posted February 22, 2014 02:38 AM            

I didn't think it was off topic SSS.

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posted February 22, 2014 02:41 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
How do you know?
Have you met them in person? Do you know them?
Where's your PHD? You seem to know everyone here better than they know themselves.

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Maybe if you stop finding excuses then you'll find answers.

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:

Who cares if she wants attention from men? Why do you or anyone else have an issue with that? You obviously want attention right now so you of all people should understand.

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posted February 22, 2014 02:45 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
Maybe if you stop finding excuses then you'll find answers.

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posted February 22, 2014 04:04 AM            

Moon opposite mars and very afflicted moon in general

But moon bi-quintile venus

posted February 22, 2014 05:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Then Odette responded by talking about how her ex hated men. So SSS added another remark about men hating men. There was a little "men hating men" theme for a little bit.

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Okay, I can sorta see it now...maybe tomorrow after I've had some sleep it might even make sense. For now I'll just say that if war is relevant then every single person is hated by their gender, everyone must expect their own gender AT ALL TIMES to gang up on them and treat them horribly because there are always going to be at least a few who will treat you that way, and that's what's tripping me up here.

The question is "why is my own gender consistently hostile to me as soon as they see me" not "why doesn't my entire gender like me?"

Granted, you may be blithely unaware of how many people automatically dislike you and would treat you horribly if they had the chance but it's there, and sooner or later you'll run into those who'd kill you as much as look at you, even if they're forced to repress their hostility toward you. Some will want to legislate against you or kill you for all sorts of reasons without ever having met you or wanting to meet you. And that has nothing to do with "why can't I get along with my own gender" (a reasonable question if your own gender is consistently unfriendly to you) because most people can...even though there are others of their gender who automatically won't like them. And that makes the question meaningless as it then applies to every single one of us, and it should instead read "why doesn't everyone (men AND women) in the world like me?"

Using Odette's guy not liking other guys that's more like a mass murderer on a shooting spree than military guy (if using a war analogy). He hates everyone, does not stand with anyone (unless you wanna get creative and have him in an army of Amazons ).

As for me, I get along with many women therefore I don't have to wonder why women keep turning against me as soon as I walk into a room the way the OP does. But there are other women who can't stand me, sometimes they hate me on sight, some times I can grudgingly understand why, other times it's not anything personal but religious or ideology inspired hate, but it's not many (at least not to my face). Yet using the war analogy then suddenly I am one of those who can't get along with other women because of the few I can't, which is completely different from what the OP described. And then I have to wonder, who the hell thinks they're going to be liked by everyone?

posted February 22, 2014 08:25 AM            

If you try and see it as an answer to that question, you arrive at those conclusions you listed.

"Hate" can mean many things, not just personal clashes, or outright war, but all the nuances of meaning in between, all of which might have evolved into a giant subtheme in this thread...but none did, except SSS's remark.

No big deal.

posted February 22, 2014 08:32 AM            

I sometimes wonder if it's a gay thing where some straight men seem to instinctively hate gays and/or some gay men just seem to be "catty" (for lack of a better word) toward anyone they're not interested in/jealous of/whatever, but I'm not really sure...Hmmm, further research required.

posted February 22, 2014 08:40 AM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
I have Lilith conjunct asc, mars square asc. I think I'm hated by both sexes...

Hmmm I think a bad moon Pluto aspect could cause hate by women?

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posted February 22, 2014 08:41 AM            

i've noticed if you don't befriend a dominant female figure she'll attack and men pick up on this and join in - especially the weakest so in the past i think it would have been an ostracism designed to raise the value of a family against an outsider.

on that basis i reckon attractiveness does raise an alert amongst women but it's actually standing apart which is the root issue. so, i;ve known attractive women who are able to bond with other women escape that kind of treatment.

posted February 22, 2014 01:48 PM            

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Originally posted by lioninash:
@faith i know not EVERY female hates me.. Definitely a good portion though. And i am a very open, loving person, thats why i dont get why im hated. I believe that as women, we should stick together! We should love and support each other, not insult and belittle each other. Thats why this whole thing bothers me so much that i actually made a post about it :/

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I have noticed something with woman. If you are an attractive woman but humble and caring about others, women won't hate you. If they feel you are all about me, they will.
I am not talking to you, per se. It just something I have noticed that women do.

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posted February 22, 2014 04:07 PM            

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Originally posted by lioninash:
yes but there are reasons behind wars. maybe its for economical gain, maybe its to help another country be free from oppression. there's a million different reasons for war, but it never just boils down to 2 countries going to war because the leaders just don't like each other. if that was the case, every country would probably be at war right now. its not like a leader goes "yeah i really hate that guy, and he has perfect hair which really ****** me off so lets go to war." it just doesn't happen like that.
once again, this post was about receiving negative emotions from the same sex repetitively, not about receiving negative emotions because the person doesn't like you for obvious reasons.

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I am not really sure what the point of this thread is anyway lol.

posted February 22, 2014 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by lioninash:
because its annoying. i posted on this site for feedback, and to see if anyone has the same problems and what aspects could contribute to it. and everyone just goes off topic. so annoying like if youre gonna talk about something completely different then just make a new topic about it. damn.

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I guess what you really wanted was for women to get on here and start complaining about other women and since not everyone did that (and you didn't state in you o p that is what you wanted anyway) you are saying posts are off topic because people have stated astrological reasons then you just continued to state examples from your own life that are not astrological and you don't seem that impressed.

You should also understand everyone has to put up with disrespectful people from time to time, not just you.

posted February 22, 2014 05:28 PM              

But I noticed I get more respect from men around 30ish and older. They are genuinely nice to me and see me.
Thou my cousins husband always use to awkwardly point out my looks and tease me but he was very much like a boy but he's kinda chill now I think he's like 50 though..

posted February 22, 2014 09:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
No big deal.

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posted February 22, 2014 09:07 PM            

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Originally posted by lioninash:
@sss i didn't post this to hear other women complaining about woman. I just wanted to see if anyone else struggled with the same things i do. And i only posted examples to show what i meant for this post. I didnt mean to come off rude, so im sorry if i did to you or anyone else. This is just something thats followed me through out my life, and im just looking for reasons why and if it could be seen in astrology

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As a kid I'd say all my placements that made me something of an uninhibited (not to be confused with promiscuous) tomboy contributed to a lot of it, but may not have in other countries or even other parts of the USA (I'm thinking culturally but then even cities and nations have their own astrological placements that might make a difference) where such traits would not have been considered as threatening to my peers and adults. I also think that both guilt (such as a cheater) and insecurity (always feeling judged) play a lot into why many people look for others to judge and treat poorly which is much more common among the young (though some never outgrow it), which also helps explain why I had to put up with it more when I was younger.

If you're in your early 20s then I'd say there's hope that this won't keep happening (unless you're in a small town with a long memory and live there for the rest of your days) and that it's only more intense now because of competition for jobs as well as men. In short they're trying to vote you off the island before turning on someone else until they no longer feel the heat of competition for money & men and when the economy improves, you're married, etc, then it won't be you they focus on.

posted February 22, 2014 09:53 PM              

But I think girls should know some of their boyfriends probably secretly fantasize about me gathering from the way they look at me.. You'd be surprised.
That's something they would not expect so I guess that's why I'm not a threat.

but again I'm just the taboo curiosity and they will ultimately marry the guy that fooled with a boy.
That does not bother me, it really amuses me.

I'd rather be the inhibited experience than the mundane, everyday.
Hmm I think only one girl has ever hated me..
That's cause I stole her mans heart lmfao.

I still don't know how that's my fault.. I'm not really a threat.