posted August 21, 2017 06:59 PM            

My question for you is:
1. How to win your heart over?
2. How to assure and comfort the scorpio tendencies that come with the sign? (Such as insecurities, jealousy, possessiveness and fear?)
3. What do you like for your partner to be when it comes to your emotions (if you ever show them to him/her)??

posted August 21, 2017 08:28 PM            

1. How to win your heart over?
For me it's being truly who you are without the facade. We can penetrate this with our eyes anyway. If you can't be who you are and wear your heart on your sleeve with me, I get turned off and just think you're a game player. And emotional intensity. None of this flaky **** .

2. How to assure and comfort the scorpio tendencies that come with the sign? (Such as insecurities, jealousy, possessiveness and fear?)
I'm not really a jealous person, but if you so much even glance or smile at the opposite sex, I will hand you back your genitals back on a silver platter for you.

3. What do you like for your partner to be when it comes to your emotions (if you ever show them to him/her)??
Of course I show them my emotions, its inescapable. Consideration and reciprocation is expected.

If you can't handle our intensity, just do what NINE said, "RUN"

posted August 22, 2017 12:23 AM            

Just be very careful about dealing with an immature Scorpio moon. These guys can be master manipulators and love to play games. Don't fall for their bulls*t. The moment they start playing games with you, then walk away. Treat them with respect and expect the same courtesy in return. Don't excuse any of their bad behavior. If you are a natural flirt, then avoid Scorpio moons. Loyalty is what they seek.

That being said, the mature Scorpio moons are surprisingly very sweet. If they care about you, then they won't hesitate to move mountains for you. Of course, if you betray them, then watch out!

posted August 22, 2017 05:07 AM            

I don't think intense is the word for moon in Scorpio, but overwhelming is. It may look like an intensity, but no, it's gone too far, so it's called overwhelming.

Meet moon in Aries, get close with one, this people are intense, they feel with intensity but NOT necessarily overwhelming.

I think the only one who can very close handle moon in Scorpio, is cancer placement. OP, do you have cancer in your placement? Then, you don't need a lot to worry.

One of my Cancer sun friend (who is in relationship with my Aqua sun moon in scorpio close friend) told me this: "You know what, some people are just love getting hurt in the relationship. It needs a long time to realize it's wrong, but some people can't acknowledge it."

When it is good with the Scorpio moon, they can be one of the kindest and sweetest person to be with, but unfortunately they can be very easily turn in to evil: never trust you (may be they look like trust you, but let them think a while then they will say, hmm, NO. lol, when the partner look at that chick - scorpio moon start looking for a knife -... I mean chicken 🐔, I'm not finishing my sentence yet. That's how quick their feelings turn in to the dark, don't be surprised if you get accused cheating A LOT), vindictive, and easily manipulate people and surrounding.

posted August 22, 2017 09:57 AM            

Rule1: do not lie
Rule 2: be prepared to go to the deep end of your emotions
Rule 3: be prepared for sarcasm that stings
Rule 4: do not be flaky even if THEY appear to be
Rule 5: enjoy sex and don't be a popsicle..

posted August 22, 2017 11:21 AM            

However, if you are dealing with an evolved Scorpio Moon, being true to yourself is best. They hate liars/flakiness and want honesty, even if it's not pretty.

posted August 22, 2017 11:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
...RUN...

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posted August 22, 2017 11:48 AM            

One thing I have understood in my life is that cannot handle Libras, not offending anyone but Libra is placed in my VIII house and I have felt how this sign cannot stand my emotions and they get me nervous or have hurt me a lot.

My ex boyfriend is a Libra Sun and he liked to play a lot with my emotions so he could taste how Scorpio Moons are when we're done.

Only my opinion, but a Libra Moon and a Scorpio Moon are not getting well, first one is too much prone to harmony while and not to lose the balance around Scorpio one to bring all s*it out and if we have to destroy to re-build, we're gonna do that.
Libra finds hard to make decisions and that is what Scorpio moon can't tolerate: we need activitiy and intensity.

posted August 22, 2017 01:26 PM            

I am a Scorpio ASC/venus/merc/pluto in 1st house. The first thing I radiate is Scorpionic energy. I don't have a problem revealing my intentions but I don't seem to trust others' intentions too much. I rather mirror what the partner does first and observe how he acts/behaves.

This Scorpio moon is also an Aqua sun. Not to mention, he is Scorpio moon/mars/pluto/saturn so he has a stellium.

His venus is cap so this person is pretty fixed...possibly pretty stubborn.

He invited me to a trip with friends so we will see how that goes. He also inquired about future plans so we will see. Either way I am not a playing games type of person, I know the depth of commitment I can have for someone and the lengths I can go for my partner, so I won't sweat it. If anything they have to show me they want it as much as I do.

This will be the second time I will be meeting his friends, which isn't a bad thing. I generally get along with most people and wouldn't have a problem in public.

posted August 22, 2017 01:38 PM              

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
Thank you all for your responses!! They are very insightful and I really appreciate it.

I am a Scorpio ASC/venus/merc/pluto in 1st house. The first thing I radiate is Scorpionic energy. I don't have a problem revealing my intentions but I don't seem to trust others' intentions too much. I rather mirror what the partner does first and observe how he acts/behaves.

This Scorpio moon is also an Aqua sun. Not to mention, he is Scorpio moon/mars/pluto/saturn so he has a stellium.

His venus is cap so this person is pretty fixed...possibly pretty stubborn.

He invited me to a trip with friends so we will see how that goes. He also inquired about future plans so we will see. Either way I am not a playing games type of person, I know the depth of commitment I can have for someone and the lengths I can go for my partner, so I won't sweat it. If anything they have to show me they want it as much as I do.

This will be the second time I will be meeting his friends, which isn't a bad thing. I generally get along with most people and wouldn't have a problem in public.

I wonder if Moon Conjunct Saturn will give the scorpio moon a different twist..?

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I've dated Aquarius sun, moon scorpio, venus capricorn, cap mars

be gentle with them, a bit delicate but can do a 180 to hard headed to compensate fast
genuinely nice people who are down to help their friends and family, can have that boyish charm

he was really last minute and would plan but didn't follow through on making plans completely, leaving me hanging not knowing what time or where.. then wouldn't reply until last minute to be like 'oh yeah, that's great, see you then' then if i got tired of waiting 6 hours for a confirmation so decided to go to confirm other plans with other people who were more keen - he'd get upset.

then bottle up the upset and say 'nevermind' .. but would mind. has a problem saying no to people. he would frequently get into conversations with girls you could tell that he would want to back out from but was too polite (?) to.

quite perceptive - he is one of the only few people in my life who could see through my poker face

i have a venus in scorpio and we had the venus/moon trine both ways (my venus his moon, his venus, my moon) it didn't work because he had that aquarian detachment (don't underestimate it) and so i found that he matched the other aquarians i know who are very touchy with their female friends.

This one had his female friends sitting on his lap (they had bfs) and so I never got the physical security of knowing that I was special or well... anything (he say that he fancied me etc etc etc and all this stuff but act like that with them). It triggered my possessiveness and jealously. I couldn't keep up with it.

Edit: omfg that was remarkably cathartic to write out. That last line 'i couldn't keep up' .. i just released something right there off my spirit. phew. yeah. i was just completely out of my depths.

posted August 22, 2017 02:50 PM            

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Edit: omfg that was remarkably cathartic to write out. That last line 'i couldn't keep up' .. i just released something right there off my spirit. phew. yeah. i was just completely out of my depths.

ps. cap sun/moon (both 8th house), mercury, scorpio venus, virgo mars[/B]

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Wow that does sound pretty right. I wouldn't think ANY one would enjoy having other opposite members sit on their lap. My Scorpio Venus would not have tolerated it. He fancied you but didn't fully confirm commitment to you? Well in my opinion, indecision is a decision.

posted August 22, 2017 03:23 PM              

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
Wow that does sound pretty right. I wouldn't think ANY one would enjoy having other opposite members sit on their lap. My Scorpio Venus would not have tolerated it. He fancied you but didn't fully confirm commitment to you? Well in my opinion, indecision is a decision.

You'd imagine a cap mars would be less of someone who'd play games but who knows. Which is why you can't really fully trust what anyone else...can only observe their actions..

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my scorpio venus went ice cold and i iced him. from then on out. but before that already he basically ghosted me. it was messy, it was a whirlwind. i couldn't keep up. so many insecurities got triggered and i acted accordingly so i wasn't great either i'll take responsibility for my actions.

but you're right - indecision is a decision. I think he liked the grey zone because he could have his cake and eat it too.

i heard cap mars only get good after a few years, like this one was in his mid twenties, and like i said boyish. maybe the value in the cap mars only comes out in their 30s

posted August 23, 2017 03:53 PM            

Scorpio moons can be a toughie to decipher. Smack aqua on top of that and it's gonna definitely leave you dumbfounded.

posted August 23, 2017 11:35 PM            

At first, I was addicted with Scorpio moons, but as I have gotten older, I'm frankly tired of their shet. Especially the Scorpio Moon conj pluto generation.

posted August 26, 2017 01:33 AM            

1. You will have to be the one who is vulnerable and/or emotionally open. Because he was not only very defensive but suspicious of everything.

2. There was not as much sex as I expected. When there was, it was great. But everything else in between was tense moments between us or times where he was just very distant.

3.He loved me AFTER we broke up. He seemed to thrive on the drama of "losing" me. Many times he threatened to go and eventually i let him leave. Months later "I love you"

4. He often said cutting things(Moon in 3rd). Some deeply hurtful stuff "off the cuff". And that was usually a sign that he was angry with something that had nothing to do with me.

To answer your question.

How to win em over? Be yourself and consistently so. Regardless. No one can be "won" over for long if u are putting up a front.

How to assure em? Don't. Stay centred in yourself because he would throw accusations of infidelity whilst i was spending the whole week at his place

How he liked me to be? Always treating him with "exclusive" attention. Being careful of what i say/do both verbally or with body language.

All in all it was a relationship that had real potential ti be something long term. I think he messed us up . I was the one who was left(ironically enough). He said he fell for someone else. But i think that the person concerned made him feel like he was the centre of their world. Which he liked very much.

posted January 31, 2020 08:01 AM            

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Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab:
In my humble opinion, wich is based on interactions with a limited number of persons, i would like to advise caution with Scorpio moon love interests should they not have experienced their first Saturn return.

If you have plenty of air in your horoscope the caution applies even heavier.

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Can you please explain this opinion?

I am in a relationship with a Scorpio moon whose Saturn return has just begun.

I have lots of air!

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