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Topic: Do you like one-night stands?
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lalalinda Moderator Posts: 4228 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 08, 2015 12:24 PM
Hello LeeLoo, Have you thought about getting a banner?That's usually how we advertise and it would get you out there for more people to see. They're affordable and help support Lindaland. (I really liked your art) ------------------ "There ain't no revolution, only evolution, but every time I'm in Georgia I 'eat a peach' for peace." Duane Allman IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 10386 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 08, 2015 12:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Exactly! They definitely aren't happy or look forward to sleeping with complete strangers each night/hour. People involved are clearly void of something and it's definitely not positive. Women involved in that business are usually those with daddy issues, those who have men issues, women who aren't happy with themselves and need men that don't know them to make them feel anything other than the disappointment they feel in themselves. Either way you look at it there's some damage there. Usually men who aren't attractive or have issues getting women, getting sex are the ones that seek prostitutes. That in itself would take away the pride of anyone who has to sleep with such individuals. I mean can you imagine having to force yourself to have sex with someone you don't want to? I know I can't. That's what these individuals do and they do it for money. Very sad. I'm absolutely not judging here and if anyone feels that I am in my posts then I apologize because that's not my intent. Just speaking what's on my mind.
This is a great comment, thank you BG! Blunt and to the point, not afraid to call it what it is. This is one of the most difficult things, but also beautiful, in modern communication: the genuine need to be tolerant towards other life styles, however trying to make people understand (what a difficult task! without being called all kinds of names) this tolerance sometimes comes from compassion and the understanding of the fact that we all make our mistakes rather than seeing something ugly as beautiful, something negative as positive. Not being judgmental doesn't mean seeing everything done under the sun as a positive manifestation, something we all should embrace. Better to be judgmental than to do that. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10853 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 08, 2015 12:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: I'm still laughing about gatekeepers.
Are you in high school or something? That is an old concept and an old term. You might know about that if you read some books instead of trolling another man half your age on an internet forum. And you feel bad for me? IP: Logged |
Koho Knowflake Posts: 474 From: New York Registered: Jun 2014
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posted March 08, 2015 12:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: I hate it when this happens. So you are suggesting expressing a strong opinion is equal to being self righteous, narrow-minded and intolerant.When the only thing you had to do now, and I am still waiting for it, is to explain the spirituality, sacredness, expanded consciousness you experience in casual sex with strangers and the difference between casual sex with strangers and fulfilling a physical release for a physical need (similar to going to the toilets).
I'll be clear though, I don't want you to feel attacked, I'm not saying your personality is any of these things. I know you didn't mention anything about feeling personally attacked but it is worth saying. But I think the manner of presentation, and probably the core of your opinion does have a superior feel to it. I'm not trying to prove that casual sex has aspects of spirituality, sacred, and expanded consciousness. I am arguing that the lack of it does not make it inferior to sex with a loved one. I mean we practice astrology. The whole point of astrology are signs representing all facets of life on a leveled playing field. Not everything requires water house, scorpio like deepness. Deepness doesn't make you any closer to bringing the energies of the zodiac to a whole than does physical, casual, friendly sex. And I really think you're confusing personal needs and preference for universal growth. A person having the main mode of casual sex, polyamorous sex, or whatever is simply expressing another energy of the wheel equal to the way you express yours. They're not experiencing 1% of themselves. That's the difference I think. When someone tells me they don't want to marry, or they prefer casual sex, I don't feel as if they're lacking in something. If a person tells me they prefer deep, meaningful sex with a loved one, I don't feel as if they've expanded their consciousness. So I can't answer in the way you prefer because it would be conceding that spirituality, sacredness, and expandedness is a necessary result of sex and that it is closer to evolution than practicing casual sex or what some by argue universal love. I'm very in the middle here as I stated before. I'm quite fine with all these modes. I can commit, I can be casual, and I can be in the middle of the two. Whichever mode I practice I don't feel of practicing a higher self though. If my thoughts are scattered feel free to point it out
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lalalinda Moderator Posts: 4228 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 08, 2015 12:35 PM
This thread started out with Astrology but has become more of an adult conversation so let's transfer this to an appropriate forum. Sweet Peas in the Rain ------------------ "There ain't no revolution, only evolution, but every time I'm in Georgia I 'eat a peach' for peace." Duane Allman IP: Logged |
Koho Knowflake Posts: 474 From: New York Registered: Jun 2014
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posted March 08, 2015 12:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Well thanks for pointing out the obvious. I meant as in casting stones at those involved in prostitution. If that's what you're into then have it. I'm not on a witch hunt wanting to burn all those involved. I was more so adding my own outlook on what LeeLoo said being that I agreed with it.
Don't confuse your frustration with AG onto me. You should probably go chill out a bit. I was just trying to say you shouldn't feel guilty But if you wish to continue to be short with me we can continue that pointlessness. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10853 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 08, 2015 12:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Exactly! They definitely aren't happy or look forward to sleeping with complete strangers each night/hour. People involved are clearly void of something and it's definitely not positive. Women involved in that business are usually those with daddy issues, those who have men issues, women who aren't happy with themselves and need men that don't know them to make them feel anything other than the disappointment they feel in themselves. Either way you look at it there's some damage there. Usually men who aren't attractive or have issues getting women, getting sex are the ones that seek prostitutes. That in itself would take away the pride of anyone who has to sleep with such individuals. I mean can you imagine having to force yourself to have sex with someone you don't want to? I know I can't. That's what these individuals do and they do it for money. Very sad. I'm absolutely not judging here and if anyone feels that I am in my posts then I apologize because that's not my intent. Just speaking what's on my mind.
Barbie, That just isn't true..... Google "famous men that have been caught with prostitutes". Lots of Politicians, Pro athletes, actors, musicians etc. have all been caught with prostitutes. The fact of the matter is sometimes men just want to have fun and don't want to have to go through all the motions of dating/courting a woman.
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Barbiegirl19 Moderator Posts: 5418 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 08, 2015 12:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: This is a great comment, thank you BG! Blunt and to the point, not afraid to call it what it is.This is one of the most difficult things, but also beautiful, in modern communication: the genuine need to be tolerant towards other life styles, however trying to make people understand (what a difficult task! without being called all kinds of names) this tolerance sometimes comes from compassion and the understanding of the fact that we all make our mistakes rather than seeing something ugly as beautiful, something negative as positive. Not being judgmental doesn't mean seeing everything done under the sun as a positive manifestation, something we all should embrace. Better to be judgmental than to do that.
Your welcome. Thank you, LeeLoo. I really appreciate that. I really wish people would just read instead of projecting their emotions and feelings onto others. Things tend to get misconstrued and fights break out and it all boils down to misunderstanding. It's tough communicating online and getting others to understand what you mean, not what they think you really mean. IP: Logged | |