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Topic: People that stay in bad relationships (settle for less)
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Rosalind
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posted December 20, 2013 03:41 AM
  
I would exclude people with Sun/Moon/Venus square Saturn or Pluto because those are too picky to find themselves in such relationships. My two cents.I would include people with planets in 7th house, especially Pluto (Pluto gives karmic partners). DON'T START ANOTHER FLAME. Enjoy! IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 20, 2013 03:43 AM
LOLYou really have a fixation with these 7th house people.
Who has planets in their 7th house? Your ex? Your mum? IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 20, 2013 03:45 AM
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LOLYou really have a fixation with these 7th house people.
Who has planets in their 7th house? Your ex? Your mum?
What the hell, Odette? I don't have an fixation and FYI you are rude. If you don't have anything interesting to say, stop posting on my thread. Thank you. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted December 20, 2013 03:49 AM
I have Pluto in my 7th. I don't consider any of my relationships bad, they all teach me a lot. Settling, with Pluto in the 7th? Hm. . . that doesn't sound right.IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 20, 2013 03:56 AM
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I have Pluto in my 7th. I don't consider any of my relationships bad, they all teach me a lot. Settling, with Pluto in the 7th? Hm. . . that doesn't sound right.
Settling in my opinion regarding Pluto means that you enter in a relationship with a karmic partner. You love him and you love the relationship you have with him but when its ending you know it wasn't the right guy for you.
Real example: I know someone with Pluto in 7th house and with her partner's Pluto over her 7th house. She says she doesn't love him but she loves sex and loves the relationship she has with him. Does that sounds right? No, of course not but with Pluto you don't have much choice. That's in my opinion settling. When you know the guy is not right for you but you love the benefits of the relationship.
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posted December 20, 2013 05:17 AM
Either people pleasing people or those who are scared to be alone. Sounds a lot like Libra doesn't it?However, I know one lady whose dad abused her mum so she sought out an abusive partner, who I am convinced is narcissistic. She told me that she tried everything to please him. All I know is that she is Cancer. She doesn't strike me as Libran in any other planet, I don't know any of her placements. A few brothers who stay in relationships because they are scared of being lonely. One stayed with his alcoholic girlfriend and recently broke up. Neither had anything Libran in their chart, except the one who stayed with the alco gf had Moon conj Pluto in Sco/7th and chart ruler Rx in 12th (maybe that was it?). The other brother was Pisces Moon and had chart ruler also in 12th conjunct Neptune. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted December 20, 2013 05:39 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
I would exclude people with Sun/Moon/Venus square Saturn or Pluto because those are too picky to find themselves in such relationships. My two cents.I would include people with planets in 7th house, especially Pluto (Pluto gives karmic partners). DON'T START ANOTHER FLAME. Enjoy!
I have sun conjunct saturn & square pluto and all of my relationships have been bad and i stayed in them longer than i should have. I don't have anything in my 7th house either but i have venus sq neptune and mars in natal.
I think venus sq neptune can definitely make you a sucker for love even when you know the relationship is no good for you.
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Jessica2407
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posted December 20, 2013 06:34 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
I would exclude people with Sun/Moon/Venus square Saturn or Pluto because those are too picky to find themselves in such relationships. My two cents.I would include people with planets in 7th house, especially Pluto (Pluto gives karmic partners). DON'T START ANOTHER FLAME. Enjoy!
That's funny. Because you just started it yourself. I'm one of the '7th house people' and I do not stay in bad relationships. I can't settle for less either. IDK what's your deal with 7th house people though. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 20, 2013 06:40 AM
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That's funny. Because you just started it yourself.I'm one of the '7th house people' and I do not stay in bad relationships. I can't settle for less either. IDK what's your deal with 7th house people though.
For Heaven's Sake, its just an EXAMPLE. Like Odette, if you don't have something interesting to say, don't post in my thread. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 20, 2013 06:49 AM
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What the hell, Odette? I don't have an fixation and FYI you are rude.
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Odette
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posted December 20, 2013 06:54 AM
Well I wasn't being intentionally rude.. but honestly - when someone here has an issue with a particular sign or a particular aspect - or, in your case - a house placement... I've noticed a pattern... and 9 times out of 10 - either their ex or one of their parents (usually their mother) has the aspect/placement in question.
And because of their emotional problems with their ex or their parents - they end up under the impression that -everyone- with that sign or placement - has the same issues. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 20, 2013 06:56 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Well I wasn't being intentionally rude.. but honestly - when someone here has an issue with a particular sign or a particular aspect - or, in your case - a house placement... I've noticed a pattern... and 9 times out of 10 - either their ex or one of their parents (usually their mother) has the aspect/placement in question.
And because of their emotional problems with their ex or their parents - they end up under the impression that -everyone- with that sign or placement - has the same issues.
No darling. I have no exes or mother in such situation. I was asking in general terms not from personal experience.
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Jessica2407
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posted December 20, 2013 08:16 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
For Heaven's Sake, its just an EXAMPLE. Like Odette, if you don't have something interesting to say, don't post in my thread.
THAT was my response to your opening post. NEXT TIME, you want to discuss something on the boards, try to show a little bit more consideration. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 20, 2013 08:21 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
THAT was my response to your opening post.NEXT TIME, you want to discuss something on the boards, try to show a little bit more consideration.
I didnt need it. I see you are loving flames and to provoke me more than I do. Got any problem with me? Don't answer. I don't care anyway.
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Jessica2407
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posted December 20, 2013 08:25 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
I didnt need it. I see you are loving flames and to provoke me more than I do. Got any problem with me? Don't answer. I don't care anyway.
I am moderator Rosalind. I don't 'love' flames. You seem to love them. You want to discuss astrological aspects and whatnot, this is what this board is about. However while doing so, I'm asking you to have a little more consideration and respect for people who visits this board too. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 20, 2013 08:30 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I am moderator Rosalind.I don't 'love' flames. You seem to love them. You want to discuss astrological aspects and whatnot, this is what this board is about. However while doing so, I'm asking you to have a little more consideration and respect for people who visits this board too.
Wonder who put you in this position. I don't remember seeing you on the board when I was active a while ago. I don't know you so don't ask for consideration when you start posting on my thread with an unnecessary comment. You have consideration since you are a moderator and stop thinking you are important just because of this position. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted December 20, 2013 08:44 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Wonder who put you in this position. I don't remember seeing you on the board when I was active a while ago. I don't know you so don't ask for consideration when you start posting on my thread with an unnecessary comment. You have consideration since you are a moderator and stop thinking you are important just because of this position.
THIS is totally irrelevant to my above post. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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posted December 20, 2013 08:46 AM
lol, where is my popcornIP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 20, 2013 08:47 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
THIS is totally irrelevant to my above post.
Irrelevant? Of course, truth hurts. In your place I would be ashamed being a moderator and having such attitude. At least I am just a user. And above all, if you don't like my thread why are you posting here? To brag that you are a moderator? Such an irrelevant position.
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Jessica2407
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posted December 20, 2013 08:49 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Irrelevant? Of course, truth hurts. In your place I would be ashamed being a moderator and having such attitude. At least I am just a user. And above all, if you don't like my thread why are you posting here? To brag that you are a moderator? Such an irrelevant position.
AGAIN irrelevant to this post:
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I am moderator Rosalind.I don't 'love' flames. You seem to love them. You want to discuss astrological aspects and whatnot, this is what this board is about. However while doing so, I'm asking you to have a little more consideration and respect for people who visits this board too.
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Rosalind
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posted December 20, 2013 08:50 AM
OK. You are rude and you ****** me off greatly. Do me a favour and leave my thread. Thank you.IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted December 20, 2013 08:56 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
OK. You are rude and you ****** me off greatly. Do me a favour and leave my thread. Thank you.
Everyone is rude to YOU it seems. But YOU are never rude to people. You also seem to have a problem with apologies don't you? It amuses me how people think they own a thread on the internet once they've started it, like they own a house or something. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 20, 2013 09:01 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Everyone is rude to YOU it seems. But YOU are never rude to people. You also seem to have a problem with apologies don't you?It amuses me how people think they own a thread on the internet once they've started it, like they own a house or something.
Exactly. Also, how I am its none of your fricking bussiness. Get a life. Start learning astrology, do productive things and stop concerning about how other people are. My persona is none of your concern. You were rude, I am done with you. Simple. You ruined my thread and I asked you leave it to DO my thing which is ASTROLOGY. I am not on this forum to comfort people. I am here to do astrology and nothing else. I don't care if you aprove that or not. go and play Mother Teresa elsewhere.
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Faith
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posted December 20, 2013 09:45 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
DON'T START ANOTHER FLAME.
DON'T WRITE IN CAPITAL LETTERS. IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted December 20, 2013 10:19 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
I would exclude people with Sun/Moon/Venus square Saturn or Pluto because those are too picky to find themselves in such relationships. My two cents.I would include people with planets in 7th house, especially Pluto (Pluto gives karmic partners). DON'T START ANOTHER FLAME. Enjoy!
Pluto in 7th house is similar to Pluto in Libra. Do you think people with Pluto in Libra squaring a partner's Venus have a tendency to stay in bad relationships as compared to people with Pluto in Scorpios squares?
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