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Topic: Those of you in a marriage or long term relationship, where did you meet your partner
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 04, 2022 02:50 AM
This post is inspired by something I realized once writing another.Is there a correlation between the 7th house cusp sign ruler placement house/ Venus in the house that articulates how you met your significant other? E.g. I have Libra on the 7th house cusp. Venus is in the 7th in my chart (Placidus). I often meet my partners in social functions or through introductions by others. If I go further and go to the 5th,it's ruled by the Sun(Leo 5th house cusp) and conj with Nep/Jup. So there is usually alcohol(Nep) flowing and there is a marked interest I have in dating those who are "big" or "thick" in some way(Jup) IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted May 04, 2022 03:21 AM
I don't know what is 7th house Cusp, it is the sign that on your 7th house? If so, it your Ascendant that will MAP out who your Houses Ruler are. Example, anyone with Cancer Ascendant will have Capricorn on their 7th house. I think it too broad, as there only 12 zodiac ascendants, the world have close to 8 BILLION population.Well my husband have the sign Capricorn on his 7th. And it said this: [ If your Seventh House of Marriage is in the sign of Capricorn, you are a guarded person. You aren't someone who falls in love easily, but when you do, you are dedicated and devoted. You are the type of person who would give up your life for your mate. You would do anything for your family. Being a good provider is more important to you than the romantic elements, although you do have a quiet love of sentimentality. You might be a later-in-life marriage person. You could also be someone who needs traditional roles to be played out in your marriage. ] I guess it true for him. What is house CUSP? The sign on it or what? I'm confuse. IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere Knowflake Posts: 586 From: The Nether World Registered: Mar 2021
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posted May 04, 2022 05:17 AM
I was in a long term relationship/marriage until recently and where we met definitely fit my 7th house cusp. I知 a Libra Rising with an Aries descendant and we met at martial arts practice. Also fits my 7th house ruler Mars conjunct Saturn. My 5th house cusp Aquarius is ruled by Uranus opposite Venus and Saturn conjunct Mars. My ex is a Leo Rising with an Aquarius descendant. I don稚 know how this fits other than that I知 from a different ethnic background. His 7th house ruler Saturn is conjunct Mars. So that does fit the martial arts theme. His 5th house cusp Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter and I知 definitely taller than him. Hmmm, I think maybe I should think about martial arts classes again to increase my chances of finding love. 😆 IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted May 04, 2022 05:28 AM
What is the house Cusp? The sign that on the house?PlutoWasHere, you have natal Mars conjunct natal Saturn sis? What sign? Are your Mars sign and Saturn sign the same? since you say conjunction. IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere Knowflake Posts: 586 From: The Nether World Registered: Mar 2021
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posted May 04, 2022 07:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by married11years: What is the house Cusp? The sign that on the house?PlutoWasHere, you have natal Mars conjunct natal Saturn sis? What sign? Are your Mars sign and Saturn sign the same? since you say conjunction.
The house cusp is the sign the house starts in. My Mars is at 26Cancer and my Saturn is at 28Cancer. So they are conjunct in the sign of Cancer. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 04, 2022 07:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by married11years: I don't know what is 7th house Cusp, it is the sign that on your 7th house? If so, it your Ascendant that will MAP out who your Houses Ruler are. Example, anyone with Cancer Ascendant will have Capricorn on their 7th house. I think it too broad, as there only 12 zodiac ascendants, the world have close to 8 BILLION population.Well my husband have the sign Capricorn on his 7th. And it said this: [ If your Seventh House of Marriage is in the sign of Capricorn, you are a guarded person. You aren't someone who falls in love easily, but when you do, you are dedicated and devoted. You are the type of person who would give up your life for your mate. You would do anything for your family. Being a good provider is more important to you than the romantic elements, although you do have a quiet love of sentimentality. You might be a later-in-life marriage person. You could also be someone who needs traditional roles to be played out in your marriage. ] I guess it true for him. What is house CUSP? The sign on it or what? I'm confuse.
If you have Asc in Gem, the 7th house cusp is Sag. If it's Taurus Asc, the 7th house cusp is Sco. It is the sign directly opposite your Asc. Are the planets in your 7th house cusp?.Where is the ruler of the7th house cusp? Where is your Venus? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 04, 2022 07:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoWasHere: I was in a long term relationship/marriage until recently and where we met definitely fit my 7th house cusp. I知 a Libra Rising with an Aries descendant and we met at martial arts practice. Also fits my 7th house ruler Mars conjunct Saturn. My 5th house cusp Aquarius is ruled by Uranus opposite Venus and Saturn conjunct Mars. My ex is a Leo Rising with an Aquarius descendant. I don稚 know how this fits other than that I知 from a different ethnic background. His 7th house ruler Saturn is conjunct Mars. So that does fit the martial arts theme. His 5th house cusp Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter and I知 definitely taller than him. Hmmm, I think maybe I should think about martial arts classes again to increase my chances of finding love. 😆
🤣🤣. You are also of a different ethnicity. That is explained by Jupiter ruling his 5th house cusp in Sag and 7th house in Aqua (Sat). Breaking "boundaries". Leo Asc ime, seem to have a thing for people from a different ethnicity/ country/ language than their own. Donald Trump (Asc Leo) 1st and 3rd wife are foreigners. Johnny Depp's(Leo Asc) ex-wife Vanessa Paradis was a foreigner 🤔.
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 5352 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 04, 2022 09:30 AM
Tend to meet men in or around their, or my, workplace. Met my husband at his company, as a customer. Have Venus 11H sq Uranus 3H. Ruler of 7H is Uranus. IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 15191 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted May 04, 2022 01:58 PM
I relocated in last week of March this year, ending an amicable capatible 16 year relationship. He was a bus driver whose route I travelled every day. Then, we discovered we lived in same apartment complex, down the road from each other.Became friends (on bus) because he loved to share jokes. We both had aspect of Venus quintile Uranus. Jokes (and stories) could range from the corny silliest, to macabre gallows humor. "bus/vehicle" .. would be Mercury? "neighbor" .. would be 3rd House (natural ruler Mercury) He had Virgo Sun, Virgo Venus, late Gemini Rising. My Moon is Virgo, with a Gemini Descendant, Gemini Sun and a Gemini Mercury. Moved-in with him as a care-taker/companion. Did so a few days after my birthday, while the Sun was travelling through the sign of Gemini: (Gem Sun 10-11deg, on June 1). Jupiter {blessing} was in the 3rd House (neighbors, daily routine of short distance travels by bus) in the sign of Sagittarius (travel). Relationship had strong 'Mercury' theme associated with it.
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 5352 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 04, 2022 03:05 PM
Tend to meet men in or around their, or my, workplace. Met my husband at his company, as a customer. Have Venus 11H sq Uranus 3H. Ruler of 7H is Uranus. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 04, 2022 04:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: Tend to meet men in or around their, or my, workplace. Met my husband at his company, as a customer. Have Venus 11H sq Uranus 3H. Ruler of 7H is Uranus.
Where is Saturn? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 04, 2022 04:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by mirage29: I relocated in last week of March this year, ending an amicable capatible 16 year relationship. He was a bus driver whose route I travelled every day. Then, we discovered we lived in same apartment complex, down the road from each other.Became friends (on bus) because he loved to share jokes. We both had aspect of Venus quintile Uranus. Jokes (and stories) could range from the corny silliest, to macabre gallows humor. "bus/vehicle" .. would be Mercury? "neighbor" .. would be 3rd House (natural ruler Mercury) He had Virgo Sun, Virgo Venus, late Gemini Rising. My Moon is Virgo, with a Gemini Descendant, Gemini Sun and a Gemini Mercury. Moved-in with him as a care-taker/companion. Did so a few days after my birthday, while the Sun was travelling through the sign of Gemini: (Gem Sun 10-11deg, on June 1). Jupiter {blessing} was in the 3rd House (neighbors, daily routine of short distance travels by bus) in the sign of Sagittarius (travel). Relationship had strong 'Mercury' theme associated with it.
Yeah,Mercury(Dsc Gem ruler) in 3rd house is someone around your neighbourhood. Or meeting someone through siblings/ neighbours or travelling around short distances. IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted May 04, 2022 06:13 PM
duplicate reply, edit, sorry.IP: Logged |
rockwell Knowflake Posts: 41 From: Mars ♈︎ Registered: Sep 2021
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posted May 04, 2022 06:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: This post is inspired by something I realized once writing another.Is there a correlation between the 7th house cusp sign ruler placement house/ Venus in the house that articulates how you met your significant other? E.g. I have Libra on the 7th house cusp. Venus is in the 7th in my chart (Placidus). I often meet my partners in social functions or through introductions by others. If I go further and go to the 5th,it's ruled by the Sun(Leo 5th house cusp) and conj with Nep/Jup. So there is usually alcohol(Nep) flowing and there is a marked interest I have in dating those who are "big" or "thick" in some way(Jup)
Important to determine the meeting is not so much the 7th house, but in which SIGN and HOUSE the lord of your 7th house falls. You're 7th house is in Libra. Libra's lord is Venus and your Venus falls in Scorpio in the 7th house. Scorpio suggests meeting partners out of nowhere when you least expect it. Meeting partners e.g. at night, at dawn or dusk. That along with the 7th house and I would expect you to meet partners e.g. through a blind date or through business partnerships. I wouldn't place too much emphasis on the 5th house. It's never featured prominently in the charts I've studied so far. IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted May 04, 2022 06:31 PM
@rockwell,My husband has Capricorn on his 7th house (due to he Cancer Rising). His 5th house has Scorpio sign on it. His Scorpio Mars and Scorpio Saturn both in his 5th house. So what it means? If go by the Capricorn sign on his 7th house. Capricorn is rule by Saturn right? So I'm I suppose to look at where his Saturn planet is? Or am I suppose to look at the Capricorn sign itself? I'm confuse. Can you explain to me? My husband Venus is Aquarius, and his Venus sign also Aquarius, and the Venus planet fall in his 8th house. His 7th house Capricorn sign. His 8th house Aquarius sign. If go by the sign of the house ruler, then it must be his Scorpio Saturn in his 5th house will determine where he met his spouse then. Because Capricorn is RULE by Saturn. And Saturn planet in his 5th, along with his Mars planet together conjunction in the sign of Scorpio, in a 5th house in Scorpio sign. So what would that indicate how he met his spouse. I want to know if astrology get it correct in his case.
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StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 939 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted May 04, 2022 07:24 PM
I met my now ex-husband through work. I have taurus as 7th house cusp, and ruler of 7th house (Venus) is in Virgo 10th house. My 5th house is Aries, and ruler of Aries (Mars) is also in Virgo 10th.I met another long term relationship at a wedding and then formally introduced through a friend... I suppose that sort of fits the 10th house Venus since it was a very public event that we met at. IP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 1577 From: Sydney Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted May 04, 2022 11:41 PM
I met my soulmate on Obama bracka birthday & my other soulmate in a hobby group & other soulmate met twice in a library since December 2006. Libra 7th house ruler Venus & 5th house Leo sun ruler. I don't know if you call them relationships in reality but in virtual reality.IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 05, 2022 12:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by rockwell: Important to determine the meeting is not so much the 7th house, but in which SIGN and HOUSE the lord of your 7th house falls. You're 7th house is in Libra. Libra's lord is Venus and your Venus falls in Scorpio in the 7th house. Scorpio suggests meeting partners out of nowhere when you least expect it. Meeting partners e.g. at night, at dawn or dusk. That along with the 7th house and I would expect you to meet partners e.g. through a blind date or through business partnerships. I wouldn't place too much emphasis on the 5th house. It's never featured prominently in the charts I've studied so far.
Interesting🤔. Thank you for that. Yes, I do meet most of my partners at night or have very random encounters that end up being "more". I met my ex at night. Then on that same night, he invited over to his place.I don't know what I was thinking because he towers over me in both size snd height. But i didn't feel threatened and we hung out till dawn. And by that very day, we were a couple 🤷🏿♂️ The relationship lasted 3 years. I went from being single to involved literally overnight. And the only reason we parted is because he moved a far distance away and long-distance contact became impractical. Otherwise I still care for him very much. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 05, 2022 12:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by married11years: @rockwell,My husband has Capricorn on his 7th house (due to he Cancer Rising). His 5th house has Scorpio sign on it. His Scorpio Mars and Scorpio Saturn both in his 5th house. So what it means? If go by the Capricorn sign on his 7th house. Capricorn is rule by Saturn right? So I'm I suppose to look at where his Saturn planet is? Or am I suppose to look at the Capricorn sign itself? I'm confuse. Can you explain to me? My husband Venus is Aquarius, and his Venus sign also Aquarius, and the Venus planet fall in his 8th house. His 7th house Capricorn sign. His 8th house Aquarius sign. If go by the sign of the house ruler, then it must be his Scorpio Saturn in his 5th house will determine where he met his spouse then. Because Capricorn is RULE by Saturn. And Saturn planet in his 5th, along with his Mars planet together conjunction in the sign of Scorpio, in a 5th house in Scorpio sign. So what would that indicate how he met his spouse. I want to know if astrology get it correct in his case.
Let's look at Saturn(7th house ruler) in 5th. How did you guys meet? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 05, 2022 12:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by StoneMoon: I met my now ex-husband through work. I have taurus as 7th house cusp, and ruler of 7th house (Venus) is in Virgo 10th house. My 5th house is Aries, and ruler of Aries (Mars) is also in Virgo 10th.I met another long term relationship at a wedding and then formally introduced through a friend... I suppose that sort of fits the 10th house Venus since it was a very public event that we met at.
The 1st husband you met through work(10th house Venus in Virgo). Both Virgo and 29th touch on career/work. Now I wonder about the 9th house ruler. Where is that placed? Because the 1st marriage is the 7th . But the 2nd is the 9th. So perhaps the 9th also rules long-term relationships after the 1st marriage? Am curious 🤔 IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted May 05, 2022 12:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Let's look at Saturn(7th house ruler) in 5th. How did you guys meet?
That is what I want to ask, how is someone Saturn (7th house ruler) in 5th house suppose to met their spouse? according to "astrology" wise. Yep Saturn in my husband 5th house conjunction with his Mars in there too, both planets in Scorpio sign and in a Scorpio ruler house. What your prediction? on someone Saturn (7th house ruler) in 5th house. How is that person suppose to met their spouse?
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 05, 2022 12:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by saronna: I met my soulmate on Obama bracka birthday & my other soulmate in a hobby group & other soulmate met twice in a library since December 2006. Libra 7th house ruler Venus & 5th house Leo sun ruler. I don't know if you call them relationships in reality but in virtual reality.
Where is Venus placed? And would you consider these relationships "long-term" in essence? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 05, 2022 12:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by married11years: That is what I want to ask, how is someone Saturn (7th house ruler) in 5th house suppose to met their spouse, according to astrology. Yep Saturn in my husband 5th house conjunction with his Mars in there too, both planets in Scorpio sign and in a Scorpio ruler house.What your prediction? on someone Saturn (7th house ruler) in 5th house. How is that person suppose to met their spouse?
I try not to "match" the experience to astrological findings beforehand. The chart should speak for itself.Typically speaking, there should be Sat/5th house themes emphasized. This too the energy of Sco. How did you two meet? 5th house(for instance) would suggest meeting at a recreational place or place that he considers leisurely(amongst other things). IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 5352 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 05, 2022 01:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Where is Saturn?
Conjunct Venus 11H but in Leo and sq Uranus. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 05, 2022 01:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: Conjunct Venus 11H but in Leo and sq Uranus.
Interesting🤔. My expectation would be that Saturn is in the 10th house-given what you said. Because 11th house is social groups or mass meetings. If you met him at a concert somewhere or attending a big public event(11th), then yes. That would fit. IP: Logged |