posted December 11, 2013 09:53 AM            

I can name at least (3) guy friends of mine who lost their virginity over the age of 21 - closer to 25. And there is *nothing* wrong with this either!! I'm just curious what you folks think this relates to. (Btw - They have Cancer, Taurus & Virgo suns)

posted December 11, 2013 03:17 PM            

° Saturn, retrograde in Cancer in 8th house:
- Saturn rules the 2nd house and is in 8th house
- Moon the ruler of 8th house is in 2nd house
(Venus-Pluto-resonance, but more in the Taurus-scorpio-sense)
- Moon exactly quinkunx Saturn

These are the two complexes in my chart I contribute it to in my case.

Add to that a highly imaginative mind, with a tendency to escapism (Neptune in 1st; Neptne conjunct ASC; Neptune conjunct Mars in 12th; ASC on the exact Mars/Neptune-mp;
Jupiter in Pisces in 3rd, in mutual reception with and squaring Neptune on the ASC, and Neptune rules the intercepted Pisces in 3rd house)

My fantasy life was rich enough to provide a distraction

° Moon in Aquarius; isolated Mercury conjunct Sun in Sagittarius in 1st house; the ruler of 3rd and 1st house in mutual reception; ruler of 3rd house in 11th house conjunct 11th house cusp (Uranus) - unaspected

plenty of possibilities to avoid by getting into superintellectual,d etached analysis mode.

(Uranus and Neptune are very different, but they do have something in common; they rarely wish to touch the ground).

I see it as a mix of the complicated darker heavy, serious Venus-Pluto and MOon-Saturn- make up of my chart, which is also prone to security and selfvalue issues, plus having the option to escape either into dreams and fantasies (Neptune) or intellectual detachment (Uranus).

posted December 11, 2013 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
Why would someone say that sun in cancer would be a forever virgin?Lol
I think it depends on A LOT factors.
First your synastry with other people. If you can't find a guy/girl that inspires you in won't happen.Second check the transists

I don't think its a bad thing to be a virgin and I hate that its that over ratted. Some people are vicious even when virgins and some other are pure souls regardless the fact that they are not virgins.

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posted December 11, 2013 03:39 PM            

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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
Why would someone say that sun in cancer would be a forever virgin?Lol
I think it depends on A LOT factors.

First your synastry with other people. If you can't find a guy/girl that inspires you in won't happen.Second check the transists

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Yes to your post, however then I'd like to see people's synastry who lost it earlier (with their firsts) and also look to see if anything points to being more social in their charts than people who are virgins.

I've never been into sex, really. I'm sexy and I like flirting and socializing but I just find so many other topics more interesting than sex. I wonder, but in the end I'm like "meh."

posted December 11, 2013 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
Neptune conjunct mars?

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Nope. I lost my virginity at 16. LOL.

posted December 11, 2013 03:47 PM            

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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
Why would someone say that sun in cancer would be a forever virgin?Lol

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That's not what I said.

posted December 11, 2013 03:47 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Nope. I lost my virginity at 16. LOL.

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posted December 11, 2013 03:52 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Capricorn 5th house with Saturn? Mine is packed but apparently nothing can defeat its ruler

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So Cappy.

Do you simply not desire sex at all? Or do you feel you just haven't found the right person?

How old are you now?

posted December 11, 2013 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
In general, I find earth and water Venus/Moon/Mars tend to wait. They usually place more importance and meaning behind relationships and sex and especially first times, so they tend to experience things uhm...fewer and more meaningful, you get what I mean?

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I do get it.

I have a watery Moon. Also, an earthy Venus & Mars. I first had sex at age 16 - I wouldn't sleep w/ just anyone, but I did have my fun!

Now though...I'm much more serious. I can go a year (or more) without sex. I do enjoy sex! But mental/emotional connection is FAR MORE important to me at this stage in my life.

posted December 11, 2013 04:03 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
It's...complicated. I'm probably asexual and I would need the right person anyway since I'm not interested in casual stuff. I'm in my early 20's.

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posted December 11, 2013 04:07 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
It's...complicated. I'm probably asexual and I would need the right person anyway since I'm not interested in casual stuff. I'm in my early 20's.

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