posted June 15, 2022 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by angryant2021:
His venus is in pisces.

And yes! You are right, I'm of a different race/culture/heritage and I am completely averse to settling down in my homeland. Interestingly enough, I have Jupiter in the 3rd quintile sun, venus, and uranus, and my jupiter doesn't make significant aspects to his chart, other than making a sextile to his ascendant..

I also don't have any personal planets in Sag or Pisces, so I am surprised to hear this jupiter energy hahaha.

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Bingo! Venus is exalted in Pisces. So it works on steroids and more potent than when in Tau or Lib. So the Venusian traits will be heightened and emphasized-which means that he will be acutely aware of issues concerning fairness , relating, being amiable and cooperating (Lib/Tau/Ven things)

Venus in Pisces is ruled by Jupiter and Jupiter ruling the 7th will make him STRONGLY attracted to foreigners. In this case YOU

Yes, the universe(albeit it being subtle) knows what it is doing. When we ask from a fundamentally intuitive level,we get exactly that which our essence desires.No exceptions.

So the 7th house is what is projected out to the partner(things that we reject in ourselves). So when we meet someone who embodies the 7th,we fall in love. This is on purpose. The idea is to unite those fragmented parts that we initially dissociated back into us.

That is why we say "you complete me" when we find the 7th house partner. Coz it literally does feel like we are reunited with our other selves. The 7th house is very powerful.

posted June 15, 2022 09:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Yes,polyglot(to my understanding) is a person who knows and is able to use several languages? That is totally 9th house related.

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Yes, isn't the law also associated with the 9th house however?

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With Leo energy,I would guess you bring you personality. Or you dominate the field you work in in some way. However Venus does suggest that this is not outright "domination " as would be if the Sun was there. It is likely dominating through charm or a fun/playful energy etc.

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In other words, this is what his leo venus perceives?

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In your case Mars rules the 7th. You have established the partner is assertive and ambitious(Mars).

But with Mars in Aqua,the ambition is thwarted somewhat due to the energy of Aqua which has the ruler-Sat.

Saturn is delays, interruptions & reversals. So Sat energy influencing the 7th house, also suggests that the partner has likely had to endure setbacks or is a late bloomer in some way-either via career or personality.

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Interesting!

posted June 16, 2022 02:45 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
How on earth do you guys calculate where you meet your partners in your charts?! My descendent is in Virgo and all that's in it is Chiron lol

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If Dsc is Virgo, look at Mercury and the sign its in. Your partner is likely "Mercurial".

posted June 16, 2022 03:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

You may not see the Jupiter aspects accentuated between you and him in synastry. But it matters not. What he sees (and what peaks his interest) are the Jupiter qualities that you exemplify 🤷🏿‍♂️. Love and attraction is very fascinating.

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posted June 16, 2022 03:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
If Dsc is Virgo, look at Mercury and the sign its in. Your partner is likely "Mercurial".

Maybe they work with their hands? Are in a highly communicative field? Problem solvers? Work in the transportation industry? Have beautiful hands?Have a high strung, nervous disposition? Youthful and playful in nature? Love playing with words? etc.

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Interesting, my Mercury is in Gemini - in the 4th house I think.

posted June 16, 2022 04:28 AM            

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Originally posted by angryant2021:
Wow, thanks for the info say, when people on interpersonal astrology ask, does he/she like me?, does this mean seeing the synastry chart is not enough?

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Synastry is tricky. It denotes that if Venus A falls in B's 7th, then there should be an attraction etc. One cannot "dictate" an attraction. I could have many planets in someone's 7th(case in point my neighbor who had Gem Asc) but still not be a love match.

I think it is far more useful to examine the psychological make-up of each person. And how that individual would be drawm to certain types of people.

You have to analyze what each native deciphers as "love" or " sex appeal". And that includes looking at a whole lot of factors including Moon and Ic for what the native deems as "safe" and what the early home conditioning was like respectively.

You have to also look at the 2nd house and Ven to understand what the native sees as valuable and worth having. As well as what the native finds "beautiful" in another person respectively.

I have lately noticed that Saturn and the Mc may denote how the native sees someone fitting into their long term plans OR in what way the person will be part of their life goals.

Someone with Ven on the midheaven or Saturn in Libra for instance, will think of marriage or partnership as crucial to self actualization. Whilst someone with Saturn in Aries or Mars on the Mc may not🤷🏿‍♂️.

For the latter mentioned, they can take it or leave it. It really is not that important to them. But what matters more for them is that they realize who they really as individuals via such interactions.Individuality remains paramount in importance

Then we look must also consider the conditoon of the 7th house to understand what qualities the native projects on to others i.e. what they immediately "recognize" on another because it is very familiar to them (opp the Asc) etc.

I personally would look at synastry in terms of couples who are ALREADY together. This because there is no presupposition of a relationship. There IS one🤷🏿‍♂️.

So questions such as "does he like me?" Imo are not sufficient to ask. Rather ask "what attracts me on both a subconscious and conscious level respectively" . "What am i looking for in a partner?". " In what way am I getting in the way of what I want or not letting love happen? Etc.

The above questions are self directed and may lead to more insightful self understanding answers. And that's what astrology is really about imo.

Its not about getting insight into another's psyche and "controlling" or manipulating them to like you. Nor is it about concerning yourself over what another is having, doing , wanting and choosing etc.

posted June 16, 2022 06:07 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Interesting, my Mercury is in Gemini - in the 4th house I think.

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Then much of what I said is likely to be true i.e the partner is likely to be very Mercurial in nature because Mercury is in its place of domicile when in Gemini.

So they may have Sun/Moon/Asc in Gemini or a Mercury strong chart(like mine 🤣 ). They could like double entendres or word play. They could look younger than their years OR they could literally be years younger than you etc. Something about them will be Mercurial or their life will have Mercurial themes.

Mercury rules the Ic and is in its own house that it rules. This emphasizes the 4th house themes.

Now when in 4th house, this could denote how you two meet. It could be in a house party,an enclosed area,a home renovation project(and they are the contractor).

They could be into interior design, live around your neighborhood, work in a home related industry, work in a food related industry, be a chef/professional cook, own a restaurant or work in one,be a real estate agent or someone who specializes with houses/homes.

Another possibility(since Merc is there and influences this house) is that you could meet them through a neighbour, through a sibling, through a medium of communication or whilst enroute somewhere.

They may be the type of person who is in the tranpsort industry, grew up in mutiple homes (or owns multiple homes), moves around a lot due to work, works in a cell/computer or communications appliance communication gadget related company.

There is also a possibility of them being a patriotic individual in some way or working in some capacity that is patriotic i.e enlisted in the army to protect the homeland (maybe as an administrator or in a related "mental" capacity(Gem)). Maybe they represent the country as a diplomat or work within an embassy?

posted June 16, 2022 08:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Then much of what I said is likely to be true i.e the partner is likely to be very Mercurial in nature because Mercury is in its place of domicile when in Gemini.

So they may have Sun/Moon/Asc in Gemini or a Mercury strong chart(like mine 🤣 . They could like double entendres or word play. They could look younger than their years OR they could literally be years younger than you etc. Something avout them will be Mercurial or their life will have Mercurial themes.

Mercury rules the Ic and is in its own house that it rules. This emphasizes the 4th house themes.

Now when in 4th house, this could denote how you two meet. It could be in a house party,an enclosed area,a home renovation project(and they are the contractor).

They could be into interior design, live around your neighborhood, work in a home related industry, work in a good related industry, be a chef/professional cook, own a restaurant or work in one,be a real estate agent or someone who specializes with houses/homes.

Another possibility(since Merc is there and influences this house) is that uou could meet them through a neighbour, through a sibling, through a medium of communication or whilst enroute somewhere.

They may be the type of person who is in the tranpsorr industry, grew up in mutiple homes (or owns multiple hime), moves around a lot due to work, worms in a cell/computer or communications appliance communication gadget related company.

There is also a possibility of them being a patriotic individual in some way or working in some capacity that is patriotic i.e enlisted in the army to protect the homeland (maybe as an administrator or in a related "mental" capacity(Gem)). Maybe they represent the country as a diplomat or work within an embassy?

So many variations and piaaibilities gere due to the Versatile nature of Mercury. The list is not exhausted.

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posted June 16, 2022 09:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

Interpretations are not exhaustive. Yes,the 9th house is associated with the law. But then so is the ability to speak multiple languages(9th).Both fall under the 9th.

And yes, with his Venus in Leo in 9th. This is his perspective on you. That you put your heart (Leo) in what you do.

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posted June 17, 2022 02:48 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Hahaha! You hinting at something Aries23? but cool! Tbh, I never thought I would be interested in Gemini because sometimes my Taurus venus found them flighty, but I was involved with a Gem moon recently and I think they are the sweetest things. Mercurial, yes I can see that - I have been told multiple times actually that that would be important for me, perhaps that is why I have gotten bored in my previous relationships? Does the person perhaps lack that energy? Idk... Very interesting in the patriotic part of what you said, the number of army men in South Korea is many, they travel in and out constantly - most of them coming from America.

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Yes. Remember that the 7th house is still a part of our nature. But it is that part of us that we dissociate with and consequently project on to another (usually a partner).

So Mercury ruling the 7th is that part of you that you unconsciously look for in another. That's why when you meet that person, the attraction is often intense- because they are familiar to you☝🏿

So with Mercury ruling the 7th, you may have to kiss many frogs before getting to your prince. The Mercurial energy is(as I said) very versatile energy and can be attracted or attract a wide range of people. Some exes very different from others.

But the common theme is usually intelligence and the agility & ability the partner has to express oneself. You like to laugh and are curious about the world around you. So you are likely to be attracted to someone who is clever and knows how to make even the most mundane aspects of life entertaining i.e. shopping for groceries with them is fun and lively.

posted June 17, 2022 02:54 AM            

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Originally posted by chocogold:
Thank you! I would really enjoy a synastry and composite reading from you one day. My partner and I have been talking marriage and I really like the way you write your interpretations--very encompassing and holistic.

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posted June 19, 2022 11:52 PM            

I missed your replied! My health hasn't been the best.

I think I am assertive enough esp when asking for answers and I can be direct. A quality he wish he has but I think he does carry. He's holding back because he doesn't want to appear rude or crude. He rather I do that for him! 😅 But in all fairness he likes things to be fair within the relationship. How we met was rather fair, he doesn't like the idea doing all the "work."

Neptune seems tricky for me. I find myself still getting into situations getting taken advantage of, but it's getting better. Recently, a coworker wanted me to be the "representative" to help the team to get a raise. He used me but luckily I saw he was mainly doing this for himself and this would be risking my job.

posted June 20, 2022 04:09 AM            

Yes. Always trust your gut. It reminds me of that song by Jewel called "Intuition". Some part of the lyrics say "Let go of your mind. (Tap into) Your intution. It will lead you in the right direction."

posted July 03, 2022 10:35 AM            

I have met 99% of my partners online, and usually doing something fun.

Though I do have a 5th house stellium (fun and games + romance)

posted July 03, 2022 05:15 PM            

How about my sister? I don't know her husbands TOB. They've been married 23 years.

She has Cap DSC, with Saturn in Cancer in 12th. They met in college, he was the RA and in charge of the floor. She was in a relationship, but broke it off to be with him. So I am thinking the RA part is that he was in a position of authority (Saturn) and a position of sort of caretaker (Cancer)? And that things were murky because she had to end one long term relationship to be in another, (Neptune).

posted July 04, 2022 10:55 AM            

The Cancer part spells itself out i.e. Resident advisors (RAs) — also known as resident assistants — are trained, college-aged mentors. They help create a supportive and safe environment for students living in dorms or other student housing.

That sounds very Cancerian.

posted July 04, 2022 12:52 PM            

With your Mom, you are on the money. I was thinking the same.

posted July 04, 2022 04:37 PM            

For my sister, the college is not near water and he is not from a foreign country. He did leave to go to a foreign country shortly after they started dating, and was gone for a year and a half. I think Neptune might be him? He's a Virgo, with an Aries Moon, but we don't know his TOB. I would swear he has Pisces or Neptunian energy, though I don't see it in his chart.