posted May 03, 2021 11:17 AM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:

omg!!!! I'm laughing soooo hard and blushing like you wouldn't believe!!!

This thread is truly medicinal to me today! ~~ I needed this. Thanks everyone for what you're sharing. I had no idea!

And especially Faith~~~ you are sooo funny! What a great person you are!! I know you're speaking the truth, in more ways than one!! {{hug!!}}

I'm 60 right now (will be 60 and a HALF next month-- omg!!--- I keep saying that? because I DON'T BELIEVE IT *eek*) I feel soooo 'inbetween' worlds right now-- like rocking two giant realms of ages right now, in its straddle. There are shifts going on in my face that gives me a reality-check in the mirror every day now--- omg 'how old' (tired) I'm getting...
... (And then too, I'm having t Saturn in my 12th House beginning its approach to cross my Ascendant. I've read how this transit can make you feel much older-than-you-are. I dunno~~ that's nice.)

I'm a Gemmy, and eternally feeling youthful and bubbly (mostly from inside, going out). Honestly??? I "forget" how old I am. Act you're age!!! for pete's-sake! LOL

With Sag on the ascendant, I can be overly optimistic about what I perceive and overestimate a few things? errr, like athletics, and flip-jumping my body over metal yard fences.
(oooooo! *wince* Tried to do that?, and bruised myself so badly-- omg! I used to do that all the time and it was so fun then! ... not any more *looking*-- There are physical limits that naturally come in a very-real world that your imagination cannot accede -- Learned to respect that lesson.)

My Virgo Moon in that loose mutable T-square type energy position (but not in actual aspect) will stand there with its prudish arms folded, and be ~all-elevated, and be super critical of all my OWN secret-deepest dirty-thoughts and impulses... tsk! o~help??? LOL
I've got a sex-therapist-type Pluto (leo) at the e.o. my Cancer 8th House!! -- While I have my sluttyVenus Taurus quintiling Uranus Cancer in the 8th too... *hard-whisper* o you-know what they say about ~tho'se kinds??? ~likes weird! hahaha (~omg!!!)

*sigh* You know how a 4-month old needs to baptize with baby-drool all over things that touches its body and conscious life?... Well, with what-all I have in my 8th House and its connections?, 'If my soul can't energetically perceive and sex-drool vibes around it, with aim to cosmically-merge and consume in ecstasy the matter/material in front of my Being, (all done most-unconsciously, I assure you), then how can it be possibly-existant in my universe yet'??'.... (OOOO LOLLLLL~~ such a flirt-day).

You KNOW..... these are ONLY revelations of deep thoughts and ponderances that I would never otherwise share in person, or have thought about actually potentializing??? --- Except to the shock, scandalize, and amaze the whole prudish religious 'holy' world via the internet??
(o my!!... And t-Mercury will be crossing my 4762 Dobrynya for the third final time soon in Libra. arrrghhhh... It's lost!!! LMAO!!!)

Honestly, if you met me, you'd never ever guess-- and I really don't 'think' out loud that way either. I've just been processing some things lately, and studying some astrology placements in my chart--- aw hell, I missed my vocational-calling (according to some sources) as a sexual-healer??? o'goshdernnn c'mon now?! Why didn't I come across that piece of info while I was still hot and had a chance? ~LOL

I am VERY STRICT about not dating married-individuals nor the seriously engaged ones-- hard-line there. I Value, Uphold, and pray for Committeds.

I would never want to be (nor feel made to be) some other-woman's competition-- that's definitely just sooo~wrong to treat people that way. You don't need me to feel jealous--- or I'll just channel-Hera in the flesh!!! LOL. Don't like that, and don't like it when they try to create that kind of dynamic in a relationship. You're a loser if you do that with me.

One of the reasons I haven't had an active dating life is that I can feel quite territorial about 'my people'..., plus, I don't like getting hurt, used, or manipulated...., and I wouldn't want anyone to feel that way with me either. I'm good at putting myself in Other-people's shoes for this. You don't do to someone-else something you wouldn't like if it were done to you.

What the freak is going on today???? LOL!!! Oh geez---- must be that Virgo Mars-Jupiter Trine Pluto Capricorn?? These all make a grand-trine with my natal Venus Taurus -- sheer sluttery!!!!
(*O gosh, you'll never see my face here again*~~ LOL)
Actually??? I'm DEEPLY shy... You're just catching the Librarian in a transit with her hair down and glasses off today. LOL

So, back on topic. Astrological indicators...

[b]Saturn in the 11th is one of the placements for people who date/marry others much older (or younger).

I have the Saturn 11th placement (in Scorpio, with my Juno(Hera) Scorpio there too--
actually? I have asteroid 103 Hera at 4.25 Virgo sextile the Juno-rx Scorpio 4.49... also 2273 Yarilo Cancer 4.57~~ tsk-tsk, must~explains things ~decadent?!!)

But I like a feeling of permanence and stability in love and partnerships.
Saturn-rx is 16+ Scorpio, trine my 8th House Cancer cusp of Other.
Venus Opp Saturn likes the long-term.

I really value DEEP spiritual unions that feel committed and secure, and are metaphysical other-worldly in nature-- and committed to Higher Service.

Also have read that ARIES on the IC tends to go for 'younger' sexual partners....

I've not really gone-younger up till now, (except ex1 was 3 to 4 years younger than I -- but there was a distinct-difference because he hadn't gone through his Saturn-return yet. That is a HUGE maturation point in an individual. I was getting married and having a baby in the midst of my first Saturn return--- I just finished my second now).

In my teens and young 20s I definitely attracted-in persons who were always 5 to 6 years older, consistently.

During that time, I had two engagements with people who were 15 years, and 25+ years my senior.

I will admit here that the main reason I would feel 'too shy' about dating a younger person, is that my body has changed.

I can't seem to wrap my thick-hard-head around the notion that a young dashingly uber-handsome guy could possibly be genuinely-attracted to and want someone in an older fleshly-body-- (unless she had a bad cough and loads of money, with no relatives, of course??? *LM uproarious AO*!!!!).

I have a vibrant young spirit and vibe, and people often can't believe I'm "as old" as I say--- But my 'block' is that I remember how 'hot' I used to be. The body can always be improved through exercise, but age in the face, and in the processes of internal body organ and structure changes, can be cruelly betraying.

And maybe I talk 'old' like that today just because I could use a vacation and a new wardrobe? Really, I go back and forth with my opinion of my own self---
To be "fair"??, with makeup, my humor and Kindness, and vivaciousness, I'm really more-than-acceptable. Just have that 'old-fashioned' crusty belief in me that says 'You're a Cougar' if you've had thoughts of being with someone much-younger than you. *sigh*
... Well, if their reason would be a cough and the money??, I don't have either of those, so! LOL!!!

Okay! I think I probably have shocked my OWN self today~~ yet in a strange sort of way??, not-really. [/B]

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Dear, dear Mirage, you don't know how much-needed was today your post!

I am currently entangled in a platonic otherworldly connection with someone younger - I'm older but very unexperienced, been in only 2 relationships... he's younger but has been around A LOT! Lots of women in his past and God knows in his present...

And I just noticed that I have Saturn in 11th and Aries on the MC. I'm a Sagi rising too... LOL

So at least now you gave me a reason for the fact I turn out to be attracted by younger people here's our synastry if you care to take a look... http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/010991.html

:* <3

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My natal chart with asteroids http://i.imgur.com/1IG2Im4.png

and without asteroids http://i.imgur.com/Tl0L7oL.png