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Topic: Ladies man, player
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11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 07:14 PM
  
Men with sun conjunct Venus are charming ladies man types, ime...I've always seen it with this aspect..Now, that doesn't mean they are players too. Idk what aspect makes someone a player.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 7178
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 07:36 PM
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I don't understand because I would want to be with somebody who likes me and I am not talking about grinding. I am talking about a nice person who enjoys being with me rather than a cold, indifferent one who doesn't care. Not grinding, lol. I would feel awkward and weird in a situation like that it's too much too soon. Disrespectful, too. When I meant sexy I didn't mean grinding. I meant an innuendo or something. You know how people are. They say something flirty, give their number, then take off. It's not exactly fawning. That kind of behavior I find cheap. It doesn't make an impression on me. Not anything I wish to pursue. [/B]
You have prominent libra not to mention venus leo.
That's why you don't understand.
We're on different pages on the romance spectrum.
I'm so beyond greeting people and being friendly or flattering, slipping numbers.
Do you know how many faces I use to forget? Everyone is really nice, attractive etc.
I use delete numbers after parties because I couldn't remember who I was even talking to because I was tipsy and they were forgettable. :s Besides if there is chemistry it's and undeniable feeling.
Two people can feel it from across the room.
I really don't have to say anything at all.
So if there's chemistry between us, now what are we going to do about it?
You're surrounded by people you're clearly not that into them.
If you aren't going to leave them than I guess I was wrong.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5741
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 07:41 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
You have prominent libra not to mention venus leo.
That's why you don't understand.
We're on different pages on the romance spectrum.
I'm so beyond greeting people and being friendly or flattering, slipping number.
Do you know how many faces I forgot? Everyone is really nice, attractive etc.
I use delete numbers after parties because I couldn't remember who I was even talking to..Besides if there is chemistry it's and undeniable feeling.
Two people can feel it from across the room.
So if there's chemistry between us, now what are we going to do about it?
You're surrounded by people you're clearly not that into them.
If you aren't going to leave them than I guess I was wrong.
You have to figure out which one is Mr Right. You can't give your number to everyone who's interested or you would be a player like who this thread is about. My first criteria would be sincere interest in me and if they don't appear interested I will just find someone who does and I would hope everyone has this same criteria so they will find someone they can experience happiness with.
Of course, I would need time, at first, to see for sure, if I feel comfortable, if it's a good match since I do have that Taurus moon...so just initial fawning doesn't necessarily mean it will work out.
Chemistry only exists if the person is laughing, smiling, flirting and willing to hand over his soul.
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DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 149
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 07:53 PM
I'm lucky enough (or unlucky?) to have nearly a perfect mix of 25% air/water/fire/earth. I was a "player" for a short period of time (1 year-ish) It's simple for me.
I make eye contact with everyone. I smile genuinely, laugh, joke - just be friendly. I do it for everyone, men, women, doesn't matter. You become known as just a friendly person.
For the person that I want to pursue a bit more with. I simply talk to that person a little more than others, a little longer than others, maybe eventually a little more revealing of myself to them. It's the time dedicated to them vs. other people that lets them know.
IT DOES WORK! It's very simple.
It's surprising really at how simple and uncomplicated it has to be.
For the most part I really am just myself. Just taking a stab at it.
Maybe Mars/Moon connections and/or Mars/Mercury connections? Throw in Ascendant too. There's a lot of possibilities I think.
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summerlite
Knowflake Posts: 61
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 08:13 PM
^ let me guess. Scorpio/Aquarius/Sagittarius/Taurus?IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 7178
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 08:16 PM
LOL right, It's a party, everyone is having a good time and exchanging numbers flirting drinking laughing.
This means everyone that's attractive, man or woman is a player LOL
This is 2013, Some people are pushy take your phone and enter their number,
I'm not going to say, NO ***** BACK OFF.. I'm not rude.We have different personalities. but I love how bothered you are by my tactics even though it works for me.
I actually know exactly what I want that's why I don't even need to greet them.
I'm not into certain personalities like those who need to be flattered or courted, so it's not really loss for me anyways. To me flirting, talking does not stir chemistry.
it's either there or it's not. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 09:21 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I'm pretty sure libra men play for the other team most of time  probably Leo, Aries, Sagittarius, Scorpio, sometimes Aquarius without cap influence.
Aspect wise..
Moon-venus negative aspects seem to be players because of their weird relationship with women.
Scorpio / Sags, true. Leos try to be players but the ones I know are terrible at it so it doesn't bother me. Moon trine or sextile Venus, definitely. Mars in Sagittarius.
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elixir
Knowflake Posts: 1633
From: United States
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 09:49 PM
Thats like the opposite of me. I have moon in aqua in the 12th, and venus in gemini in the 3rd  quote:
Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I have Moon Trine Venus.My Moon is in the 3rd House, and it is Gemini as well. My Venus is Aquarius. I have all manner of women friends and naturally all women around me without even seeking out. That hardly makes me a "player."
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elixir
Knowflake Posts: 1633
From: United States
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 09:53 PM
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summerlite
Knowflake Posts: 61
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 09:56 PM
can we have a "Men lady, player" thread?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 49900
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 21, 2013 09:58 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
A "Ladies Man" indicates attraction by women to a man. It does not make him a "player" !!!!I find this annoying.
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 49900
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 21, 2013 09:59 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I'm lucky enough (or unlucky?) to have nearly a perfect mix of 25% air/water/fire/earth. I was a "player" for a short period of time (1 year-ish) It's simple for me.
I make eye contact with everyone. I smile genuinely, laugh, joke - just be friendly. I do it for everyone, men, women, doesn't matter. You become known as just a friendly person.
For the person that I want to pursue a bit more with. I simply talk to that person a little more than others, a little longer than others, maybe eventually a little more revealing of myself to them. It's the time dedicated to them vs. other people that lets them know.
IT DOES WORK! It's very simple.
It's surprising really at how simple and uncomplicated it has to be.
For the most part I really am just myself. Just taking a stab at it.
Maybe Mars/Moon connections and/or Mars/Mercury connections? Throw in Ascendant too. There's a lot of possibilities I think.
You got me interested 
What is your ASC, Mars, Venus and Moon?
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23
Knowflake Posts: 400
From: The Strand
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 21, 2013 10:17 PM
Anyone mentioned Venus square Uranus? I've seen that come up a couple of times in charts. Undefinable charm but a person that changes their partners over and over again. Oh and something in the 5th house like Jupiter or Mars.Popular with ladies is strong Moon and together with strong Venus. Most popular guy in school had lots of girlfriends but not really a player, had Moon in Cancer and Venus in Taurus. He was a nice enough person but I was pretty much the only one there that didn't fancy him. He is also Aries Sun and reasonably popular with the boys too. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1184
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 10:35 PM
I'll play. Because I am one. Moon sextile Venus
Mars conjunct Asc
Venus square Uranus Water/Earth IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 11:58 PM
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Originally posted by 23:
Most popular guy in school had lots of girlfriends but not really a player, had Moon in Cancer and Venus in Taurus.
One of the guys I have in mind had Cancer Moon/Venus Taurus too. Except he was Gemini Sun w/ his Venus in the 3rd. Player allll day!! lol What's funny is that I also have that same Moon/Venus combo (not in the 3rd though) and I don't play with people and I'm not much into casual relations. Why are the males different?! Or maybe I'm in denial about my ability to 'play' if I wanted to? lol IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 149
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 22, 2013 01:02 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You got me interested What is your ASC, Mars, Venus and Moon?
Probably not what you think. LOL Turns out, if I count planets, including Asc, I'm lacking water. The Pullen chart does say even though. Either way, doesn't matter.
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hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 6170
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 22, 2013 01:24 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
The player-type guy has a muchly aspected moon and Venus. Such a guy will naturally be popular with the ladies so his reputation will be that of a player even if he doesn't try to be, deliberately. It's written in his stars. If you want a non player, simple, look for the guy who has barely any moon or Venus aspects. He probably won't be that popular with the opposite sex which means he might not be with you, either. You can't win them all and sometimes must settle.
What if he has barely any Moon aspects but a lot of Venus ones? Venus seems more semi-feminine than completely like the Moon is. Or what about Venus trine Jupiter? IP: Logged |
Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 01:45 AM
Kero - Don't ever act disinterested if you are truly interested. It will break your heart in the end.If you are not all that interested ^ this doesn't apply because then.. the whole thing is kind of detached and meaningless. Please trust me! IP: Logged |
Leocassandra
Knowflake Posts: 360
From: Poland
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 22, 2013 04:53 AM
Also positive(fire, air) mutable Mars are charmers IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1180
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 22, 2013 08:38 AM
I have moon conjunct venus in taurus but I am a woman and I am definitely a charmer 
Libra mars and gemini sun might help a bit too lol.
Not a **** though thats for sure.
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Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
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vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1487
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 09:40 AM
there should be a woman version of this IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 09:54 AM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
there should be a woman version of this
IT'S DONE.
Seek & reply.
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YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 6399
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 22, 2013 10:13 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What if he has barely any Moon aspects but a lot of Venus ones? Venus seems more semi-feminine than completely like the Moon is. Or what about Venus trine Jupiter?
Have that too... but sextile. Venus Sextile Jupiter. Moon Sextile Jupiter. In addition to Moon Trine Venus. The thing is I don't need to "play." Trouble finds me quickly, and all temptation appeal is lost because it is obnoxious and exhausting. This is not a blessing! :/ IP: Logged |
Leocassandra
Knowflake Posts: 360
From: Poland
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 22, 2013 10:27 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Have that too... but sextile. Venus Sextile Jupiter. Moon Sextile Jupiter. In addition to Moon Trine Venus. The thing is I don't need to "play." Trouble finds me quickly, and all temptation appeal is lost because it is obnoxious and exhausting. This is not a blessing! :/
What is you Sun sign? Sag? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 22, 2013 10:29 AM
I'm a heavy Capricorn - sun, mars, mercury.. and 10th/11th house too. And I'm married to a Leo... 20th anniversary.IP: Logged |
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