posted February 02, 2021 02:15 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Be yourself. Be legit. Don’t try and BS them. Don’t lie to them. (They’ll know anyway and then oh my goodness.) Don’t be wishy washy - they don’t tolerate people who don’t know what they want, especially when it comes to their friendship/relationship. They would rather hear your ugly truths. They would rather know where they stand with you. Even if they don’t agree with you 100% they will appreciate your honesty. They may never trust you unless they’ve known you their entire life. Once it’s over, it’s really over. They might entertain the notion of some type of future relationship, but it won’t be the same and if they feel like they’ve been played, they’ll play you. They’re not the type to go around telling everyone how they feel about you. Their best friend might know, but that’s it.

- Best friend and sibling is a Scorpio Moon in 12th house conjunct Mars
- I’m a 4th house Moon native w/Scorpio MC & Pluto-MC conjunct...I’m used to the Scorpio/Pluto types

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posted February 02, 2021 05:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
What about people with Libra Moon conjunct Pluto? My guy has this aspect. He also hates cold cut off and likes to maintain peace with everyone. But he also behaves like a Scorpio: secretive, suspicious, jealous, controlling, wants to know everything about me but selectively reveals things about him....

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posted February 03, 2021 06:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
When I started with Pluto transits, I got more intense and emotional. If I had have them for a long time, it probably would be easier to cut people off and be less concerned with fairness. I don’t have much desire to maintain peace with everyone anymore, but there was the time.
The boiling point might be different, but there’re lines what cannot be crossed. I hate public feuds
I noticed many people with Pluto aspects to personal planets have Scorpio traits. I have Scorpio traits, but I try to hide them 😏
I think Scorpio moon has a low boiling point. Something isn’t right, that’s it - cut, only because he feels like that, no discussions.
I don’t think all Pluto Moon like that. All my family have heavy Pluto things, but they have courage to confront people, not just cold cut off.

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posted February 04, 2021 01:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I believe the Scorpionic traits differ depending on your Moon sign. My bestie has a Sag Moon and even though her Moon square Pluto, she has never cut anyone off, not even her cheating ex. My guy’s Libra Moon provides some kinda balance too. But I’ve another friend with Gemini Moon trine Pluto who’s known for randomly cutting people off then reconnecting with them again when she feels like it.

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posted February 04, 2021 04:40 PM              

Of those 3 categories, the most numerous for all Signs has been the "decent/in between" types.

We usually attract and/or are attracted (in an indirect, unconscious sense) to difficult people of a certain Sign, two, or three, when that Sign(s) has strong squares, inconjuncts, and/or sometimes oppositions or signs right next to each other (don't understand each other well, especially the Sign before) with the Signs strongest in our charts.

Hence, we tend to develop "biases" towards a certain Sign or two (or three if you have SCORPIO MOON...j/k that was a joke).

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posted February 09, 2021 10:24 PM            

It's actually what got me into astrology. I knew my sun sign, but never fully resonated with it. Then I read about the scorpio moon and it clicked.

Scorpio moons FEEL A LOT and have often been through some sort of emotional trauma. Some deal with this innate and intense sensitivity well, but some don't. I have to agree with GCE that you can't really generalize. Like with people in general, some scorpio moons are great, some are ******** .

negative/unevolved traits: secretive, jealous, paranoid, prone towards revenge if they feel they've been wronged, can be emotionally manipulative, will cut contact if they think they've been wronged, mommy issues.

positive/evolved traits: passionate, emotionally insightful, empathetic, the MOST loyal partners, you can say anything to them, comfortable with deep and dark things, close with their mothers.

1. How to win your heart over?
Honesty, specifically emotional honesty. Loyalty. Having sex- this might be a more vedic interpretation, but I was watching a video where the astrologer (I think it was Kapiel Raaj) was saying that the order of get to know someone and then sleep with them is flipped with scorpio moons--- they tend to learn about someone BY sleeping with them. I do kind of feel that. I could tell right away if someone is insecure, selfish, kind, etc etc when having sex. But to each their own

2. How to assure and comfort the scorpio tendencies that come with the sign? (Such as insecurities, jealousy, possessiveness and fear?)
Be honest and clear about what you want. And don't cheat. That's probably the most hurtful thing you can do to a person romantically, but even more so for the scorpio moon. So, agree on your boundaries and then follow that agreement. Scorp moon is big on say what you mean and do what you say.
3. What do you like for your partner to be when it comes to your emotions (if you ever show them to him/her)??
They can be private (I'm not, but that's another story) but privacy by itself doesn't give you a ton of info. Think about why someone would be private. Self protection. they don't want to give anyone the power to hurt them. And, naturally, the things you lack in your personality are things you look for in a partner. So I'd say show them how to be emotionally vulnerable by being emotionally vulnerable. Once you've established that your relationship is safe space to share, he/she should start sharing more.

Best of luck!!!

Placidus Flamingo

posted February 10, 2021 10:57 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:

1. How to win your heart over?
For me it's being truly who you are without the facade. We can penetrate this with our eyes anyway.

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this is such a load of **** , i wish i got paid every time someone with a lot of scorpio in their chart got me completely wrong and just used their own paranoia and confirmation bias to assess things

they're perceptive sure but never as much as they think and when feelings are involved they're not as good at it

posted February 10, 2021 12:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Chanterelle:
Hmm... I was just talking about this the other day: how, every once in a while, when I’m in a group of people I’ll think I sense a change in the atmosphere that no one else seems to notice, and it’ll send me into a little bit of a spiral of “Paranoid? Perceptive? Paranoid? Perceptive? I don’t know, I need to leave!” 90% of the time it’s a total non-issue, but every once in a while I‘ll end up walking out of a concert after 20 minutes and wondering why.

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people can be intuitive and pick things up through energy and so on, you may be sensitive

the thing with scorpio placements is because many of them are capable of doing that they take it to mean they're always right and when they want to find something wrong they will and they'll only believe their own narrative

it's one thing to be intuitive it's another to think your intuition is always 100% accurate no matter what the other person is telling you

deciding how someone else feels, where they're coming from, what they think etc is a huge issue i've had with scorpio placements

they're very big on projection and when their feeling are in the way their perception/intuition often becomes projection

my ex had a scorpio midheaven/mercury/venus/pluto (venus pluto exact conjunction) and was forever deciding what i meant and how i felt etc and believing that over reality

everyone with heavy scorpio ive known does this, they're far better at reading people they arent close to than those they are

posted February 10, 2021 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Chanterelle:
Yeah, that’s probably true. I figure actions speak louder than words— that seems to be the only way to avoid the paralysis of indefinitely suspended judgment. I’ve also had to do a fair amount of winnowing mental illness from gaslighting over the past few years, so there’s that too. I mean, if someone just flat-out claims not to remember something... wtf do you do?

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i've dealt with gaslighting too both my mother and ex were like that (both scorpio stelliums funny enough) , so i get how that can be well

i've dealt with a lot of **** like that

actions can speak louder than words sometimes depends on the situation and the person but generally yeah

posted February 10, 2021 01:45 PM              

Because they tend to lack the intense, mostly unconscious fear of Scorpio (Uranus being different than Aquarius in this regard, Uranus swings to extremes and can and does have it's intensely fearful moments), they can often do it without the intense projection part.

posted February 10, 2021 05:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Chanterelle:
Conundrums, conundrums... they’re everywhere I look these days.

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maybe you're looking for them then 😁

@GalacticCoreExplosion

yeah scorpios generally make me think of this meme:

it's not that intuition and energy sensing etc are fictional things, they exist, it's that people can get in the way of their own abilities and perception and scorpio is very good at getting in the way of it

posted February 10, 2021 05:31 PM            

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Originally posted by placidus_flamingo:

Scorpio moons FEEL A LOT and have often been through some sort of emotional trauma.

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posted February 10, 2021 07:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
any moon sign can have a traumatic life or a good one, trauma is indicated in many places in a chart, sign is irrelevant

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lol I wasn't saying that---you've built a straw man argument here. the sign doesn't show you what will happen, but it can show how you deal or don't (as is often the case with scorp) your issues. That was my point. A lot of the negative traits associated with it are because the native had some issue (usually adolescent bs) and rather than dealing with it they doubled down on self protective instincts.

posted February 10, 2021 07:53 PM            

Maybe so... maybe it’s a consequence of being really reluctant to make those kinds of judgments. I never assume that people are static or simple, and I work pretty hard at not taking things personally and assuming the worst, but sometimes I feel like my life is one of those choose-your-own-adventure novels and I’m trying to follow all the potential plot twists at the same time. Instant judgment sounds so simple and easy in comparison, I can almost see the appeal.

posted February 10, 2021 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by placidus_flamingo:
lol I wasn't saying that---you've built a straw man argument here. the sign doesn't show you what will happen, but it can show how you deal or don't (as is often the case with scorp) your issues. That was my point. A lot of the negative traits associated with it are because the native had some issue (usually adolescent bs) and rather than dealing with it they doubled down on self protective instincts.

And yeah I don't think scorpio moons are psychic. Empathetic, but not psychic. and yeah the empathy comes from having felt really intense things, but ego can possibly lead someone to projecting how they'd feel in a situation on someone else. Then again, that's how most empathy and compassion comes about--- imagining yourself in someone else's shoes.

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what strawman did i respond to? i quoted you and responded to the quote and you're reiterating the sentiment here

>a lot of the negative traits associated with it are because the native had some issue

except that's not where the negative traits come from, anyone can have issues the negative traits associated with it don't stem from the things that have happened

it's inherent nature not any external influence

i've met a good deal of scorpio placements who are unable to feel for others (empathy) but rather are extremely self focused, they can identify other people's feelings but it doesn't manifest in a way where there's true empathy