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Topic: Too Much Sex
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted July 27, 2012 09:10 PM
  
How do I put it delicately that too much of a good thing isn't necessarily always good? No, I'm not a weirdo. I truly have too much and I'm exhausted. Besides my age, I have to contend with the natural decrease in testosterone. God indeed has a sense of humor. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 27, 2012 09:53 PM
haha well dont feel bad, i'm certain theres lots of people who would love to have your problem though  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 27, 2012 09:59 PM
perhaps you could get a gardner or a pool boyIP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted July 27, 2012 10:14 PM
I yearn for your burden.IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted July 27, 2012 10:26 PM
^ Marry a Leo then! IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted July 27, 2012 11:28 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
perhaps you could get a gardner or a pool boy
Yes or a vibrator lol. js IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted July 27, 2012 11:43 PM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Yes or a vibrator lol. js
Tried that already. I got the supposed deluxe Mack truck model of the vibrator world: Hitachi Magic Wand. I found out that it ended up in the trash. Vibrators don't have the desired passion, or so it seems.
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted July 27, 2012 11:45 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
perhaps you could get a gardner or a pool boy
The gardener is always too sweaty and smells of grass clippings. Unfortunately I don't have a pool. The letter carrier is a woman, so that's ruled out. Maybe the pizza delivery college boy could oblige with extra anchovies. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted July 28, 2012 12:28 AM
i think it's bad for the guy good for the girl.. at least that's what i read from the tao of health sex and longevity.IP: Logged |
Xodian
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posted July 28, 2012 12:48 AM
Too much sex?No such thing  . IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted July 28, 2012 01:09 AM
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How do I put it delicately that too much of a good thing isn't necessarily always good?
No, I'm not a weirdo. I truly have too much and I'm exhausted. Besides my age, I have to contend with the natural decrease in testosterone. God indeed has a sense of humor.
That is why God invented migraines! lol  It can happen to men too! quote:
Vibrators don't have the desired passion, or so it seems.
Hahaha, well nobody wants second-bests ya know!  quote:
Maybe the pizza delivery college boy could oblige with extra anchovies.
Hahaha, u're just too funny YTA!
Idk, maybe it's just me, but never got why so much sex  Times like these make me think I really do have Mars opp Saturn and tends to run with my chart sometimes. I'd always take quality over quantity any day. Not into sex aerobics or for the fun of it. Even with my Aries Mars! So I'd take 2-3 meaningful ones/week over 6-7/day for the sake of it.
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted July 28, 2012 09:14 AM
Let me clarify. Just In case you think I'm a weirdo. Every morning before sunrise, she goes to the bathroom, does her thing and then comes back to bed and feels for my Johnson. I'm involuntary. It's already hard even when I'm asleep. Then the games begin. I walk through the door at night after work. All I want to do is take off the stupid shirt and pants/suit and change into my t-shirt and shorts/boxers. I get attacked once I even unzip my pants. You know the routine.. She goes down on it. Ok. Then I see the kids to sleep and finally sit on the sofa and channel surf the TV for a million channels of nothing. And then it becomes couch hanky panky. And then off to bed for the finale. I'm tired beyond belief and testicles ache. How the f do I even get hard anyway. And if I even obey her and take the blue pill (when I clearly don't need it) then the Johnson stands at attention forever and the Olympic event becomes a decathlon. Monday through Sunday. Maybe 18 to 25 times. God help me when on vacation!!!!! Honestly, I've never met any woman with such an appetite, and I was a rotten kid and bachelor with a track record I'm not proud of. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted July 28, 2012 09:20 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Let me clarify. Just In case you think I'm a weirdo. Every morning before sunrise, she goes to the bathroom, does her thing and then comes back to bed and feels for my Johnson. I'm involuntary. It's already hard even when I'm asleep. Then the games begin. I walk through the door at night after work. All I want to do is take off the stupid shirt and pants/suit and change into my t-shirt and shorts/boxers. I get attacked once I even unzip my pants. You know the routine.. She goes down on it. Ok. Then I see the kids to sleep and finally sit on the sofa and channel surf the TV for a million channels of nothing. And then it becomes couch hanky panky. And then off to bed for the finale. I'm tired beyond belief and testicles ache. How the f do I even get hard anyway. And if I even obey her and take the blue pill (when I clearly don't need it) then the Johnson stands at attention forever and the Olympic event becomes a decathlon. Monday through Sunday. Maybe 18 to 25 times. God help me when on vacation!!!!! Honestly, I've never met any woman with such an appetite, and I was a rotten kid and bachelor with a track record I'm not proud of.
All kidding aside, that does seem hard, Ian.
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Ami Anne
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posted July 28, 2012 09:22 AM
I think you have every right to tell her that you are only available once a day, or twice  Do you think she has a sex addiction, in that she puts many other feelings/emotions/ deeper issues into sex. If so, you may be helping her to get her to look at these, even though she will probably be very angry. The unexamined life is not worth living. Anyone who helps another person face truth is the truest of friends. That is my 2 cents, anyway. Does it resonate with you, at all? ------------------
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Hera
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posted July 28, 2012 12:31 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Let me clarify. Just In case you think I'm a weirdo. Every morning before sunrise, she goes to the bathroom, does her thing and then comes back to bed and feels for my Johnson. I'm involuntary. It's already hard even when I'm asleep. Then the games begin. I walk through the door at night after work. All I want to do is take off the stupid shirt and pants/suit and change into my t-shirt and shorts/boxers. I get attacked once I even unzip my pants. You know the routine.. She goes down on it. Ok. Then I see the kids to sleep and finally sit on the sofa and channel surf the TV for a million channels of nothing. And then it becomes couch hanky panky. And then off to bed for the finale. I'm tired beyond belief and testicles ache. How the f do I even get hard anyway. And if I even obey her and take the blue pill (when I clearly don't need it) then the Johnson stands at attention forever and the Olympic event becomes a decathlon. Monday through Sunday. Maybe 18 to 25 times. God help me when on vacation!!!!! Honestly, I've never met any woman with such an appetite, and I was a rotten kid and bachelor with a track record I'm not proud of.
Okay, that IS pretty hard. No pun intended. Do you think you can talk to her about this? You guys seem to have a good relationship, with good communication. Explain to her your point of view. And man, Pisces rising, you gotta say no here and there, that is way too much IMO.
Maybe you can help her find a hobby that takes some of her energy. I think this is quite common when a partner has a very demanding/stressful job and the other not so much. Help her get involved in something more.. consuming. Maybe it would help. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted July 28, 2012 12:35 PM
Yes it resonates but I can't tell her that. Can't ruin a good relationship that way. But yes it's an addiction under the guide of passion. The other way she looks at it is a husband that is over service is incapable of taking care of a younger woman on the side. There's this inherent complex as menopause takes effect. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted July 28, 2012 01:55 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Yes it resonates but I can't tell her that. Can't ruin a good relationship that way. But yes it's an addiction under the guide of passion. The other way she looks at it is a husband that is over service is incapable of taking care of a younger woman on the side. There's this inherent complex as menopause takes effect.
Well, I think if you don't address it with her directly, you will explode in anger about it.
You are not gonna be bale to hold it in forever, and just grin and bear it, so to speak lol
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Hera
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posted July 28, 2012 02:17 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Well, I think if you don't address it with her directly, you will explode in anger about it.
You are not gonna be bale to hold it in forever, and just grin and bear it, so to speak lol
I agree with Ami. But pls find a delicate way to do so, I imagine the subject is sensitive. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted July 28, 2012 03:49 PM
And I am trying but have yet to find an effective solution. There is no delicate way of saying: "get away from me and leave me alone.". It's just not possible. Of course, most guys would call me a loser who can't handle sex blah blah. They wouldn't understand. I can't imagine going to a psychologist, male or female, especially female. "Doctor, I get home from work and she insists on giving me a blowjob as I change to my casual attire....". Lol. Most guys would go: and so, what's the problem? Lol. "Doctor, all I wanted to do was watch the news, and she came into the living room in lingerie.". Lol. Damn I need an internet home porn business and quit my job! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted July 28, 2012 04:04 PM
To be honest, I am myself a horny b4stard who grew up treating sex as though I'm a conquistador. I kept a book with stats and pics of the girls I "conquered." I grew up in a prudish Asian society and then I went to school in conservative stiff lipped England, and not in London. So I prayed to God for a highly sexed Westerner for a wife, preferably French or Latin or Roman or Russian. I read that these women are insatiable and highly passionate. I even had an Asian gitlfriend in America who absolutely hated being touched, so i confirmed that i need a younger version of Sophia Loren. Well, God is hilarious. I got what I asked for. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted July 28, 2012 04:17 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
i think it's bad for the guy good for the girl.. at least that's what i read from the tao of health sex and longevity.
Tao didn't call male ejaculation "little death" for nothing. I think I've taken at least 10 years off my life. But my doctor tells me that it is a vicious cycle. The more I ejaculate, the more testosterone I'm producing, which keeps me looking and behaving young. Which ultimate gives rise to more sex. It's good that it's becoming an involuntary habit/task/chore for me, or I would go out and chase skirts all day long. I read in this forum women wishing their men go on for 10 minutes and I shudder. If they are satisfied with 10 minute performances, then 2+ hours per pop would do miracles. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted July 28, 2012 04:17 PM
Roman??? lol I hope you don't mean Romanian lolIP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted July 28, 2012 04:21 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Roman??? lol I hope you don't mean Romanian lol
Err... Italian. Yes... Romanians too. Don't think you Romanians get away from me. . Didn't I tell you I had a girlfriend from Moldova living in Bucharest?  IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted July 28, 2012 04:48 PM
OMG! lol No, you didn't tell me that Yeah thought you meant Italian but you also said Latin, hence the confusion IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted July 28, 2012 04:57 PM
When the ship Costa Concordia hit a rock and sank, and the Captain was said to have been frollicking with his Italian-speaking Moldovan girlfriend, I went uh-huh. I understand. Rofl. IP: Logged |
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