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Topic: People that stay in bad relationships (settle for less)
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DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 628
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 06:51 PM
  
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I wonder if people with Pluto conjunct ascendant feel the same way, like they are out of sync with their environment?
Maybe if it's from the 12th..? It's my 12th house planets that make me feel out of sync with my environment.
I really love my 1st house Pluto conjunction. The only time it honestly impacts others is if they try to control me. I'm like, "No buttwipe.. *I* control me, you don't."  IP: Logged |
filleaspirant
Knowflake Posts: 781
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 06:55 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I only have two outer planets conjunct mine and one is also conjunct Pluto so maybe that's a major part of it since they are both in house 12. I have always felt kinda out of sync with everyone around me. Another thing is, I am not attracted to the vast majority of people. Chiron isn't in the seventh house but it conjuncts the descendant from the sixth. I wonder if people with Pluto conjunct ascendant feel the same way, like they are out of sync with their environment?
Funny, I'm the same way. I don't have Pluto conjunct with anything, thankfully. If you don't count Cancer Chiron and Pisces NN, Pluto is my Water singleton. Aside from the square to Venus, my Pluto sextiles Neptune and trines both NN and Chiron. I have an Aqua Moon, though. So I naturally feel detached from people on an emotional level. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 6532
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 28, 2013 07:00 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Maybe if it's from the 12th..? It's my 12th house planets that make me feel out of sync with my environment.
I really love my 1st house Pluto conjunction. The only time it honestly impacts others is if they try to control me. I'm like, "No buttwipe.. *I* control me, you don't."
Yeah you are right. Sometimes I feel powerless with Pluto in 12. People underestimate me but when I let my 12th house Pluto out of it's enclosure it's like a tiger on the rampage ahahaha. Verbally, at least. That's only when people underestimate me and think they can push me around that they get to hear the roaring tiger. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 6532
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 28, 2013 07:03 PM
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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Funny, I'm the same way. I don't have Pluto conjunct with anything, thankfully. If you don't count Cancer Chiron and Pisces NN, Pluto is my Water singleton. Aside from the square to Venus, my Pluto sextiles Neptune and trines both NN and Chiron.I have an Aqua Moon, though. So I naturally feel detached from people on an emotional level.
I think Aqua moon is nice. It's kind of like Virgo moon only it doesn't seem as heavy and nit picking which any Virgo planet can be without really trying I have one water singleton, Neptune. It is my beloved water planet in a water sign, where it belongs.  IP: Logged |
filleaspirant
Knowflake Posts: 781
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 07:07 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I think Aqua moon is nice. It's kind of like Virgo moon only it doesn't seem as heavy and nit picking which any Virgo planet can be without really trying I have one water singleton, Neptune. It is my beloved water planet in a water sign, where it belongs.
 Virgo SUN here. In the 10th. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 6532
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 28, 2013 07:08 PM
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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Virgo SUN here. In the 10th.
I'm a Virgo sun too, haha, and I know I can nit pick without realizing it IP: Logged |
filleaspirant
Knowflake Posts: 781
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 07:10 PM
Also, let me correct myself. My 7th house ruler is obviously the Moon, which is in Aqua, in my 2nd house.I have such a bothersome Venus that I constantly relate everything to it. Apparently, I even relate rulership of my relationship house to it and its sign.  IP: Logged |
filleaspirant
Knowflake Posts: 781
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 07:12 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I'm a Virgo sun too, haha, and I know I can nit pick without realizing it
I show my love by being annoying and fussing over people. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 6532
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 28, 2013 07:13 PM
I find Venus in Leo to not be a great spot for Venus. Leo energy is way too masculine and Venus is trying to find itself, figuring out how to relate. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 6532
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 28, 2013 07:14 PM
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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
I show my love by being annoying and fussing over people.
When I really like someone I want to give them a lot of presents and do things for them. Venus in Leo will give their hearts to the ones they truly love. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant
Knowflake Posts: 781
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 07:28 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I find Venus in Leo to not be a great spot for Venus. Leo energy is way too masculine and Venus is trying to find itself, figuring out how to relate.
I have Aries Mars, so my approach to relationships is very much masculine and "courting". Virgo courting, that is. quote:
Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
When I really like someone I want to give them a lot of presents and do things for them. Venus in Leo will give their hearts to the ones they truly love.
Same here. Only I can't ever be showy about it. Always embarrasses me. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 6532
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 28, 2013 07:32 PM
^^That's cool! I have Mars in a fire sign too, lol! Sagittarius! Mars doesn't have much staying power in my chart. It's very mutable. Oh well, at least it's a fire Mars.*edit*
I am not showy about it either, lol. Virgo kinda inhibits the showiness of the sun. I don't declare my love to the entire world nor do I hire an air plane to do creative sky writing declaring my eternal devotion. I do like to give them things. Like, if they like a certain thing, I will get it for them if it's reasonable and I really like them. If I don't like 'em that much I don't do anything for them except as little as possible but I will still go places with them if they are nice. If I really don't like them, I won't go anywhere or do much of anything, lol. I make it obvious. They say Leo Venus can show favoritism. IP: Logged |
amelia28
Knowflake Posts: 2547
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 29, 2013 01:53 AM
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Originally posted by ash20:
I have sun conjunct saturn & square pluto and all of my relationships have been bad and i stayed in them longer than i should have. I don't have anything in my 7th house either but i have venus sq neptune and mars in natal.
I think venus sq neptune can definitely make you a sucker for love even when you know the relationship is no good for you.
Bingo. I have sun and moon square neptune and I am sucker. I use my heart when I pick who I get involve with instead of my head and this same aspect also makes it really hard to leave a relationship that maybe I should and makes it easy for someone I love to manipulate me into staying and sticking to the relationship. Saturn aspects can also result in people been extremely realistic about how much work relationships take and saturn aspects makes you take commitments very seriously so someone with saturn conjunct ascendent for example would probably stay in a relationship longer than they should bc they expect everything to involve hard work and bc they take commitments super seriously. IP: Logged |
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