posted May 09, 2013 03:43 PM            

Many of us saw a person who was very fun and friendly, even though he had people here he had beef with....er something.

Was he rude sometimes? Yes. Many here are.

I think he keeps coming back because he had a real connection with many people here and not just females he "flirted" with.

btw, most of us here could see that for what it was & like Odette said, did not take it seriously. It was just fun and cute. We knew that was his nature and he was having fun. It did not make us feel special or like we needed that. It was just him being his fun-loving self with females. Kind of funny imo....like 'there he goes again' - 'can't help himself'. What most of us got was that it was innocent and his way of expressing his personality here.

He was mean to aquaguy, but I think things went on behind the scenes and he was not being mean to him for the hell of it. He had is reasons to, even though I am not excusing his behavior. I did feel sorry for aquaguy when I saw that meme thread & was dissapointed in sand.

I think a younger crowd, closer to his age 'gets him'. But it seems a few really don't and want to make him out to be a bad guy - which i don't think he is.

I think he's....or his communication style is misunderstood by an older crowd here (LEXX and Randall for example).

Like Faith said: "No one should be crabby about people still liking sand."

To me that is ridiculous also. Especially for grown adults to get so bent out of shape about it. Like....wtf?

We get why you are upset, but I don't get how you can get your knickers in such a knot about it.

I don't see him as the evil troll he's paiinted out to be. Yes, some of his behavior was trollish and probably got worse because of how it was dealt with.

anyway.....that was way too long. LOL

posted May 09, 2013 04:23 PM            

aquaguy is an Aquarius Sun (& fixed Moon)
LEXX, is an Aquarius Moon (& fixed Sun)
Randall has Aquarius Venus Rx and Aquarius Mars

Sand's loud, boisterous, booming Leo Moon (Aquarius opposite) [&fixed Sun], really seems to have clashed with these three people, who are all Aqua ruled in some major, or main way. Leo doesnt go unnoticed ...and sometimes doesnt know when to 'turn it off' and I can see how their fun loving nature could disturb their oppo, more serious Aquarius ruled folks especially.

posted May 09, 2013 07:31 PM            

My main problem with him was the LL rule breaking.

Until he started using more than one;
in fact several user names;
I pretty much ignored him.

I should not have to continue to defend myself for just going my moderator job.

Lay off of me already.

posted May 09, 2013 07:37 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by T:
re: sand

Many of us saw a person who was very fun and friendly, even though he had people here he had beef with....er something.

Was he rude sometimes? Yes. Many here are.

I think he keeps coming back because he had a real connection with many people here and not just females he "flirted" with.

btw, most of us here could see that for what it was & like Odette said, did not take it seriously. It was just fun and cute. We knew that was his nature and he was having fun. It did not make us feel special or like we needed that. It was just him being his fun-loving self with females. Kind of funny imo....like 'there he goes again' - 'can't help himself'. What most of us got was that it was innocent and his way of expressing his personality here.

He was mean to aquaguy, but I think things went on behind the scenes and he was not being mean to him for the hell of it. He had is reasons to, even though I am not excusing his behavior. I did feel sorry for aquaguy when I saw that meme thread & was dissapointed in sand.

I think a younger crowd, closer to his age 'gets him'. But it seems a few really don't and want to make him out to be a bad guy - which i don't think he is.

I think he's....or his communication style is misunderstood by an older crowd here (LEXX and Randall for example).

Like Faith said: "No one should be crabby about people still liking sand."

To me that is ridiculous also. Especially for grown adults to get so bent out of shape about it. Like....wtf?

We get why you are upset, but I don't get how you can get your knickers in such a knot about it.

I don't see him as the evil troll he's paiinted out to be. Yes, some of his behavior was trollish and probably got worse because of how it was dealt with.

anyway.....that was way too long. LOL

I still think he's a nice kid.

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posted May 09, 2013 07:45 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by T:
It just occurred to me....

aquaguy is an Aquarius Sun (& fixed Moon)
LEXX, is an Aquarius Moon (& fixed Sun)
Randall has Aquarius Venus Rx and Aquarius Mars

Sand's loud, boisterous, booming Leo Moon (Aquarius opposite) [&fixed Sun], really seems to have clashed with these three people, who are all Aqua ruled in some major, or main way. Leo doesnt go unnoticed ...and sometimes doesnt know when to 'turn it off' and I can see how their fun loving nature could disturb their oppo, more serious Aquarius ruled folks especially.

Interesting to note.

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HE WAS BANNED FOR MULTIPLE USER NAMES BEING USED AND OTT RULE BREAKING LANGUAGE/TOPICS.

I did not make the rules here;
but as a moderator I support LL and Randall.

It has nothing to do with sand as a person.
He broke LL rules.

Geeez how can you ignore that blatant fact and try and twist it so sand is a poor mistreated misunderstood fun guy;
instead of him also being a rule breaking troll here at LL?

Randall will let him back in, even though he has had several names.

Why do you keep going at me?
Lies after lies after lies from you.
And taking my comment out of context here:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum27/HTML/001217.html

And you can't even get my age right.
And you keep attacking me and spreading lies because it is fun for you or some warped thing.
Randall cannot ban you due to a glitch with your name so you know you cannot be banned. I have been told to rise above you and ignore you. It is hard since you never stop going at me.
Edit to add:
Seems you were lied to and believed I was saying bad things about you off LL ....oddly during that time I was out of LL and OFFLINE, yes "OFFLINE"
AND NOT talking to anyone about you or anyone or anything,
except to give Randall updates on MY situation.
Zala, and many others know I was pretty much out of most online things for over 1/2 a year.
I came back and found you having an unexplained insane hate on me, and others
acting strange towards me.
Seems two people had a big field day bad mouthing me and seems you and some others believed those two liars.
And ever since I returned you have tried to upset me every chance you contrive.
You have ruined many of my threads.
I expect you will be still bad mouthing me come late Summer or even later.
Pitiful, really pitiful.

posted May 09, 2013 07:55 PM            

I'm entitled to my opinion of him and so is anyone else & it shouldnt make you upset.

You have been on sick leave and come back and only seem to ***** about this - about sand? Youre in your late 60's and dealing with serious health problems, right LEXX?

Do you think this is something you really need to get so upset and riled up about? I don't.

I'm sorry you take your job here so seriously. TBH, I think it's all a bit dramatic.

Okay, he broke the rules. We get it. He's gone now, LEXX. Randall continues to ban him when he comes back. Why don't you take it easy. Everything is under control & it's all going to be alright.

Maybe lie down and do some deep breathing exercises. I find it incredibly unfortunate for you that you seem to be getting so bent out of shape about this whole thing.

Look at Mods like Juni & lalalinda.... Do you see them freaking out about this? No. Because there is no need to.

Now, if people want to say they like sand, you don't need to come back and post alien heads and type in bold letters to remind everyone that he broke the rules. We know. That's why he's banned LEXX. You should think more about your health and not let yourself get worked up into a tizzy over something small like this.

Anyway....I said my piece. You didnt need to quote me and repeat yourself - just so you know.

I bet you if you shut up about it - about him, this thread would die. Wanna try it?