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Topic: Is it true that men can sleep with a woman they dislike, for months/years on end?!
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Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 1520 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted August 11, 2020 11:32 PM
This isn’t Astrology-related, but my sister told me about this yesterday, and I’m so surprised. ------------------ Cancer Rising 2nd House Leo Sun 3rd House Leo Mercury 6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto 1st House Cancer Venus & Mars 10th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 8009 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 12, 2020 01:24 AM
Definitely, in married couples especially.Lets not see each other's face and just get it done quickly!! -_- 'As you wish' *invents doggystyle* IP: Logged |
Graham Knowflake Posts: 1821 From: Registered: Apr 2019
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posted August 12, 2020 04:02 AM
Why men, rather than people?IP: Logged |
Graham Knowflake Posts: 1821 From: Registered: Apr 2019
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posted August 12, 2020 04:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: Definitely, in married couples especially.Lets not see each other's face and just get it done quickly!! -_- 'As you wish' *invents doggystyle*
And in the world's oldest profession. "$50 dollars for 5 minutes." "And another $50 for the diagram I had to draw." IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 5040 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 12, 2020 05:13 AM
This is quite a silly question and doesn’t feel astrology based at all! ANYONE can sleep with ANYONE they “dislike”! I’ve done it and I’m a woman. Am I proud of it? No, it wasn’t my best moment but it happened and so what!?My husband slept with his ex wife after they divorced because she was “available” and somehow they both thought it would make things better for their daughter. It didn’t and then they moved on. Well, at least he did.. Also, I’ve noticed that trying to pin humans down to a certain category is bad. We are all nuanced and complex and even the smallest little thing can “tweak” our direction in life and it doesn’t have anything to do with astrology, DNA, or psychotic diseases! Reason for saying this is that when I moved back to Sweden, after 19 years in USA, I met a very old friend of my dad. I used to look up to this man when I was a kid. He is smart, scarred, and happy. I felt lost because I had no job and nowhere to live; at the age of 37. He said “ Charlie, you don’t have to worry! Everything will be OK”. and then he smiled and hugged me. Those few words have re-shaped me and it won’t matter what happens to my Cancer Sun, Cap Moon and all other planets and aspects! LIFE shapes people and we make choices; good or bad. IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea Knowflake Posts: 1290 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted August 12, 2020 08:59 AM
Both men AND women can do this. Heck people stay trapped in loveless marriages. Some for legit reasons, some for silly "keep up appearances" reasons. IP: Logged |
Eternal Energy Knowflake Posts: 270 From: Registered: May 2020
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posted August 12, 2020 10:28 AM
Why can't we just be love?IP: Logged |
Eternal Energy Knowflake Posts: 270 From: Registered: May 2020
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posted August 12, 2020 10:29 AM
Don't you suffer when you're not love?IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 8009 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 12, 2020 11:35 AM
^ Coz we can't IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 657 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted August 12, 2020 11:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Eternal Energy: Don't you suffer when you're not love?
Perhaps, more suffering is occurred when you’re in love. Charlie, planets cannot influence our every second thought and decision. They do have influence; otherwise, why to study astrology. It helped me to explain some things about myself. I believe in positive thinking and improving yourself too.(sometimes) IP: Logged |
NxNW Knowflake Posts: 90 From: northeast, u.s. Registered: May 2020
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posted August 12, 2020 12:49 PM
Awww, you lovely sweet creature. I find it's so reassuring that there are still people in this world who didn't know this. Like everyone else has already commented, yes, both men and women can do this. Many people could loathe someone and find them detestable yet would have sex with them. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2764 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted August 12, 2020 01:43 PM
what does sex have to do with liking someone? i could barely stand my ex towards the end and we had sex near dailyIP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 865 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted August 12, 2020 01:47 PM
This can occur with both genders.. there's clearly other things going on in the background that we don't know about.You might dislike someone but chose to stay with that person if there is some other kinds of perceived benefits to being with that person. I always thought that a natal chart whould show what are "motives, attributes, wants and needs" are then were just "actors" playing on all of those. Sigh...Life is alot more complicated then that. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑ IP: Logged |
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posted August 12, 2020 03:41 PM
😭😭😭 Don't mind me, just being an emotional bint ...daily ^^
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Eternal Energy Knowflake Posts: 270 From: Registered: May 2020
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posted August 12, 2020 04:57 PM
When expectations arise, suffering is knocking at your door.IP: Logged |
Moonbeth unregistered
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posted August 12, 2020 05:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Eternal Energy: When expectations arise, suffering is knocking at your door.
Expecting comes with caring. Suffering is not mandatory, only the minimum risk of caring, and expecting that cannot be reduced. IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 1128 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 12, 2020 07:45 PM
Yes. It's called "being married."IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
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posted August 12, 2020 08:16 PM
I know woman who has sex all day long, doggie style, while her husband sits at home with his hands, OR ELSE!!!But if he dare has sex with someone else... She'll have sex with even more men to try and hurt him and teach him a lesson. What a fu cking weirdo! One way to keep the marriage alive.. IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
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posted August 12, 2020 08:16 PM
Double postIP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
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posted August 12, 2020 08:16 PM
Triple post.Now I'm acting like her with her men, but with posts. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 9670 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2020 01:41 AM
Never mind my late night rambling. Some things just have to be learned, if possible, the hard way. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2918 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted August 13, 2020 02:18 AM
I guess there are people who can do this for a variety of reasons... one of which is 'obligation' or simply to satisfy their sexual urge... that's until they found someone else they really like. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 6984 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted August 13, 2020 08:59 AM
quote: Is it true that men can sleep with a woman they dislike
I think anyone could sleep with anyone they are "not that into".. as long as they basically think the person is "ok". If they actually - actively dislike that person, and maybe find them off-putting... that would make things a lot harder...... :\ IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 8517 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 13, 2020 09:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: what does sex have to do with liking someone? i could barely stand my ex towards the end and we had sex near daily
Wow. Really? When I don't like someone, they feel it from a visceral level. My ex could tell we were on our way to a break by how I made love to him. I was holding back.🤷🏾♂️ IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
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posted August 13, 2020 09:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by Astra: Yes. It's called "being married."
That's if they even get it at all! IP: Logged |