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Topic: Can we stop romanticizing Persephone and Hades
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cottonball Knowflake Posts: 103 From: milky way Registered: Jan 2013
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posted December 22, 2016 11:19 PM
It’s a story I see either romanticized or brought up when discussing synastry in a few books I’ve read and online...and it's creepy as hell.Let me refresh your memory - this story involving an old dude who Kidnaps Rapes(and Marital Rape) Brainwashes Forces into Marriage of his NIECE. Who happens to also be a child. Why are we romanticizing this? It’s a horrible story. Like I know astrology fans have a morbid, unhealthy and masochistic view of romance, but this is too much. And even if she wasn’t his niece and a child, rape and kidnapping are kinda illegal if you’re not in the know. Sorry to be a Debbie downer but this is really creepy and I’m tired of seeing it. Oh and merry Christmas so sorry to post something so depressing so close to Christmas.
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Selenite Knowflake Posts: 1304 From: Lyra Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 22, 2016 11:25 PM
it's because they're the rulers of the underworld.. and many, many of those myths are super messed up. i think it's fascinating.. then again i often read about serial killers in my spare time..IP: Logged |
cottonball Knowflake Posts: 103 From: milky way Registered: Jan 2013
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posted December 22, 2016 11:30 PM
Yeah a lot of greek mythology is depressing and dark. My issue is when people romanticize it. Like Hercules was a product of rape too. At least people aren't romanticizing that...as far as I know Also I wouldn't call her the ruler of the underworld. She's more like a brainwashed puppet. Before she ate the brainwashing pomegranate seeds she was crying everyday to return to her mother. The girl was kidnapped in the middle of playing with other children. It's supposed to be a story of tragedy. IP: Logged |
Selenite Knowflake Posts: 1304 From: Lyra Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 22, 2016 11:44 PM
are you talking about on this site or elsewhere? i always thought she eventually matured and became a ruler for real, but maybe that's just my twisted version of it. i thought it was sort of representing the transition into womanhood, so although it was messed up as per usual, it ended up okay for her. loli have Persephone on my MC and Proseprina on my IC/Venus so i have my own ideas of what it should be apparently. IP: Logged |
cottonball Knowflake Posts: 103 From: milky way Registered: Jan 2013
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posted December 23, 2016 12:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Selenite: it ended up okay for her.
How? She was forced into marrying her kidnapper/rapist.Also in that environment she wouldn't healthily transition into a women. Her mental/emotional development and sexual maturation would be messed up. She would actually grow to be very subservient in a stockholm syndrome way towards Hades. He'd have full control over her, and she'd be very childlike. You see this in women in certain cultures who are married off as children, the abuse makes them very....submissive to their abuser. I'm not surprised this is twisted into a coming of age story considering it was made up thousands of years ago where marrying off children was okay....maybe not to their uncles though :/ quote: Originally posted by Selenite: i have Persephone on my MC and Proseprina on my IC/Venus so i have my own ideas of what it should be apparently.
I just explained it's a story of a niece being raped by her uncle. Why bring this up? You have the symbol of incestuous child rape on your MC, congrats.IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted December 23, 2016 12:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by cottonball: It’s a story I see either romanticized or brought up when discussing synastry in a few books I’ve read and online...and it's creepy as hell.Let me refresh your memory - this story involving an old dude who Kidnaps Rapes(and Marital Rape) Brainwashes Forces into Marriage of his NIECE. Who happens to also be a child. Why are we romanticizing this? It’s a horrible story. Like I know astrology fans have a morbid, unhealthy and masochistic view of romance, but this is too much. And even if she wasn’t his niece and a child, rape and kidnapping are kinda illegal if you’re not in the know. Sorry to be a Debbie downer but this is really creepy and I’m tired of seeing it. Oh and merry Christmas so sorry to post something so depressing so close to Christmas.
Are you some kind of troll to say all astrologers got a warped view of love. And I never heard any romantizing of this pair? On this website. I have only read one article about this. Couple in my time here. But the fact you have the ordacity to say all astrologers have a warped view of love makes me wonder why are you here? And like selenite said a lot of Greek myths where the stars and the planets get their names have horrible stories attached to them.
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LexusVirgo Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted December 23, 2016 12:34 AM
Eros and psyche are the main myth couple I hear talked about on this website or in astrology ingeneral . goodday.IP: Logged |
cottonball Knowflake Posts: 103 From: milky way Registered: Jan 2013
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posted December 23, 2016 12:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by LexusVirgo: a lot of Greek myths where the stars and the planets get their names have horrible stories attached to them.
That's not my point. Certain astrologers and netizens have chosen to romanticize the pair. There's nothing to romanticize. quote: Originally posted by LexusVirgo: Eros and psyche are the main myth couple I hear talked about on this website or in astrology ingeneral . goodday.
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8657 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 23, 2016 01:42 AM
Just out of curiosity, why bring this up now? What triggered it?I'm curious because I saw a thread similar to this (though not about astrology) on another board that was unexpected. And right on the heels of that one is this thread that's very similar in tone and on something related. One is strange but not surprising, but then 2 (and perhaps many more out there I don't know about) seems odd. Is there something being passed along the internet I don't know about that's inspiring threads like this? (Perhaps something on the messages in many pop cultural and ancient myths that promote misogyny, for example.) Or is this just a coincidence? (And thus perhaps astrology related in that sense, that is the positions of the planets is inspiring threads like this.) IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 30245 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 23, 2016 04:40 AM
As for the incestuuous bit however, it is pretty common in mythology (Zeus and Hera being siblings, and btw he pretty much forced himself on her, too. or Almost at least.)Even Eros kidnapped Psyche, and what do we think he did when he "visited" her at night? Personally I think these things aren`t meant to be taken as face value but metaphorical. However I definitely can see the other take as well. From a literal point of view these stories, and pretty much all of them, are just really horrible, gruesome, misogynistic etc. IP: Logged |
TensionEmpire Knowflake Posts: 656 From: Hamburg Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 23, 2016 05:42 AM
So heavy topic..Man rape women in war, and they like it afterwards. This is Alexis Zorbas. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 30245 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 23, 2016 05:53 AM
No woman likes to be raped. Not in war, not anytime.IP: Logged |
TensionEmpire Knowflake Posts: 656 From: Hamburg Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 23, 2016 06:25 AM
Hmm, maybe it is a thin lineIP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 30245 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 23, 2016 06:51 AM
No, no thin line. Just male delusion. IP: Logged |
DannyCappy Knowflake Posts: 380 From: Registered: Jan 2016
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posted December 23, 2016 07:22 AM
Yeah I read this story here many times as a POWERFUL/HOT ROMANCE Creepy
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5698 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 23, 2016 11:55 AM
I was hoping Ceri would comment on this one. Thanks.IP: Logged |
the89freespirit Knowflake Posts: 866 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 23, 2016 12:36 PM
I have never seen it as romanticized. I think it is the perfect myth for the sign of Scorpio because it represents strength, beauty, and power coming from something really dark, horrific, upsetting, and/or traumatizing. I've always thought that Persephone turns the rape around to her advantage. She doesn't remain a victim. She uses her experience of going through something really dark in order to empower herself and empower other people (helping them wade through their own darkness). She becomes Queen of the Underworld not because she is so in love with Hades. She really has no other choice now because she knows the darkness too well and too intensely to give it up. She knows she can't stay there but she can't entirely leave it behind, hence the 6 months underground and 6 months above ground thing. I think that is why she is the perfect mythological figure for Scorpio. As a Scorpio Moon, I know personally that most people of this sign go through their own trauma but can end up turning it around to their advantage and finding great strength and power in it, like Persephone. PS, I have never thought of her as being brainwashed. She is dragged down into the Underworld not by choice. But, she remains there by choice, in my view. ------------------ Check out My Astrology Blog: http://astroarena12.blogspot.com IP: Logged |
Belba Knowflake Posts: 553 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 23, 2016 12:44 PM
@cottonball Thanks actually whole Greek mythology is quite revoltingly hating towards women, just as ancient Greece in reality was, so merely a reflection. Rapes, kidnappings were the norm. Women were invisible, muted, enclosed into their houses, with no rights whatsoever, treated worse than slaves. Athens - the civilization we now think of as the cradle of "democracy", was actually the worst. They were domestic and sexual slaves. The "great" Greek thinkers, philosophers such as Aristotle for example deemed women as lowly creatures. Of course women have been treated like s*it throughout all history, but ancient Greeks are real contenders for the worst oppressors ever (Sparta was bit better though). Actually rape is an obsession in Athens. The number of rapes in mythology is shocking even if one only follows the "career" of Zeus or Appolo. The Love of the Gods in Attic Art of the Fifth Century B.C. lists 395 cases of rape by major Olympic male gods. Several early myths connect rape with marriage, giving it social sanction (as in Sparta). That's just skimming the top layer... If someone is interested in the topic, I warmly recommend -The Reign of the Phallus: Sexual Politics of Ancient Athens by Eva C. Kraus - Goddesses, ****** , Slaves and Wives: Woman in Ancient Antiquity by Sarah Pomeroy Greek mythology has been unjustly glamorized. It's good to have a nice distance to it, especially in astrology, where there's a lot of this bullc*ap. p.s.: and to think there's a fine line is just disgusting... and symptomatic. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5698 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 23, 2016 12:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by the89freespirit: I have never seen it as romanticized. I think it is the perfect myth for the sign of Scorpio because it represents strength, beauty, and power coming from something really dark, horrific, upsetting, and/or traumatizing. I've always thought that Persephone turns the rape around to her advantage. She doesn't remain a victim. She uses her experience of going through something really dark in order to empower herself and empower other people (helping them wade through their own darkness). She becomes Queen of the Underworld not because she is so in love with Hades. She really has no other choice now because she knows the darkness too well and too intensely to give it up. She knows she can't stay there but she can't entirely leave it behind, hence the 6 months underground and 6 months above ground thing. I think that is why she is the perfect mythological figure for Scorpio. As a Scorpio Moon, I know personally that most people of this sign go through their own trauma but can end up turning it around to their advantage and finding great strength and power in it, like Persephone. PS, I have never thought of her as being brainwashed. She is dragged down into the Underworld not by choice. But, she remains there by choice, in my view.
Thank you for expressing so eloquently my feelings about it that I did not know how to express into words. That was beautifully put, wow. IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 924 From: USA Today Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 23, 2016 02:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by TensionEmpire: So heavy topic..Man rape women in war, and they like it afterwards. This is Alexis Zorbas.
Can you do women a favor, and either get an education or jump off a cliff? You're disgusting and sick if you think this is the case. I'm a rape survivor and no I never liked it. So kindly eff off ------------------ "Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama IP: Logged |
TensionEmpire Knowflake Posts: 656 From: Hamburg Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 23, 2016 03:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Belba: @cottonball (Sparta was bit better though).
I have heard that women choosed the man that would sleep with her in Sparta IP: Logged |
TensionEmpire Knowflake Posts: 656 From: Hamburg Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 23, 2016 03:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Belba: @cottonball p.s.: and to think there's a fine line is just disgusting... and symptomatic.
for sure, now I think that Alexis Zorbas is actually also known as the Greek, what a coincidence! and the story plays in creta. It is very nice because in the same book, The other guy is walking in the street, new year, and he is thinking, who is the first person he will meet in this beautifull morning. So guess who is it? The Widow, she walks cross the street pulls her head scarf back, shows her hair and in the next moment pulls it back, as if her was afraid to show it to the father of creation. She walks into the frontyard leavs the fence gate open.. What dose the guy do? He walks passed it and finds a fig tree to sit under it and chill
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TensionEmpire Knowflake Posts: 656 From: Hamburg Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 23, 2016 03:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mergoatsun: Can you do women a favor, and either get an education or jump off a cliff? You're disgusting and sick if you think this is the case. I'm a rape survivor and no I never liked it. So kindly eff off
I appologize if my way of expression is radical. It was written in a book, i cannot say anymore, since it is this topic. I have jumped off a cliff, funny enough I did it to become a man, and funny enough, it almost happened what should happen-. (I was naked)
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cottonball Knowflake Posts: 103 From: milky way Registered: Jan 2013
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posted December 23, 2016 03:56 PM
Thank you for the thoughtful contributions everyone. (apart from one) Totally forgot about Eros and Psyche, what a shame @PixieJane It wasn't me but good for them, something's in the air maybe. quote: Originally posted by the89freespirit: But, she remains there by choice, in my view.
Being a survivor of abuse shouldn't be a life sentence to darkness, even if it feels like it. And in the mythology she is brainwashed by eating a pomegranate which tricks her into wanting to stay in the underworld. It was Zeus that allowed her to return to her mother for 2 or 3 seasons(??) I think. Persephone perfectly represents the abused though, by oscillating between light and dark, recovery and relapse. I see her as a survivor in a tragic situation but never a romanticized Juliet.IP: Logged |
cottonball Knowflake Posts: 103 From: milky way Registered: Jan 2013
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posted December 23, 2016 03:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Belba: @cottonball Thanks actually whole Greek mythology is quite revoltingly hating towards women, just as ancient Greece in reality was, so merely a reflection. Rapes, kidnappings were the norm. Women were invisible, muted, enclosed into their houses, with no rights whatsoever, treated worse than slaves. Athens - the civilization we now think of as the cradle of "democracy", was actually the worst. They were domestic and sexual slaves. The "great" Greek thinkers, philosophers such as Aristotle for example deemed women as lowly creatures. Of course women have been treated like s*it throughout all history, but ancient Greeks are real contenders for the worst oppressors ever (Sparta was bit better though). Actually rape is an obsession in Athens. The number of rapes in mythology is shocking even if one only follows the "career" of Zeus or Appolo. The Love of the Gods in Attic Art of the Fifth Century B.C. lists 395 cases of rape by major Olympic male gods. Several early myths connect rape with marriage, giving it social sanction (as in Sparta). That's just skimming the top layer... If someone is interested in the topic, I warmly recommend -The Reign of the Phallus: Sexual Politics of Ancient Athens by Eva C. Kraus - Goddesses, ****** , Slaves and Wives: Woman in Ancient Antiquity by Sarah Pomeroy Greek mythology has been unjustly glamorized. It's good to have a nice distance to it, especially in astrology, where there's a lot of this bullc*ap. p.s.: and to think there's a fine line is just disgusting... and symptomatic.
I love this! We should be pi$$ed! It's not cute to glamorize the cruel past that was unforgiving to women
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