posted July 29, 2012 08:59 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Wise man points to futile situation. Win argument, look like arse hole, sleep in dog house. Lose argument, look like fidiot, sleep in dog house. Stalemate, look like jackass because 15 rounds of argument are scheduled for rest of month, and so sleep in dog house for next month.

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posted July 30, 2012 04:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
YTA, imagine it was somebody else who confessed to having that problem in their relationship. What would be your advice for them?

Fears and insecurities can be manages with talk or art therapy. Insecurity disappears when creativity steps in as the focus shifts outward.

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Yin,

posted July 30, 2012 04:27 PM            

Was she always like that? If not, then maybe she's hitting the peak of her sexual drive and it's just a passing phase, or maybe you're just super HOT! lol

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posted July 30, 2012 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Does she have dejanira conjunct the moon?

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Am,

posted July 30, 2012 08:34 PM            

The girl on the show was raped at 11 years old and ever since then she could not get enough sex and it was "killing" her boyfriend. I mean, they could have sex 20 times per day, but it still wouldnt be enough for her. She needed it all the time.

Obviously some major trauma went on with that girl and she never had the chance to deal with it (in her case, rape). But it is not natural and not healthy for someone to have to be that way - to live with a compulsion of any kind.

Therapy might be worth looking into because what's going on doesnt seem normal and probably not even very healthy for her. For her own well being, you and her might want to look into therapy.

posted July 30, 2012 08:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
YTA, talking is the first step. What I meant was: try to help her shift that focus from the bedroom activities onto something creative OUTSIDE of your relationship. She obviously has a lot of energy that needs spending... here is something on art therapy: http://www.art-therapy.us/art_therapy.htm

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What she said.

posted July 30, 2012 08:41 PM            

How boring and wasteful to utilize all that creative energy on sex only! :O

posted July 30, 2012 08:59 PM            

But yeah since it involves Neptune I would agree finding some sort of creative expression as an outlet could be very useful... And with moon in 12th house square Pluto and Uranus, it makes sense that she has a lot of deep and powerful emotions that need to be acknowledged, but maybe this feels "locked away" in a sense, which is all the more reason to help her find more ways of connecting with and expressing all of that *passion*

posted July 30, 2012 09:08 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Am,

Dejanira is in the 5th House in Scorpio at 1'13", Sextile Moon. Its 5th House though, and not 8th House. Do you know what that means? Player? Lol

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No, that is OK. The asteroids have to be really close to something to matter. Deja conj the Moon is the hardest of any of the asteroid conjunctions.

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posted July 30, 2012 09:09 PM            

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Originally posted by T:
This reminds me of a show I watched last night on sex addiction. Was your wife ever sexually abused or suffered some other sort of major emotional or physical trauma?

The girl on the show was raped at 11 years old and ever since then she could not get enough sex and it was "killing" her boyfriend. I mean, they could have sex 20 times per day, but it still wouldnt be enough for her. She needed it all the time.

Obviously some major trauma went on with that girl and she never had the chance to deal with it (in her case, rape). But it is not natural and not healthy for someone to have to be that way - to live with a compulsion of any kind.

Therapy might be worth looking into because what's going on doesnt seem normal and probably not even very healthy for her. For her own well being, you and her might want to look into therapy.

Just my .02

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posted July 30, 2012 09:12 PM            

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Originally posted by T:
Sexual energy is creative energy, they go hand in hand. If there is an abundance in a person, it's often a good idea to find a creative outlet or hobby to throw oneself into.

How boring and wasteful to utilize all that creative energy on sex only! :O

zzzzz. omg, I'd die. lol

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What I mean is....it's often healing to be able to channel that energy in a way to produce something more.... lasting....?

Besides, creating children....or having orgasms. Orgasms are so fleeting and who want's to have those for the rest of their life? Most people yearn for something deeper or more permanent.

Sometimes producing something more tangible and of a higher vibration of energy......something that can last and many others can enjoy, can be theraputic to a person full of a lot of passion.

There may be a latent talent in her that she's never been able to tap into.

I think FireMoon's idea of buying her a gift related to something artistic, or something she can utilize to express herself in another way, is a great idea.

But first maybe find out what that could be, because there are so many avenues of art she could go down. I know it's in there somewhere.

Best of luck.

posted July 30, 2012 09:31 PM            

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Ami,

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posted July 30, 2012 09:42 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
yta, i think i have a solution for your problem. get some viagra and go on the offensive eventually she should get burned out.

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*sigh*

typical guy answer. Similar to what the guy's buddy on that show I watched said. As much as any guy would say he would love that type of thing....I don't think they would. And are only saying it to look manly to others. Sex maniacs, or addicts of any kind are not sexy to most people.

What will they do when they are 80 years old? If this problem is not sorted out? Should he just keep popping Viagra and be a robot? Ew.

Is having a hard dick 24/7, ready and waiting for her to jump on whenever she pleases the best thing for her or him, or what a loving husband should do?

I feel sorry for her. Imbalances, or addictions of any kind are not easy to live with for anyone involved.

posted July 30, 2012 09:43 PM            

It gives you real self esteem. Has she ever found her true creative passion and worked in it?

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posted July 30, 2012 09:52 PM            

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*sigh*

typical guy answer. Similar to what the guy's buddy on that show I watched said. As much as any guy would say he would love that type of thing....I don't think they would. And are only saying it to look manly to others. Sex maniacs, or addicts of any kind are not sexy to most people.

What will they do when they are 80 years old? If this problem is not sorted out? Should he just keep popping Viagra and be a robot? Ew.

Is having a hard dick 24/7, ready and waiting for her to jump on whenever she pleases the best thing for her or him, or what a loving husband should do?

I feel sorry for her. Imbalances, or addictions of any kind are not easy to live with for anyone involved.

& he can probably get the typical guy answers anywhere, but I think he was reaching out for sincere help here.

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posted July 30, 2012 10:10 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
chill woman! i was just playing

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Another typical guy response. lol

I'm sure you were. Nothing wrong with that.

posted July 30, 2012 10:38 PM            

I was sexually raped at 10. Not fondled. Raped.