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Topic: Super-Rich People Should Be Ashamed Of Themselves
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katatonic Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 01:17 PM
valus if you can't be bothered to read my answers through then why would i explain them?what you, a relatively poor man, thinks $10 million is worth is not the same as what a billionaire can do with it. let me just say my father, born poor, thought like you. he spent every penny of the (equivalent of) millions he earned. my mother believed in saving. he thought that was "hoarding". suffice it to say that reversals that hit him caused him so much stress he suffered a fatal heart attack - and died in debt, which his family had to shoulder! if my mother had not insisted he take out life insurance we would have been homeless. IP: Logged |
Valus Knowflake Posts: 1092 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 01:21 PM
Lechien,Nothing is all true. As I have said, there are many roles to play. The philosophy that tells us to go within and think only of ourselves and our own actions has its place, and, in my experience, it appears to resonate with people who are heavily influenced by the first 6 signs and/or houses of the zodiac. These are the signs and houses concerned with self-development, while the latter signs and houses connote involvement with others and with social concerns. We all have our roles to play, according to our temperaments and dispositions. For my part, I am primarily attuned to the energies of the latter signs and houses, and, from my point of view, what you are suggesting, taken as an absolute, would mean burying our heads in the sand. Just because you attain peace within yourself does not mean that the world is peaceful. Self-development is a grand thing. But caring for others and speaking up about social issues is needed, too. There is nothing egotistical about standing up for what you strongly feel is right, and thinking that you may be able to contribute something of value (be it an insight, or a loaf of bread) to others. Nor do I believe that you completely disagree with me -- otherwise, you would not be speaking up now, nor giving any more weight to your own perspective than to mine, but, sitting in a lotus position somewhere, tending entirely to your own self-perfection. The fact that you are sharing your view suggests that you think there is value in doing so. I commend you for taking a vocal part in this discussion. You are not doing any favors, for anyone besides yourself, by looking the other way when injustices are being sanctioned and committed. Ultimately, I think you know this. IP: Logged |
Valus Knowflake Posts: 1092 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 01:29 PM
kat, Let's be fair. I doubt you read every word I have written on this matter, or, if you have, you clearly did not pay attention, since you continue to debate things which are of no consequence to my arguments. Try to understand that, unlike you, I have a dozen people posting on this thread who oppose my view and who each deserve some answer from me. When you stop making irrellevent points, i will start tending more conscientiously to your posts. The argument about your father is so far off-base, i am tempted to ignore you all together from now on. Do you think your father would have struggled, had he retained ten million for himself? Do you think that people who generate billions really need to hang onto more than ten million for themselves, at any one time? Sure, they must make billions, in order to give billions away, and i am not disputing the making of money, only the retaining of more than 10 million of it for personal use. Please, address yourself to the points I have made ten posts ago before continuing to bring up all sorts of unrelated arguments. I have consistently responded to the precise substance of your objections, despite their irrellevance. It is time for you to attend to the substance of my propositions, or to abandon this futile exercise. Thank you.
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katatonic Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 01:59 PM
okay boss. i disagree with your basic premise that there is a finite number of dollars that is either "too little" OR "too much". YOU asked for clarification. I am going for a walk.and when you "stand up for what you think is right" instead of what you think is wrong, maybe i will check in again. IP: Logged |
Valus Knowflake Posts: 1092 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 02:03 PM
I'm sorry you object so strongly to my setting boundaries in a frank manner. Would you rather I just ignore you, or give you notice? In my experience, I have had the last word in most of our discussions, to which you never return to make any response. You make some general objection and then, when I cut to the specific heart of the matter and ask a pertinent question, you repeat your general objections, or sidetrack the discussion, or disappear. You'll forgive me if I fear wasting my time. I think 10 million is generous without being excessive. It may be a relatively arbitrary number, but we have to stop somewhere. What I think is wrong is hoarding more than 10 million; what I think is right, is giving away anything in excess of 10 million. Phrase it however you like, and I'll do the same. Take care and enjoy your walk.  IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 1089 From: Toledo, OH Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 02:18 PM
as someone else pointed out, wealth is relative anyway. debt to income ratio is similar among most. if you made one billion per year and it cost close to that to maintain your lifestyle, and you lose your income it would be devastating although not many would feel sorry for you, but it would be devastating none the less.you said yourself you were watching cable tv at 50 dollars (or more) per month, how can you not be sending that money to a third world country to put away your wealth in favor of helping the poor? your cable bill alone could feed many hungry children in india. put your money where your mouth is. i do. if you were true to what you said, then you would think anything more than enough is too much and a true philanthropist does indeed help the needy as a way of life. volunteer to cook at a shelter once a week if you dont have cash and you want to do your part. it IS all relative. plus you teach people by example, i never was one to listen much to what people SAY unless thier ACTIONS match thier words. IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 269 From: i live in a kitchen Registered: May 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 02:22 PM
wow, with your 50 dollar cable TV fee, i can feed myself for a month, that's cool!i don't care to disagree with you, but when someone has taken care of himself enough and fulfilled, he probably does not even have to try to help others. it just happens from within. but it's ok, i don't think you understood what i meant by it and i don't care to go on explaining. by the way, i have a heavy 9th house influence if you wanted to know. thanks for the entertainment. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 1247 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 03:05 PM
Wow this thread does touch a nerve.So can I be philosphical for just a moment? Valus has a right to his opinion, as does each and every one. When it comes down to it, isn't the most important thing what we do with our time in this life? If you are dead-a$$ broke, you can still be a bitter butthead. If your are loaded, you can still be a nice person. When I said money is the root of all evil, I meant that in a general way. my uncle-in-law was a married man with 3 children and nice home, very happy dude. He owned a KFC, which provided very well. He then bought another and another and another...then came the cars and the vacations and all that stuff. He changed as a person, that is what I meant in my first post. He bought a 22 room house. I know what it was like, because I cleaned it. Besides the childrens bedrooms, only 4 rooms were actually used. The rest were show rooms. His life went downnnnnn hill in a hurry. He messed around, got divorced, his son went to jail, his daughter got a nasty heroin problem. Would this have happened anyway? Maybe. And I am not lazy, I've never been called lazy in my life, quite the contrary, people and my doctors always say, "you need to slow down." Remember that Telsa song, the lyrics say, "it's not what you do, it's what you give." If artists and writers only give an expression, what is wrong with that? Where would we be as a culture without them to reflect what we cannot? I have two friends that are homeless, cause they WANNA be. That may sound crazy, but it is true. Some people just like having personal freedom. So agree to disagree, don't let what is someone's personal opinion change the way you feel about them, after all, in another thread they may say something you totally agree with. <<<<< steps off soapbox now >>>>>> IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 1335 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 03:13 PM
Lechien - totally agree!!charity begins AT HOME! If everyone focused on THEMSELVES the world would be a fine place  Have a great weekend! IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 269 From: i live in a kitchen Registered: May 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 03:14 PM
Gypsee, i wasn't saying what you said was wrong or anything, so don't take anything personal, ya? i agree that Valus had a good intention in the original post. it made me sad when he called most of us morons and pea-brains. before then i was choosing words carefully and was just throwing in what i thought.ya, i agree my last post sounds a little detached and inconsiderate. but i was also smiling and a bit amused when i was writing that, it was not intended to be mean. but now, i also didn't want to post here anymore because it's getting pointless to me. just didn't want to offend anyone, wasn't what i meant, including to you Gypsee.   IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 269 From: i live in a kitchen Registered: May 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 03:17 PM
you too Lara!  IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 03:33 PM
valus i have objected a) to your main premise that their is a finite amount of money that is "enough" or "too much". i have given you b) examples of people who have more money than you, with your attitude, will ever have. i have given you c) examples of what happens to people who do NOT retain some of their earnings OVER THE TOP of what they need. $10 million is only a number and there are a lot of things it won't buy. i have said time and again that i think you mean well. however i don't appreciate your talking down to me or anyone who disagrees with you. we are entitled to our opinions and if you don't want to know, why bring it? i was trying to expand your information and express my take on it. i don't believe in continuing a discussion that is going nowhere. you keep repeating your p.o.v and i keep coming back with mine. why should i continue when your response is so condescending? i am doing you the honour of respecting your right to carry on. your NEED to have the last word is your affair. i simply have no more to say on the subject. money and charity and enough and too much are all very subjective terms. i used to think like you. no more. because i took the trouble to learn a few things about money and how it works. personally i am happy with NO savings. that's just me. end of story. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 1247 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 04:04 PM
Oh, I didn't take it personal! No worries! I was just answering stuff, I didnt even remember who said what. xox.IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 269 From: i live in a kitchen Registered: May 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 05:39 PM
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ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 37 From: Maine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 06:04 PM
Interesting ideas from everyone! Always good to have more than ONE side making thier points and sticking to their guns. Now, I'm gonna go ahead and point out a few things from a VERY offensive post by you Valus, and hope that you were just having your period or something, that YOU of all people would stoop to name calling... quote: I'm not going to argue this any more because if these pea-brains dont get it by now, I'm not going to try to enlighten them again for another twenty lifetimes, at least. LOL. Make what you will of this, pea-brains. See only one side of it, like you always do.
Classy, dude! And that was only ONE of the slanderous names you used in that post. I didn't see where anyone was attacking YOU personally, but I guess when you are always on the defensive, you may see it that way. You start a thread to get people heated, and then can't stand it when people have different ideas than you. NOBODY has a right to tell somebody else their opinion on this issue is [ wrong . Sharing personal opinion is obviously going to stir some crap up, apparently in your case because you are NOT practicing what you preach and are ashamed of it, so why not continue to detract from that point and cry that you are once again being "called out"? Oh, right, because you're really just "enlightening" all of us with your vast spiritual superiority. quote: Is it just that people have a personal bias against me and they aren't objective enough to see past it? Really, somebody, help me to understand the irony in these responses.
If that helps you sleep at night, yes, we are all biased against YOU personally, not the inflammatory remarks you make or the personal insults you dish out when somebody sees things differently than you do. THIS is why you end up with people losing sight of the issue, you play dirty in debates, whether or not you choose to see it. Even the most passive response seems to be an invitation for battle to you. quote: The actions taken by MLK Jr. include, primarily, the exposition of ethical matters -- in other words, he wrote and argued, and took the backlash. If you think that speaking up for an unpopular cause is not taking action, just try to imagine for a moment how difficult it is to be unpopular, and to continue to argue for the truth in the face of an onslaught of insults and character assasinations. King was murdered as much for his words as for his actions -- and his most obvious actions, in my view, involved the fearless pronouncement and exposition of his perspective. Many people protested, but we remember and honor MLK Jr. for his words, while the countless people who "merely" protested are anonymous by comparison. Lastly, the action of protest, which involves, as one activist put it, "throwing ourselves beneath the gears", are even more infuriating to those unsympathetic to them than the preaching of ideas. If you disagree with my words, do you honestly think you would support my actions? If you see my words as inflamatory, how much more so would you see it, if I marched down Madison Avenue with a sign that reads: "Billionaires starve children"? King did not simply practice racial equality, he placed himself in the way of people who practiced its opposite.
Maybe you should actually try to DO something if you feel so strongly, not just post an argumentative thread on a message board that will be forgotten in a few days. I'm pretty sure that MLK did more with his "writings" than that. The comparison you made is laughable, but nice strategy anyway! If you have it in you to stand up for this, do your part, get off the couch and do it already! Then you may actually get the support you say you want. (although, there's not as much drama when people agree with you, is there?)
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Valus Knowflake Posts: 1092 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 06:07 PM
Yup, I'm done with this thread. I'm satisfied that I have communicated my position logically and compassionately, despite some name-calling here and there. Mostly, all I see now are people repeating themselves, ignoring or misunderstanding the points I've made, and getting nasty and personal for no remotely good reason. Lechien, I really dont feel like pointing out the difference between a heavy 9th house influence and a chart that is predominantly attuned to the latter 6 signs and houses, but you are welcome for the entertainment. Nor do I feel like pointing out to you and cpn the difference between having cable television (which somebody else pays for and would not permit me to get rid of anyway) and having a 20 million dollar private jet. And the last thing I need to explain is how little I care for somebody's subjective "need" for more than 10 million dollars in their bank account, katatonic. I'm much more interested in the "subjective" needs of people who have no access to clean water. You are, of course, all welcome to your opinions. I'll do my best not to think any less of you.  lechien, I do appreciate that you are trying and that you have an ear for Gypsee's good sense. I apologize for the pea-brain comments, to you and to others. Peace to you. quote: Valus has a right to his opinion, as does each and every one.
Thanks, Gypsee.  You make a lot of sense, here, and in the rest of your posts. Peace out IP: Logged |
Valus Knowflake Posts: 1092 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 06:15 PM
Ghani,I just saw your post. As you can see from what I just posted, I regret those comments, and I apologize. If any one wishes to apologize to me for the nasty character assaults and insults they hurled, I am all ears. As I see it, I am not the only one here who has used inflammatory language or suggested that their own perspective is coming from a higher consciousness than the one they are disputing. The rest of your objections have already been answered, if you take the time to read my responses. You may not agree with my answers, but I'm satisfied that I'm fighting a good fight and that attempting to change people's minds is not a form of inaction, but a very difficult and intelligent form of action. Giving a man a fish is certainly one form of action, but teaching a man to fish (or to share the billions of fish he's hoarding and draining the oceans of) is also a form of action. Take care.
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 1195 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 06:43 PM
Well, about a week ago I said LL was about to get interesting again and that some stuff was brewing.Like clockwork, it is  IP: Logged |
Valus Knowflake Posts: 1092 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 06:56 PM
lol, MVMSomebody's gotta do it.  IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 425 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 07:06 PM
I know that it is hard for tone to come across computer lines but I will try to set the scene for what I am about to say:You and I are standing outside on a sunny day, as friends, and we are having a friendly debate about what has been said on the message board: Me: Wait, wait, wait – not so fast. Since we are into irony here, what is even more ironic to me is that people on a site that relies on judgments and generalizations about people who are actually in our lives, (because astrology is not a science per se and is in fact referred to as a “pseudo-science” in many communities) on threads entitled things like: “Should I trust a Scorpio?”, “Which sign is the most vindictive?”, “Biggest penis by sign”, “Libras – Yay or Nay?”. On which people have answers such as “No – Since they are ruled by _____” or “Yes – they rule the house of _____” or “All of the ____s I know are *ss*oles” and this is PERFECTLY ACCEPTABLE and ENCOURAGED. However, don’t mess with the wealthy, don’t question what they do, don’t have your own opinion about them because that makes you envious/don’t have a live/unsuccessful, etc. WOW!!! Now that tells me a lot about LL! Then we laugh and go out to lunch…
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cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 1089 From: Toledo, OH Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 07:23 PM
valus - i think no less of you just becasue our opinion differs. i always appreciate what you bring to the table. bs aside.i dont always agree, but i always apprecaite who you are. there are times when you bring perspective i never would have thought of. so i do indeed hope you in turn dont think less of those who disagree with you.
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Valus Knowflake Posts: 1092 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 07:49 PM
We're all good, cpn. I just dont understand how you, lechien, T, and others can argue that telling me to give my television to charity is perfectly reasonable, while telling David Geffen to give his 20 million dollar private jet to charity is out of line. Am I really the one with confused priorities here? Am I really the one who needs a lecture, while the guy smoking billions of dollars to his head (so to speak) is above reproach? Is it just because I talk about charity -- is that what makes me a "hypocrite"? If I espoused a heartless philosophy, would it give me the right to be as selfish as I want? I mean, at least it wouldnt be "hypocritical", right? Anyway, I doubt Geffen espouses a heartless philosophy. If you ask him, he'll probably tell you what a noble thing charity is. Then he'll go spend another million or two, or twenty, on something to make his own life a little more cushy. So, why do I deserve a lecture, but he deserves carte blanche? I would really like to understand, but nobody seems capable of explaining it to me. Just as I would really love to be understood, but I don't seem capable of explaining my p.o.v. to anyone, no matter how many reasons and arguments I come up with. It's frustrating.
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T Knowflake Posts: 1025 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 07:50 PM
Valus, Can I ask why you always dodge answering when people ask you what you are actually going to DO about this? Or why you just say your action is taken by typing your opinion on a message board and arguing it til it's death; that you were put on this earth to awaken and enlighten through message boards. I dont think your "attempts to change people's minds" is a form of action that is working or called for. I think it's the easy way out for you. Do you think any of us here are billionares anyway? Do you think you are typing to "super-rich" people here and that we need to wake up? Don't you think there are better ways to take action in the world - actually out in the world, helping these people that you say you care so much about? Think about it. quote: If we want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out.Mother Teresa
But you arent sending out a message of love, Valus. You are biitching about billionares and what you think they should be doing and not doing. How they are wrong and should be ashamed of themselves. And insulting others in the process. Reread your messages, they are not filled with love. They are full of judgement and rigidity. "Teaching a man to fish is also a form of action". Okay, then. Why not find some wealthy people and ask if you would be able to converse with them and change THEIR minds. Since these are the bad guys in your mind. OR better yet, get out there and do some volunteer work and help the ones you care so much about. Maybe you could help less fortunate people learn to read and write. That would definitely help them get a leg up in this world. Do you think this thread is actually making a world of difference? Do you think this has scratched any kind of surface five pages later and soon to be forgotten on LindaLand? Did this thread help to feed or clothe anyone? That is what you claim to be most concerned about. No. It got you some praise. And it's a place to got some anger off your chest. The poor, the hungry and how to help them. If that is your true concern, you would be out there finding ways to help the less fortunate. There would be a fire under your ass and nothing could stop you from accomplishing your goals. Where there is a will, there is a way. If you truly cared and were concerned for them you would find ways to help them. Fair and square. Not sit in front of the computer arguing with non-billionares while people go hungry and die. Valus, what are you waiting for? People in this world are in need of help. How can you help make their lives better? I'm not talking about "us" here on LL. I'm talking about the poor people that you are talking about. Stop trying to help US and figure out ways to help THEM. They are dying as you are sitting there arguing with people and taking time making pretty posts. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 1025 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 07:53 PM
quote: lol, MVM Somebody's gotta do it.
What's the deal with that? Who do you think you are? Somebody's gotta start threads like this all the time while others go without? While the world needs volunteers? While there are people out there starving, homeless, uneducated and dying? Screw your head on straight. If you are so passionate about this, you would be walking your talk and out there in the midst of it all. Getting your hands dirty. Working. Helping. Spreading messages of love and your light to those who truly need it. IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 269 From: i live in a kitchen Registered: May 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 07:59 PM
Valus... i never said anything about donating your TV or anything... i said your intention is noble, and contributed a perspective, just to join in a friendlily intended discussion, you said we were pea-brains, and you now apologised. what's the deal? if anything, i don't recall directly attacking you in anyway, maybe a slightly teasing after you called on names (but you apologised as i already said). if anything, i don't really know why you keep saying i'm attacking you and it makes me rather sad. and i don't like feeling like i'm a bad guy though i never even intended anything bad... it makes me wonder if you like to feel victimised. yea, i'm just starting to feel really ill about the whole thing, i wish i never said anything here. this is just sad. IP: Logged | |