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Topic: Ladies man, player
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acousticbob
Knowflake Posts: 123
From: UK
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 22, 2013 10:34 AM
  
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Charming I bet!  Where's your Mars?
Why thank you! And I have Venus conjunct Sun! My Mars is 0 degree's Capricorn. Maybe that is my grounding influence. IP: Logged |
Leocassandra
Knowflake Posts: 360
From: Poland
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 22, 2013 10:38 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I'm a heavy Capricorn - sun, mars, mercury.. and 10th/11th house too. And I'm married to a Leo... 20th anniversary.
Ohh ok,you "sounded"( with that trouble thing) very rebel and it made me wonder what was is your Sun sign IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 6399
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posted November 22, 2013 10:53 AM
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Originally posted by Leocassandra:
Ohh ok,you "sounded"( with that trouble thing) very rebel and it made me wonder what was is your Sun sign
You can understand that when a man is married, having women hit on you and being propositioned is a bunch of very big trouble.
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Leocassandra
Knowflake Posts: 360
From: Poland
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 22, 2013 10:59 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
You can understand that when a man is married, having women hit on you and being propositioned is a bunch of very big trouble.
Hehehe this is why im against marriage:P IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 11:14 AM
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Originally posted by acousticbob:
Why thank you! And I have Venus conjunct Sun! My Mars is 0 degree's Capricorn. Maybe that is my grounding influence.
And you claim you've never charmed any panties off??
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vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1487
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 11:16 AM
on a very basic level, the players I met were: Pisces(3), Aries(2) and a Sagittarius(2).
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MorpHnStorM
Knowflake Posts: 36
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Registered: Oct 2013
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posted November 22, 2013 04:35 PM
Mars square Uranus....IP: Logged |
Sven555
Knowflake Posts: 476
From: UK
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 05:21 PM
Would Venus trine Mars be an aspect of a player?IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 06:56 PM
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Originally posted by Sven555:
Would Venus trine Mars be an aspect of a player?
I have this. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 6772
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 22, 2013 07:00 PM
^ And...?IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5741
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 07:39 PM
If you do end up with a player-type guy, best thing to do is to just put your arm in his and cling for dear life. He can't play, exactly, with his woman on his arm. IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2861
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Registered: May 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 07:44 PM
I'm curious.. Why would you mention Venus trine Mars of all things?O_O I don't see the connection. Venus trine Mars.. just means easy sexuality. It means you're happy.
I have it in my chart. Sexually I'm just happy with who I am and with my body. When you're happy you have no reason to play anyone. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 149
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 22, 2013 07:53 PM
Mars Ascendant connections? (honest question)
Like maybe Mars conjunct Asc from the 1st? (not the 12th) Maybe opposition and square too. Just throwing that out there to see if it floats. IP: Logged |
MorpHnStorM
Knowflake Posts: 36
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Registered: Oct 2013
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posted November 22, 2013 08:25 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
If you do end up with a player-type guy, best thing to do is to just put your arm in his and cling for dear life. He can't play, exactly, with his woman on his arm.
Or you could move on to the next guy that isn't a player... IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5741
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 08:31 PM
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Originally posted by MorpHnStorM:
Or you could move on to the next guy that isn't a player...
That guy's already taken  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 6170
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 22, 2013 08:35 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
I'm curious.. Why would you mention Venus trine Mars of all things?O_O I don't see the connection. Venus trine Mars.. just means easy sexuality. It means you're happy.
I have it in my chart. Sexually I'm just happy with who I am and with my body. When you're happy you have no reason to play anyone.
^ Unless playing makes you genuinely happy, which for some people it really does. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 22, 2013 09:15 PM
LOL ^Getting joy out of being a sadist - is not a Venus trine Mars trait.
The trine is sweet.
What brings happiness to one's heart are laid-back sweet things... not drama. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 10:12 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ And...?
And what? Am I a player? Nope lol. quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
Getting joy out of being a sadist - is not a Venus trine Mars trait.
The trine is sweet.
What brings happiness to one's heart are laid-back sweet things... not drama.
Co-sign!  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 6399
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 22, 2013 11:05 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
If you do end up with a player-type guy, best thing to do is to just put your arm in his and cling for dear life. He can't play, exactly, with his woman on his arm.
You've got to be kidding. I can show you at least four women present in my life that get a specific kick about married men with wives around their arms. The fact that the men are committed and taken only emboldens these folks with the thrill of the added challenge. A committed woman doesn't stop a player from behaving like a player. I know toads who go out with their wives and oogle all the women at the bar while having dinner with their wives. I went out with one who was hitting on someone else's wife at a different table even as we were having Dinner with his wife and him. Just saying. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5741
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 11:12 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
You've got to be kidding. I can show you at least four women present in my life that get a specific kick about married men with wives around their arms. The fact that the men are committed and taken only emboldens these folks with the thrill of the added challenge. A committed woman doesn't stop a player from behaving like a player. I know toads who go out with their wives and oogle all the women at the bar while having dinner with their wives. I went out with one who was hitting on someone else's wife at a different table even as we were having Dinner with his wife and him. Just saying.
There's a big difference between doing all that looking and actually touching. With his wife or woman on his arm, it's much more difficult to take it to the next level. That's why the women with good looking, sociable husbands are always so clingy. Ever notice? It's like they are conjoined twins or something. IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2861
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Registered: May 2012
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posted November 22, 2013 11:50 PM
... Oh... to have social signs in my chart and understand this dating fixation in people  IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 149
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 23, 2013 01:37 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
There's a big difference between doing all that looking and actually touching. With his wife or woman on his arm, it's much more difficult to take it to the next level. That's why the women with good looking, sociable husbands are always so clingy. Ever notice? It's like they are conjoined twins or something.
Sweet!!
Everyone I have relationships with ends up very clingy and worried that I'm going to cheat. So I guess I'm good looking and sociable!  IP: Logged |
themischievousone
Knowflake Posts: 345
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 23, 2013 01:48 AM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I'm lucky enough (or unlucky?) to have nearly a perfect mix of 25% air/water/fire/earth. I was a "player" for a short period of time (1 year-ish) It's simple for me.
I make eye contact with everyone. I smile genuinely, laugh, joke - just be friendly. I do it for everyone, men, women, doesn't matter. You become known as just a friendly person.
For the person that I want to pursue a bit more with. I simply talk to that person a little more than others, a little longer than others, maybe eventually a little more revealing of myself to them. It's the time dedicated to them vs. other people that lets them know.
IT DOES WORK! It's very simple.
It's surprising really at how simple and uncomplicated it has to be.
For the most part I really am just myself.
Shhhh don't give away any secrets.  It is nice to see another person with a balanced element blend (althought mine is 24%/26%/24%/26%). Although I never did the "player" thing, I can see how it would easily be done. I chose to be that friendly person with everyone and leave it there. And this : "For the person that I want to pursue a bit more with. I simply talk to that person a little more than others, a little longer than others, maybe eventually a little more revealing of myself to them. It's the time dedicated to them vs. other people that lets them know. ". I could not agree with more!
The only "player" I have seen a chart of has a full 5th house & 4th house with Sag and Cap influences.
I haven't came across too many charts of ladies men. And for a chart of a woman who tends to attract an odd amount of women, look at mine  . IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 149
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 23, 2013 02:14 AM
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Originally posted by themischievousone:
Shhhh don't give away any secrets. It is nice to see another person with a balanced element blend (althought mine is 24%/26%/24%/26%). Although I never did the "player" thing, I can see how it would easily be done. I chose to be that friendly person with everyone and leave it there. And this : "For the person that I want to pursue a bit more with. I simply talk to that person a little more than others, a little longer than others, maybe eventually a little more revealing of myself to them. It's the time dedicated to them vs. other people that lets them know. ". I could not agree with more!
The only "player" I have seen a chart of has a full 5th house & 4th house with Sag and Cap influences.
I haven't came across too many charts of ladies men. And for a chart of a woman who tends to attract an odd amount of women, look at mine .
Yeah I'm kind of the opposite of a player now. Haha
That does work. Subtle body language, a look. Very subtle.
Heck, sometimes if it's a woman who has men jumping at her. Just don't do what they do. Say Hi, smile, be polite but DON'T pay any special attention. Then they're like, "What's up with this guy? I'm gonna find out." LMAO! This is a copy/paste of what the Pullen chart says for me. Element Percent
Fire: 23.7%
Earth: 26.2%
Air: 24.7%
Water: 25.4% But I think the Pullen Chart must be taking into account aspects, the sign that naturally rules a house and things like that. ANYWAY, that's off topic. IP: Logged |
MorpHnStorM
Knowflake Posts: 36
From:
Registered: Oct 2013
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posted November 23, 2013 03:32 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
That guy's already taken
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