posted July 04, 2022 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
@ Tokala

Where is Mars? And what sign is it in?

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posted July 05, 2022 05:53 AM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
Wow thank you! I learn so much here, but especially from you.

For my sister, the college is not near water and he is not from a foreign country. He did leave to go to a foreign country shortly after they started dating, and was gone for a year and a half. I think Neptune might be him? He's a Virgo, with an Aries Moon, but we don't know his TOB. I would swear he has Pisces or Neptunian energy, though I don't see it in his chart.

As for my Dad, so correct! He is very savvy, very smart, and good at money- making it, investing it... thank you again! This was fun and now I am looking at people's charts in a whole new way!

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Yes. Ruler of 7th in 12th or ruler of the 7th , 12th from the 7th does suggest long-distance relationship or being unable to see each other because of being separated by distance.

There is also strong idealism here (from your sister). She does not see him clearly or may idolize him a bit. 12th is darkness and so it's likely that their relationship began as an affair or in secret(missed that because you did mention it). Because it's likely that
one or both were seeing other people before they decided to be with each other.

Sometimes ruler of 7th in 12th may suggest a partner with identity issues or someone who doesn't know who they are. They may be mysterious or conceal stuff about themselves . Or the partner simply overlooks the details until later when they freak out I.e "I didn't know that about you. Since when do you do that?"etc.

posted July 05, 2022 06:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Tokala:
Ah it's in the 5th house, Virgo =3

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By default, Mars ruling the 7th makes the partner aggressive/assertive. If not, they likely work in a field that requires assertion or aggression.

Also likely is that they have an affiliation with the colour RED I.e have Aries/Sco prominent placements. Work in a field related to danger/crisis(Mars ruled). Or are of a generally muscular or tough physique. Maybe even with Mars prominent in their chart?

Sexy? Likely.Impulsive? Yes. High sex drive? Also likely.Lively? Yes. Accident prone? Yes. Passionate? True. Quick to anger? Absolutely.

Mars in Virgo suggests the partner is critical, pedantic and fault finding. They could be good with fixing stuff or work with their hands(Mercury rules Virgo).

They may have a sharp mind.And may even work in a health related field,a service related industry or in an administrative centred one where they are hired in some technical supportive capacity.

They are generally good at organizing things and putting everything in its proper place ; sorting confusion into coherency and being solution driven. So "editor" roles are also likely.

When the ruler of the 7th is in the 5th house, it can suggest that they are creative or are the types to enjoy leisure. They may enjoy (5th) digging into problems (Mars) and coming up with ingenious solutions (Virg).

Mars in 5th can be competitive and a sore loser though. Fun and Games are taken seriously here because if the passionate nature of Mars. So there is an inner competitive streak that makes them want to "win"-even at fun.🤷🏿‍♂️

Typically, mental games like 30 seconds, Scrabble etc. Which are more about quick wittedness and mental dexterity appeal. Sometimes those with physical involvement too may be deemed as fun

Whatever it is, the platform that you meet your partner at, is usually when doing something pleasurable, fun or leisurely (5th).

posted July 13, 2022 02:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Yes. Remember that the 7th house is still a part of our nature. But it is that part of us that we dissociate with and consequently project on to another (usually a partner).

So Mercury ruling the 7th is that part of you that you unconsciously look for in another. That's why when you meet that person, the attraction is often intense- because they are familiar to you☝🏿

So with Mercury ruling the 7th, you may have to kiss many frogs before getting to your prince. The Mercurial energy is(as I said) very versatile energy and can be attracted or attract a wide range of people. Some exes very different from others.

But the common theme is usually intelligence and the agility & ability the partner has to express oneself. You like to laugh and are curious about the world around you. So you are likely to be attracted to someone who is clever and knows how to make even the most mundane aspects of life entertaining i.e. shopping for groceries with them is fun and lively.

Mercury ruling 7th is also a great position to have. It suggests that you have little issues attracting people to you. Mostly because you come across super interesting.🙌🏿

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