posted February 08, 2016 09:07 PM            

"Here there is a difficult link between the planets so also there is a difficult link between two attributes of the psyche. This difficulty is likely to spur the individual to greater heights in their efforts to achieve some kind of balance and harmony."

Well you natally have sun square moon so it probably feels familiar to have sun sesquisquare moon in synastry but her aspecting your moon with this aspect is pushing you more to work on your own natal sun square moon perhaps.

"the Sesquisquare indicates or “triggers developmental tension”. So if the native has this aspect, it can indicate a need to develop, mature."

Perhaps you two push each other to develop and mature.

"Julie Demboski says: since the [Sesquisquare] is a component of the config Fist of God [Thor’s Hammer], I see them as a little harsher, generating a lot more stress than a semi-square, and a different kind of stress to a square-more emotional or erratic, perhaps."

So perhaps her sun sesquisquaring your moon makes you feel emotional, erratic and out of control, I feel there is a compulsion to this aspect perhaps bringing to the surface compulsive behavior that stems from deep in your psyche so you can address it. She brings to the surface self destructive emotional patterns.

"Jan Bird and I talked about the Sesquisquare behaving in a self-destructive way.

I really think the native with a Sesquiquadrate can become self-destructive. Having said that, the word “self-destructive” can give the impression that the person is doing it on purpose. At least, it does to me but I may be sensitive about it since I have two aspects here in my own chart and I feel I don’t want to destroy myself but see that certain actions can be destructive to progressing in society and then yes, I’m being self-destructive.

Having said that, I have found the Sesquiquadrates, in my own chart, isn’t about being self-destructive, on purpose, unless we consider that wanting to express my individuality and share a different perspective from society (popular thought) makes it so."

Its possible that this is a nice aspect to create music together that is truly unique and not mainstream, its own thing. I feel that would be a positive component of this aspect since you are both artists. This is the fruit of this aspect if you manage not to self-destruct and push her away.

posted February 08, 2016 09:27 PM            

Her Duad Sun is in Scorpio
Her Duad Mars is in Sagittarius
Her Duad DC is in Pisces conjuncting your AC

You have Sun-Mars-Pluto in Scorpio so you are her type but your stellium does not conjunct her Duad Sun.

RELATIONSHIPS:

The duads show your instinctive attraction towards a person. The reason why is because these zodiac signs run through the family genes, the person will also attract and be attracted to non-family members with the Sun, Moon, Angles or Nodes in these signs. Therefore: People frequently marry people who fit this criteria.

For a woman the duads of your Sun, Moon, Mars, Ascendant and Nodes are usually the main significators of attraction to the opposite sex. E.g. if a woman has her Sun in Cancer in the Libra duad and the 4th duad (Cancer), she will be instinctively drawn to Libran and Cancerian men, or, to a lesser extent, people with the Moon, Mars, Angles or North Node in Libra or Cancer.

For a man, the duads of your Sun, Moon, Venus, Ascendant and Nodes are the main significators of attraction towards the opposite sex. E.g. if a man has his Moon in Taurus in the Taurus duad and 1st (Aries) duad of Taurus his instincts will draw him to women with the Moon or Venus in Taurus or Aries, or to a lesser extent, the Sun, Angles or Nodes in that sign.

SEXUAL ATTRACTION:

A woman will find a man sexy if he has Mars in the same sign as her Mars duad. E.g. a woman whose Mars is at 1Virgo39 will have Mars in the Virgo duad and 1st (Aries) dwad, so she is likely to find men with Mars in Virgo or Aries sexy.

A man will find a woman sexy if she has her Venus or Moon in the same sign as his Venus or Moon duad. E.g. a man with his Venus at 16Libra23 in the Aries duad and 7th (Libra) dwad of Libra will find women with Venus in Aries and Venus in Libra quite beautiful. He will also like women with the Moon in Aries or Libra.

The Nodes are important for emotional connection between people. These connections show very strongly in marriage and family charts. E.g. A person with the North Node at 4Taurus58 in the Gemini duad and 2nd (Taurus) dwad, will be drawn to those who carry Gemini and/or Taurus in their Sun, Moon, Ascendant, MC and/or Vertex. This may indicate a soul connection. These signs will also run through the family.

If someone does not have the zodiac sign or duads that your genetic patterning requires, there is less likely to be any deep, instinctual level of attraction. You may like or dislike them according to the synastry of their chart and yours, but there is not the “kick” that starts a relationship.

posted February 08, 2016 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:

"the Sesquisquare indicates or “triggers developmental tension”. So if the native has this aspect, it can indicate a need to develop, mature."

Perhaps you two push each other to develop and mature.

"Julie Demboski says: since the [Sesquisquare] is a component of the config Fist of God [Thor’s Hammer], I see them as a little harsher, generating a lot more stress than a semi-square, and a different kind of stress to a square-more emotional or erratic, perhaps."

"So perhaps her sun sesquisquaring your moon makes you feel emotional, erratic and out of control, I feel there is a compulsion to this aspect perhaps bringing to the surface compulsive behavior that stems from deep in your psychic so you can address it. She brings to the surface self destructive emotional patterns."

Its possible that this is a nice aspect to create music together that is truly unique and not mainstream, its own thing. I feel that would be a positive component of this aspect since you are both artists. This is the fruit of this aspect if you manage not to self-destruct and push her away.

Mind you I don't know much about this aspect but am fascinated by it and want to understand it more.

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When things got out of control, that's what I exactly became, very emotional, erratic and out of control, and very compulsive, in a way that I've only been twice, this being the second one, and for that reason is that more or less withdrew from her, I didn't want her to see me in the state I was, I couldn't sleep, eat properly, started to drink alcohol a lot, when I started this thread is that I decided to chill out, I was so out of myself, very emotionally overcharged, I'm not completely healed, but some things have improved, but still, there's a lot of emotional maturing to do.

And the musical thing is so true, when we combined, we don't care about going mainstream, our music speaks for itself... I just have to control the self-destructive tendencies I have, because I know they could do a lot of damage.

Thank you very much for the answers, it did help me out a lot .

posted February 23, 2016 09:06 PM            

Well, I'm going to tell what happened these past days, I've been continuing doing my life, she's been with her bf, and I since then started to go out more, and ironically, I started to have more fun with other women, I danced, I touched, I have some intense encounters, nothing sexual, but I've been starting to move forward from the cancer woman, because I have to, even if I feel her BF it's going to be temporal, I got to continue what I've been trying to do, to improve myself, and when we meet again to rehearse, it will be different, but I'll be ready for it.

The man is a late libra man as far as I know, and in some other day I can put their synastry to compare, it's more powerful in some ways but lacks the karma and the binding power we have, but for now, we're good how we are.

And I begin to text with a Sag woman with lots of capricorn planets, since we danced together and I felt an intense chemistry that I'm trying to built to something more, but it's going slow for now, but at least, I'm trying a bit more.

posted February 23, 2016 11:25 PM            

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Originally posted by LF DX:
Well.. To resume, since the time I was away from her, she found a new man, and just a little before we reunited they started to date, so it is what it is at the moment.

Well, I'm going to tell what happened these past days, I've been continuing doing my life, she's been with her bf, and I since then started to go out more, and ironically, I started to have more fun with other women, I danced, I touched, I have some intense encounters, nothing sexual, but I've been starting to move forward from the cancer woman, because I have to, even if I feel her BF it's going to be temporal, I got to continue what I've been trying to do, to improve myself, and when we meet again to rehearse, it will be different, but I'll be ready for it.

The man is a late libra man as far as I know, and in some other day I can put their synastry to compare, it's more powerful in some ways but lacks the karma and the binding power we have, but for now, we're good how we are.

And I begin to text with a Sag woman with lots of capricorn planets, since we danced together and I felt an intense chemistry that I'm trying to built to something more, but it's going slow for now, but at least, I'm trying a bit more.

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Perfect!

posted March 06, 2016 04:32 PM            

These past weeks have been the greatest I've ever had, thanks to performing back on the stage, and recieving a lot of praise, as a solo artist and with my band.

Also I've been trying to continue my learning of dealing with relationships with women, as I'm learning to get loose by dancing, texting, trying to get to know them, sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad, but I'm doing some progress, and I'm trying to enjoy myself.

There's this Sagi woman that I'm trying a bit harder, but it's because she attracted me more than the others, but there's no common ground to make it work, as she's a medicine student, who has very little time to hang out, and I'm in a phase of going out a lot, and to see a lot at the moment, but when it happened it was very good, and I want to know her, to try, It's still very hard for me yet to make the first step into dating.

We had some interesting things, as a DW Sun sextile venus, a DW of Mars Conjunct Pluto and a few interesting Sextiles, but less karma and a scattered composite, with the highlights of a Sun Conjunct Venus almost exact on the 9th and a Mars conjunct Pluto in the 8th.

And another story that I'll speak about it tomorrow, quite intense, but things have been good, I just need to relax a bit more

posted March 07, 2016 02:31 AM            

"WHAT A CRAP!"