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Topic: Being hated by the same sex
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geminigal2805
Knowflake Posts: 604
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 22, 2014 11:15 PM
  
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Kerosene:
[B]But I think girls should know some of their boyfriends probably secretly fantasize about me gathering from the way they look at me.. You'd be surprised. but again I'm just the taboo curiosity This! Most women believe their guy secretly fantasises about her girl friends. Maybe the guys do it too. Who knows.
Why are ppl asking 'attractive women' to behave in a different manner? Why cant an attractive woman be confident, cool and be herself? Y not ask women in general not to bad mouth/demean/b***ch about other (attractive/unattractive)women? If i were a guy i would take a woman with a beautiful heart over any other type of attractiveness.
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Alma Sun
Moderator Posts: 2225
From: The East Coast
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted February 23, 2014 12:06 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
To me....if you want to be liked you have to like yourself first and then not care what others think... Not in a negative or condescending way just in an "I'm secure with who am I am and if you dont like me, I'm ok with that... I'll probably will still like you, but no, I won't let you step on me"!
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"When I get sad, I stop being sad and be awesome instead." — Barney Stinson IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8604
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 23, 2014 01:15 PM
And if nothing else works just tell them you are sick of them and their hateful attitude they should just stfu already because you are not in the mood to put up with it. Yell it at them, LionInAsh, roar, and they will shush. Guaranteed.
Lions were put on this earth to roar and put other species in their places.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 1755
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 23, 2014 01:37 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
And if nothing else works just tell them you are sick of them and their hateful attitude they should just stfu already because you are not in the mood to put up with it. Yell it at them, LionInAsh, roar, and they will shush. Guaranteed.
Lions were put on this earth to roar and put other species in their places.
I just stroll my lion @as around like I don't even notice.
Just in that Leo way if you know what I mean.  IP: Logged |
lioninash
Knowflake Posts: 97
From: new england!
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted February 23, 2014 06:18 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
And if nothing else works just tell them you are sick of them and their hateful attitude they should just stfu already because you are not in the mood to put up with it. Yell it at them, LionInAsh, roar, and they will shush. Guaranteed.
Lions were put on this earth to roar and put other species in their places.
i love this! you're right, sometimes i just need to stand up to them and tell them to get the hell away from me, rather then trying to kill them with kindness because for some people it just never works and they only take that as a great sign of weakness which p*sses me off even more. i am not weak, i'm a lion damnit! IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 23, 2014 11:20 PM
Because other b*****s are stupid. They are hormonal and need to get laid more often.
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 41447
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 24, 2014 07:59 PM
Guys don't have this problem. IP: Logged |
whaaat
Knowflake Posts: 229
From: Portland, MA,U.S
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted February 24, 2014 10:41 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
I have Lilith conjunct asc, mars square asc. I think I'm hated by both sexes... Hmmm I think a bad moon Pluto aspect could cause hate by women?
I've got Pluto square Moon and I have the opposite problem; women like me and I like women (despite being deemed attractive , no one is threatened by me at all) but men seem to hold a fair amount of aggression toward me because I'm not 'on their side' and they sense it. > : ) IP: Logged |
Gabby
Moderator Posts: 3813
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 04:02 AM
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Originally posted by lioninash:
i love this! you're right, sometimes i just need to stand up to them and tell them to get the hell away from me, rather then trying to kill them with kindness because for some people it just never works and they only take that as a great sign of weakness which p*sses me off even more. i am not weak, i'm a lion damnit!
I've done that, it doesn't work in the long run! Temporarily they are quieter but really only talking behind your back and getting allies to side with them by reasoning that your the one who flew off the handle and is in the wrong! When they come back at you it will be with more than just themselves they will bring a team to make sure you don't get the best of them again.
I swear you need to stop focusing on them and work on your inner strength to the point that what they do and say doesn't bother you! Stand your ground but don't escalate the situation by getting into anyone's face! Stay strong but don't try to intimidate anyone, it will backfire! They are looking to upset you when it fails over and over it will eventually get boring to them and they will move on! This is not the quickest or easiest route but it's the only one that gets them off your back permanently! Turn the other cheek and walk away...don't act sheepish or anything just let then know their behavior is below you and your not going to take part in it! Teach yourself, your value is not measured by how many people approve of you...it's only how much you approve of yourself that matters!
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Gabby
Moderator Posts: 3813
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 10:01 AM
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Gabby
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posted February 25, 2014 10:01 AM
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