17 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I wouldn't consider myself hot at all but there's something for sure. Maybe an aura of some kind. Anyway, with me it was strangers or maybe like, friend of a friend of a friend. So basically strangers. Now you have me thinking, "Did I do anything to manipulate or provoke?"
Only once that I clearly remember. Hmmmm... yeah I don't think I did. I barely keep in touch with ex's as it is. LOL The Safe and Unsafe makes COMPLETE sense! I've seen it!
I know a woman who is married and cheats but she only cheats with other married men because she's said flat out, she doesn't want anything serious - just something on the side.
Maybe you just notice it more when you are with someone? Women who don't know you and see you with someone will feel more confident about flirting with you because they think you won't be interested in them. They think no good guy is going to ask me for my number with his gf right there so they just flirt away knowing you might flirt back but won't take it any further.
It's not really an aura. It's the same amount of flirting, you just notice it more when you are with someone. When you aren't you might not even think the girl is that hot. I know women will flirt with a guy when his date or gf is right there, I have seen women get really weird. I have no idea why they do that except they are either trying to **** off the girl he's with, or they don't think he will do anything with her right there. Or, maybe she can't believe the two are together? IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 23, 2013 02:30 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
You miss what I am saying. If you are going to be with that type you have to cling to them every time they are out where there's a lot of women and find them work someplace where there's only men.
When he's at home alone with you, you get some space and no longer have to cling. Ironic, eh?
And don't forget to glare at the flirty women in public.
It's not really the guy's fault. These women will flirt with good looking guys. It happens to all of them. It really does. If you see a hot guy and think he's going to be all yours, think again. You will have to share him somewhat with all those drooling girls.
If you want someone who is all yours, find short, bald, fat, somewhat like Danny Devito. Then you don't have to worry so much.
I don't think every hot man in the world has the same issues, really…it is something more, and it can be shown in the chart for sure. My ex boyfriend wasn't that hot actually, it was totally his placement that somehow made every girl scream… I think you can have a nice, sweet boyfriend who is also good looking but it's all in his attitude, cause if he is playing along and is open-minded, talkative etc. with girls he is going to make girls crazy for him, but if he is a normal guy who is loyal and doesn't have this huge need for affection and compliments from girls he won't make all that drama around him, I'm sure about that! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 23, 2013 02:38 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I don't think every hot man in the world has the same issues, really…it is something more, and it can be shown in the chart for sure. My ex boyfriend wasn't that hot actually, it was totally his placement that somehow made every girl scream…I think you can have a nice, sweet boyfriend who is also good looking but it's all in his attitude, cause if he is playing along and is open-minded, talkative etc. with girls he is going to make girls crazy for him, but if he is a normal guy who is loyal and doesn't have this huge need for affection and compliments from girls he won't make all that drama around him, I'm sure about that!
Where I'm from, it's always the good looking guys. Not so good looking guys seem to struggle a lot more finding love. Sure they can find it, it just doesn't fall in their laps like it does for the good looking ones. I find the majority of good looking people have benefics aspecting sun and moon. Venus in good aspect to Mars. Of course if someone is a complete psycho, all the looks in the world won't help them in the long run.
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next to neptune
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posted November 23, 2013 02:39 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Also, when a guy is with a woman other women feel safer talking to him because they think he's with someone so they can flirt and everything but they guy won't take her seriously. These would be women he's never met before. Are you talking about women like these who are complete strangers, his ex girlfriends, friends in general, or what?
That is totally true Starlight, it was exactly what happened with my ex… the problem was that when he found out about this (cause I was his first serious girlfriend apparently) he just totally used it to his advantage, and he even told me that it builded up his self confidence to see girls like that who would go crazy for him, just because he suddenly felt more comfortable talking and flirting with girls because he got a girlfriend… it wasn't because of that we ended our relationship either, but ofc I got tired of it in the end, cause I didn't felt he was respectful in general to be honest… I just can't see why it's so nice talking with a bunch of single-girls who obviously want's you if you're already taken. It's ok to have friends and talk randomly and all that, but to seek woman's company all the time intentionally, just to get some cheap compliments and affection - it's a true player, and he was.
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next to neptune
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posted November 23, 2013 02:43 PM
And I think that men who want's affection because of a low self esteem, has an afflicted moon or weak moon! That would point to a difficult relationship with the mother… And combined with other charming aspect and a higher sex-drive you could make a man out of it who desperately seeks affection from a bunch of woman, and I guess that is what you call a player? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted November 23, 2013 02:59 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
That is totally true Starlight, it was exactly what happened with my ex… the problem was that when he found out about this (cause I was his first serious girlfriend apparently) he just totally used it to his advantage, and he even told me that it builded up his self confidence to see girls like that who would go crazy for him, just because he suddenly felt more comfortable talking and flirting with girls because he got a girlfriend… it wasn't because of that we ended our relationship either, but ofc I got tired of it in the end, cause I didn't felt he was respectful in general to be honest… I just can't see why it's so nice talking with a bunch of single-girls who obviously want's you if you're already taken. It's ok to have friends and talk randomly and all that, but to seek woman's company all the time intentionally, just to get some cheap compliments and affection - it's a true player, and he was.
I admit the guy I know tells these girls to get lost, he's committed to his fiancee, so he's not messing around on her. The problem is, his fiancee just came out of the blue, no one knows anything about her and she's not from around here. She found him online and started talking to him and this happened so fast so his long term friends have suggested he do some checking up on her and this is why he's gotten angry at them and iced them out of his life. Just because they tell him to be cautious since he knows nothing about her. I bet he hasn't done a back ground check and if someone suggests it, which someone probably has, he's gotten angry at them and stopped talking.
Also, this woman is about twenty years older than he, he's something like thirty-five and I am pretty sure the odds are low she is going to be able to conceive a baby at her age yet she has him convinced he can father a child with her because she knows that's what he wants in a relationship, a baby of his own since he doesn't have any kids.
Last I talked to him, he told me they were trying to have a baby and just said to him if she says she's pregnant be sure to get proof because women can lie about that stuff and at her age, it would be difficult to get pregnant although it's possible. Since that conversation, he's pretty much ignored me. I was only trying to give him good advice. Since he's being so stupid and obnoxious about it, I have pretty much decided he deserves whatever he gets so who cares? Just let what happen, happen and if it works out great. If it doesn't he's pretty much alienated all his long time friends who have expressed concern so he will be left to pick up the pieces on his own. IP: Logged |
mercury89
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posted November 23, 2013 05:56 PM
In general: Venus bad aspect with Uranus. As I know. A player is a man who doesn't respect women in general but he is not conscious about it. They have a bad image about women in their life, so they project that in relationships. So you must see the Moon and Venus Badly aspected moon will tell that.
I met a guy who I can tell he is a player. He has Venus in Libra and Taurus Moon. (very Venusian, he attracts lots of women... but he is a player) why?
His Venus square Uranus
His Moon opposes Pluto (this is very bad in the chart of a guy, they have an internal bad image about women) --------
A ladies man is different. I think is more charming so he attract lots of women, but he is not necessarily a player. For a ladies man I'll say a very strong Venus. (Libra, Taurus, or Pisces) or in the 1st, 7th, 12th, 2nd. And a Moon in a feminine sign which is not badly aspected. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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posted November 23, 2013 07:58 PM
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Originally posted by mercury89:
For a ladies man I'll say a very strong Venus. (Libra, Taurus, or Pisces) or in the 1st, 7th, 12th, 2nd. And a Moon in a feminine sign which is not badly aspected.
I have Venus in Libra in the 2nd House. I also have Venus trine Uranus.
But I have Chiron in Libra conjunct Venus in Libra exact. How unlucky, right? Lol. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted November 23, 2013 08:10 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
[b]I wouldn't consider myself hot at all but there's something for sure. Maybe an aura of some kind. Anyway, with me it was strangers or maybe like, friend of a friend of a friend. So basically strangers. Now you have me thinking, "Did I do anything to manipulate or provoke?"
Only once that I clearly remember. Hmmmm... yeah I don't think I did. I barely keep in touch with ex's as it is. LOL The Safe and Unsafe makes COMPLETE sense! I've seen it!
I know a woman who is married and cheats but she only cheats with other married men because she's said flat out, she doesn't want anything serious - just something on the side.
Maybe you just notice it more when you are with someone? Women who don't know you and see you with someone will feel more confident about flirting with you because they think you won't be interested in them. They think no good guy is going to ask me for my number with his gf right there so they just flirt away knowing you might flirt back but won't take it any further.
It's not really an aura. It's the same amount of flirting, you just notice it more when you are with someone. When you aren't you might not even think the girl is that hot. I know women will flirt with a guy when his date or gf is right there, I have seen women get really weird. I have no idea why they do that except they are either trying to **** off the girl he's with, or they don't think he will do anything with her right there. Or, maybe she can't believe the two are together? [/B][/QUOTE] Hmmm... true. It did primarily occur when we were physically together. Personally, I think it's just sort of an ego boost. A competition of sorts.
To see if they "have what it takes" to even get the guy to flinch with "his girl" by his side. Kind of like confirmation that girl B is more attractive than girl A on a physical level? Something like that.
I think it's a lot of ego and maybe thrill too. Just depends on the person and how far they are willing to go. As the guy, I usually just don't react, as if I hadn't even noticed. Somehow, that backfires on me like I'm supposed to confront the woman. I don't confront because I don't want to cause useless friction when I know that 1) I'm not flirting back anyway and 2) I know damn well that nothing is going to happen.
I figure ignoring the flirt is enough of a hint but the woman I'm with usually gets all upset. I talk like this is an everyday occurrence. LOL It's not. It's weird because as I'm single, in the best physical shape that I've been in, in years, and made the most money this year that I've ever made. I get NO flirts! NOTHING! WTF? hahahaha Anyway, like I said. In many cases it may not be about the guy, it's about measuring up. Seeing where you stand compared to the other woman. If they can get him to actually cheat, all the better ego boost, particularly if he's not a manwhore. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 23, 2013 08:17 PM
Gimme a sec, need to barf.
Humans... *smh*
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DeepFreeze
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posted November 23, 2013 08:26 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Gimme a sec, need to barf.
Humans... *smh*
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 23, 2013 08:31 PM
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DeepFreeze
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posted November 23, 2013 08:38 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I only accept help from people I trust.
Smart. Both for only accepting help from people you trust and also for not trusting me. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 23, 2013 08:46 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Smart.
I know, I know. quote:
for not trusting me.
Ooh, tryin' to be all intriguing, eh? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 23, 2013 08:54 PM
Where I'm from, it's unfortunately much more than good looks or charming personality that gets hoardes of women following the Pied Pieper. IP: Logged |
MorpHnStorM
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posted November 23, 2013 09:00 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
but to seek woman's company all the time intentionally, just to get some cheap compliments and affection - it's a true player, and he was.
If he wasn't actually intentionally deceiving and leading these women into believing they're (he and each woman) having a full on relationship (sex or no sex), then he was not a player...Just being flirty/obnoxious, or even just friendly does not = being a player...
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