posted May 05, 2022 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by married11years:
That is what I want to ask, how is someone Saturn (7th house ruler) in 5th house suppose to met their spouse? according to "astrology" wise.
Yep Saturn in my husband 5th house conjunction with his Mars in there too, both planets in Scorpio sign and in a Scorpio ruler house.

What your prediction? on someone Saturn (7th house ruler) in 5th house. How is that person suppose to met their spouse?

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Your husband has mars conjunct saturn? Congratulations! He would make an excellent surgeon. Has he ever considered going to medical school? He should.

7th lord in 5th house? Did your husband meet you at the places of entertainment? 5th house is the Leo house. Or was it while you where out for a holiday or enjoying a sport (because Mars is involved here too) etc?
Did your meeting happen out of nowhere?

posted May 05, 2022 10:33 AM            

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Originally posted by married11years:
That is what I want to ask, how is someone Saturn (7th house ruler) in 5th house suppose to met their spouse? according to "astrology" wise.
Yep Saturn in my husband 5th house conjunction with his Mars in there too, both planets in Scorpio sign and in a Scorpio ruler house.

What your prediction? on someone Saturn (7th house ruler) in 5th house. How is that person suppose to met their spouse?

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Your husband has mars conjunct saturn? Congratulations! Depending on where his north/south node is, he would make an excellent surgeon. Has he ever considered going to medical school and becoming he doctor? He seriously should.

posted May 05, 2022 10:46 AM            

@rockwell

My husband have Scorpio Mars, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto, all 3 malefic in the sign Scorpio. It is a bad thing? lol

Can you explain why he likes dangerous jobs and dangerous hobbies? It is the 3 malefic in Scorpio sign, and he has Mars in Scorpio domicile as his dominant planet in his whole chart?
That planet dominant calculator in astro-seek and Astrodienst Walter Pullen, both show the same results that the planet Mars (in Scorpio) is his dominant planet in his chart. And the sign Scorpio is also his dominant sign. So he a Martian (which I don't like, lol).

He loves guns, he very good at shooting all types of guns (riffles, shotguns, etc..) at outdoor range at moving targets. He likes archery, bow and arrow. And he great at horse riding.

As for his jobs, he work a hazardous job (for over 13 years), every single day he deal with 80,000 gallons of flammable gasoline, and corrosive Hydrofluoric Acid with his hands. You don't want to get Hydrofluoric Acid on you as it will literally eat through your flesh and bones, it the strongest acid out there.

I couldn't explain why he does what he does, but that how he is. He has Mars Conjunction Saturn in the same sign Scorpio, and a Pluto and Mars midpoint in Scorpio, at critical degree, 0 degree.

No, we didn't met at his hobbies, his hobbies is shooting riffles and shotgun at outdoor range moving target, lol, I'm not a fan of those stuff (so we sure don't have the same hobbies).

So any explanation astrology wise why my husband like dangerous hobbies and loves his hazardous job? Scorpio Mars in his 5th house yes?

posted May 05, 2022 11:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Interesting🤔. My expectation would be that Saturn is in the 10th house-given what you said. Because 11th house is social groups or mass meetings.

If you met him at a concert somewhere or attending a big public event(11th), then yes. That would fit.

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posted May 06, 2022 11:32 AM              

After we met we didn't start dating immediately, even tho we really liked each other right away. There were few months in between when we didn't have any contact, and then we bump into each other at an opening of a bar. But again didn't start dating until few months later when he suddenly kissed me at a party. Hahaha, such a funny story.

First thing I told him, was that I don't want a serious relationship and that I don't plan to have kids. 8 months later I was pregnant 😆 (and it was planned), then we got married after 5 years and had another child.

posted May 06, 2022 11:52 AM              

Always been attracted to martial arts also and even wanted to join the army in my teens 😆. But luckily I then chose dance and art and then therapy fields. I had so many interests that it was hard to direct myself in only one direction.
But today I'm happy about my journey. I still work close to birth and death and blood, so it's ok, this energy its satisfied.

posted May 06, 2022 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepBlue:
I met my husband trough a friend when we were doing an art project together.
But before that one of my other friends was talking to me about him for almost a year, telling me I should really meet this guy, cuz she had a feeling we would like each other 😆.

After we met we didn't start dating immediately, even tho we really liked each other right away. There were few months in between when we didn't have any contact, and then we bump into each other at an opening of a bar. But again didn't start dating until few months later when he suddenly kissed me at a party. Hahaha, such a funny story.

First thing I told him, was that I don't want a serious relationship and that I don't plan to have kids. 8 months later I was pregnant 😆 (and it was planned), then we got married after 5 years and had another child.

My 5th (mercury) and 7th (sun) H rulers are conjunct in the 5th with venus also in that conjunction. He has the same stellium in 5th house also. So it's pretty obvious that we met like we did.

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posted May 08, 2022 02:08 AM            

So the ruler placement of the 7th(and to some extent Venus too in some cases) would be where we are most likely to meet people or be "out in society".

So say for instance someone has the ruler of the 7th house (Moon in Tau) in the 4th house. Will that mean that they won't meet a partner because they are a homebody? No.

This could suggest meeting a partner through 4th house related things i.e meeting your partner through your family connections, meeting your partner through doing home renovations/finding a home( the partner could be a real estate agent), meeting your partner during a house party, meeting them in a protected/closed off area like an estate or secured neighbourhood, meeting your partner in the same living space/commune that you move into etc.

I use this example because I have a friend who is very introverted and was single for years and was too shy for online dating. But now is suddenly in a relationship.

The ruler of their 7th house Leo(Sun) is in their 4th house. They spend a great deal of time indoors. Always been this way. But the universe does find an opening in a natural way that is comfortable for the native (whether introverted or not).

In his case,one weekend another friend was visiting him at home and was accompanied by someone. After spending a few hours at his place ,the companion of his friend left and he (the companion) was smitten.

Naturally then,he asked for the numbers from their mutual friend that introduced them (who gladly obliged). And the two(my friend and the companion) have been inseparable since.🤷🏿‍♂️. Its been 2 years.

Add to that,the companion's Sun sign is .....wait for it...Taurus. My friend has Moon in Taurus in the 4th house.So he literally met a "Taurus" at his home( Moon 4th)🤣.

posted May 08, 2022 02:45 AM            

You are still not answering the question of how you and your hubby met?

rockwell has given you many scenarios on how the meeting could happen. But you are answering the query with another question🤷🏿‍♂️

How did you and hubby meet?

Your response: He likes guns. Should I be worried that he could turn violent?

How did you and hubby meet?

Your response: That Mars/Saturn conjunction may be difficult for him. But he does love his family.

posted May 08, 2022 02:54 AM            

oh, sorry I answered it last time, I was rambling about it, so I edit it and remove it, as my post get too long, my Gemini scatter brain lol.

I do want to ask you something, can you tell me which houses is more accurate, the Whole house, or Equal house, or Placidus?

posted May 08, 2022 04:05 AM            

Oh so you two met in childhood? If that is so,then 5th hpuse would apply. 5th house is our childhood. So ruler of the 7th in 5th would suggest the partner is connected to our childhood somehow.

Do you two joke around with each other a lot? Behave like children with each other? Or is it all serious?

# as for house systems,there is no "wrong" or "right" answer ime. I prefer Whole sign because when I look at transits to planets (as per whole sign placement), things add up.

In whole sign, my Mars is in the 7th house. When Jupiter in lib transit was conj natal Mars, I got a job and had to move in with someone-co share(7th house is partnership).

Mars rules 1st and 8th house.The job did have an 8th house feel to it. It was very erratic. Annoyingly so.

Add to that I moved homes- Jupiter square natal Moon(ruler of my IC) as well as learn new processes on the job( square Mercury). Mercury rules the 6th house of work.

posted May 08, 2022 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
We met on youtube in the comments. We were arguing haha

I deleted my yt account and about 6 months later he found me on facebook where we started chatting again - arguing, too but also really long and deep conversations. My 7th cusp in in Capricorn but wouldn't it make sense to look at the composite in this case as it concerns both partners and not just me?

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Where is Saturn?

I tend to not look at composite at all tbh. Often times i find themes better represented when looking at the two charts individually.

posted May 13, 2022 06:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
The 1st husband you met through work(10th house Venus in Virgo). Both Virgo and 29th touch on career/work.

Now I wonder about the 9th house ruler. Where is that placed? Because the 1st marriage is the 7th . But the 2nd is the 9th. So perhaps the 9th also rules long-term relationships after the 1st marriage? Am curious 🤔

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posted May 14, 2022 12:56 AM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
there was a thread recently about second marriages being 9th house... my 9th house ruler is Leo, and my sun is in the 8th in Cancer.

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Meeting your partner at a crises oriented environment OR where there are sudden ups and downs?

When I think of the 8th house,I think of sudden occurrences such as emergencies or sudden changes. Even sudden meetings that develop overnight .

With Sun in Can, maybe there is a strong emotional connection with each other or instantaneous bonding that develops quickly?

posted May 14, 2022 12:59 AM            

He met my mum, when he was stationed in the London area, when he was in the air force. They met through friends. He was apparently a bit rude, not wanting to be set up with anyone, so my mum decided to get dressed up (mini-skirts were in at the time), and make him regret being so rude. He liked her (and her legs), offered to get a chocolate bar for my aunt, who was with her, and then he asked her out.

posted May 14, 2022 01:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Is Dad Sag/Pisces rising?

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posted May 14, 2022 07:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Where is Saturn?

I tend to not look at composite at all tbh. Often times i find themes better represented when looking at the two charts individually.

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posted May 14, 2022 01:44 PM            

YouTube is more 11th house imo. In that its a space for the greater population to interact(Aqua is about that).

Unless.....?? Did you have your own channel on YouTube where you posted personal stuff on? A channel that was sort of a life journal?

4th house is more about home or places that feel like home. If you are very engaged online on an everyday basis on the same channel. Then that channel will feel like "home".

If 11th house cusp is Tau(when using whole sogn astrology), Venus would rule that. So it would make sense if you attracted someone via this way.

posted May 14, 2022 04:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Saturn in 4th? Really🤔

YouTube is more 11th house imo. In that its a space for the greater population to interact(Aqua is about that).

Unless.....?? Did you have your own channel on YouTube where you posted personal stuff on? A channel that was sort of a life journal?

4th house is more about home or places that feel like home. If you are very engaged online on an everyday basis on the same channel. Then that channel will feel like "home".

If 11th house cusp is Tau(when using whole sogn astrology), Venus would rule that. So it would make sense if you attracted someone via this way.

But then one has to also look at whether Ven forms aspects to the 7th house planet or makes any interactions with the 7th house?

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no own channel. I think he disagreed with a comment of mine under a political video and we took it from there.
Saturn im the 4th in my case just means (along with Pluto in the 4th) difficult upbringing with a burden of responsibility put on my shoulders from a very early age.
that's how I interpret it anyway

posted May 14, 2022 04:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Meeting your partner at a crises oriented environment OR where there are sudden ups and downs?

When I think of the 8th house,I think of sudden occurrences such as emergencies or sudden changes. Even sudden meetings that develop overnight .

With Sun in Can, maybe there is a strong emotional connection with each other or instantaneous bonding that develops quickly?

You two may readily open upto each other about personal things because there is a strong sense of familiarity with each other etc.

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posted May 15, 2022 01:27 AM            

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Originally posted by kani:
no own channel. I think he disagreed with a comment of mine under a political video and we took it from there.
Saturn im the 4th in my case just means (along with Pluto in the 4th) difficult upbringing with a burden of responsibility put on my shoulders from a very early age.
that's how I interpret it anyway

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Interpretations are not exhaustive ime. The ruler of the 7th on the 4th MUST say something about the types of significant
relationships you draw to yourself or are attracted to.

Saturn is not out there in the 4th house(as the ruler of the 7th)ceding its influence on the 7th. There is a point of "partnership" between the two houses as a result of the planet being there.

A political forum? That's interesting. Would you consider yourself patriotic or into politics? Maybe someone who holds traditional values when it comes to politics or domestic issues?

I see Pluto is mentioned to also be in house 4.So you either feel very strong about home and country (domestic politics/issues). Or positively disdain all that goes with it. Pluto tends to be extreme.

4th house is all things domestic and includes domestic politics and all things involving home & country. Whilst 9th house is more international/global politics & diplomatic relations etc.

So here, it wasn't so much that you two met at a specific place.I was being too narrow in my interpretation.The platform was negligible & irrelevant.You two met because of your views on domestic politics(4th).

So 7th house ruler (partner) in 4th is a partner that is likely patriotic or has conservative views(Sat) in relation to home & country.

If Sat conj Plu, they are likely very stubborn and passionate about their view. Not easily swayed and very vocal.

It is also likely that the partner also grew up under austere conditions or did not have an easy childhood(this especially if Pluto conj Sat). So there is a point of familiarity (4th) with you two because of upbringing and how that impacts on both your world views.

4th house connections are more about connecting on the basis of where you two come from. Not so much on the present. But more on how your views are influences by the past and the sense of familiarity as a result of that common base.