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Topic: Dating - Red Flags!
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nordicsoul
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posted February 28, 2014 03:26 PM
  
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Originally posted by coolingembers:
I see a loottt of moon/venus mentioned..His main placements are.Sun- Pisces
Moon - Libra
Mercury - Aquarius
Venus - Pisces
Mars - Aquaurius I saw Libra was mentioned and he is Libra moon o.o . ALthough I am Libra mercury, and I am rock solid/stable/decisive/confrontational... Thank you for the opinions! I now know to always look at moon/venus. I never really did that before!
i will dump the dude right away.. indecisiveness, moody, the combination libra piscis is the worst you can get when you want something stable and for real.. i had that moon piscis sun libra with afliction mars-neptune..the aquarios just add more uncertainty to the unstable combo libra piscis.. if you want romance, go for it, but be warned when the perfect match becomes the unatainable and moody creature
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nordicsoul
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posted February 28, 2014 03:31 PM
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Originally posted by dadoo:
I have to second what's being said about Moon square Venus.
I'm not sure if in my experience it was so much about turning cold in a second, as about being very warm before the relationship started to downright cold and not nice after.
And clingy after the breakup too.
what i know about the square moon-venus is that the emotional needs are not necesarily met by the type of person we tend to like or fint attractive. the change to cold may become from this conflict.
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nordicsoul
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posted February 28, 2014 03:33 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I am SUPER progressive and all those planets in 11H trine Uranus (Venus is sq ) I just get bored. Then I will fly off elsewhere and meet someone new. I won't lose contact though because in my childish mind I feel I am in a sense building bridges so that we can all be one big and happy family  The only (and I mean only) human that has yet to EVER bore me is an Aries Sun, Mars, Venus, Merc and Virgo Moon. It's ever-changing between us and it flows and evolves. Love that!!! I don't think Venus/Uranus is as big of a problem as Venus opp.Moon though..
why do you think aries types dont get you bored and keep you interested?
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nordicsoul
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posted February 28, 2014 03:54 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I think I would even more… this guy with the trine between venus-moon-neptune would obviously be a chick magnet and be overwhelmed with interested girls all the time… this would just turn on my jealousy that I'm otherwise extremely good at hiding… if he also had it opposite pluto it would be a bomb, and when it explodes it's gonna be nasty…So nope…I like moon/venus people a lot, like EVERYONE else, but that's not gonna mean I will date them. But I think as friends they are really, really great though...
are we talking about any aspect moon-venus? (does it count for the conjunction, trine and sextiles?)
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nordicsoul
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posted February 28, 2014 04:02 PM
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Originally posted by Renewal:
Well, hello,and I just had to comment. I have Moon in Aquarius and Mars in Libra, but I never turn cold or let go. But then again, my 1st H Pluto trines Moon at 0 deg., Moon squares Uranus at 2 degrees, and I’m Venus in Scorpio, which semisquares Sun at 0 deg. 0 minutes, and conj. Uranus. My whole life has been a life and death struggle, I’ve been clinically dead, but for me everything ends only when the other one gets too comfortable and walks away, or when I die. Not everyone likes intensity, but I do. I will not run away from anything, it’s just that there is no way back for anyone. No half measures.
hi Renewal, i think you hit on the nail. having strong pluto or scorpio in a chart moderates the shakyness of libra, piscis and instability of uranus.. the problem is that some people has too much of the unstable element.. it is all about balance and some people dont have these otehr aspects in their charts
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caramel
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posted February 28, 2014 06:51 PM
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Originally posted by incognito:
I agree w/ avoiding moon or venus square/opposite natal uranus people. cold ppl.Strongly agree with avoiding libra mars (passive aggressive)
Agreed! I knew a Virg sun, Taur moon, Lib mars. When I got into astrology I couldn't understand why I never detected his taurus moon. He had such a rude temper. Delved deeper into astrology and found that his taur moon was opp uranus! Just goes to show aspects are so important! IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted February 28, 2014 08:35 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Why I wouldn't date a detriment Mars? My domicile Aries Mars doesn't like how they prance when they walk.  And.. Libra Mars: Let's get married!
Aries Mars: WHAT?
Libra Mars: Seriously, let's do it, I feel very strongly about it, we're PERFECT for each other!! *Libra Mars disappears off the face of the earth* Libra Mars (several years later): Do you still love me?
Aries Mars: NO!
Libra Mars: Let's get married then! *Aries Mars punches him in the face* No need to get offended if you have it, it's all subjective. One man's garbage is another man's treasure and whatnot.
Im a libra mars and nothing like that. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted March 01, 2014 05:48 AM
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Originally posted by incognito:
Strongly agree with avoiding libra mars (passive aggressive) and any weak mars ppl e.g. mars in 12th. unless u r into ethereal vague artsy types who you can never pin down.
I've got Libra Mars in the 12th. Seems it's a good thing the guys I've had relationships with didn't believe in astrology.
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Im a libra mars and nothing like that.
I'm not either but it's fun to make jokes of generalizations. IP: Logged |
incognito
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posted March 01, 2014 06:47 AM
Rude temper is a good way to put it. Abrupt, unapologetic and arrogant. One moon sq uranus guy I knew would say 'I never say sorry' and encouraged me not to as well. That was red flag no 1. Needless to say he turned out to be the biggest douchebag and is goonnnnnne. quote:
Originally posted by caramel:
Agreed! I knew a Virg sun, Taur moon, Lib mars. When I got into astrology I couldn't understand why I never detected his taurus moon. He had such a rude temper. Delved deeper into astrology and found that his taur moon was opp uranus! Just goes to show aspects are so important!
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incognito
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posted March 01, 2014 06:51 AM
Easy to say you are not a certain way. What if that is the way others perceive you, or the way you come across to others and you just don't know it?
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Im a libra mars and nothing like that.
I'm not either but it's fun to make jokes of generalizations.
Originally posted by incognito: Strongly agree with avoiding libra mars (passive aggressive) and any weak mars ppl e.g. mars in 12th. unless u r into ethereal vague artsy types who you can never pin down.
I've got Libra Mars in the 12th. Seems it's a good thing the guys I've had relationships with didn't believe in astrology. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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posted March 01, 2014 07:07 AM
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Originally posted by caramel:
Agreed! I knew a Virg sun, Taur moon, Lib mars. When I got into astrology I couldn't understand why I never detected his taurus moon. He had such a rude temper. Delved deeper into astrology and found that his taur moon was opp uranus! Just goes to show aspects are so important!
Lol I wouldn't date myself either. I have sun, moon and mars square uranus. And I feel hot 1 second, and 2 seconds after that I'm mad, and 3 seconds after I feel like making love again. lol I hate uranus IP: Logged |
Renewal
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posted March 01, 2014 07:18 AM
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Originally posted by incognito:
What if that is the way others perceive you, or the way you come across to others and you just don't know it?
That’s exactly what happens, people can and will generate the conflict out of nothing. Everything is avoidable, but when frequencies do not coincide, there will be no harmony.
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plutomercjup20
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posted March 01, 2014 11:22 AM
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Originally posted by coolingembers:
I see a loottt of moon/venus mentioned..His main placements are.Sun- Pisces
Moon - Libra
Mercury - Aquarius
Venus - Pisces
Mars - Aquaurius I saw Libra was mentioned and he is Libra moon o.o . ALthough I am Libra mercury, and I am rock solid/stable/decisive/confrontational... Thank you for the opinions! I now know to always look at moon/venus. I never really did that before!
LOL some guy I used to like had the same placements except he is a cancer moon but I'm not a big fan of Pisces in Venus or just a lot of Pisces or aqua in a chart..... very indecisive and I feel like they are more prone to cheat or something along those lines... ------------------
sun in scorpio
moon in scorpio
mercury in scorpio
venus in sagittarius mars in sagittarius
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caramel
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posted March 01, 2014 11:56 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Lol I wouldn't date myself either. I have sun, moon and mars square uranus. And I feel hot 1 second, and 2 seconds after that I'm mad, and 3 seconds after I feel like making love again. lol I hate uranus
Lol! Aww.. see I am interested to know what goes through your mind when that "switch" happens. I know someone who has sun merc mars square uranus. Hot-cold is a meager understatement with this one! IP: Logged |
VirGuy
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posted March 01, 2014 02:05 PM
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Originally posted by coolingembers:
If you were looking at the chart of someone you were seriously considering getting involved with, what would be an instant red flag from your personal experiences?
Their Saturn conjunct my Mars. It's like the very essence of what make you who you are is under constant criticism and restriction. Similar experience with their Mars opposite my Mars too. Forget it!IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted March 01, 2014 02:16 PM
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Originally posted by incognito:
Easy to say you are not a certain way. What if that is the way others perceive you, or the way you come across to others and you just don't know it?
No, I know it. It's a combination of self-awareness, other aspects/placements and life experience. And this is exactly the "problem" with deciding to dump someone based on "red flags" in a natal chart before getting to know them. But as has been said 1000 times: To each their own. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted March 01, 2014 02:33 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
No, I know it. It's a combination of self-awareness, other aspects/placements and life experience. And this is exactly the "problem" with deciding to dump someone based on "red flags" in a natal chart before getting to know them. But as has been said 1000 times: To each their own.
Yeah.... It's not like all of us are caught in our own world. Your experience with one person can't be generalized to everyone else. What would you do if the person has one bad aspect but everything else indicates soulmate-connection? IP: Logged |
deepseablues
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posted March 01, 2014 02:49 PM
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Originally posted by incognito:
Strongly agree with avoiding libra mars (passive aggressive) and any weak mars ppl e.g. mars in 12th. unless u r into ethereal vague artsy types who you can never pin down.
Hell yes! How could you not love those types and why would anyone try to pin anyone down anyway, in a world that the only constant is change. What a silly concept 
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next to neptune
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posted March 01, 2014 04:09 PM
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Originally posted by caramel:
Lol! Aww.. see I am interested to know what goes through your mind when that "switch" happens. I know someone who has sun merc mars square uranus. Hot-cold is a meager understatement with this one!
I think I get insecure with the guy, and instead of just saying what's on my mind I play hard to get, just because I don't wan't to feel like a weak and dependent person! It's like I rebel against the feelings and emotions itself…and I don't wan't to feel too much, but that's impossible and I know that... IP: Logged |
diamondbaby
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posted July 29, 2019 01:13 PM
Aquarius Sun, Pisces Sun, Libra Moon, Scorpio MoonIP: Logged |
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