posted July 31, 2012 02:11 AM            

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Originally posted by T:
aquaguy....kenny friggin G?!!

of all people! whaaaa???

*horrified*

lol

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posted July 31, 2012 02:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Xodian:
I think we have pretty much changed the avenue of discussion here by painting Sex or a healthy appetite for it; As a bad thing.

Having sex 20 times a day IS out of the question IF a person has career aspirations beyond just sitting at home and chatting on the computer all day (Yes its a joke Stay-at-home moms; I know how difficult your job is. Much respect to you all) but sex CAN be an avenue of healing. It is prime mode of communication if you can make it to be. **** *ing like animals is fun and healthy and good in the right context ; But it doesn't spawns communication lines between partners.

Though many may disagree, making love to your partner can tell you a lot about what's been bothering them. So just for a few days, you need to stop their impulses to go on a full out fucki*g frenzy and just make soft love. Let the abused partner open up to you this way since they usually want to **** to forget their trauma.

Simple main point of it all; Communication is and always has been the key. Find an avenue through which you can communicate with the abused person without setting off any trip wires.

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I see you've edited out the "setting off trip wires" part Xodian. Youre a Libra, arent you? Had to make it sound nice...

and maybe knew that was kind of a terrible thing to say.

It's like you put your post in the dryer.....it shrunk.

Glad I caught it, but from now on, I am thinking I will have to quote every absolute thing I reference from another's post, unfortunately.

Tired of people making me look the the frickin' a-hole. I've no problems with editing, but you cut that post down to like half of what originally was...

posted July 31, 2012 02:36 AM            

Sex aint better than love lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gFeT0LzqepQ

But when you can have both that's perfection

posted July 31, 2012 02:39 AM            

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Originally posted by T:

I see you've edited out the "setting off trip wires" part Xodian. Youre a Libra, arent you? Had to make it sound nice...

It's like you put your post in the dryer.....it shrunk.

Glad I caught it, but from now on, I am thinking I will have to quote every absolute thing I reference from another's post, unfortunately.

Tired of people making me look the the frickin' a-hole. I've no problems with editing, but you cut that post down to like half of what originally was...

Annoying.

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The life of a Virgo influenced person.

Going to have to edit my post that referenced things you said that are now gone.

posted July 31, 2012 02:48 AM            

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not him, his music

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posted July 31, 2012 02:54 AM            

My post freshly quoted:

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Originally posted by Xodian:
I think we have pretty much changed the avenue of discussion here by painting Sex or a healthy appetite for it; As a bad thing.

Having sex 20 times a day IS out of the question IF a person has career aspirations beyond just sitting at home and chatting on the computer all day (Yes its a joke Stay-at-home moms; I know how difficult your job is. Much respect to you all) but sex CAN be an avenue of healing. It is prime mode of communication if you can make it to be. **** *ing like animals is fun and healthy and good in the right context ; But it doesn't spawns communication lines between partners.

Though many may disagree, making love to your partner can tell you a lot about what's been bothering them. So just for a few days, you need to stop their impulses to go on a full out fucki*g frenzy and just make soft love. Let the abused partner open up to you this way since they usually want to **** to forget their trauma.

Simple main point of it all; Communication is and always has been the key. Find an avenue through which you can communicate with the abused person without setting off any trip wires.

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I did however add in a few things as I was reading over my post again BEFORE you responded . One such edit being:

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**** *ing like animals is fun and healthy and good in the right context

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I did this due to the fact that I know how hard it is to convey the right context of the mood or the affirmation that a post is supposed to convey to another person online. Its hard to understand the context of words without the right affirmation so I usually try to add on any tid-bits AFTER I have posted and BEFORE a person replies (to the best of my abilities) so I may try to avoid any unnecessary misunderstanding .

But if it matters, no my intention has never been to make you look like an ******* . My opinion of you is far from it actually. You have good insight to offer on subjects.

Also keep in mind that I have been out of loop from this place for quite a long time . So you are going to have to forgive my ignorance when it comes to personal issues pertaining to individual members.

posted July 31, 2012 03:07 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Tao didn't call male ejaculation "little death" for nothing.

I think I've taken at least 10 years off my life.

But my doctor tells me that it is a vicious cycle. The more I ejaculate, the more testosterone I'm producing, which keeps me looking and behaving young. Which ultimate gives rise to more sex.

It's good that it's becoming an involuntary habit/task/chore for me, or I would go out and chase skirts all day long.

I read in this forum women wishing their men go on for 10 minutes and I shudder. If they are satisfied with 10 minute performances, then 2+ hours per pop would do miracles.

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Depends the Tao/Dao mentions that if she orgasms and you do not your uhm root..becomes a uhm lightening rod that draws energy into you from her energy.

posted July 31, 2012 03:09 AM            

That's all Im saying.

posted July 31, 2012 03:14 AM            

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Originally posted by T:
The two words are there, but not in the same context they were originally written.

That's all Im saying.

Have a good night.

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Well whatever the case maybe, I had no intention of making you look like an a*shole over the context of just two words . I mean that with the most sincerest of good intent.

I didn't get any negative vibe from your reply to my (edited ) post and I shouldn't see why others would.

And I personally think they shouldn't.

posted July 31, 2012 03:27 AM            

Unfortunately, there have been members who abused the edit function to make others who reply look bad. Not saying it's you X but it has happend.

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Remember, love can conquer the influences of the planets....It can even eliminate karma.

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posted July 31, 2012 03:31 AM            

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Originally posted by charmainec:
It's a good idea to specify the word EDIT when editing post to prevent miscommunication, although not needed when fixing typos and such but if the context of the post is going to change.

Unfortunately, there have been members who abused the edit function to make others who reply look bad. Not saying it's you X but it has happend.

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Are you hinting at anyone in particular here charmaine? Can you give examples?

What constitues as "abusing the edit function"

How does one "abuse" it?